How to stop feeling atracted to women?

murph55 · 2017-09-03T18:03:38+00:00

I had the same problem! But how i handled it? Everytime I looked at an attractive one, I started to think about and remember how much of a pain in the ass the ones I did date in the past were and how much I gave up or lost due to them. "Would this one be any different?!" Since they all stick together..not likely! And would it be worth the risk?! Again, no it would not! It didn't take long before it started to change. Now I don't notice them, and if someone points one out my response is meh! So what? My freedom and resources are way more important and useful! Hope this helps!

murph55 · 2017-09-03T18:52:08+00:00

Imagine them taking a big fat stinking turd. That should help

frankmarlowe · 2017-09-03T21:46:08+00:00

Masturbation works for me. I treat my boner like the medical condition it is. Really, it's a lot like popping a zit or draining a boil:

Take hold of swollen fleshy protuberance
Apply gentle pressure until white goopy shit comes out
Feel relief

2017-09-03T18:22:47+00:00

It takes time, you have to rewire the neural pathways in your brain. It helps if you are older, when you are young the testosterone just keeps on talking, you are basically hopped up on body chemicals turning you into a dog that want to mate.

eja_cool8 · 2017-09-03T17:31:11+00:00

Talk to them.

2017-09-03T19:16:23+00:00

I whack off. Then I'm no longer interested.

smgun · 2017-09-03T17:17:35+00:00

If your dick wants to get hard, it is getting hard. Simple as that. I

f you act weird around girls is what you mean then you just need to know that you are way more talented than these leaches and you see through their attention whoring methods.

ManIsWalking · 2017-09-03T20:37:34+00:00

Sounds like you haven't had your life fucked over by a pretty face. Here's what happens when I see a hot woman.

"Oh damn, she's got! Nice face, great tits, oh man... that ass! Ohhh boy, the things I'd do to her..." "Wait, there's no way I could afford to keep a girl like that around for long, she looks like a walking bankruptcy waiting to happen. Maybe if I just sweet talk her, I can have her for just tonight. Eh... no, a chick that good looking... you know she's slinging dicks two at a time, probably has a few unhinged orbiters ready to fuck a dude up if he looks at her wrong. I'm better off jerking it when I get home..."

Seriously, when you see a hot woman, just think about the damage she is going to cause to your life one day in the future. Women are walking hazards, financially, mentally, spiritually, they fuck you up in ways that they don't even understand.

rogellparadox · 2017-09-03T17:12:46+00:00

You can't. I know I can't. You just got to control yourself. If you're a heterosexual male then it's going to be hard since it's ingrained into your biology.

You just gotta handle it yourself

JSizzl3 · 2017-09-03T19:33:52+00:00

Jerk off to porn every day; you'll definitely stop paying attention to them.

fuckyouredditcunts77 · 2017-09-03T19:36:40+00:00

Find a hobby that you can be passionate about. I would rather play music than waste my time chasing a smelly hole.

2017-09-03T19:00:56+00:00

You can either love women (i.e. feel attracted to them) or understand them but never both. It appears you do not understand them well. And when you do, your libido will become more or less like hunger for food. You either call a restaurant and have it delivered (i.e. hire a whore) or skip the hustle altogether and jerk off to some Internet porn. That's all.

2017-09-03T17:14:37+00:00

Having same problem. I really wish I could turn off my libido. I am trying to get more hobbies and interests. Just things to take my mind off women. I don't think it will ever go away but i can stifle it a bit.

cyborg_type_darkness · 2017-09-04T00:46:02+00:00

I honestly look at them, catalogue them and then the next thought in my head is: "I'm not Chad. She'll see me as a creeper. And that's a walking false sexual assault allegation that I don't need to get within 20 feet of."

That does it for me 99% of the time and I go back to daydreaming about my set of goals and how awesome my life is/will be when I get it.

huckleberryferry · 2017-09-03T21:31:17+00:00

I understand your plight, OP; however, I think you can do any of these, they will help with time to feel totally detached from women regardless how goddessly they look:

1. Practice mindfulness: cultivate the habit of examining yourself frequently (especially when you unfortunately meet an attractive woman) and asking yourself questions about your feelings, emotions, thoughts and desires. For instance, ask yourself why you're attracted to that girl you just met/ saw—ask yourself why you feel "weakness" for her. By so doing, not only do you distract yourself from the reality of the situation: you being attracted to her, but also you get to exercise some sort of stringency on what to feel when.

2. Avoid looking or staring at women in the street, your neighborhood, etc.: this is a very vital point to adhere to because you "first have to see before you get/ feel attracted". Do not even attempt to even take a glance at them no matter what—unless you're stuck in a situation (such at the workplace) where you have to necessarily interact with them—but even after, turn ALL your focus towards yourself or whatever else you were doing before as if it never even happened that you talked to a woman a while ago.

3. Practice chaste living: avoid sexual indulgences (as sex, porn, masturbation, basically anything that gives sexual satisfaction/ gratification) and other hedonistic style of living (as drinking, overeating, etc.) This point may sound like a "holy grail" but it is the MOST vital point to consider and practice, believe me. Many here in this sub reject the benefit of staying celibate and sexually pure but the benefits of it are REAL—even more real than the orgasm felt after sexual indulgence. One very important benefit of this practice relevant to "MGTOW living" is the significant drop in your interest in sex and hence towards women. I'll recommend this way of life if you genuinely wish to be free off women and sex.

Initially, any or all of these points will prove difficult to surmount but persistence, perseverance and patience is what is needed. If you fail repeatedly, try repeatedly till the process becomes tired of you.

rogellparadox · 2017-09-03T19:56:59+00:00

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CadeyrnDragheim · 2017-09-03T20:41:19+00:00

Do something to increase your willpower, cold showers, meditation etc.

Alocaco · 2017-09-03T21:20:49+00:00

The thing you are looking for is anaphrodisiac's

But be warned, this is not a form of sterilization, is reversible, and may have side affects (but, let's be honest, EVERYTHING has side affects). It just kills you libido, and nothing else.

wawakaka · 2017-09-04T00:12:43+00:00

I just think about having to bank roll their lives for the rest of my life.

2017-09-04T01:59:10+00:00

Avoid looking at them, ignore them, misunderstand what they ask of you, tell them to repeat themselves multiple times, evade their advances, and lastly, call the cops.

When there's a will, there's a way.

cyborg_type_darkness · 2017-09-04T02:00:38+00:00

Imagine her hitting the wall or when she had gangbangs every single day. Jerking off also helps. What helps for me is how women's nature is and what would you do if she wasn't beautiful. Would you even care?

Solstus22 · 2017-09-04T06:59:12+00:00

"Remember that a woman isn't ever yours, its only your turn."

I'm not sure where to look but I suggest just do a lot of self-reflecting on scenarios on what could happen if you were attracted to women and list the pros and cons and see which side has more.

Hope these help.

Praecipuus · 2017-09-04T13:39:22+00:00

Women are an amazing source of fun. Just learn game and use them as you please.

JackHererFck · 2017-09-03T19:54:46+00:00

What is there to be attracted to?

2017-09-03T20:24:56+00:00

You're already halfway there

kidfay · 2017-09-03T23:53:58+00:00

Imagine what she'd look like if her skin were transparent: like an anatomy chart of muscle on a skeleton with fat over top.

2017-09-04T02:13:10+00:00

Take this for what it's worth. I'll just list off some ideas, but I don't have the energy to defend them. I'd also recommend Googling ways to reduce your sex drive that is both mentally and physically healthy for you.

Go Vegan. Eliminate testosterone-producing products. Eat a lot of soy.
Practice meditation. Try to find a yoga studio that caters to males.
Refrain from masturbating as much as is tolerable.
No porn. Garbage in garbage out.
Treat women as professionally and cordially as possible. Be courteous like you were business professional. It's interesting how your frame with them changes after a while. Don't be nice or social, just be professional.
If you must satisfy yourself sexually I'd look into a professional. After a while you'll see sexuality for what it is, or at least change the narrative to a relatively unsatisfying physical process that costs you money (better this than getting hammered by the courts).
Exercise exercise exercise. Focusing sexual energy into biking, hiking, running, sports, lifting is a great way to calm your mind and maintain a healthy body (obviously).
Develop hobbies that require focus and consistency. Idle hands and idle minds are the things that will get you into trouble pretty quickly.
If you don't want to go the healthy route I recommend picking up cigars as a habit. There are a lot of male cigar clubs where you can hang out with dudes, and smoking is very calming.
Along the lines of male dominated past times I'd recommend softball, team gaming, motorcycles, cars, whatever gets you around older fellas who are probably escaping from their women. Heh. It'll be a good time and a good reminder why you're choosing the path you're choosing.

Good luck, man.

bjred78 · 2017-09-04T09:39:56+00:00

No fap 🤔

DarthCallidous · 2017-09-04T10:18:41+00:00

Imagine them 20 years older.

inspiron3000 · 2017-09-04T12:35:18+00:00

Marry them.

Title	How to stop feeling atracted to women?
Author	rogellparadox
Upvotes	17
Comments	70
Date	September 3, 2017 5:02 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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