Long story short, I told a chick I’m sleeping with I would be okay with hanging out with her only and “seeing where it goes”. I do have abundance and have genuine interest so it’s not really a problem for me as I work 5 days a week and have 2 days to truly game chicks. I’m spinning plates now but have genuine interest in potentially being in an LTR with this chick.

I tried to make plans for Saturday and she told me she had plans to hang with a dude this weekend and told me she wasn’t gonna “drop him since I only talk to her for sex”. And she is a dating type that has N count of me and former LTR only.. she slept with me because I refuse to date a chick that won’t put out. Her words were “You said won’t date anyone unless you click with them in bed so we will have to compromise.” Again...Only second guy she’s been with, first was an LTR.

My frame has been nearly perfect until now. She has mentioned multiple times “You’re the only guy that doesn’t chase me and blow my phone up. I’m not used to a guy being in control and I don’t like it.”

Anywho, Obvious shit test as I feel she made the plans with the guy to see how I’d react..She said “If you wanted to date I’d probably just cancel the plans with him but it’s clear you only want me for sex”. My response was that “I don’t wanna date right now obviously...But I can’t pursue a chick and see where it goes if she is talking to multiple guys at once”.

She called me out on my double standard saying “How can you expect me to only hangout with you when I’m not the only girl you hangout with.” I told her I’m down to just sleep with her but have no desire to talk to her other than the weekends unless she is hanging out with me only. I tried to convey it in a non needy way as much as possible and told her “You’re the only girl I have any interest in beyond sex, I’m okay with only hanging with you for now and seeing if it’s worth while”.

Have genuine interest in pursuing LTR sometime down the line. She views me as a much higher SMV and my frame has been perfect until this point.

Did I mess up my frame by saying I’d be willing to sleep with only her? She knows I can get other chix if I want so she knows I have abundance. And I told her I didn’t care either way but if she wants to have any chance of us dating that would be my condition.

She cancelled the plans with the guy but as soon as she did it hit me on what I did. Did I manipulate her into cancelling plans? It wasn’t a jealous thing but I didn’t want either of us to be on the fence about what both of us wanted.. made it clear I didn’t care either way but I just want to be up front.

What should be my next move?

Should I text her differently than I would a plate since I’m seeing her mainly on weekend?

I stay 2:3 texting and don’t text her EVER unless she hits me up first...but could this be overkill if I’m trying to pursue a relationship?

Am I good frame wise or what should I do to re-establish frame? No indicator of interest lost but after making that statement I have began to overthink it.

Thanks