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[–]Kael12338 points39 points40 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I think the woman is right here for once. The guy should learn to do these Chores by himself. She is basically telling him to GHOW. If he breaks up with her, lives alone and learns to take care of himself and his home without anybodys help thats the ideal scenario I think.
[–]realwinstonsmith4421 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, I don’t think she’s necessarily being unreasonable here. Nobody wants to live with a parasite.
[–]BetterCallPaul49 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Except that he offered to cover more of the rent in exchange for chores. I don't think that's parasitic.
[–]mimetist11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gentlemen, I agree with you. But don't forget this is just half the story. There is no way their common friends sided with the guy if this was all there is to tell.
[–]DangZagnut28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's weird. I just finished doing the dishes. Looks like I don't need a girlfriend for anything. Enjoy your cubicle cupcake.
[–]Upstairs_Towel23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's right he should move out and take care of himself... leave her at the door tho. As Think Before You Sleep said each person needs too bring different skills to the relationship, someone needs to stay home and take care of house duties.
I wonder if she would be up for him being stay at home while she goes out and earns money? Of course shes be dating down in her mind
[–]Perseus_the_Bold17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
They boyfriend sounds like a useless fuck, he must have a damned good paying job for her to want him this bad. But hey, as a man he sounds like he can afford a maid to do the chores and an escort to serve his other needs. So the real question is, what the fuck does he need a girlfriend for? I'm suspicious of her motives.
[–]therealMericGetler[S] 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is one of those everyone needs a long walk off a short pier moments imo. Entitled gold digger and immature simp. No offense, someone who clearly took no effort to learn basic human functioning is just fucking lazy.
[–]Perseus_the_Bold1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just found out that you can actually hire a maid/escort. She can cook, clean and give you a blowjob and sex all in one payment. It's far cheaper than a girlfriend, less risk, and she is technically an employee so TAX DEDUCTIBLE!
Toss away old gf like: https://youtu.be/mbDkgGv-vJ4?t=4
[–]BlackPillPusher9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Doing dishes, cooking and cleaning a bit are basic life skills, looks like the guy wants to live the tradcuck dream but had to learn it isn't possible the hard way, with today's women, you have to both pay for everything and do her job as well.
[–]toeshotz6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree with her on this one. What is this guy going to do when mommy is not around anymore. Least he can do is learn to do basic stuff like cook and clean after himself, do his own laundry.
[–]Safe_Dentist6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It smells #BelieveAllWomen here. She omitted some crucial facts like her bf is Chad Thundercock with huge harem and he just ghosted her for failing shittest. Now she wants "compromise" lol. Obviously, she is on receiving side of relationshit here, and it's totally unfair, but... well, so it goes.
[–]ZarBandit4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Juvenile males have to make a transition to self sufficiency to become actualized men. It is part of self growth. (Note that women don’t do this. They are permanent dependents. )
This transition is a very important part of male development. And while you might complain that it is something she will never do herself, her path is that of a consumer of resources and to pop out crotch fruit. That is what she is.
As a bottomless pit, she is probably correct in her assessment of him not being ready to provide in abundance. She’s evolutionary wired to be reasonably accurate on this. It’s pretty much a savant skill and implies no innate intelligence beyond that skill.
Even though her recommendation is purely solipsistic, she’s also not wrong that he does need to do this. But he needs to do it for himself, not for her.
[–]bamabeatsny3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
While she does make a VERY good point that he should have basic life skills and be able to take care of his own place, there is a HUGE red flag. And that is.... She has assumed that this guys mom, who actually functions in the PROPER role of a woman in a marriage/home, is the root cause for her bf to not be able to do anything, thereby discrediting the woman's role. This is a logical fallacy, and a huge red flag.
And if this discussion caused that large of an argument, he needs to be rid of her, because it will be nothing but problems.
[–]Chakra_Devourer2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Okay, I will give her that it's true that some young dudes out there who don't know how to "fry an egg." Some can't even boil an egg. But they'll learn. She just wants to make sure that she got a helpful slave.
Financially helping ain't enough, he gotta help her with the chores. You know so that eventually he'll be do all chores for her when she nags. Once he has learned how to be a good slave, she'll have plenty of time and energy to cheat.
[–]z31fanatic2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's being very reasonable actually. If the roles were reversed, we'd be saying the same thing as her.
[–]KitUbijalec0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I mean, i kinda agree with her i must say. He cant even fry an egg lol
[–]Teflon1870 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
sure he can, he has just never been made to. how hard is it to heat a pan and crack an egg. sure he may not be good at it and may burn the first one, but it is so easy a 5 yr old could figure it out. sounds like she just needs to make him do shit for himself and figure it out. and hell, these kids are fortunate enough to have google and youtube to show them in video how to do shit. I'd have killed for that when i was a kid using Chilton manuals to work on cars and motors i blew up...
[–]ProudOutLoud0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly if he’s that much of a useless fuck I wouldn’t want to live with him either
[–]Czarooo0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But she is right though
[–]Lemontree020 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeaaaaah i think she's right here.
Beside, she's not a slave. She can also refuse no-interesting relationship.
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