Feeling Suicidal

DK-Growth · 2018-08-26T22:25:52+00:00

50k a year? Try to minimize your cost of living for a year, save up 20k and travel southeast asia for a year. Get out of this situation asap

rongy_dringus · 2018-08-26T22:57:45+00:00

Your far ahead of the pack. At 23 I was picking my nose and lost at home with my parents. You have a stable job, you are saving up, and you are free without anyone else tying you down. Find a hobby you enjoy - hit the gym and get some muscles, paintball, bicycling, swimming, coed soccer...Lots of newbies at these things and plenty of new people to meet. Enjoy the things that many older men are dying for - youth, full head of hair, not married and no kids. Brother you are wayyyy ahead of the pack. And sure, after my divorce I went to Thailand and blew off some steam and it made me feel a lot better. Do it. Do anything. ANYTHING, except take your own life. It’s a permanent solution for a temporary problem. Man up, take your life into your own hands and steer it in the direction you want to go in. You can message me any time you want if you need to talk. We all have our ups and downs in life. It’s certainly not a reason to terminate it. If you don’t want to talk to me, and feel like you can’t talk to anyone else you know, please call the national suicide hotline. 1800-273-8255. There’s always a solution brother

Freefrombitches123 · 2018-08-26T22:48:50+00:00

You may as well stick it out and see what happens

SaltTax · 2018-08-26T22:34:40+00:00

Incel shit. Stop obsessing over pussy. Have you not been paying attention? Guys in relationships dream about your lifestyle. The grass is NOT GREENER on the other side. Imagine wanting to off yourself because snakes won't bite you. That's exactly what you're doing.

2018-08-26T23:38:28+00:00

Life sucks buddy. Happiness is fleeting. It's not a proper goal even though people selling you something will claim it is.

You can't control your feelings. They come and go. Don't make too much of them.

You can control what you do. If you're bored get off your ass and do something different.

I recently discovered that I feel really sad after finishing a large cup of soda. So I'm switching to seltzer water and plain old delicious water.

Maybe there's something in your life that triggers the feelings of sadness? Or intensifies them? If so, start monitoring yourself and cut down on it.

Good luck. Life is a bitch and then you die. If you don't do a single thing you will suffer. Existence is suffering.

UrbanSolace · 2018-08-26T23:53:51+00:00

Dude. I’m 35 and divorced. I have two kids that I hardly get to see. My GF dumped my ass for the usual “it’s not you it’s me” routine. I feel like you almost every single day. On top of that half of my fucking paycheck goes to the x wife and the IRS. I don’t bar hop...I’m not very social, but I do make GOALS. However small. Today’s goal was to do a 15 minute weight lifting session for dummies. It kicked my ass but I made t through it. My goal currently is not to burn my fucking grilled chicken. Set targets. Go get your ass into a gym and feel better. Suicide is not a goal I would suggest....more of a solution to a temporary problem that exists in your head. You need someone to talk to, your ass needs to DM me. I’ll be damned if a good man calls it quits

class_use_only · 2018-08-27T03:53:16+00:00

Wish I were you man I’m 24, recently fired only making slightly above min wage and I got a significant coke and alcohol problem and terrible relationships with people around me. I also don’t want to continue living but remember that we are still better off than most. So keep on finding new ways to entertain yourself.

MGTOWinCambodia · 2018-08-26T23:05:00+00:00

You are feeling suicidal. That is a flashing emergency sign.

I spent a really long time not treating that as a flashing alarm. You have to treat it like you would for someone else: an emergency.

I started working right after college, same as you, and was miserable. I have a "fun" job, possibly made more miserable by the fact that I felt I should be enjoying it. I tried grad school and almost got married. This made me nearly tip over the edge.

The answer was to go the opposite route. Do nothing instead. Move abroad. Sleep with as many people as you can (I'd advise using a fake name while traveling). Sleep with no people for as long as you can tolerate. Live in the jungle. You owe it to yourself and the people you love to keep yourself alive, and you have to try radically different strategies than what you've been doing.

You can do those things very cheaply, especially in places like SE Asia. Sticking within normal routes, you check yourself into a psych ward and get deep in debt. I'd advise not doing that (unless you think you might jump tonight or something). Get off the treadmill you've been trained to run on.

I'm in my mid-30s now. I wish I had gotten out earlier, but it took until I was 31 to really hit a point where I knew I had to jump ship. Good luck.

2018-08-27T01:56:54+00:00

Office jobs are depressing.

Cities are depressing.

I know the feeling. I couldn't deal with that life. I moved to the city 4 years ago after my last relationship ended and i can't really stand it. I miss mowing the yard, cutting firewood, sitting out back with the dogs. I miss small town folks

pablosito · 2018-08-27T03:38:40+00:00

Go to Thailand man. It’s a riot I went there handful of years ago for 40 days. Recently went through a break up and I’m like peak busy season right now. One of the main things keeping me going and on track are my plans for a month to Vietnam. To me travel has always been a big reset. Life comes back in to focus and I feel like I’m truly able to be myself and explore and do what I want. I know where you’re coming from man. I had a soul sucking desk job awhile ago. I work a seasonal construction job now (by choice) because it allows me the time off to do what I want not to mention the money. If you’re dreading your job day to day it’s no way to live. The money can only take you so far. Hang tight man, make plans. Legitimately make yourself a list of what you want to do, where you wSnt to be, generally what you want out of life. And then just start doing some of that shit. You’re a young single man and you’re doing alright. Worlds your oyster bro.

MovingSkies · 2018-08-26T23:35:12+00:00

Come on man don’t do that only pussies kill themselves, that’s the easy way out. Life can be so much better than you can possibly imagine. You have a good job and family and that’s something a lot of people don’t have. Try to save money for that vacation you were talking about, once you get finally get laid you will see that it wasn’t that big of a deal. You’re only 23 man you have your whole life to live, you need to find what YOU enjoy, what it is that YOU wanna do.

Suicide is never an option. Trust me a lot of us here at MGTOW have been in way worse situations and we pulled through and came back stronger than we were before. Just keep on keeping on man it will get easier I promise and if you ever need someone to talk to I’m always willing to listen.

NotMyWomen · 2018-08-27T03:58:51+00:00

A.) Suicide is caused by a temporary overflux of emotions. Sometimes it can be something as simple as the weather. I’ve noticed that when it rains, not only am I lethargic, I get these depressed thoughts for no reason whatsoever. Some people are predisposed to that sort of sensitivity. Just know that it passes, relatively quickly.

B.) You’re 23 years old. I never believed this up until a few years ago, simply because I never experienced it (I’m 28) myself, but life does improve exponentially as you age, as a man. We’re constantly told as kids we “gotta hurry up and get things done before we get older, because getting old sucks”; that’s only half true. Getting older sucks for females, who are ironically the mothers and the daycare workers and the teachers and the nurses telling you that shit. Everyday that you’re miserable now, you’ll have a week of exuberant happiness in the years to come, i truly believe that. And besides, how could you ever be overwhelmingly happy if you were never overwhelmingly depressed? How could you ever be cognizant of how long or how hard you've laughed at something if you were never cognizant of how it felt to really want to end your own life? Alan Watts mentions something along those lines in one of his lectures, I don’t have the link, I wish I did, where he says something like “Do you not consider it cruel for nature to have designed such a thing so sensitive to both the happiest joys and the deepest sadnesses?” But they go together. I’ve had days myself where I wanted to die, and I planned it out: sell everything I have for dirt cheap (including my car) for cash, withdraw all of the money from my bank/savings accounts in cash, cancel any subscriptions/bills I have, load all of the proceeds into a duffel bag, walk to my favorite spot in my favorite park on a nice warm night with the stars shining, burn all of the cash in a pit, and just blow my brains out. I’ve had days I wanted to do that, and I’ve had days where I’ve laughed so hard that I thought “I’ve never been happier to be alive.” It’s all part of the story, your story. The two go together.

C.) I don’t get the whole “incel” thing, I really don’t. You guys think, what? That some female desires you for who you are, and that’s what makes it “special”? Most guys who are not “incel” have to pay for dates and entertainment to get laid, the same as a prostitute only it costs more money and more time, and 9 times out of 10 the female doesn’t even care about the dude, but feels obligated to put out for him with some sort of weird, yet comical, inherent proclivity towards this quasi-prostitution. If this is weighing on your mind, then just get an escort. It’s cheaper and safer for a multitude of reasons. And so what if she is pretending to like you? Again, most females do that anyway.

D.) I agree with the other poster here, I think you need to try to get up and out. A change of scenery may help, as would a companion, such as a dog or dogs, or a cat or cats, preferably one you can save from a shelter.

There’s an entire planet out there bro. It’s not just your office cubicle and the red light district.

gayfish_yall · 2018-08-27T04:40:38+00:00

Your post reminded me of the below link. Guy goes to commit suicide in Mexico and after a week of coke and hookers decides life isn't that bad after all.

https://www.elitedaily.com/humor/suicidal-man-mexico-orgy-drugs/842056

Anyway my first advice would be exercise it's scientifically proven to make you feel better among other things. Reading the below book on the neurological effects of exercise helpped me alot:

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/721609.Spark

Another thing I notice from your writing is you seem to lack purpose, as I think many others have picked up. So find something that interests you like a hobby or something.

I have an anxiety disorder and have seen pyschologists and psychiatrists. I don't think I really got much from the Cognative Behavioural Therapy I did with them. But I read put onto Zoloft, which I have found very helpful. I was scared when I went on it though as I had read alot of bad stories about antidepressants.

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2018-08-26T23:05:33+00:00

Happiness is a byproduct of a journey, not the ends itself.

I’ve been there too, and being directionless sucks. Finding good friends is hard work, but it is worth it. I tend to pour myself into hobbies and such, but that’s me.

2018-08-26T23:08:38+00:00

[removed]

fxdbmgtow · 2018-08-27T00:25:21+00:00

get a motorcycle, best therapy money can buy. Or some other hobby that you are passionate about.But seriously, get a bike.

Natsume24 · 2018-08-27T01:15:04+00:00

Hi. Saw this post and it resonated with me.

I know what it's like to live a shit life. I sleep under a bridge these days. I work shitty, back breaking jobs just so I won't starve most days, and to top it off, I have to deal with crazies on the daily.

I possess little to no marketable skills at the moment and I'm three years from 30. Objectively speaking, I should have ended it with a bullet a long time ago.

Why didn't I? I honestly don't know, but for most of my life, all I've known is suffering.

I look at people at the park some days: couples holding hands, kids playing frivolously with friends and siblings, bands playing beautiful music, and other sights and there are moments where I feel a sense of pain known that I won't have the "American Dream.".

Hey. They call it the American Dream because you gotta be asleep to believe it. That was from George Carlin.

But guess what? One day, every one of those enviable mofos I see are going to see and be put in a box in the ground for works and maggots to eat. We all meet the same fate.

The status quo in itself is hard to maintain, and it isn't the source of happiness. Just a false sense of security.

We are men. We don't have the privilege of having a social circle like women. We don't have the privilege of having people cater to our emotions. We are seen as useful tools. Nothing more.

This may very well be the only chance at existence you'll ever get.

Let that sink in. This is literally your only life. Why in the hell do you want to waste it being enslsved to someone else? That's what being part of the status quo is: Slavery.

I'm black. My ancestors fought so I can tell you these things from an even playing field. And as a guy who has very little to his name, what I don't have is debt, or a woman or kids. For me, that means I have the potential to do whatever the fuck I want. I don't have to answer to anyone. I'm free.

Poor as fuck, but free. Freedom means more to me than anything, though I do sometimes yearn for beautiful shackles. That is only my biology.

I won't tell you not to kill yourself, as last year I almost did, but I will tell you this.

You're going to die no matter what. If you have the means, why not experience all of what life has to offer?

Ultimately, it's your choice. Most people you'll meet won't give a fuck about you unless it benefits them. Why not learn to love yourself? That's the only one who will be with you for your whole life.

Life's a bitch. Make it YOUR bitch.

I'm working out because my lifestyle demands better physical fitness. I read to keep myself occupied, and I've sworn off getting married so I don't have to give my money to any woman.

Find someone that you've always wanted to do and get good at it. :). Sometimes, ya gotta have your own best interests at heart. :)

Willinbc · 2018-08-27T01:17:25+00:00

I can relate big time. Take high dose B - Vitamins. It will improve your mood and sense of well being immediately. Take enough so that your piss is ALWAYS crazy bright yellow. Then you know you are taking more than enough. I am going to Shoppers Drug Mart tonight to buy more. Ran out two days ago and boy do I feel it. This shit works. Its not a placebo effect. Is also used and recommended for helping to quit alcohol and assist bi - polar symptoms. Google it and try it. I recommend the capsules, not tablets. Easier to digest and absorb.

Mgtow_Truck · 2018-08-27T01:20:53+00:00

Hey man, sex and kisses and women are nothing that you think they are, take that weight out of your mind.

I don't know where you live, but where I live, mushrooms like Psilocybe Cubensis are legal and even easy to get, if you can get to a positive state of mind and are willing to try psychedelics, I think they might show you new ways of seeing things and maybe help you out of depression. If it picked your curiosity, check for "psilocybe cubensis research" or "psilocybe cubensis depression".

mgtowvideos · 2018-08-27T02:26:09+00:00

Honestly, not being afraid of dying is very liberating. All of us are going to die at some point, whether tomorrow or 50 years from now. However, I believe that you should have the most fun while on this planet during the short time that we have on this earth.

My solution to your short term suicidal thinking is to watch some Korean variety shows. Here's a link to one of my favorite episodes: http://kshowonline.com/kshow/2360-[engsub]-running-man-ep.211 They are hilarious and show beautiful parts of Korea. The episodes will definitely make you want to go travel to Korea and make you feel like you are part of their family.

Then once you realize that you want to go to Korea to experience their culture, you'll probably start developing a curiosity to explore other corners of the world such as Japan, New Zealand, Europe, Patagonia, etc. Once you start setting these long term goals, you will move on from your suicidal thinking.

You can be selfish because pretty much everyone else you meet in your life will be as well, so make the most of your life and enjoy your time on the Earth before it is time to leave. There is so much to see and do that you would be missing out on if you just stayed in your town for the rest of your life. Don't be afraid to explore and live life on your own terms.

Btw, fleshlights are great. Cheaper and safer than going all the way to Thailand. 10x better than your hand and when paired with porn, you won't ever think about getting a girlfriend / wife again. Don't bother paying attention to people shaming you for it. Their opinions don't really matter in your life anyways.

Mgtow_Truck · 2018-08-27T04:13:49+00:00

True Christianity

Mgtow_Truck · 2018-08-27T05:31:37+00:00

[deleted]

sebastianclitsticks · 2018-08-27T07:00:54+00:00

What’s your diet like? Maybe you’re eating wrong and need more exercise, that changed my life. But your situation is not worth killing yourself over. You’re doing really well for yourself, just keep on bettering yourself and the women will flock to you. Maybe not tomorrow, or a week from now, maybe not even in 5 years.. but once you are around 30 and these girls hit the wall they will flock to any single dude who makes decent money. I promise you that, and then you will realize that things like kissing and sex is kind of... meh, lol. Just don’t kill your self over something so trivial. It gets better man. DM me if you need, I’d love to talk

CrappyBlackCor0lla · 2018-08-27T07:15:00+00:00

You can go to Thailand and find a nice girl who isn't a hooker. The culture is way different and a young foreign guy who is open to the culture could easily get a legitimate girlfriend who isn't in it just for the cash flow. Thai men have a bad but earned reputation for cheating on and being disrespectful to their wives. Just being a decent sincere person will earn you points with them.

801735 · 2018-08-26T22:55:28+00:00

I don't know what would even make me happy.

Happy is overrated, content is underrated. But that's just imo.

I just genuinely don't know what to do anymore.

Try nothing for a while?

various black pills I've learned on here

Like, for example? I thought black pill != red pill.

Sfrider · 2018-08-26T23:05:49+00:00

you sound a bit like an incel but nevertheless you are struggling and we should support each other you just have to keep going life is though get stronger everyday this makes a man out of you and please dont worship pussy, get introspective for a minute and realise its just our biology who wants to keep our species going maybe get into philosophy a bit it helps to see the world from different perspectives and just learn to get a positive attitude think about all the good sides of your life, set yourself some values and life goals chase them and sooner or later you will eventually see how you grew in the process of suffering you gonna be proud and satisfied in retrospect

UAV_Pilot · 2018-08-26T23:07:17+00:00

Buy / Download the book “Wild at Heart”. Listen to it many times and Internalize it bro.

cafeorange · 2018-08-26T23:20:20+00:00

Travel to a less fortunate country. Youll find your very fortunate

Infinitewisdom1984 · 2018-08-26T23:29:21+00:00

Get hobbies, start a vlog or a blog, go to the gym, read books, travel, get some quality reefer and smoke a bowl and kick back with a video game (unless your place of work drug tests you). Start learning the stock market. There are sites that allow you to do real-time simulation trading so you can practice risk free while you read/study and watch videos. You just have to make goals and keep making new ones when you reach those goals. You NEED purpose. You need to feel achieved at the end of the day. The journey is the best part of the story, not the ending. So find your purpose in this world and get to it. Depression is a state of mind, do not let it kill you. I suggest you study meditation and methods of hacking yourself out of states of mind - it can be done.

vladm007 · 2018-08-26T23:39:09+00:00

I've been suffering from mental illness since childhood. I recommend you try a couple of antidepressants. They help a lot.

BastaHR · 2018-08-26T23:41:31+00:00

Take dancing lessons, you'll meet people and have fun.

Aegis1618 · 2018-08-26T23:59:02+00:00

You don't need to go as far as Thailand. You could have a lot of fun in Montreal, as well...

Golf isn't very physically taxing. Try taking up a more physically vigorous hobby like thai boxing, boxing, or jiu jitsu because maybe it will make you feel more exhilirated and alive. Or try rock climbing. Turn up the intensity in your life!

And did you know that the U.S. Air Force has a huge shortage of pilots right now?!!If you can manage to get a college degree, you could become an Air Force officer and become a pilot, man!

Or get in serious fucking shape and try to become a PJ (Air Force special forces medic) as an enlisted dude!

pantsu_kamen · 2018-08-27T00:06:20+00:00

Suicide hotline that somebody already mentioned sounds like a great idea for starters. In the longer term, some volunteer work might help. Guys lose vitality when we don't feel needed by anyone. Additionally, working out and eating a balanced diet can help with keeping hormones and neurotransmitters at healthy levels.

If all else fails, maybe do something wild like moving overseas. The challenge could provide you with enough stimulation to keep the blues away. Your life honestly sounds a bit too comfortable for someone at that age anyway, and having things too easy can paradoxically reduce your enjoyment of life.

Just remember that you're only supposed to feel happy once in a while, that's what makes it valuable. If you were happy most of the time, then you'd forget what happiness is because it would only be normal and boring. You have to be patient, especially at your age where you're just transitioning into the routines of adult life and are finding out that it's not as exciting as it may have once seemed. Your journey has barely begun though, so you might discover that the scenery gets a lot more interesting the further you travel.

leering855 · 2018-08-27T01:25:19+00:00

the joy and meaning in life that you're looking for are inside you...not outside,,, you need to start meditating. check out the dharma talks on youtube,,,,

MgtowLatino · 2018-08-27T03:10:56+00:00

Hookers are the way to go, dude!

Save up and spend a couple weeks in Thailand, you'll fuck like crazy.

Pick up a sport and make new friends, this will reduce the boredom in your life.

GraceMazen · 2018-08-27T03:48:28+00:00

Get some good video games. Divinity Original Sin 2 definitive edition is coming out this Friday it kicksass...

PerfectNemesis · 2018-08-27T04:17:00+00:00

Happens man. Staring at a screen for 40+ hours a week is soul crushing. You have to find ways to combat that. Spending time outdoors is good. Soak up some sunlight before winter comes. Try and find some new hobbies, you might make new friends that way. Nothing wrong with asking a coworker out for lunch on the weekend. Ultimately you just have to learn to spend time alone and enjoy it (especially in a new city).

Mchooofer · 2018-08-27T05:08:57+00:00

Step 1. Stop giving a shit.. women like men who are clear headed. If women really are your thing. Step 2. Stop masturbation and watching porn.

And check out Chris bale https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-VDABZjHvmUVHr7W-y2xlQ

DriverDude777 · 2018-08-27T05:15:50+00:00

yeah man, if ur feeling that empty, you need to do something crazy fun. Like nothing in life matters if your gone, so just let loose. Downsize as much as possible and then travel and get some ass. Put ur shit in a storage unit and quit the dumb job and fucken travel. Your 23. I fucked off during all of my 20s and am still good to go. I guess what I'm saying is life is worth living. Just get out there and live it!

learn2fly77 · 2018-08-27T05:56:40+00:00

Find a fun hobby to devote your life to!

maumau811 · 2018-08-27T06:07:17+00:00

I don't think this gets mentioned often enough but one part of MGTOW lifestyle is that you should focus on your financial stability and independence. It is nice to read about things like do what you want to do, but in reality a lot of these things use up money.

if you are making 50K per year thats a pretty decent salary for 23 years old, but 400 a month in savings is not going to cut it and it could be a main reason why you are feeling so down. You dont feel like you are getting anywhere in life with this pace of progress.

You are still very young and not even hit your prime years as a man. My suggestion is to focus on saving as much money as you can - I was able to save up to minimum 50% of my income by living pretty frugally throughout my 20's and able to build a nice sized nest.

Once you have all your finances sorted out, you can really take the time to explore the world, get a companion dog etc. There are many brothers out here who are willing to give you a hand when you need it. When you feel comfortable enough you can even look at some local MGTOW groups or close friends nearby.

:) life is full of ups and downs. Dont give up on yourself because we are all here for a reason.

ABrokenBeing · 2018-08-27T06:26:31+00:00

What are your goals and aspirations?

How are you connecting with others?

None of those things???

You my friend sound depressed and that’s a big bottle of shit you need to open and sort out.

Please, we are the same age, this hurts to hear as I can relate to these feelings.

Seek help, find a good therapist, find yourself brother, you have so much time to fix this one problem that can be fixed without a bullet in the mouth.

xkqo345lsdh · 2018-08-27T06:46:20+00:00

move to the projects and try sling drugs?

I 100% guarantee you will meet interesting people,also you seem to want to die so higher chance of that too.

smfuel87 · 2018-08-27T08:05:29+00:00

Dude, suicide is a horrible solution to a temporary problem. There is absolutely NOTHING shameful about being a 23 year old virgin, especially today. It is an especially difficult and harsh world for men right now. More difficult in terms of courtship than any other period in human history.

Yes, sex is cool...but its not all its cracked up to be. I know thats a mute point from the perspective of someone who hasn't experienced it, but most women are sexually boring.

There is a much darker world in having children with the wrong woman. Imagine if you knocked a girl up and you get hooked for child support. Right now, Im behind on support and Im required to give up close to 70percent of my gross income between taxes, med/dent, union dues and child support for two. I love my children deeply but the state is driving a wedge between me and them deeper by the day. To add insult to injury, my ex wife's new husband for the first time in over five years just got a job. He lived for five years on her income, welfare and my child support. They're pulling down around 120k/yr between their two mediocre incomes and my child support. Im bringing home around 25k/yr while working. When I am working, I gross between 80k and 100k annually gross.

Do you think that scenario is something your willing to risk over ten minutes of vein pleasure? Do you think anyone will want to fuck you after you have to forfeit a third or more of your current income to a women who steals your child/ren?

You are in a huge position of power that would make many men envious.

My advice to you would be to save a few shots in a sperm bank incase you find a unicorn down the line and then get snipped. From there, start lifting weights. Physical fitness is the bedrock you need to start from to be successful with women. On top of that, you need to build your education and wealth. You then need to shelter that wealth from predatory women.

Thailand is a good idea. I'd advocate for a full time move there. Yes it is an affordable place to live. I have been there in the military and it is fucking awesome.It is a man's paradise. The only down side is that as a non-native, you cannot legally own land there.You can only rent. I am kicking around saving every penny when Im done paying child support and retiring there early.

If things end up getting darker for you down the line, look up a thing called the French Foreign Legion. Its a branch of the French Military that accepts foreigners for military service to France in exchange for a new identity and French Citizenship. I am getting back into shape and keeping that door open for myself if shit gets more retarded here for myself in the US.There is a reddit sub here dedicated for guys looking to enlist. Keep it in mind.

Good luck dude. Your future is brighter than you realize.You could leverage this situation for yourself very favorably.

DarthCallidous · 2018-08-27T10:15:50+00:00

23 year old kissless virgin. So?

If that's honestly what you value in life you will be disappointed and likely even worse off emotionally than you are now once you "accomplish" those things.

Separating yourself from your desire for "pussy" is one of the greatest steps to freedom.

Gamersparadise4 · 2018-08-27T10:36:33+00:00

Seek God to fulfill your life, go to church please!

GS-Elevator · 2018-08-27T11:13:36+00:00

Bro. Learn to love yourself. Work on yourself just for your own good. Go to the gym. Earn some money. Spend it on things you enjoy.

Don’t hurt yourself please. You can do better than that. Become a legend instead.

I can understand the feeling of loneliness though. But there will be better times ahead.

mani_tapori · 2018-08-27T11:25:04+00:00

Lots of excellent suggestions in this thread. I'll offer a few as well -

Pick up some outdoor sport or gym. Nothing makes you feel better than winning a game or achieving a fitness goal. Keep your goals small at first and don't aim for unachievable ones.
Realize you are in way better situation than 99% of planet's population. You have all the time and independence to build your life the way you want it to be. Guys dream about being in your situation.
Never ever define yourself with what opposite sex thinks/desires of you. Only person who matters is you and your closest family/friends.
Travel. You are single & have stable job. You can afford to take a vacation and go wherever you wish to. Lots of us wish to travel but we can't because of various reasons. So, go see the world. There are lot of amazing things to see, places to be and food to eat that will make you feel great.

3rd_viewpoint · 2018-08-27T13:43:03+00:00

You'll get through this. Your ancestors survived in the jungle naked, killing lions with spears, so you have the fortitude in you. It's just that daily nonsense made you forget that :)

Sitting and lack of movement can be depressing by themselves. Take a 5 min break every 20 mins and move around. Google Pomodoro technique, it helps prevent exhaustion.

You're alone, that's a risk factor. Go to Meetup.com and find groups that interest you.

Try to decrease sugar intake and don't buy foods with high fructose corn syrup. Sugar alone can make you feel tired and depressed.

Good luck, man!

Fufunette · 2018-08-27T16:55:08+00:00

knowing how evil they are at their core.

Yeah well, I'm not an expert, but insulting people wont make them like you.

screwston281 · 2018-08-27T02:22:45+00:00

"Aaron Clarey" or "Entrepreneurs in cars" on YouTube. These two men help a lot of people. Give you some perspective on life.

veganhitler · 2018-08-27T03:02:07+00:00

I was in the exact same position at your age until i stumbled upon this, http://en.falundafa.org

It helped me find myself and gave meaning to my life. Im 41 today.

TheBattlingBastard · 2018-08-27T04:06:40+00:00

Suicide is for cowards stay in the fight...and stop looking to the world for approval your absolutely right they don’t give a fuck...who cares own it accept the red pill and move on...before anything else you need to start liking yourself...all these aborted babies that don’t even get a shot at life are depending on you

Title	Feeling Suicidal
Author	newmgtower12
Upvotes	41
Comments	95
Date	August 26, 2018 10:18 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9ajj5n/feeling_suicidal/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/feeling-suicidal.502692 https://theredarchive.com/post/502692

Comments