Gents,

Approaching a girl at a place where you both are going to be for a while (like a party, club etc) seems to yield better results for me at the moment. We can spend time enough together, teasing, flirting and most importantly, I get time to demonstrate my high value as a man. She sees this in the way I walk, talk, laugh and enjoy myself.

However, getting good, consistent results from girls I approach during the day is not working out nearly as well for me yet. The approach goes great, she laughs, we have some great sexual tension and almost always they happily give me their real numbers.

But I'm thinking that the problem is that the interaction was short, which it usually is during the day. She's rushing off to work. Going to the gym. Grocery shopping. So I false time constraint, try to get to know her quickly, make her laugh with maybe some teasing, sexual tension etc, get her number and then we go our separate ways.

This is where I stop and ask you guys for advice. I feel like I have two routes to follow from here:

  • Build a little bit of report over the phone, give her emotional spikes and when it's high, try to go for the date. This option makes the most sense to be, because she really doesn't know me yet and this way I still display a bit of my personality through a joke or two and then hope she's ready to go for the date, OR
  • Don't text any "comforty" stuff at all and just assume the initial interaction was enough, so just go for the date.

Neither of these have worked so far. It seems like they are SO into it while we're face-to-face (thus the reason why I want to get her on a date again, face-to-face I can run good game) but over text it usually just seems to fizzle and die. I don't feel like I've gotten one "FUCK YES!" response so far, which is what I want. Even if it is just covertly implied in her girly ways. I feel like I'm not getting the enthusiastic responses I'm hoping for.

  • So how do I display my high value over text?
  • What is the best way to go about getting her out for a date after the initial approach?

Thanks guys, much bro love.