In which order does one implement TRP?

RPTA3498 · 2017-10-30T23:07:06+00:00

Lift
Read Sidebar
Go out and practice what you've learned
Repeat
Discard what doesn't work

jb_trp · 2017-10-30T23:08:10+00:00

Don't overthink it. Just get into the gym, fix the issues in your life, read the sidebar a few times, read the top posts (preferably from TRP golden age a year or two ago), and you'll figure it out over time.

There are no "betas" or "alphas." Just emasculated men and masculine men who have taken control of their lives and figured shit out. We use "beta" and "alpha" as shorthand to describe these traits. So stop saying you're a "beta" and start taking some responsibility for yourself and improve your life.

You'll learn game and other stuff through reading as well as trial and error.

Best of luck.

GutShot9 · 2017-10-31T18:53:33+00:00

I want to emphasise that you need to practice what you read. All this shit is basically useless if you just read it all the time but don't put it into practice.

The biggest success you will have is when you stop seeing yourself as a 'beta' and more as an 'alpha'. You can start that right now by catching yourself thinking things like "she wouldn't want me, I'm too ..." or "shes looking at me hard, I'll go talk to her after..." and telling yourself they are lies your brain makes up to give you excuses to take the easy path.

This whole philosophy is about taking the path that most people are too weak to take.

Once you start this process you will be amazed at the things you will learn about yourself and the world in general. The anger phase is real and it will hit you hard. But once you hit that phase you need to trust that you are on the right path. You need to accept things as they are and learn to use them to your advantage.

So, to answer your question. Start implementing what you learn now.

Good luck!

Shukakun · 2017-10-31T08:12:44+00:00

I don't want to discourage you from going out and socializing, you probably need to work on your social skills, most people do. That being said, I have a little story that I think explains things pretty well.

Imagine you're a banana merchant. In the beginning, your bananas are small and disgusting, and you're so shy and awkward that you can barely muster up the courage to talk to potential customers. Simply put, both your product and your salesmanship are shit.

So you get really into salesmanship. You buy books, you watch hours upon hours of seminars on YouTube, and eventually you become very confident and charming. Now you're an amazing salesman, you could practically sell sand in a desert. Potential customers don't walk up to you right away, but with your charm and your wit, you convince them to buy your bananas. You get some money and they leave happy, believing they've made a great deal. You keep this going and your business is going pretty well, but when you're at home in front of your mirror, you can't help but think about how you're basically ripping these people off. If you're unlucky, you might even get sued by people who have been dissatisfied with your product. They'll claim you threatened them "Buy my bananas, or else!", or maybe they'll claim you simply stole their money. These things aren't true, but people aren't always honest, and you do understand them in a way, because you don't feel completely honest either.

One day, another banana merchant shows up at your marketplace. You can tell right away that he's a beginner, and he seems very nervous. But the bananas he's selling look incredibly delicious. Both of you are there selling bananas until the afternoon, and you've noticed that he's too shy to call any potential customers over to his banana stand. But that doesn't mean his business isn't going well, because lots of people come over to him as soon as they see his product, amazed by the pristine quality bananas. At the end of the day when all of the customers are gone, you're intrigued to say the least, so you go over and talk to him.

You: Hey, so I noticed you're selling bananas too. How was your first day?

Him: It went pretty well, I was really nervous because I've never done this before, but people seemed to like my bananas.

He shows you his profits for the day. Your jaw drops when you see that this newbie made just as much money as you, a veteran banana merchant, did.

You: Wow, that's not bad. I guess I can see why you're selling so well, you do have some very appealing bananas. How did you get those, anyway?

Him: I come from a small rural town, pretty far away from here. I never talked much to other people. Today was the first time I ever saw this many in one place. But I didn't mind being alone. When I was just a teenager, my uncle taught me how to make my own banana plantation. It was hard work at first and I was often disappointed by how my harvests turned out. But I kept trying and working hard, and eventually I guess I got really good at farming bananas.

You: That explains a lot. It seems like you've put a lot of time and effort into those bananas. Years, even. But you don't seem to be much of a salesman yet. You have no confidence. Don't you think you would feel absolutely devastated if you had a really bad day and didn't manage to sell any bananas?

Him: Not really. I mean sure, I would be happier if I sold well than if I didn't, but I think I'd be alright either way. I'd probably just go home at the end of the day thinking hey, tomorrow is a new day, and I'm sure business will be alright in the long run. I may not be a great salesman yet, but I'm confident that my bananas are a high quality product.

You: What about the money getting to your head, don't you think that would be a problem? I mean, I enjoy being rich, but sometimes I think about where all this money came from. I've had a lot of customers, and while they were eager to buy from me, some of them seem to regret it.

Him: I don't think I would feel guilty or ashamed about having taken peoples' money. I'm proud of my bananas and I genuinely believe that they're well worth the price I charge for them, so my conscience is clear.

You've probably gotten the gist of it by now, but basically, your salesmanship skills is your game, your social skills, your charm, all those psychological tips and tricks you've learned that help a lot when it comes to flirting and getting laid.

Your bananas are the representation of your physical body, your fitness, how good you are at actually having sex. And maybe most importantly, your bananas are your inner game. Your genuine self-image. It's definitely possible to be one charming motherfucker who's very capable of getting a girl to spread her legs, but if you're that charming motherfucker on the outside, but well aware of your flabby gut and your not so impressive skill in bed on the inside, it's likely that the girl will leave feeling deceived and regretting ever spreading her legs for you. And you know where that leads. This is basically the difference between people like Harvey Weinstein and people like Johnny Depp or Robert Downey Junior. They're all highly influential people in Hollywood, and I'm sure they've all had a lot of casual sex with plenty of girls. The difference is that Harvey has terrible fucking bananas, which is why he's a creep that feels that he has to trick girls into having sex with him and then keeping them quiet with a little "Nice career you got there, it would be terrible if anything happened to it, wouldn't it?".

Don't be a Harvey. Be a Johnny or a Robert.

"But it's super hard to become sexy, confident and genuinely happy!"

Of course it is. Everything worth doing is hard. Stop crying and start planting your fucking bananas.

P.S. That...became longer than I anticipated. Should've probably made it its own thread. Oh well. Guess I can do that later if there's a demand for it.

quicklogaccount · 2017-10-31T11:50:29+00:00

Do I continue being my beta self until I have significantly raised my SMV, or do I start implementing what I have learnt so far into my daily actions?

Most things aren't time sensitive. Dress well, keep your hair trimmed. Learn some game. Don't be a push over. These ones you should start now.
Women wise, start approaching asap but be honest. Your game strategy must match your frame and your smv or you'll be seen as a creep. A hot guy can enter a group touching and making sexual jokes, an average one will be a creep if he tries. Use a game that matches your looks.

just wondering whether I need to read more before acting it.

Again, no. Stressing out the stuff above, ACTING is all that matters, don't put a milestone or anything in front of you before you do it.

IVIaskerade · 2017-10-31T13:24:13+00:00

Do I continue being my beta self

Yes, you should, because clearly you don't actually have what it takes to get out and do something.

Title	In which order does one implement TRP?
Author	papparella007
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Date	October 30, 2017 11:03 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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