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[–]1Nirvana2422 points23 points24 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
People come on here because nobody is ever done learning. The older members teach the younger members with stories and experiences, not the other way around. I also come on here, because it is nice to know that I can relate to 85,000 others.
[–]newlifeasredpill1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bingo. I am almost four months in and EVERY day learning important insights into my past, present, and future life.
This knowledge is also kind of isolating. If you speak of it then folks out there think you have sprung a leak.
Yet they DO notice the weight I've dropped and the way the new clothes fit. At work they notice I get shit done. It's almost like I am not ready to NOT come back here every day for fear of reverting back to the way I was
[–]Misteralcala14 points15 points16 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This place is one of the LAST male spaces online where guys can feel free to talk about things without women or white knights getting their panties twisted in a bunch. This is the locker room where we can talk shop. This is the Old Boy's Club where we can embrace our manliness and talk about things that other subs would ban us for even mentioning. This is an important place where men can get useful real-world advice from other men who will give it to them straight.
[–]ModMachiavellianRed-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is a really great way of putting it, and I believe is one of the major reasons the older members keep coming back. It's an enclave of sanity.
♂
[–]Redpillc0re9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Most of the stuff said here would get you banned you on other websites, that is reason enough.
[–]lordofthejelly 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
as I'm a novice
No worries, we have all been there.
I came here to learn in January 2013, having been given my first foggy glimpses of what lay behind the curtain by /r/Mensrights, /u/GirlWritesWhat, and Heartiste. I began inhaling TRP like Pam Ploovey inhales cocaine, and never looked back.
Today, I stay for the community. I can say what I think, I can get no-bullshit answers to questions, I can help other men who aren't as far along in the journey, I can get my argument cut to pieces on occasion when I'm full of shit.
We are men. We talk like men. We think like men. We drive each other to be better men. We tell war stories of our failures, and our successes, and we learn from each other. We acquire the skills we should've been learning 5, 15, or 30 years ago, and we pass them on to those who are coming behind us.
And that's why I stay.
Besides, veteran or no, my journey is just beginning...it's not like I have everything figured out. I expect most "veterans" on here would say the same.
[–]Noculum 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's all extremely interesting.
I came here because Reddit kept making it out to be an awful, horrible, women-beating forum. Decided to see what all the fuss was about, and was pleasantly surprised.
[–]jsityo3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When hot, cheerleader type girls aren't partying or fucking a jock football player they visit two websites; Facebook and Instagram. There are no hot females that browse reddit. The actual hot Gonewild girls (5%) hear about it through their friends then attention whore on that sub and never visit the rest of the site.
When guys from here 'make it' they either never return or pop in every few months. They are too busy actually living their lives like those hot cheerleaders. Plus theredpill has gone to shit since the early days so there is zero point being here if your life is progressing and you already know the basics of redpill.
[–]missimiss[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
well, thanks for your honesty. that's exactly what i thought. everyobdy else is merely rephrasing a simple statement "Nobody agrees with me in real life so I like to come on here to vent my anger and frustration at everything."
[–]Ebon_Link1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It keeps my repressed anger fron becoming repressed when I manage to dig through to it. This place keeps the fire burning in my belly while I learn on how to feed it with my own kindling (life experiences, desires, passions.)
[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
If you're aiming for having 10 plates spinning, that is no joke dude, that's a full time job. I heard of mega players who are able to juggle it, but for me, I noticed whenever I exceed about 5 women at any single time, I start going crazybasket fast.
Teaching as activity isn't solely the altruism of "giving a little something back" to the fellow man. It is its own kind of learning, a lot of the time we teach what we still have to learn & think through (in a deeper way) ourselves.
[–]itsemalkay3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just come here to read stories and learn from them.
[–]MustafaIsHere 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I personally find people fascinating and the raw nature of mankind. Even the fact that you wasted your time trying to figure out why we are on here fascinates me. Obviously this Reddit was interesting enough and has caused you to invest whatever meaningless time you had to rant about the thread.
[–]dazerzooz1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I come here to keep myself in check. Sometimes I need a fresh dosage of redpill ideology to reaffirm what I already know. It's amazing how fresh poosy and mainstream media can start to brainwash your better judgement after a while.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly this. When I feel even the slightest trickle that I might be slipping back into old habits, I come here for a fresh dose to keep myself on my path, my mind on my own goals and ambitions. To remain a man on a mission.
[–]jimpz0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Or is it just that you need to remind yourself everyday about being an alpha?" Not so much as acting alpha but more not being a beta. Reminds me of the consequences if i slip or if i don't keep pushing forward. Reminds me that im normal & not insane when my mind fights the idea of cuckold, staying w/ a women who just cheated on me, or letting other people walk all over me. Most of all, i wouldn't be here if i'm not seeing any positive result.
[–]crazydave1979 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I didn't really need the red pill.. I come here because I enjoy the topics and conversations (most of them)..
[–]missimiss[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
so just a waste of time then?
[–]TitanLooksss0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The thing about life is that there's always room for improvement. Reading this sub everyday keeps me sharp and confident.
[–]shirts_tx 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I come here because I have an interest in gender dynamics with a focus on the male side. Only "gender studies" class I ever took was really a history class focused on what it meant to be a man. I know, what a waste. This side of things is more interesting to me than the female side, probably because I have a dick. This red pill stuff and the culture surrounding it is shaping up to be a big part of where we head culturally and I want to watch it.
[–]1oldredder0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
individual data items from various people build up a bigger, evolving picture to learn from. For me, I learn to filter who is full of shit, what patterns of stories / events appear to fail to be valid as well, and work with what's left.
[–]hb8only 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I always struggling with sthg and when I come there, there is already a thread about it, I just love this place the most from all the internet
[–]Modified_Hackware 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can go anywhere for cat memes.
You can go anywhere to learn guitar.
You can go anywhere to get factoids.
You can't go anywhere to discuss what is discussed here.
[–]Endorsed ContributorAFPJ0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Being able to evaluate the message independent of the messenger is one of the biggest advantages of the internet.
Spaces which promote adversity, rational discussion and anonymous speech are necessary for self-actualization.
Writing isn't just pure "out" or "giving" or sharing - your thoughts are refined as you write them out to receive input and further adjust your assumptions about reality and how things work - different perspectives are useful.
When I come here and open the front page, most of the time it's filled with FRs, MRA shit, reminders of why you should lift, fix yourself, improve with no specific details and other inspirational crap that's completely worthless.
My brain glazes over all this garbage and zooms in on posts that help me improve myself and my life. Those posts are few and far in between, but 1-2 hours of lurking TRP to gain a really good idea you end up using is worthwhile.
TRP is just a collective fake it 'till you make it / believe your own bullshit mindfuck for most subscribers.
[–]1TVTestPattern0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Who are we supposed to talk with about this stuff?
Our girlfriends? You?
the last thing I'd have time for is a keyboard war with some random dude
Is it the medium you don't get maybe? Like the interactions we have online are meaningless because "it's not real"?
What the other posters said... and each individual has their own motivation of course.
Better to ask why interact with anyone online at all?
in other words "Nobody agrees with me in real life so I like to come on here to vent my anger and frustration at everything."
[–]1TVTestPattern0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How do you make that sound typing? pfffttt... or the like. Yes exactly... nobody in RL agrees with me and I'm here to vent...
Well played good sir.
[–]McRedMan 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's like going to school for me. You reinforce what you have learned, share any new knowledge you have, and learn more from the people around you.
And you make a point, the lessons you learn here are useless until you go out and apply them. The process is cyclical though. Read, internalize, apply, contribute, repeat.
[–]The Red Pill RoomIanIronwood0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Been at this for over three years. Still have much to learn. Have a lot more to teach. We return because here is the community of men, unsullied by feminine voices, and it is here (among other places) that we return to dip our buckets into the well of our collective masculinity, from time to time, and take that refreshment into our daily lives.
Never stop learning.
[–]ultrasuperthrowaway0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I can talk about my lifestyle with anonymity of the internet, I can't do that with my family nor friends for many reasons.
1) My life is incredibly unbelievable and I realize that
2) my experiences sound like bragging and I could get unfriended by real people in my life
3) I like giving random people advice
4) I like stupid arguments that would piss off my real friends too much
SO true. In fact 2 dumbasses on here, breads & SRSco have dedicated a subreddit to me called shitoldreddersays just to copy-paste-troll-spam me, blatantly saying everything I write is made up, Rambo fantasies, crazy, etc., when in fact it's just on average normal for a man's life and for what you'd read around here from anyone.
[–]cascadecombo0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Unless you need those people in your life for work, why even bother keeping them as friends.
I too have things that when I tell people they hardly believe me, however, if they're people I consider friends they don't get pissy /want to change how I do things.
[–]nesshie911 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Because this is one real-as-fuck men community and its a win-win situation for everyone.
[–]midnightpainter1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I know this is a revolutionary concept, but reddit is available on smartphones yeah?
I know, it's cool... I just blew your mind.
[–]Modern__Day__Pricus-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I come here to find certain posts that can give me a extra boost. Meaning, something that is looked at with a different angle and causes me to question my philosophy.
Because, at a certain point it starts to become a repeat of the next.
1)Women are evil
2)Some men are still stuck in the blue pill world. Here are examples
3)Motivational posts
4)More game advice
5)Articles about how silly, sensitive, and overall just plain pussy the world has become
6)Feminists
Etc, etc, etc.
After awhile once you really digest the pill you start to have a deeper understanding about the work and look to seek more than just women.
That what the red pill has done for me. It has helped me see that women are not the end all be all. So, when I come on here nowadays I start to either look for that one post that sparks something different, or, stories. I enjoy stories because its in the moment and it gives great examples about how we men are not crazy and shows the truth for what it is.
But yes I get where you are coming from. I use to come in here and read EVERYTHING. Same thing with Return of Kings and other websites. But now, I take my time and try to find posts that speak something new and deeper about life and the bigger game than just worrying about women.
http://associationofchronos.com/2014/11/08/the-balloons/
And
http://associationofchronos.com/2014/09/08/batteries/
And also
http://associationofchronos.com/2014/07/04/quarters/
These types of posts that I have written could not have been created without me first having a grasp of The Red Pill and its teachings. Its made me want to push my thoughts even more to see how far I can go and what else is out there besides just focusing on women
[–]HalfAsianBob 0 points0 points0 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I come on here because it's nice to hear about all the fucking morons who go through life with a big smile on their face, being cheated on and hurt, pretending everything is alright. It's not alright. Optimistic, soft, feel good people make me sick. The world is do unfathomable corrupt and people just flat out refuse to see it because they can't deny their own specialness and uniqueness.
[–]missimiss[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link
so, to rant about bluepill stuff irl...got it.
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