Those of you who follow RSD will recall the fiasco in Australia after Julian's choke video. At that point, Alex made a decision to leave the RSD fold and started his own gig. His Youtube page is back, including some of his older videos.
Of all the RSD instructor's Alex seemed to best exemplify what Robert Greene describes as "The Natural" in his book The Art of Seduction... Here's a summary...
The Natural is adult male who has maintained childlike qualities that makes him endearing to women.
Adults idealize their childhood and long to return to their carefree self. We harbor illusions of childhood as a golden age of freedom and adventure, even for those of us who suffered a great deal of confusion and pain growing up.
Children live in a world from which most adults have been forever exiled. Because adult life is full of boredom and compromise, we look for ways to recapture our lost youth and the overpowering feelings of young love.
Natural seducers are people who somehow avoided getting certain childish traits drummed out of them by adult experience. Such people can be as powerfully seductive as any child, because it seems uncanny and marvelous that they have preserved such qualities as openness, curiosity, innocence, playfulness, mischief and wonder.
Naturals are not literally like children. That would make them obnoxious and pitiful. Rather it is the open spirit, playfulness and vulnerability that they have retained.
Out of self-preservation, most adults become rigid and defensive. Defensiveness is deadly in seduction; act defensive and you'll bring out defensiveness in other people.
In striving to get ahead in an adult world, most people put up a strong front and hide their vulnerability. They become serious and inhibited.
The undefensive Natural isn't restricted by inhibitions and takes pleasure in the moment. He doesn't filter himself, becoming free to be in the moment. He invites his target to temporarily lose inhibitions and join in the fun he creates... Once a target lowers their inhibitions and gives in to pleasure, seduction embraces and consumes them.
Naturals appear immune to negativity. Their positive energy and self-amused nature make them the life of the party. Learn to turn any attention to your advantage. Treat all negative feedback as a joke to disarm the target.
Naturals appear more genuine and at ease with themselves. They exude confidence and instead of stiffly marching to a conformist beat of the drum, they flow freely and easily and exude a distinctive character.
Naturals don't focus as much on tactical process in their method of seduction. They rely on a strong inner game and better instincts.
Impish Naturals have a fearlessness that we adults have lost. Imps are brazen, blissfully uncaring. They infect you with their light-hearted spirit. They act as if they do not see the possible consequences of their actions—how some people might be offended, how they might hurt themselves in the process.
Naturals have not yet had their natural energy and spirit scolded and shamed out of them by the need to be polite and civil. Secretly, we envy them; we want to be naughty too.
Adult imps are seductive because of how different they are from the rest of us. Breaths of fresh air in a cautious world, they go full throttle, as if their impish ways were out of their control, and thus natural.
Edit: For those of you unfamiliar with Alex, here's one of his shorter videos on How to Screen For Has-Boyfriend.
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