TRP and Learning Game

young_TRP · 2013-10-21T13:56:39+00:00

Book of Pook for inner game?

rebuildingMyself · 2013-10-21T06:57:26+00:00

This is the kind of post I come to TRP for. Thank you.

Wee_Denny · 2013-10-21T16:40:36+00:00

Yeah, the Newbie method is great. If you can just push yourself to go out and talk to people (and by people I mean EVERYONE, dudes, chicks, old ladies, etc.) you will get into state and feel like you can conquer the world. Best thing about it: You don't even need drugs to feel this way, as corny as it sounds. It might take an hour or so to get into this "state", but if you can keep pushing yourself if will make everything so much fun.

No excuses, approach everyone you see on your first night out. You also need to let go of the outcome, which will happen is you push yourself to become this social robot. Of course, it's not good to permanently be this way as you continue to learn game, but it's a great way to start. Remember: Rejections don't exist, they're just funny stories.

Also, if you can find an RSD inner circle / PUA lair to go out with, it makes things easier because you have buddies to go back to and you won't be alone in your venture.

Let go of your fucking ego for that first night, or even the first few months, of going out. No one cares about what you do. You will never see any of the people you talk to again (unless you plan to meet up with them later, but still).

Become a kid again and just say whatever comes to mind (No scripted lines or any other BS that makes you think too hard. Thinking = Bad). I mean, of course don't just say specific things to make people angry, but if you just turn off your filter girls and other people will notice that you don't care and that you're just having fun. Then they'll want to see what you're about.

And seriously, this shit is fun. Messing with people and just talking is so god damn easy and fun. I don't know why every guy is out there every night. But whatever, more for us!

TL;DR

FOR YOUR FIRST NIGHTS OUT

1.) Approach everything you see (Including hot girls).

2.) If you're not comfortable going out alone, find an inner circle group to go out with.

3.) Let go of your ego and stop caring about what others think.

4.) Say whatever comes to mind.

5.) HAVE FUCKING FUN.

Whew, that was longer than I expected it to be. I love this shit.

magicalbird · 2013-10-21T08:07:20+00:00

Sidebar please

mrust · 2013-10-21T15:30:14+00:00

Really like the screening post you made. We had a thread about red flags not too long ago and there's some really good ones on your list that I didn't think of.

HatchbacksandTattoos · 2013-10-21T16:25:03+00:00

Thank you sir!

skalix · 2013-10-21T21:44:46+00:00

Thank you, perfect reading list

2013-10-21T22:00:27+00:00

awesome

theratmix · 2013-10-21T22:43:12+00:00

thank you!

redbluepilling · 2013-10-22T09:42:48+00:00

The screening is indeed quite a good section, and concise. It's amusing now to see my past brutally failed relationships match up perfectly with the red flags.

Ah, and this is a gem of wisdom from another:

Before you enter into an LTR, you have to have experienced MLTRs.

Before you enter into an MLTR, you have to have experienced FBs.

Before you have FBs, you have to have a complete life that fulfills you and makes you happy.

Most men do this exactly in reverse and suffer at every single step of the way.

Ah, cool, another gem to point out in The Betaization Process:

[when you fuck other women]...her girlfriends are telling her what a "bastard" you are, in an effort to prop up her curve - girls work together frequently to help strengthen each other's ~~curves~~ or, essentially, improve their strength in the relationship.

You can buy a lot of time using this strategy depending on the woman and what strategies her friends will be enforcing with her. This strategy causes a lot of headaches and drama however, and you must be extremely emotionally resilient (or conscience-free) to pull it off. Plenty of guys do it. Most guys can't however and will HAPPILY settle for exclusivity with one woman because they believe it leads to an easy life of sex on tap and no headaches. It doesn't. Part of the point of this post is that the "good life" with a woman is a fallacy. Even the "good ones" are just operating slower versions of this curve.

That part in bold, especially, was a paradigm shift after taking TRP. I wanted a LTR, just for the sake of having it (plus promised sex) because I never really had one (late bloomer + always short term, bouncing around between states and countries). As my thought process changed, I went from desiring to settle things down and have 'sex on the reg' with one girl to...well, a much more self-centered life with more opportunities. Hell, the issue of marriage now seems quite questionable. There's less sex right now than if I jumped into a relationship, but as I'm building a foundation to my entire life as a man and human being, the importance of sex dropped. I'll be better off in the long run (than having a LTR flounder & dwindle) and have focused more on improving myself as a whole..instead of, what I would have done...settle.

Also, damn, that whole post describes the rise and mostly fall of relationships so well. I can pinpoint exact moments from the past. I have however seen, often, the territory marking shit and attempts at denial of sex come before exclusivity--sometimes right from the start: back scratching and then denying sex in a way different from typical LMR--a power play.

Wee_Denny · 2013-10-21T09:56:36+00:00

No offense to TRP/the manosphere, but if you want to learn game do yourself a favor and get some of the real stuff. I'd start with Real Social Dynamic's Blueprint/Foundations series. The Blueprint is 20 hours long of Owen Cook lecturing and it's AMAZING. It is game changing, pardon the pun. Even the Mystery Method and David DeAngelo, old stuff now, still gets results.

edit: Stay far away from /r/seduction. It's absolutely terrible now. A few years ago it was similar to the old mASF, now it's just utterly useless. If you want to browse a forum I'd look at the archives at fastseduction.com

BlindNoble · 2013-10-21T07:02:59+00:00

You're a gentleman and a scholar.

redbluepilling · 2013-10-22T10:07:10+00:00

There are a few broken links?

HitlersOvenMitts · 2014-04-16T06:40:30+00:00

yes

Title	TRP and Learning Game
Author	Wolfwoodd
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Date	October 21, 2013 5:02 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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