God created men with penis and woman with vagina and we've been wanting to plug one into the other ever since Adam and Eve. The chasm between men and women is self made. It's only in our heads.

Here is a truth. Most women are sexual freaks and deviants. The shit that goes on in their heads will make the most Hentai tentacle porn watching basement dweller blush. Just accept it. If you show up as someone who wants to take something from women or sees sex as something you must earn or weasel your way into, you will always be sexless. Show up with a simple attitude of "I'm a man, you are woman, it just works. It's how god meant us to be". No more pretense, no more posturing or delusions of inadequacy.

There is no battle of the sexes. We both want the same thing. Each other.