So last November I had gastric bypass surgery and then I went into a depression and let's just say it has been a rocky road...but I am finally starting to get back to myself.

I am going to the gym twice a day, I am in the proper diet and keeping up with after surgery assignments.

But with losing weight the male attention that I have started to receive is crazy....I have been hit on before and I have been groped before but it is started to be strange. I have never been really good with the attention, just something I don't like.

Before the surgery I had a bunch of people questioning if I would still stay the same person after losing a bunch of weight and the way guys see me and I always said that I wouldn't. But honestly I think it has made me more awkward....

Is there a way any of you handle stuff like that?

I haven't been on a date or done anything with a guy since my ex and I broke up and personally I still don't think I am ready and maybe that has something with also how awkward I have become....?

Also I am not posting this to sound conceded or anything I am honestly looking for advice.