Update: Boy, oh boy...

BeGoneThotRunAway · 2020-01-24T14:21:01+00:00

You better hope and pray to god she didn’t get knocked up when she went all pornstar. Homeboy needs to walk the fuck away permanently. You know that though. You’re a good friend.

HWGA_Gallifrey · 2020-01-24T15:12:56+00:00

R.I.P. He's a goner. She's gonna take him to the cleaners.

DerdyG · 2020-01-24T14:43:51+00:00

consider your job unfinished. gotta take that red pill and drive it home down his throat. give him some popp videos.

RokhumanZero · 2020-01-24T14:51:20+00:00

Mad love for you, you're an example of what we men need more of, Camaraderie (apologies if I butchered the spelling.) Even when your friend was being an ox, you stayed true.

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2020-01-24T15:37:58+00:00

While this might seem like a good resolution, since he’s “getting the milk without buying the cow,” I think it’ll have a tragic ending.

He’s literally sleeping with the enemy. She knows what’s up and she’ll do whatever it takes to secure/steal his resources.

“Getting the milk without buying the cow” only works when the girl is naive enough to allow that, or she does it willingly.

KneeDeepThought · 2020-01-24T15:49:02+00:00

Of course he's having second thoughts- he just got a giant dose of bonding hormone from her fucking his brains out to deliberately prevent him from being able to think clearly. He needs to rethink things without sex with her clouding his judgement. Tell him not to bang her for a while and think it over to be sure he's not just addicted to his drug dealer's wares.

cycloneous · 2020-01-24T15:58:27+00:00

I was reserving judgment but in seeing this, you have done what you can to help your friend. My apologies, but if he is keeping her around he is putting himself at risk.

Here's the problem, she knows deep down, if she loses your friend, her meal ticket to bleed him dry (re: divorce rape) is gone. In addition, now that she knows the gig is up, his guard is up so she can not trick him into having a baby, leave his ass and STILL bleed him dry for child support.

As for pair bonding, the higher the N count, the more likely she is going NOT going to pair bond with her partner because psychologically speaking she is susceptible to seeking out a better her next conquest thinking she can do better. Like you said, "my body, my choice" but she forgot to read the fine print when being wild in college, for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. She is not the beneficiary of that reaction.

ChadLadPronouns · 2020-01-24T18:29:12+00:00

Now that the ring is gone, she will stay with him only long enough to monkey branch. Taking that ring away was a dire embarrassment to her and lowers her social standing among women in her friend and family circles.

He needs to be careful. Remember - it is never a woman's fault and they will do anything to make that appear to be the reality. She is going to accuse him of abuse or something else to justify leaving him, and make it "not her fault" to save social face. He is in a very dangerous place.

souris101 · 2020-01-24T16:42:11+00:00

your friend is potentially an idiot. Prenup for sure. And one thing's for sure....if they stay together she will eventually shit talk you to him once this little episode is past them.

Docbear64 · 2020-01-24T16:51:17+00:00

Great job for being a good friend it's not easy to tell / assist a man to think beyond his dick / heart .

Your friend was about to chain himself to a former slut while all her exes snickered and laughed everytime they viewed her social media pages ... like I do .

there's nothing like when you see an exes pic pop up and then see the giant wall of text her simp write about her being the " perfect pure woman" and yet all you have is dirty memories of when she wasn't getting on your nerves to satisfy you .

There are consequences for slutting around ,.

I would expect this GF to drop the " good girl " act though , she was working hard to get that wedding ring and now you've reset her progress , She is gonna be crazy bitter and I'd be shocked if she doesn't start cheating, become much more abusive/ nagging, or outright leave.

It's in your friends best interest to leave before she does somethign to make him leave or leaves herself .

aniani04 · 2020-01-24T15:12:01+00:00

Even if she earns her way back up again, I doubt it will ever be the same again. Whenever he'll fuck her, he'll think about those dicks that were there before and will fuck with his self-esteem.
It is what it is. Sometimes it is just too late. And for your boy, it is.
The best course of action right now is to just bounce, she won't be able to love him. And if she really has been faithfull now, it doesn't mean she will be later. There is a saying we have over here that goes by: "The dancer will never forget her dance moves." Meaning once a whore, always a whore.
I mean, even a unicorn is a unicorn until she's not. A whore? Not a fucking chance.

I mean there are 4 billion women out there, younger, more attractive, why the fuck stick to a whore? and he's rich... Get the fuck out of here!

iseehot · 2020-01-24T17:12:56+00:00

Tell him to get a reversible vasectomy.

ContactJoshua · 2020-01-24T15:16:05+00:00

well done. If she can actually earn her way back, maybe she'll actually turn out alright, but prognosis/odds are not good.

PrinceRaj53 · 2020-01-25T05:43:36+00:00

She cried and begged him not to leave her.

Obvious female bullshit is obvious.

She screwed him hard when they got back to their place (pornstar sex)

First of all, it was not pornstar sex. Its just your friend never had any actual sexual experience with other women and never had a chance to explore because of his betaness. And a guy who does not fuck women simply will call anything as "pornstar sex" if it feels slightly better than his regular pity/obligation sex.

So it was not pornstar sex, its just she put a bit of effort into it this time so that she can manipulate him using her sex card. Women do this all the time.

Why? Because thats the biggest power a woman has over a man. She knows he had a bro talk with you. She knows you are feeding him logic. In order to empty his mind from your influence, she tried her biggest weapon in her arsenal : sex. Thats what all women do.

For those of you who called it, there you go

Well what can I say, I am always right about women.

He talked to her after they had sex. She kept on reiterating how much she loved him and DID find him sexually attractive (when he told her what I said about that). She told him she didn't think he would place such a great value in how she saw him sexually. She thought it would be obvious that she found him sexy since she was with him (rolls eyes).

Where are the beta faggots of this sub who adviced the guy to have a serious talk with her? Where are you fags? See what happened now? She is fully using her chance to manipulate the guy from all aspects : sex, talking, emotional.

Why did she hide it? She was ashamed and embarrassed about her past partners. She's picked horrible guys before and it made her miserable. Once she met him, she knew he was too good for her and wanted to be the best version of herself and devoted herself to him, while leaving the past far behind her.

Just a bunch of lies. She hid her partner count because she knows that it lowers her value as an investment. No one wants a trash can in their house (your friend is a fool). She is not feeling bad for hiding her count, she is feeling bad for getting caught with the lie . Obvious woman is obvious.

She found him to be her perfect betabux and could not let go of that sweet attention, validation, status, resources etc. Hence she gave him pity/obligation sex so that she can keep him interested untill she gets what she wants , which is a wedding. She is trying every manipulative act on her part to keep him hooked to her so that he doesn't even get to think about other women. This, is a woman's true form, i.e. worse than a prostitute.

She is literally worse than a prostitute. Your friend is seriously worse than a beta mate. She called him beta to his face and this guy still goes back to her? How sexually desperate does a guy need to be to behave like this? That too, after having a RP friend like you? Laughable.

My friend's family is rich.

Exactly. This answers 90% of her "devotion", "treating him like a king(thats literally an obligation relationship)" etc.

He did defend her in saying that she has been completely loyal and has been a great partner in his life (3 years)

This is the problem with beta males. They just have to play "mah girl different" everytime they face reality.

She was not loyal to him for 3 years. She pretended to be loyal for 3 years while getting side dicks for her. Thats what women do. Thats textbook AFBB dynamic.

u/FreezyArigato , whatever you saw was what she wanted both of you to see . There is a vast difference between what you saw and what reality was. She made a falss facade of your friend being her man so that he can not see the obvious female nature that she was showing all along. As I said, she pretended to care about him just to keep him hooked to her. She knows he does not have any options, so thats a plus point for her.

He told me that he wanted to give her a chance, but not make it easy on her. He wanted to make a message that he is not some nice guy that she can take advantage of.

But thats what he is : he is a beta nice guy whom women use to take advantage of. She has been doing this since years and that is why he is at this point. He is literally being used, abused, manipulated and completely being taken advantage of and he still fails to understand that. What a feminized man.

Nope, he wanted her.

See there? Scarcity mentality. "This is the only pussy I can get so I better make it permanent". Lack of options and scarcity mentality are the things that doom a man, and your friend is a perfect example of it.

He is a complete doormat beta bitch and a lost cause. There's nothing left inside him to call him a man. The man was dead a long time ago. This is a feminized boy.

If she practised safe-sex, he doesn't care.

A clean dustbin is still a dustbin. A used up trashcan is still a trashcan. What is this "safe sex" bullshit lol? Men like us raw dogged her and cum on her face before she was with him. He is literally licking other's cum right now lol. And if I am not wrong, there are studies out there that prove that women retain the DNA of all the men they have sex with, in their brain.

We talked about pair-bonding before. He believes it's not irreversible.

Tell him this : that does not mean a man will take anything thats lying around.

Fiance has been relegated to GF status

I dont understand what kind of an absolute fool would keep a woman around, the same woman who literally told him that he is her fallback safe option aka betabux and slapped his manhood right to his face. What happened to men? Is this a new level of feminization and betafication? I have met a lot, a lot of men like your friend, but your friend is just next level.

He should have hard nexted her completely. Not even soft next, complete hard next. He can get a new whore every weekend if he wants to. Why waste his potential on a woman that is worse than a prostitute?

She has to earn her way back up now.

Just wait and see how your friend gives her the position back once she pretends to be the imagine of a woman in his head. She will again pretend to be head over heels for the beta while creating a false facade of "loving him and caring for him" and he will give that position back to her, just like that.

As I said, he is a lost cause.

Oh, one more thing : she hates you a lot more than before. She is just doing a damn fine job of not showing it. Be prepared for sudden loses of contact with your friend, because she is going to try everything she can to isolate you both from each other to get rid of his RP influence.

2020-01-24T17:04:16+00:00

What I thought would happen.

Thus my advice in the previous post (https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/esr3cd/well_my_friend_found_out_his_gffiance_was_a_thot/ffbyxqf?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x)

I stick to it, and advise your friend to slowly take the idea of a wedding out of her head.

If she really wants him so bad, she won't mind if there is a marriage or not.

She just has to trust him, when he says he loves her, as he trusted her...

If she accepts the idea that there will be no marriage, and sticks to it... Good sign.

If not, or if she later returns to the theme, then her true colours are coming up again.

She will probably say something in the lines, that is important for her/her family.

He only has to ask her why is so important. I can't conceive any answer that resists the question of "If that's so, why did you not think of that when tothing?". To this she may reply, that she was young, did not think, blah, blah, blah. The answer is just one: if you don't have that thing (marriage), that is so important to you/your family, it is your responsibility. Just assume it and get over it. If its me that you want, you must hold up to the responsibility of your actions.

And also remind him: TIGHT birth control.

TheApricotCavalier · 2020-01-24T17:21:03+00:00

He told her what to say, & she said it. He tells her lying is wrong, she apologizes for lying, he tells her she should find him attractive, suddenly she finds him attractive, etc. I expect they'll be getting married.

> He said he's unsure but unlikely.

He is sure, they wont be breaking up. You did your part, but you cant control him.

jamocadyn · 2020-01-24T17:39:25+00:00

Okay...who else sees a baby-trap in this guy's future? Anybody? Buehler, Buehler?

nnfl · 2020-01-24T19:10:33+00:00

Let’s hope he doesn’t let her manipulate him further. It’s sad to say, but you might be seeing less and less of him. Was probably a bad move on his part to tell her the advice you gave him, because she will most likely try to cut him off from you.

max-million · 2020-01-25T01:39:53+00:00

Thank you for the update, I was wondering what the result would be. Had a feeling this would the result, but glad to know 100% now.

Thanks Bro. 🤙

zennacko · 2020-01-25T09:12:41+00:00

At this point, it's a waiting game, and she will try her hardest to pop a baby at this point, more pornstar sex until he's compliant again so she can scrape as much money as possible by making the kid a hostage and life goes on - married or not

pentin0 · 2020-01-26T16:08:47+00:00

Now that the ring is gone, I predict a "surprise pregnancy" 😉

downzeitor · 2020-01-24T17:21:29+00:00

u/FreezyArigato You said on the other post that they live together. Is it for all those 3 years?He left the door open for a common law partnership right there.

Doc_Sithicus · 2020-04-12T14:03:39+00:00

Not all heroes wear capes.

Title	Update: Boy, oh boy...
Author	FreezyArigato
Upvotes	96
Comments	55
Date	January 24, 2020 2:10 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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