Lone Wolf lifestyle

I made a post a few months ago named "TRP made me a Lone Wolf".

Since then, I learnt the art of being alone more and more.

I have become more independent and realised how most people are usually followers. They do not lead, they follow.

If one guy leaves the room, others leave too. If one guy goes there, others go there too.

And it's only when you are able to lead yourself, that you can lead others.

People will only follow you if you are valuable to them (usually requires machiavellian skills) and if you are willing to "walk away first". It's like a "take it or leave it" attitude. If they accept to follow you, great, otherwise you keep going on your path and stay aligned with it.

If you told one guy "Let's go to this one club" and he told you "Nah", you can either enter his frame and become his follower, or you can hold frame and go there alone without him.

I realised most of the actions I used to take were not my decisions, but theirs.

Eventually, I guess it's how you build a strong frame. By remaining in your world, staying aligned with your pre-planned actions and desires.

Since when I found TRP, I seriously started being more and more lonely. Lonely does not mean sad, though.

Actually, I feel stronger than ever.

I always felt like being fake to people just for the sake of having social circles is not what I wanted. And let's face it: if you want to be popular, you have to be fake and machiavellian. If everyone likes you, it means you have different social masks. To be honest, that's just not for me.

I realised I'm now able to take my own decisions and do what I want to do. This is awesome.

Now, there's just one problem, and that is women.

On one hand, the lone wolf lifestyle makes me mysterious and stronger inside, but on the other hand, the lack of social circles is giving me an hard time meeting women.

When I visualized the person I wanted to become, I always thought about those lone wolfs in old movies, such as "James Bond", Clint Eastwood, "Hank Moody" and so on. The strong silent type.

I know these are fictional characters, but it does not mean you can't strive to become like them.

Usually, the lone wolf, has only one way too meet women. And that is cold approaching.

And let me tell you, it's much harder than having social connections.

If I could go back, I'm not saying I would be a machiavellian social guy (I actually still hate that), but I would definitely try to make more friends, and "act" like a friend (giving value to people, which could very simply be a smile), instead of acting like a lone wolf who does not give a fuck about anyone.

On my TRP journey, this is a phase I didn't see coming. The phase of realisation that getting women as a lone wolf is hard as fuck, especially when you are still in high school. In fact, I hope this is just a phase, cause I love being by myself, but I also would love to have an abundance of women when my dick needs to get wet.

The question is, how are you lone wolves living? Are you having troubles getting laid? Do you have any advice for guys like me who are still young?