So last night I was out with 3 girls off my course. All very different girls in terms of personality looks and age. One is 23, one is 26 and one is 29.

We're talking about how long do you wait before sleeping with someone. 26 says she made her boyfriend wait 8 weeks. 8 weeks! Even though she knew after 2 weeks she was going to do it. Her reasoning? I wanted a guy I could sleep in the same bed with who wouldn't always want sex.

The same girl also later in the evening discussed how she'd had 4 threesomes with random people.

So she's willing to do all kinds of crazy stuff , ride the old cc, then when it comes to meeting her BB he has to wait 8 weeks for some vanilla sex. What a lucky guy!!

One of the other girls 23, tells me how she was out for a friends birthday without her boyfriend. She loses the people she's out with but bumps into an orbiter she's known for 10 years. He's just a friend but she spends all night with him dancing. At the end of the night he tries to kiss her and she is disgusted. How can this guy want to kiss her? He's like a brother to her.

Two short and sweet examples of what not to be / do. Every day I see more and more evidence of AF / BB. And more evidence of guys being beta and accepting their lots in life. Don't accept that shitty sex life or that orbiter position. Strive to be better!