So, now that the radio has been turned off for a spell let's start class.

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Anyone that reads the forums has seen certain people post about approaching and being masculine and that's 100% correct. Out of all the forms of seduction there's something intrinsically better about a face to face interaction.

Pick up in person is also great at building instant attraction and striking while the iron is hot instead of being a cute guy in a sea of dicks. I'd say that it opens up your odds.

So, that said I figured I'd go out and work out that seduction skill.

I'll give you a breakdown of what just happened less than an hour ago while most of the details are still fresh in my head, go over what I did and why and hope that you learn something.

I'll then link a video of a good interaction between a woman and a man and break that down.

This is for those that may struggle or just need an edge.

If you think you can do better then go for it. If you think this is fiction then you'll need to go out more. If you're going to <insert excuse> to validate some bleak nihilistic Blackpill outlook then get the fuck out. You're not here to learn.

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Let's begin.

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There's a bar not too far away from where I live. A slight hole in the wall that's near enough to a school to draw in the younger crowds as well as quaint enough to have a hipster vibe that draws in the older crowd. They've also had a new roster of waitresses and bartenders added sooo...

Great place to meet women.

Keeping it light, I dressed up with clean white Converse, white T-shirt, faded light jeans that are form fitting, black jean jacket, leather belt, white baseball cap and a nice watch and sunglasses. Nothing fancy. Worked out, showered, and cologne.

For the shirt, I always go with something form fitting.

Women love anything that shows off the body because -drumroll- women like nice things. Fucking crazy huh?

So, this goes back to getting fit 101. You don't need to look like Alan Ritchson (Reacher) but at least look like your breakfast isn't a tray of Cinnabon.

Got in, smile and make eye contact with the staff, head high, back straight, act as if you're co owner.

Body language.

Head over to the bar, take your time. Again. Body language.

Bartender: "Skew! How are you? Do you want the usual?"

Honestly. Your drink doesn't matter. What impresses women is being decisive and knowing what you want then telling it instead of asking.

Practice banter.

Skew: "You're just trying to get me drunk so you can have your way with me."

I joke around. You don't have to, but I think it helps.

Bartender: \smiles* "Behave!"*

Skew: Rum and Coke. Double. Tall. Spiced. Order of pork skewers.

The next bit is honestly just inane banter. While I'm talking to her, I'm periodically watching TV, making *eye contact with the people around, and I notice a waitress check me out.

So, I'll pause right here.

When a woman checks you out. She does one of two things. She looks at you then takes looking at something else then looks back at you OR she looks at you and stares for a few moments.

Former is just noticing something she likes and the latter is when you're really higher value.

I didn't get the latter but I can tell she was at least enjoying what she was seeing.

Keep that in mind.

Let's continue.

So, I make an order. Bartender leaves and gives me a hug. 2nd bartender takes over. All filler. Now the good part.

Skew: "I'll pay my bill."

2nd Bartender: Sure.

Waitress that was looking at me: I'll ring him out.

2nd Bartender walks out and the waitress goes to process my order.

Waitress: You don't need to pay for the drink. Just the meal.

Skew: Oh?

Waitress: Yea, I took care of it already. \Smile**

Let's recap.

Checking me out. Check.

Covers my drink. Check.

Eyes. Dilated like a cat on oxy. Check.

Body language: Feet pointing towards me, mirroring my movement, moving hair back.

That's more than 3 IOIs. Easy close.

Let's play.

Skew: What's the occasion? Don't give off a homeless vibe do I?

Her: \Mild concern* No, just heard you were a nice guy.*

Women talk. If you date/bang one then that spreads. This bar is close to my house so I've gone on a few dates here and I've also made a habit of picking up some of the more attractive patrons here so yea...let's continue.

Skew: I don't know who's lying to you but I'm not complaining. Your new. What's your name?

Compliance test 1: Also, when you're treated like you're attractive don't back down. Act as if that's common because it re-enforces that behavior.

Her: <Random generic name>

Skew: Well, <generic name> that sweet gesture put you on my top 10 list of favorite waitresses. Come here. \extend for a hug**

Compliance test 2: Also, now we're in Kino with touching and her giving me permission to the set that expectation going forward.

Skew gets a hug. I smile and tell her to sit down for a moment and keep me company before I go.

Compliance test 3: ^

Her: I can't stay long because I'm the only one working the patio.

Skew: Don't worry about it. Your still new. Tell your boss you're dealing with a difficult customer.

IDGAF attitude. Insert shit eating grin.

Skew: Long day?

Her: Yea, I don't do the sun too well. \Shows me her skin with a slight sunburn**

TIP: Anytime a woman shows you any part of her body that's an IOI. The proper response is to touch and KINO but your boy Skew has got a bit rusty (thanks C0v1d) and didn't catch that until the window passed.

Skew: I've seen worse. Let me guess, you've got some Irish in you.

Her: Good guess! I'm mixed Irish and Metis.

Skew: So, that means that you'd either drink me under the table or be out after a beer. Fucking hell of a wager for a date.

Making this into a man/woman interaction. Also putting the notion of asking her out in her head. I'm a man. She's a woman. You get the idea.

She laughs but I can tell this is starting to drag a bit. Be mindful of the environment. She still has an obligation to her job and she's new. When a woman is in a hurry or doing something, try to make the interaction last less than a minute. The easier it is for her the easier she'll be for you.

Skew: Let's find out. Give me your number and next time we're free we can discuss which of us has the better mix. Pretty sure I've got you beat.

Her: What's yours?

Skew: Guess you'll have to find out.

She writes her number. Get another hug and peace out.

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That's pretty much a play by play. Yea, it's not the best but fuck it. Still something.

I know where I fucked up and where I could've pushed it further. There are some things that I'm sure some detractors are going to point out:

- She was already into you.

- You didn't really cold approach since she already knew of you.

- She was just being nice since you're a familiar to the bar.

- You're probably handsome, tall, muscular, equipped with a horse sized cock, etc.

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To which I will respond in order:

So what? Yep. Happens in new bars too. Probably.

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To the unexperienced, this sounds too good to be true, but to the guys who go out there and approach this is the reality. There's nothing exceptional about this. She was cute but I wouldn't say hot, at least not to my standards, so I don't think of this as an achievement and more as a tool to teach guys who may be struggling how my thought process was.

I STRONGLY encourage you guys to get out there and try this stuff out and write your own FR.

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\Shoutout to Radio for those drills. Otherwise, I wouldn't know that you can look at people.*

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Part 2

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This part is for those guys who need to see an interaction live.

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For Context.

I stumbled onto this awhile back. This has been actress (?) goes on dates with guys and then tries to rattle them. She gives off a vibe of a woman who is well is sporting a high ego, brings nothing to the table, and believes she's got her choice at the table.

So, in short, a typical woman.

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The video is less about pick up and more about interacting with a woman on a date or just when you're out and about. Generally, with a few minor points, I think he's exceptionally quick witted and executed everything near perfect.

The accent and style aren't too much of my taste and his humor is coming across a bit too strong, but overall, I think the guy's on point.

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Here's the video.

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I tried to breakdown the video but there's so much gold in regards to his responses, her tests, how he behaves, and her body language that it would take too long for me to comment and I've already wrote enough for the night.

So, if you guys want to breakdown his play and share what your take away from the video are then be my guests.

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If there's value in this then maybe I'll do more of this stuff. No skin off my back either way.