Have I found a unicorn?

frrunkis · 2016-05-12T12:27:33+00:00

If she's really attracted to you she'll generally behave and act exactly how you want her to. In fact the sluttier girls are the better they are at acting like the sweet and innocent girl who's only a slut for you.

It isn't until you start showing some weaknesses, commit to her more and more, maybe she moves in, you fail a shit-test etc. that the mirage falls.

She may be wonderful, but never give an inch. Keep vetting her and testing her. Try your hardest to look at her from a completely unemotional and unbiased point of view.

It's truly insane how women can go from damn near perfection to complete life-ruining horror show in 5 minutes. This clearly hasn't happened to you yet. But it will if you're not careful.

fnordsnord · 2016-05-12T14:56:49+00:00

No. There are no unicorns. You have found a horse in a party hat, and you like her.

The thing is, that's okay.

I advise against marriage unless you want to become a father. In some jurisdictions, guys who are married to the mother of their children have more legal rights to the children than guys who don't wife-up the mom. Otherwise, marriage is all advantage -> the woman.

rot_barth · 2016-05-12T10:49:33+00:00

After you've been married for seven years, and you discover her texting another guy who she sleeping with, you will know your answer. AWALT

With that said, on paper she sounds better than most.

Remember, you don't own her. It's just your turn.

DoubleTappp · 2016-05-12T11:39:17+00:00

It sounds like LTR material. Keep your shit in line, and your smv high, and you can indeed have a successful relationship.

quicklogaccount · 2016-05-12T11:53:59+00:00

LTR material? Absolutely. Do you want one?

Marriage material? They'll have my head if I say yes. The deal here is KNOW YOUR LAWS.

A Unicorn? I'll be mad at you if you found one, you should have spent that luck proving god's existence or absence, or maybe the undeniable source of morality. Selfish bastard. No. She's not a unicorn.

Some people read about the set of traits that make AWALT and go paranoid. Other men have these gerbils that could find a loophole in a contract with the devil that tell them "She doesn't have THIS one trait of AWALT, hence, she's a unicorn. Go live a happy life and fuck RP losers." Do you see the logical flaw over there?

Women hide AWALT amoral traits, so the lack of red flags should not be understood as the absence of the traits they announce. But even the rare certainty of the absence of some AWALT traits is JUST a happy coincidence, and not by any means indicative of the absence of other traits and behaviors. They should be expected because they are there. Act accordingly and you'll have a pretty decent LTR.

The-Ban-Hammer · 2016-05-12T14:37:55+00:00

Have I found a unicorn?

No. There are no unicorns.

nastynickdr · 2016-05-12T19:40:33+00:00

As long as you own your shit and are being a high quality man you should be fine. Even if shes "perfect" right now doesnt mean she will be 1 year in, 2 years, 3 years etc. People change, and you cant control that. But you can control you and your choices. You have to ALWAYS be willing to leave if things go south. If she sees that you wont leave no matter what shit she throws at you, then you are screwed.

As for her making a lot more than you, this could be a problem, as, unicorn or not, she wants to be with a man who she sees as superior to her. If shes a successful doctor in some hospital, she will probably be lusting for the hospital managers, director or whatever.

hailhailhailandkill · 2016-05-12T14:43:51+00:00

No, you have found a convincing actress. She plays her part greatly.

There is no unicorn, it's devil's horn.

reacon2016 · 2016-05-12T14:20:18+00:00

has been faithful for 4.5 years

Opens can of worms....

Title	Have I found a unicorn?
Author	OymyakonIsCold
Upvotes	4
Comments	17
Date	May 12, 2016 10:41 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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