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[–]theone2158256 points57 points58 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
He needs to get his shit together. Figure out an answer that won’t traumatize your kids and put this worthless bitch on child support and DOCUMENT every interaction with her. Crying will solve nothing. His kids are looking to him for answers. He needs to find them.
[–]Fearless_Ser[S] 44 points45 points46 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's easy for us to make smart decisions. Chemistry in his brain is fucked. I remember my struggles and it was hard to get groceries. Kids? Thank god none. This guy has 4. I would send them to grandparents and call my lawyer.
[–]theone2158217 points18 points19 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah you’re right, this is all fresh and he’s probably losing his mind w/ 4. It just like sometimes you want reach through the phone, TV or whatever and just shake the person and be like “ GET IT TOGETHER!!!” But it takes time. This guy will come out sharp as steel when this is said and done but you have to go through the motions first. His kids need him. His “wife” or whatever she was is getting dicked out her mind somewhere else. His kids need at least one functioning adult. Like you said, send them with family for a little bit, call a lawyer and get her in front of a family court judge immediately.
[–]Methodless1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I agree with your sentiments
But if she suddenly us faced with the prospect of having to pay child support, she may suddenly want custody.
If you want to keep your kids, the best thing she can do is fuck off and not care.
I do agree he needs to get his shit together to be a good father
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea the court won't do a damn thing to help this guy
[–]CoinSwapTrader20 points21 points22 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I knew a woman who abandoned her entire family to go live with a pimp and become a prostitute!!! That destroys a man!
[–]Fearless_Ser[S] 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Sometimes I wonder if they suddenly get instant neurodegenerative disease..
[–]CoinSwapTrader5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
like a switch turns on in their genes that eats away whatever remaining brain cells they had...
[+]the_k_i_n_g-13 points-12 points-11 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You know guys do this too right?
[–]Fearless_Ser[S] 10 points11 points12 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Most guys are thrown out like garbage.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
First, that isn't an argument, that is an excuse for women and children.
"But so-and-so did it?!?"
That's not a fucking excuse or an argument.
So because some asshole acts like an asshole, that excuses others from acting like assholes?
Women don't belong in this sub, go fuck yourself.
Yes, guys do this, and are just as shitty as the women who do it.
[–]the_k_i_n_g0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
> First, that isn't an argument, that is an excuse for women and children.
Always having to put a label on things. First off aren't you a guy trying to figure out how to be a "guy" on the internet?
[–]mariof1355 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mind sharing more details?
[–]StayClassySD111 points12 points13 points 7 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
There's always a bigger wallet out there for her to feel entitled to.
[–]Fearless_Ser[S] 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Or something else bigger...
[–]Paladin29032 points3 points4 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
The huge gigantic dick thing is overstated, in my humble opinion. Same as height.
Don’t get me wrong, the most whoreish and shallow of these thots are no doubt drawn to one or both, but the best selling dildo size is 6 inches (which is one inch above average), and most women express that anything over 6.5-7 actually hurts and makes sex unenjoyable.
I’ve seen girls discuss it, in detail, in their women’s forums.
[–]Astral-Projector1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Facts. 9/10 chicks i've talked to always told me that one of the first things the they talk about after one of the whores been with a guy is:
"How big was his dick? Small? Monster?"
[–]WaywardStag0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
One of my ex's friend group (30s) was comfortable enough around me to over-share their secret female talk. They absolutely do talk about penis size, and it's rare for a girl to be loyal to her man and not talk shit behind his back. It seemed to me like if you wanted to be a trusted member of the group you had to hand over enough secrets that the girls could ruin you, which functions as a way to keep people 'loyal' when ethics aren't a reliable option.
The girls are accountants, bankers, practicing lawyers, etc. Educated women, about half with children under 5. It was quite disheartening to see the "good ones" consistently behaving just like cheap tarts.
Back when I was on OLD and running around with a chick, when I first met her friends, she admitted they all asked how big my dick was.
While out drinking with her, her sister and her sister's friend, we came back and I ended up banging her and her sister's friend.
They covet the dick fellas
[–]Paladin29030 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girls gossip about everything. That’s just what they do. Dicks will be included in this, as well.
[–]Gibits4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah but you have to take the long view. He has a bigger wallet and if she marries him this guy won’t have to pay alimony. Or child support.
That’s wining
[–]Fearless_Ser[S] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If she marries him.
Rarely happens. Chad ain't smart but he ain't that stupid either.
[–]breathen123-1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's where you are mistaken
At the end of the day, a "chad" is, more likely than not, a simp, and like all other simps, they're gonna get ensnared by the Mermaid's song and they're gonna crash on the rocks
If not by one woman, by another . And then, another chad rises to replace the former in the 15~20% poll
[–]Astral-Projector1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or a guy that is more Chad then you.
[–]KarbonKrankin7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Whoever knows this dude. Please lend him some comforting words. He really needs to know he isn't alone.
[–]Fearless_Ser[S] 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right attitude.
[–]Knutjob2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, and tell him to appreciate that his kids are away from that toxic woman and have a chance to grow up well adjusted with dad's guidance. That woman's presence in those children's lives will just reinforce in the little ones minds that moral decadence is the norm. He's winning, just can't see it.....yet
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Jesus, and I thought I had problems, poor dude.
[–]TonyMGTOW6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuckin WHORE
[–]atomikgoogie2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hope he mans up for his and his kids sake. Same thing happened to me and its the best thing that could’ve happened after her infidelity. I raise my kid my way and live life our way and I get a check for child support. No contact otherwise. Fuck her.
[–]TB252525252 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m not big on shaming men for much (we get plenty of unwarranted shame from all aspects of society), but we ought to start shaming men that fuck around with women who have children, especially young children. The children suffer because men give these women opportunities to become distracted from raising their children. There are plenty of childless women out there to fuck around with.
That is only thing a man can be shamed.
[–]Gibits1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
He actually has it way easy. He gets his kids and maybe she will get hitched and he is free to raise his daughters as he sees fit.
He needs to get his head out of his ass. I wish my ex wife let me off that easy.
[–]Fearless_Ser[S] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What did she do to you?
[–]Gibits2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Kidnap the kids to another country.
[–]DemonGroover1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She'll get full custody of the kids when she is ready
[–]Malbek6041 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Jesus Christ I can't imagine for a second how bad that must feel. Shit.
[–]bamabeatsny1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hope this guy gets the help he needs, a friend or two that can encourage him, that he's not alone. Help him get reoriented, so he can take one day at a time. Because his kids need him, more than ever.
[–]NoCharism1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
dumb whore abandons family to ride the cock caroucel
bring back the patriarchy
[–]Flesh_Pillow51 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Perfect opportunity to get full custody and screw her over legally. I'd be recording everything, neglect etc, get restraining orders, move.. Everything to make sure she can't simply crawl back
[–]arkyleslyfox1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is heart breaking, he's believed the promises expecting to live a long and happy life, I take my hat off to the guy though, he won't abandon his kids
[–]mgtowernow1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This shit is terrifying. The absolute lowest of the low. Imagine having four kids with someone for them to just flip on you like that.
Always. I was in a relationship for about a year where it seemed like the girl wanted to get married. She lived a few hours away and when I visited her - surprise! - she'd been married for decades.
Very glad that is over.
I thought she was cheating on you.
[–]Ice-Berg-Hermit0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
And yet so many assholes many of them in the church will still say women are better than men
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[–]Ice-Berg-Hermit0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The church is super blue pill
[–]Methodless1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It has to be, that's what keeps it going
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