Before I took the red pill, I would put women on a pedestal like most of us guys here. I would get oneitis for many of the women I dated. I truly felt lucky to have an attractive woman in my life. This would feel amazing until it inevitably ended.

Fast forward years later, I date many women per month, plate 3 at a time when I'm not too busy. The quality of women has gone WAY up, but I just don't feel great about absolutely ANY of them.

Like, I could give or take a LTR. Talking too much bores me. I know that a hotter girl or one with a slightly better body is just around the corner, so I'm always looking out for the next girl to put on the backburner for when I get bored.

So my question is, how do you guys do it? I'd love to feel some of the excitement about meeting and fucking women that I used to feel. Lately it's just been routine, and like masturbating with someone else's body for lack of a better term. I miss connecting with women like I used to.

For reference I'm 45, in a great sales career, have a side gig and lift 5x a week. Have gone out on more than a dozen dates in the last couple of months, have 2 regular plates currently. Feel free to roast me!