So I'm seeing this girl. The sex is good so it took me a while to figure out this hang up. She doesn't want to go down. The first instance was when she said that she couldn't do it longer than 2 minutes because of poor gag reflex or something. The next time I was already inside so she said that she didn't want to taste herself. Finally, I just told her to do it and her response was that doesn't enjoy it. I told her that you do things for the other person and that some of the shit she's into isn't on my list. The sex mood was switched off and she turned around. After about 10 minutes, she got up to "watch tv" in another room. I called her shit out and told her that she can sleep in her room and I'll just head home. She tells me that she thought I was mad with her and tried to shift blame on me. Instead of leaving, I stayed the night.

My question is this: Do I drop the plate and tell her why or do I just cut ties slowly and let her come to this conclusion?No oral sex is a big deal breaker for me. My ideal would be she comes around to it as I know she has done cock sucking before but know that sometimes it's better to move on. Sometimes the mind has a hard time with staying objective.