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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Non-unicorn that thinks she's a unicorn posts about non-alphas that try to act alpha and how she's tired of it.
I'm just rolling over here.
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[–]alphabetmod 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Spoiler: Bullshit.
[–]themoor7 points 12 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
One thing hysterical in this whole threat is that her attitude and replies clearly demonstrate SHE HASN'T A CLUE what an alpha either is or wants.
With her attitude, any alpha guy is going to cackle at her ugly attitude, entitlement complex, sense of superiority, and whatnot.
Alpha guys either laugh in the faces of chicks like this or pump and dump them after gaming them hard.
Future embittered cat lady in the making here.
[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gaming them hard is nice but I have a tendency to laugh my ass off.
[–]redpillshadow 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
You sound like a troll.
But yeah, a high class unicorn will throw even more shit tests and will be able to see through a guy who is still in the fake it stage.
This video was posted in asktrp some days ago: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Wbo7XbBHJA
Apparently the guy is some top pick up artist (can someone confirm?) and way out of her league. She is (at least partly) aware of red pill truths and throws shit test after shit test and he fails them. At one point she states one thing and contradicts herself 30 seconds later via a question. He just stares at her in admiration and needs several seconds to reply.
As for your tearing them down part. You have to be careful not to end up as a bitch instead of a unicorn. As per redpillwomen, you aim to be 1. Officer to your Captain. Not internal affairs to a police chief or HR to a CEO.
[–]_whistler 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seconded. Well said.
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[–]redpillshadow 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
You know it would be easier to believe you if you wouldn't have reacted that badly to both tongue-in-cheek comments.
Your "I'm rich, bitch" comment as answer to the 50 shades of grey reference was horrible, so was your answer to the female self-esteem crisis.
Snarky, bitchy, rude, butthurt, lashing, not being able to take a joke is not feminine, but very off putting. If you react like that to an alpha teasing you he is going to next you faster than you can screech player.
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[–]puaSenator 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Listen, you came into our space and we let you have your say. Based off all your comments you DO come off as defensive and antagonistic. What everyone is trying to point out to you is that you're no different than the rest of the lot. Just like most women, you think you're something special and unique. You can't call yourself a unicorn, just like you can't call yourself beautiful. This is a decision made externally by others about you. And the truth is, based off your snarky, defensive, and self praising behavior, you are no unicorn. Grats you are a virgin conservative educated girl. Do you want a fucking cookie?
I'm just putting you right into that list of solipsistic women like the rest.
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[–]puaSenator 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So what exactly is the point then? You're original post is just you talking about yourself. What am I supposed to take from it? All I am seeing is someone saying how unique they are, then talking about how they are different, then going on about what she considers a real man, then her actions include getting really defensive soon as someone criticizes her. Go ahead and reread what you've typed in the comments. Pretend it's someone else saying it. You would want to hang out with that type of person that's constantly trying to insult people while being combative? I sure as hell wouldn't.
[–]a_n_v 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"The topic is not whether or not I am a unicorn. That is an entirely irrelevant matter"
Incorrect. It's the title of your post. The basis for which you attempted to establish credibility and subsequently your informed point of view on the topic so to speak. It is incredibly relevant. If you're not a unicorn then your point of view is entirely speculation at best.
"I even stated that given the fact that one cannot self identify as a unicorn you should just take my words at face value."
You identified yourself as a unicorn. As for face value;
anv = acta non verba
Your actions betray your words young lady. And don't feel bad, nobody I know has ever seen the mythical creature so many here seem to be obsessed with. You raised some valid points. Personally, I find the term pick up artist as comical as sandwich artist. A happy new year to you.
[–]redpillshadow 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are that:
“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”
That is not an unicorn. That is not even tolerable as acquaintance.
[–]_whistler 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I'll bite.
I'm merely stating that not all women are even remotely opposed to the possibility that RP not only works, but is what we desire.
Of course it is. That's one of the basic tenets of this sub. Most women desire it unconsciously, and some recognize it and incorporate it into their conscious worldview. I can't imagine anyone here would argue otherwise.
However I'm trying to bring to light the all the likely possibility that not every male is capable of being or applying the redpill philosophy.
Let me modify this slightly to state that 'not every male is naturally capable of being or applying TRP philosophy,' and again we're in agreement. That's the whole reason this sub exists: to get the word out, to provide a resource to the non-naturals.
By tearing them down, i'm not trying to "hurt their feelings" or anything of that nature, but exposing that they are not who they think they are, or not capable of being the man I want.
This is one of those sentences you womenfolk are very fond of, because it says two different things at once, both of which are true but one of which you don't want to admit overtly. By 'tearing them down' you're exposing that they 'aren't who they think they are'. If I emphasize that part just right, it sound rather altruistic of you, doesn't it? You're doing them a favor, right? Bullshit, sister. You get an emotional high off conquering an opponent verbally, just like every other person in the world. I don't object to it, as long as you're honest about the real reason behind it. This real reason is of course borne out by your admission to taking 'personal pride' in the verbal dismantling of faux-alphas (falphas?).
Maybe what I do is a shit test of sorts, but it is integral to finding out the true nature of a man in the early stages of communication.
Of course it's a shit test. This is the entire point of a shit test. I've made the point somewhere around here recently, as well, but I'll say it again: a shit test is just what we've nicknamed it. It's a Fitness Test: that is, a device used to determine the fitness of a potential or existing mate.
So now, I'm a little confused. What was the point of your post? To give us information that's mostly already available through the sidebar? Or did you have an implied question somewhere that I missed? I'm here to help.
[–]_whistler 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
A resource can be used to various ends depending on who's using it. Yes, some will fake it and just go for the easy slut-bangs. Some will start as 'Beta' and perhaps ascend to 'Alpha' through truly internalizing the truth of the world through the Red Pill lens. And some of us - I put myself in this category - were born with Alpha traits, but lost our way through the constant reconditioning of feminized society. For us, the Red Pill is a wake-up call, and a way to improve upon our existing traits to become the best we can be.
[–]_whistler 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Two things, and then I'm done with you.
1.
That certain accepted and encouraged aspects of RP strategy (namely the approach of "disrespecting" or talking down to a woman in a show of domination/alpha tendencies) are often just for show.
There is no such RP-endorsed practice. You're trying to describe the idea of 'negging,' which is better described as 'cocky teasing' or 'a playful put-down'. Don't feel bad, this is one of the most misunderstood concepts brought forward by detractors.
2.
is teaching boys to become men by acting alpha the correct way to address the fundamental issue?
Yes.
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
TL;DR: Waiting for real alpha prince billionaire pilot sadist.
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[–]alphabetmod 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Being a snarky bitch doesn't make you a unicorn. It shows that you're probably a 6, coming here for validation, and will likely end up with a beta, as you put it, because
Above all else, a red pill man should be able to recognize that I'm not a hot commodity by circumstance, but by choice.
So, for you it's a choice, but men better not be faking it!!!
Acting "alpha" doesn't make you alpha. Sure, I like to be dominated just as much as the next woman, but that doesn't mean I'm going to take it from just any guy. You might be able to talk the talk and walk the walk, but if I get the hint that it's all some carefully calculated scheme, then you're going to fail miserably.
Unicorn confirmed, alpha men boys!
[–]redpillshadow 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Confirmed troll.
[–]redpillshadow 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It was a tongue-in-cheek shades of grey reference. You exploded in his face and disqualified yourself by that.
If that is how you take down fake alphas...
[–]the_mustache_rider 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You've met nothing but guys in their early 20s. As a man in his early 30s, Do you have any idea how many woman Ive talked to that are exactly like you? I couldnt care less of what you think. You know.. Im also an engineer. I paid my way through college and landed a sweet as job travelling the world. Ive accomplished a lot of shit and Ive done it all on my own. I dont need to seek the approval of anyone, especially that of a young woman who has this false sense of entitlement. Real men probably run away before they even get to know you. Also, unless you are a muslim, most dudes my age do not want to have sex with a virgin. You'll probably just lay there like a starfish.
[–]the_mustache_rider 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Far from it... Im an LTR dude. I had RP beliefs well before this sub existed.. I dont do the whole gaming side of this sub. Many years ago(like 10), I learned to man up and quit being a little bitch about shit. No matter what front I put on, you arent attracted to a boy. You are attracted to a confident secure man who knows what he wants. Instead of pretending to be one.. I became one. That is what this sub used to be about. Attracting woman is simply a side effect of being a man.
And really.. you are no unicorn. Maybe to a scrawny 19 year old who thinks he deserves a pure female. Your degree, your looks, your job.. none of that matters if you have a shitty personality. A good man who is looking for good partner will not be interested.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
From your attitude alone, you are no unicorn. I know someone who has the same exact mentality you do and I recently divorced her. So at least for me, no, you're nothing special.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you're trying way too hard
grats on failing the unicorn test
[–]themoor5 points 12 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Another victim of the female self-esteem crisis in the Western world:
http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/08/17/the-female-self-esteem-crisis/
[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
gee... sarcasm is so attractive. You should definitely try harder to impress all of us with your amazingness. Just think about it guys! We have an actual snowflake encrusted unicorn in our midst.
[–]semigod__ 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lots of claims, lots of shaming, lots of nawalt.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
It seems like being worthy and not demanding can be almost as bad at generating desire as being unworthy and demanding. My statement appears to hold more water as time goes on in a relationship.
Edit: rereading, it wouldn't apply so much since you resist game and don't appear to enter into relationships. One thing to note, you could just be feeling that you're a unicorn. Be prepared for consequences if you are wrong about what you are.
Moar edit: it's already been talked about on here that women can sense fakes and fractures of a guy's frame. People are learning and learning takes practice, especially with the pick up skills that you notice. About the he should respect me because I respect myself thing, not really. He shouldn't and doesn't have to. He either does or doesn't, and saying anyone should points to the self-entitlement. You just keep rolling on until someone who's worth your time rolls along and decides you're worth his time and shows you the respect you're looking for.
Sorry for rambles, you touched on a lot of different things and my thoughts aren't easy to organize.
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[–]Guh99 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The real world is going to swallow you up before you even wake up from your false confidence dream. First off, you're bragging about being a daily 7, and you chose to be a virgin at 22. The first alpha that actually targets you will wake you up quickly.
Hit the gym and start eating cleaner and we'll talk babe.
[–]crawlingchaos31 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A unicorn does not need to self identify. A unicorn would not come and post in this subreddit. A unicorn is willing prey that knows it likes being preyed upon but is intelligent enough and skilled enough to make sure the predator is only interested in preying on her. You as a person, I cannot comment on since this is the internet. I have the sneaking suspicion that if you met someone superior to yourself you would not respect them but resent them and rise to try and usurp them. While this ambition in a woman is admirable, the male would need to be necessarily so far above your skill level that you could never hope to usurp his position. I recommend perhaps getting involved in fundraising or politics in order to find the man you seek. A note: a 22 year old virgin is not something to be advertised in my opinion because it might make the Alpha that you seek to attract pass you by easily, also I have seen very few true 9's, and 6's often think they're 7's and 7's often confuse themselves with 8's and the differences between the categories of 6 and 7 are a difference of kind not of degree so be aware of that when rating yourself. Also ratings really differ according to taste.
[–]alphabetmod 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can see this chick grasping on to a halfway decent "alpha" guy and sucking the life out of him in 6 months flat. She may be feminine (doubtful looking at her replies here), and submissive and somewhat close to a RPW and better than most, but she's still got the typical bitchy ENTITLEMENT and that's the bottom line. She's looking for an "alpha", but as soon as that motherfucker slips up and loses frame once she's gonna eat him alive. She wants a "natural" alpha but someone that is a natural most likely won't know what to know with shit tests of an epic proportion six months down the line when he thinks he's in love with this woman.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The sub is not misguided. There are people on here that are, or in most cases, they're still learning like I am and going through a deconversion from being indoctrinated with bullshittery. It can be learned and taught, but the TRP frame isn't complete until inner game is done. Internalizing everything and making it part of the person. It takes time and a lot of action/work to bloom. I have a long way to go and I'm not the only one.
TRP, in my understanding, is about self-improvement and truth about the natural behaviors of men and women in general, accepting those truths, and hedging risks with that knowledge in the interactions between men and women. You'll see "amoral" used around here a lot, that is why you don't see politically correct statements or displays of respect. Truth owes no one respect, and it wouldn't be truth if it'd afforded it to anyone in respect to feelings.
Back to your situation specifically, you know the game and are hedging your risk based on that. Maybe it's lack of attraction, or maybe it's the knowledge of the risks and game that are out there are causing you to protect yourself from being just some guy's dickwarmer to the point of being alone. Up to you to answer that.
The tactics that you're talking about are the application of TRP knowledge. Some use it to catch a warmer for the night (like PUAs), some use it to get an LTR. It's all about how knowledge is used. Again, the knowledge is amoral.
The engineers, I find it hard to believe that you can't find one that has earned their own value if you scratch out their family's contributions. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places? Where would you find the kind of man you're looking for? Are you overvaluing yourself? Do you need to make yourself more valuable to get the guy of the value you are looking for? It sounds like the type of guy you are looking for won't fall for flattery and batting eyes at him. You'll need actual value with him, as he'll be able to spot fakes as easily as you say you can.
In short, I think you are either self-entitled and overvalue yourself, or what you say about yourself and your situation is true and you are a woman going your own way similar to MGTOW, so to speak.
Either way, good luck.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
i think it's great that you're selective and concentrating on finding the best guy that you can. that's got to take a lot of restraint.
but damn, watch that egotistical bullshit and learn some humility, because it's a serious turnoff. guys notice how you are shitting on other guys just for the fun of it, how you are drunk on your own fleeting sexual power as a young woman surrounded by men. maybe those natural alphas that you're looking for pass you by and chuckle to themselves because your behavior and attitude are so ugly. you have to ask yourself, if those natural alphas aren't approaching you, is it because they don't exist, or is it because you act so bitchy and haughty that those guys aren't interested? either could be true at an engineering college, since insecure nerdy guys tend to dominate the demographic.
I graduated from a well known engineering college as well, and I have to remind you of the male perspective there. we know all too well how all that attention from men can give a girl a ridiculously inflated estimate of her attractiveness and worth in a relationship. guys from other fields avoided engineering girls because everyone knows that those girls are predictably full of themselves. some of those girls who enjoyed toying with their male peers got a rude awakening once they left college, because they found that their male peers in college were actually far better than the dudes you meet out in the real world off campus. i'm serious, don't take your male peers for granted. the average dude is way dumber with much poorer prospects than the men you know in college.
now more about the men you know, and how you're woefully unimpressed with their insecurity and shaky game. your disappointment is understandable, but you expect too much. I'd say that the average guy doesn't build real confidence and a solid identity until later in life, maybe not until age 30. even then, men who develop both great career prospects and great game ARE quite rare, and you may have to accept that you're below their league if they aren't pursuing you.
my advice is to try going after older guys and try to learn some humility, or at least act like you have. be prepared to be pumped and dumped, though, because your attitude is setting you up to be a seasoned player's conquest. why would a guy with such solid game commit to another one of those naive ego-tripping girls, like you? there are plenty of hot girls with better attitudes out there, and honestly, your virginity isn't much of a bargaining chip unless you want to find a muslim guy.
[–]Senior ContributorDemonspawn 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm going to the range next weekend. Would you care to join?
That's what I was going to say. But then I read her replies. We'll just leave it at that.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just a thought. If the men you're meeting are in your age group... that's why. Men do not become men until their thirties (if ever), unless they go to war.
[–]ahostofeyelashes 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago* (12 children) | Copy Link
I would love to be able to have the discussion your post seemed to be wishing for, OP. The fact that the majority of the responses here boil down to 'you're a bitch, not a unicorn' with some attempts at negging thrown in isn't a surprise. This is the internet and we're all strangers, no one is trying to bang or marry anyone else on this sub - nonetheless a real, good-faith conversation seems to be a bit of a unicorn itself.
The concept of alpha is an interesting one, especially in light of this sub - aren't alphas by definition rare? If every man becomes an alpha doesn't that make none of them alpha? Most of the time I try to take this sub with a grain of salt and another grain of compassion. I feel for men - for women, too - who have no luck with the opposite sex and few appealing traits. Both sexes have every right to learn how to maximize the potential of their raw materials. And both sexes have every right to be as picky as they want when it comes to choosing who they want to be with. If what you say is true - you are young, pretty, educated and smart, that makes you a high value person. A high value person seeks another high value person. Blue pillers AND red pillers who are themselves not high value can get very angry/emotional about that fact, and both have their furious rationalizing tendencies.
Like you, I have absolutely no problem with 'game' - the sexual and social interplay between me and men is fun, it's a high-stakes game of sorts and I respect anyone who plays it well. But the truth, as you pointed out, is that most people play it badly, or even worse fail to recognize that a game is afoot. ALL people of both genders need to accept the truth that a)to attract a top-tier human being, you must BE a top-tier human being and b)top-tier human beings are rare. And women can smell fake-alpha a mile away. I never, never cruelly or rudely shoot men down, because that shit (approaching women cold) is hard and in no way would I enjoy it myself. 'Game' is becoming pretty widespread and it's pretty frequent that someone tries it on me. Honestly, my usual response is to tell them, nicely, that I have a boyfriend (I don't - not a serious one). There's no honour or thrill in making someone feel like crap. I'll engage further if a man seems to be up for it (some are, some run a mile the second they sense they might be playing with someone who also has skills, which is usually a big beta tell) - in fact the more interested I am in a man the harder I'll be on him when first getting to know him (i.e. shit-testing, which I believe in many cases to be a perfectly legit thing to do, man or woman). A man who can match me in the game is already very rare. A man who can beat me? That one I'd belong to, assuming basics like sexual attraction.
Anyway those are just my thoughts from someone in a somewhat similiar boat to you. I don't have any advice on how to find alphas, there just aren't many of them. Personally, I would not settle for a beta (and I HATE these terms because I think that while we can generalize about what what each gender finds attractive in the opposite, there are also some real differences between individuals) and although I am more than open to the idea of marriage I'm not assuming it's going to happen - if it doesn't that's OK. Consider freezing your eggs (I did this 2 years ago when I was 23) so you don't find yourself in the position of having to settle (if children are important to you - being a mother is the single most important goal I have) if you think you'd rather not when you get older.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The fact that the majority of the responses here boil down to 'you're a bitch, not a unicorn' with some attempts at negging thrown in isn't a surprise.
Why would it be a surprise? OP clearly has no understanding of which personality traits men find attractive, and to refer to herself as a unicorn in light of that is laughable.
Why should anyone bother trying to have a discussion with someone who doesn't seem to understand the basics of this subreddit and who gets defensive, snarky and sarcastic about nothing? Sounds like a waste of time.
[–]ahostofeyelashes 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I just see it as the OP isn't trying to date respondents to her thread, she's trying to begin a discussion. She wasn't trying to demonstrate her unicorn-ness to anyone beyond the specific issues she was raising (i.e. she was looking for a good-faith convo), and even said herself that whether or not she is actually a unicorn is irrelevant (which it is, in terms of a useful discussion). The responses are legit, I'm not accusing anyone of being 'wrong' I would just personally prefer an actual argument to a pile-on. It's easy to make personal attacks, it's harder (and more productive) to hash it out on the issues. Male opinions on alphaness, especially in terms of this sub itself, would have interested me.
[–]Senior ContributorDemonspawn 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She wasn't trying to demonstrate her unicorn-ness to anyone beyond the specific issues she was raising
Yes. But she invalidated it in her own post. I saw it even, which is why I thought up my initial joke reply (well below) just to see how she would respond. But then I read her replies before I posted, and the test of her was already well determined.
So the discussion she wants won't happen with her involved. She's not a unicorn, she's not discussing from the position of a unicorn. She's just another entitled brat who thinks she's special because she held on to her V card.
Anyways tho, ruffles yer hair, Range this weekend?
[–]redpillshadow 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, my usual response is to tell them, nicely, that I have a boyfriend (I don't - not a serious one).
That is a shit test. The usual advice here and in the PUA community is to push further after getting the boyfriend line, cause it is bullshit that often.
I would love to be able to have the discussion your post seemed to be wishing for, OP. The fact that the majority of the responses here boil down to 'you're a bitch, not a unicorn' with some attempts at negging thrown in isn't a surprise.
Not possible with OP in the mix though. The community would have been happy to discuss it, handing out upvotes at the beginning. When she revealed that she is an entitled bitch the thread went south.
[–]ahostofeyelashes 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I shit-test guys I want to go further with. From me, the "I have a boyfriend" is not a shit-test because I only use that when I'm really not interested in going any further/wasting both of our time giving him the idea I might be interested.
As for the second part, I just saw some combativeness from both sides. I would like for that to be OK, I don't mind combat and I find it can be very useful at times. If the OP truly is a bitch/not worth it, it would have been more interesting to see it play out.
[–]redpillshadow -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
But you are wasting his time with that lie.
Read OPs posts, if you cannot see she is a bitch...
[–]ahostofeyelashes 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How am I wasting his time? Theoretically that interaction ends in minutes/seconds - he approaches, I let him know I'm not interested, he is off to find someone else. That is the quickest, simplest way for it to go and I prefer it to being straight-up mean.
As for OP, I meant what I said, I thought her post was interesting and could have been even more interesting if the discussion following it had gone differently. People got their backs up at her post and she got her back up at their responses.
[–]ahostofeyelashes 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Re: 'alpha' not being (or, not entirely being) a set of behaviours and attitudes. I mostly agree with this. It also depends on what woman is being sought - if the goal for a man is pussy, any pussy will do, then I think there are places to go and women to approach who won't need very much 'game' at all.
I go back and forth on whether or not alphas are born or made. And as I said I agree that a certain skillset does not an alpha make. The alpha men I have known were effortlessly themselves and that effortlessness, is, imo, one of the keys to alpha-hood.
As for the sub itself I think there probably ARE a lot of betas here looking to up their value, but that's fine. It's demonstrably not 'The Alpha Male Rawr' sub, it's a sub about learning how to be/be perceived as more alpha. I think a lot of men, especially men our age, feel kind of lost in BluePill land and I applaud any effort by men to help themselves.
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