Summary: Women do not like competition. Take advantage.

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Women are not a fan of competition when it comes to the sexual market place. They always want to be the "alpha" female and grab the attention, resources, and time of all the men. When faced with competition they resort to unorthodox methods such as attrition to "win".

Why? Well the answer is quite simple really;

Women have intrinsic value, Men have extrinsic value.

History

Women

During the early days of man, simply having a vagina and being able to bear children made you a value asset to the group/tribe. However, that value was in fact compared to the other females of the group, and the one female who could bear the best offspring(most attractive) got the most attention and resources, while the ones who couldn't(least attractive) had little to none. In short, a dice is rolled when women are born and whatever number(value) they are given, they must keep and cannot increase.

So does this mean women are doomed if they are born least attractive? Not so. Since women cannot increase their value, they must result to the attrition of other females. If they cannot improve or raise their SMV, the only way to "win" is to deteriorate the SMV of other women.

Men

Men on the other hand were not born with value. Simply being a man meant nothing. You were nobody special, you were just another man alive. However men could earn their value by the things they could do. Men were seen as utilities to women, hence the portrayal of men as "human doings" instead of "human beings". What you could bring to the group/tribe is what made you different from the other men. Can you hunt? Can you run fast? Can you build shelter? Can you clean water? And so on. Each one of these qualities determine your value. In short, when men are born they have no value. However they are given a toolbox(opportunities) in which they can gain and increase in value.

So what does this mean for men in the SMV? Well first things first. Attempting to attack tough guy Chad(alpha) in the tribe would not be a good idea for weak guy Bob(beta) as he will face certain defeat. Therefore the way to "win" would be for Bob to improve his SMV and surpass Chad. He then wouldn't even need to fight or attack Chad.

Wrapping this up quickly Women have a static SMV, Men have a dynamic SMV. If a woman saw another women who was better than her she would shoot her. If a man saw another man who was better than him, he would try to improve.

"Alright enough of this boring informative post about our obvious history. How does this have anything to do with TRP or your title BlackJ1?"

It has a lot to do with it.

Present

Women will use tactics such as slut shaming, fighting, gossiping, and much more attrition strategies to take other women down, and even possibly you. This can be especially dangerous in the professional and business world. As you read in my above example; women attrite, men improve.

Is another company doing better than the woman's company? Time to tear down the company with lawsuits and gossip. Is another company doing better than the man's company? Time to innovate and make better products.

Strategy

I'm sure you all have heard of it as it commonly referred to as "pre-selection" and "dread game". If other women want you then you must be a man of high value and/or he might be taken away from me.

Always be the man woman want. The monopoly, the store every woman wants to walk into, but never easily admitted too. I'm sure your LTR will have her hamster spin fast when she sees other women taking your attention away from her because she realizes that you've got options, and she's lucky you chose her. They want to believe that it was a challenge to earn your attention, a blessing.

Oh and for all you men who are still in the anger phase. Stop complaining, pick up that hammer, and get to work. Improve yourself, that's what makes you a man of value.

Lessons Learned:

  • Always strive for improvement.