Stop telling men they're defective women

LettuceBeGrateful · 2019-11-25T19:46:30+00:00

women don't ask men out because they are scared of rejection then have the gall to tell men they have fragile egos lol

Lethn · 2019-11-25T19:51:27+00:00

Wow, this is actually a very well reasoned post that addresses a lot of the bullshit I've seen from obvious feminists brigading this sub lately and their recent propaganda campaign trying to re-brand toxic masculinity without calling it that.

I'm fully expecting this journalist to get fired over it.

Sadly, this belief system has seeped into women’s souls, causing them to believe men are weak or lazy when they don’t do things the way women do them or when they don’t react the way women react.

I especially agree with this part because this is very much how feminists view men when it comes to mental health which is why I get pissed off when they tell men they need to express themselves more. This woman absolutely understands. I've noticed though she didn't try to go after feminism directly because that's what is teaching women to think this way about men but I wonder if that's just because of where she works.

C2074579 · 2019-11-25T22:18:30+00:00

Very refreshing article from this writer. Thank you, Suzanne.

2019-11-26T00:27:08+00:00

This title is actually a beautiful way to put it. Constantly compared to how we’re not like women for some reason.

lostapwbm · 2019-11-25T17:37:56+00:00

One reason for the relentless male-bashing is that women have been taught to believe the sexes are the same and, as a result, assume that when men don't behave the way women do, men are somehow failing.

When the opposite is actually true.

Or here’s another article, this time about research that shows the more wives earn, the rockier their marriages tend to be. Rather than study the complex reasons for this, the author makes numerous references to men’s “egos” and the notion that society’s backward attitudes are to blame:

I'm sure it has nothing to do with wifey pissing in hubby's ear about how she makes more money than he does.

Bottom line: Men are not defective women. But that’s what the culture teaches through films, television (even commercials!), and articles. Sadly, this belief system has seeped into women’s souls, causing them to believe men are weak or lazy when they don’t do things the way women do them or when they don’t react the way women react.

It has seeped into women's souls (such as women can be said to have) because women are more susceptible to seduction and flattery and empty praise than men are. And that's what gynocentrists peddle to women: constant flattery, constant praise, everything a woman does is feminist and therefore above criticism, there's always more happiness to be bought, she always deserves better than what she currently has, and just a neverending parade of asspats.

NaDius147 · 2019-11-26T08:55:50+00:00

'Men are defective women' - they're taller, stronger, smarter and bigger brained.

2019-11-26T06:48:12+00:00

Telling men they're defective women is what "toxic masculinity" is all about.

Gynocentric society seems to think that the prescribed "Female way" is the only way (or the right way) which is objectively not true.

spiesvsmercs · 2019-11-26T10:08:27+00:00

Or when the article mentions men texting their wives for input about a task, the author (tactfully) omits another reason: that the men have been chewed out so frequently for failing to do things EXACTLY the way the wife wants that they've learned the best way to deal with this is to be clear on what she wants.

I-want-spaget · 2019-11-26T02:51:24+00:00

They are, men have been on top long enough women need to rise and take that spot

Title	Stop telling men they're defective women
Author	lostapwbm
Upvotes	382
Comments	23
Date	November 25, 2019 5:27 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/e1jat7/stop_telling_men_theyre_defective_women/
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