How not to mother my husband?

ArdentBandicoot · 2023-04-26T22:24:27+00:00

OP, this is a very low effort post and we need more details. I am removing this. If you'd like better and more tailored advice, write a new post that follows our "guidelines for asking relationship questions" in Rule 6.

ArkNemesis00 · 2023-04-26T15:45:32+00:00

There's not a ton to go off here...

But when you have the urge to mother, ask him one time if he would like whatever it is you think he needs. One. Time. It's when people continue to ask if you want something and pester you until you give in that's annoying.

Or, simply bring the thing to him, place it next to him, and don't hover. Up to him if he uses it or not.

1987dd1987 · 2023-04-26T16:01:12+00:00

Laura Doyle encourages us to basically not be codependent. Reading the surrendered wife by Laura Doyle or codependent no more by melody Beattie will help

Sudden8308 · 2023-04-26T16:06:54+00:00

You don't. If you want him to grow up and stop being a little boy, how do you expect him to do this when you mother him? Take care of him in certain loving ways, yes. Mother him, no. He will likely eventually resent you for this, if he doesn't already.

If he already has a problem with you mothering him, he needs to grow up so that you don't feel the need to.

528lover · 2023-04-26T18:45:01+00:00

Get a grown man who doesn’t need mothering. Get a man who you don’t feel the need to teach as a mother. Also, do inner work to see why you desire deep down subconsciously a man you want to mother. Did you have to mother previous partners or even maybe your own father or brother in childhood? You may be attracting men like that because of past traumas and reasons

angelicasinensis · 2023-04-26T15:40:20+00:00

Mothering your husband is a good thing…. I mother mine… don’t see an issue with it

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Title	How not to mother my husband?
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Date	April 26, 2023 3:07 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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