LTR complimenting other dudes

nobody_thinks · 2019-09-24T01:10:11+00:00

hard next.

I'm not doing X now. Learn your lesson"

she's a dominant slut. The worst kind.

Snowboard18 · 2019-09-24T01:03:08+00:00

She fucked him? Dump that bitch right now

Vermillion_Rx · 2019-09-24T01:19:26+00:00

Yes, you ignore her, specifically by hard-nexting her and getting other women.

She's somehow lost quite the respect for you along the way, before this even happened it sounds like.

If she's not already with that dude she pic'd then she will be soon. Next and forget her while you still have the power to do so. If not, she's going to dump you first. At least you'll assert your dominance if you do it first and send her hamster into overdrive.

You'll kick yourself 10X harder if she cheats or branch swings first. It's already over if she's giving you LTR nuclear-level dread shittests

selfawareblue · 2019-09-24T03:30:24+00:00

My advice - keep reading the sidebar and internalising it. If you do one thing about TRP everyday, it’s reading the sidebar. Read The Rational Male cover to cover, get into Monk Mode.

Do all this shit, and apart from it, do what your gut says with the girl.

Best case scenario - you learn enough to be able to handle her well. Worst case scenario - she fucks around on you, and you learn from experience.

IMO you’re still to learn that a girl’s just one of the things you do. If you respect and value yourself enough you won’t put up with the shit she did. If you were high enough value and had enough options, she wouldn’t do what she did. You still have a lot to learn. Keep learning by doing.

californiawaves23 · 2019-09-24T01:07:22+00:00

The value of the soft next is paramount. The no reply no reach out drives their hamster wheel crazy.

Zanford · 2019-09-24T04:31:41+00:00

"Learn your lesson" is some hard edge disrespect. She has zero respect for you (which is the #1 predictor of cheating), likely because you have failed previous, milder shit tests. It sounds like you let her wind you up easily.

Ghost her and write her off mentally. If she doesn't come back, that's fine, it's much easier to get a new girl than to 'fix' this (excuse or a) relationship. If she does reenage with the proper frame, you can consider it, but you must maintain hand (assent to booty calls on your terms and not much else. Be quick to kick her out of your pace if she starts shit again.)

EDIT: I missed the 'pic of other dude shirtless' thing. She probably fucked him right before/after (or BJ...was the pic at an upward angle? Stew on this imagery to cure your oneitis!) Hard next, full stop. I consider a girl trying to make you worry she cheated as tantamount to cheating and therefore hard next. There's nothing more to say.

civilizedfrog · 2019-09-24T17:00:29+00:00

Bitch sent me a Instagram post of another dude shirtless after and I said "Nice"

What a faggot

SonOfMammon · 2019-09-24T01:56:41+00:00

Narcissistic personality disorder. Get out of there

yzeetrA · 2019-09-24T05:52:09+00:00

sidebar

Andorli · 2019-09-24T06:30:36+00:00

I am assuming this is in US.

Holy shit women there are disgusting.

Hard next.

ALSO READ THE FUCKING SIDEBAR YOU WOULD NOT BE ASKING SUCH RETARDED QUESTIONS IF YOU JUST READ IT ONCE

wanker7171 · 2019-09-24T07:41:59+00:00

Got into some argument

First of all, you know better

Secondly, dude I read this and some of your responses and I get it. You like this girl but the problem is that she absolutely knows you like her more than she likes you. Meaning she has the power in this relationship. Usually I think the guys saying "hard-next" are just a bunch of troll retards who don't know how to offer better advice but this time that is the best advice.

The reason you don't want to is because you lack abundance. If you had two other girls who would love for you to take them out you would have no problem dumping this girl for one of them. This lack of abundance is what is triggering these crazy beta responses from you.

I've been in your shoes, I know how enticing it is to want to stay with her. Drop her and find a girl who will beg you to put your cock in her mouth and bend over backwards to please you. I never used to think those girls existed but now about 2 years into being RPed I have a side girl who I went and saw the latest spiderman film with. She paid for my ticket and started sucking my dick after the usher had done his check. Find that girl(s) for you

BoskOfPortKar · 2019-09-24T09:34:14+00:00

Is this a serious question from a man ?

BigBadBoomchakka · 2019-09-24T10:31:07+00:00

Do not acknowledge her in any way

law_of_life · 2019-09-24T12:10:38+00:00

Send her a picture of a dude body builder just for the lols

haxewep24 · 2019-09-24T19:04:26+00:00

How can you have an LTR when you are 16?

NightOuts · 2019-09-24T20:01:18+00:00

First off - how old are you? I needed context so checked your post history. You're 13?

just dump her man. I 100% guarantee you that this relationship is already over in her head. You don't have to give a reason ... just say that you feel like you aren't ready and that she is free to do whatever she wants (just know that she will fuck/hookup with people you know) Don't be bitter and negative about the shit. When you see her, just say hi and keep it moving.

Oh, and she will try to tarnish your reputation, so be ready for that.

good luck. Crazy how 13 year olders are dealing with this kind of stuff lol

MuleFool42 · 2019-09-24T20:13:16+00:00

Just break up with her. Don't play games and don't date people who play games.

Move on, start treating yourself right, treat other people right, and ghost them if they don't treat you how you deserve to be treated, with respect.

danielcrestwellbestb · 2019-09-24T02:34:58+00:00

Wow you’re a huge fucking pussy for not leaving this trash of a woman. Doesn’t even have enough respect to cheat on you behind your back, does it straight to your face and your bitch ass is crying yourself to sleep aren’t you. Grow the fuck up and walk away

Title	LTR complimenting other dudes
Author	Diuwu
Upvotes	8
Comments	48
Date	September 24, 2019 12:53 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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