Been lurking a few days and I have a couple of questions:

  1. What the hell is with "hoar" [see: multiple references to "Madonna-hoar complex"]? Do you mean "whore"? Is this something kids today are saying to not offend people or something?

  2. What is so wrong with leaving a bad relationship? I ask this as a person who recently lurked on /r/DeadBedrooms/ and am confused by this need to stay in terrible situations -- as well as the contexts "slutty women are more likely to leave you" and (from a comment that I cannot now find) "dread game is the nuclear option, for use when the only alternative is to leave". Wouldn't leaving (let's call it a "temporary separation") more effectively say, "I'm dead serious," without needing to find out whether she is in that subset of women who will take all your shit out to the lawn and pour gasoline on it?

  3. Blue Pill Women: why do you care what the Red Pill Men think? Let's face it, you're not going to date them. I'm not going to date them. They think women who won't conform to their notions are sluts who aren't worth marrying, and you probably think something far less kind about them. You aren't going to change their minds and spending time listening to them spout their toxic worldviews is not healthy. (I get why men would do it, but women should just not get the oobleck on them lest they start thinking more men are like this than there are.)

Kthxbye.