Hiii! This may be partially an age thing perhaps (I’m mod 20s) but for those of you who are moms and wives (or have advise for me)…

How do you all balance in your wardrobe/style to be modest and good example for your children (I have sons only but I would think I would feel pretty similar if I had daughters) … vs. being intentionally attractive/sexy to your husband?

Of course yes some of this will be different man to man, and trust me! I have very much discussed it (subtly… I am a lady:) with my husband. But at this point I am also looking for other like-minded women to discuss and share their experience/opinoons.

Essentially what kind of attire or makeup or hairstyles do you think work for being attractive to your spouse but modest for your children(/others) (and I will say also, functionality is important to me as a mom. For example, I do know my husband likes heels or boots etc, but practically, I cannot wear those inside during the day regularly as we have 3 little ones under foot! I doll up in that when we go out but I mean, day to day, what little feminine touches to add that you feel elevate your … (style / make up / looks / textiles / etc???) but they are not too “intense” or “on the nose” as being “sexy”?

Thank you so much in advance! 🩷 I hope this is clear but please I can elaborate if you need!