A Comfort Challenge is purposely taking yourself and going into an uncomfortable situation to get used to be uncomfortable.
What's the purpose of this?
Personal growth.
And thats what we are all here as Redpillers.
There are mainly 3 biological innate fears that we all share.
*As a child - fear of abandonment. Because without a family figure you would die...
*Fear of loss of control.
*Fear of rejection and embarrassment.
Fear resides within. You are the one that allows yourself to become embarrassed, it has nothing to do with your exterior.
Fear is relative. What might be scary for me might not be scary for you.
Many of the ideas shared here force you to stand up for yourself. And standing up for yourself can be scary and uncomfortable. When you start to hold frame when your boss or your girlfriend tries to take advantage over you, when stop taking shit from your ex gf, when you start to challenge the pecking order, when you go to talk that hot girl in the middle of the room, when you go no contact with the girl you have oneitis. All that can be scary and uncomfortable.
How do we conquer this fear? How do we become the stronger version of ourselves?
By taking small steps. Stepping out of our comfort zone daily.
Two years ago I got into a 30 day comfort zone challenge. That 30 days make a dividing point in my life from before it to after. It made me realize how much I cared about what other people think about me. Even if we say we don't, the voice in our heads is extremely deceiving.
There are many examples in the internet. One is the guy from 100 days of rejection, which in everyday he made ridiculous demands expecting to be rejected. In his journey he was surprised how much of his requests were actually corresponded and also how much his confidence skyrocketed. Not to mention how fun life suddenly turned out to be.
So I propose we start a 30 day comfort zone challenge superthread. This way us as a community can share a daily activity separately to make a change individually. To experience really what it is to break free from fear and do all the things we say we will do.
Depending on the responses i'll start the superthread on April 1rst until the 30rth.
Challenges won't be about something illegal or harmful.
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