How does an introvert find abundance?

FereallyRed · 2020-01-17T16:18:48+00:00

Most people are boring and small minded.

But you need to interact with the pussy possessors if you want pussy.

Use that big brain of yours and suck it up.

Yes, it's inane, yes, it has no value to you, yes, it's vapid and monotonous.

But it's an essential skill. Learning how to shoot the shit with guys and flirt with the ladies is a huge block of societal proof.

Don't do it because you like it, do it because it is necessary for you to reach your goals.

alphakari · 2020-01-17T17:14:49+00:00

You hate it cause you suck at it. It's boring because you're boring.

tdeanrussell · 2020-01-17T16:21:10+00:00

Introverism is an idea. No human hates socializing they just claim to “hate” it because of their inability to talk to others.

You may have had one bad experience that your brain continues to remind you of when you are approached with a social situation.

My advice:

If you jerk off, stop. Seriously. It will do wonders.

Find a hobby in something that benefits you, to raise your self worth.

You dont have to necessarily have friends at first, just simply talk to others start off with guys its way easier.

Eventually you will think in abundance, you gotta remind yourself that you are the shit. But be humble, nobody likes a bragger.

salinorum · 2020-01-17T15:59:10+00:00

If you’re an introvert, you must have enough interests in your private life to sustain you beyond your ltr.

I am also an introvert and frankly, I’ve just stopped trying to be the sociable guy that our society glorifies.

I find my sustenance by pursuing what matters to me: learning, reading, writing, being creative, being financially solid, and being lucrative with my interests. Socializing here and there is always good, but I don’t need it more than 1 or 2 days a week to sustain me.

You just need to have enough of a life beyond your ltr so she is not your entire world. For an extrovert, that could be a vibrant social life. For an introvert, that could be a rich and creative intellectual life.

Winterwolf98 · 2020-01-17T15:12:59+00:00

To hell with the introvert part. You're too much in your head, lack confidence and give a shit about what others think of you.

What are your lift stats?

Winterwolf98 · 2020-01-17T15:15:15+00:00

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hungkeykong · 2020-01-17T22:09:46+00:00

I’ve been in your situation before. But I realized I was more of a shy extrovert than a true introvert. Mind you, with a great mind, you have enough to tell, and people love to listen.

There are many ways. I switched to being social with literally anyone after I picked up a bagpack and travelled to 10 countries in 20 days. It teaches you a lot about how everyone is fundamentally the same. Great thing was, my weakness somehow turned into my power, because I am more aware of my surroundings and the intricacies of social dynamics, therefore able to dictate more when I am vocal. It’s worth being vocal, trust me.

My trip was before I learned about TRP, and even though I gained a ton of friends, I only had sex with two girls on this whole trip, while really, there was a lot more to get.

I took on a solo trip to a city in Europe after TRP and it was like playing a game, within 5 days I met about 50 people and hooked up with a different girl every night, only this time I rose to the highest heights of any group I entered during a social outing.

The great thing about traveling alone is that first off, no one knows you; you can experiment however you like. The first time I posted regular updates on social media which somewhat kept me in my normal life, not being able to advance and being stuck to a certain degree within my old narrative. I was a nice guy. Good looking, but nice.

The second time around was for me, one night I took MDMA without telling anyone and two hot chicks were low-key fighting with each other for me. I knew I was doing something right when a gay guy who was in our group turned to me flabbergasted about the situation. I experienced the interest of the hottest chicks in every club I entered, and I approached. But I believe that people thought of me more than I though of myself, and it was intimidating at times, but I got better at it along time.

Now when I go to social events I most often have unwaivering confidence and can approach at will. I realized that there are SO MANY hot women that I get along with, and mind you, many of them are intelligent.

My friend, if you feel this now, it means something. Do something about it. It may be tough at first, but you will reap the benefits over time.

Abundance mentality is just the acknowledgement of the abundance of women available, and they sure are abundant.

Hope this made things a bit clearer.

Hedser91 · 2020-01-17T23:46:07+00:00

You dont hate socializing, you're just lazy. I dont respect laziness

frognads · 2020-01-17T16:03:19+00:00

Force yourself to talk to people. You're probably not that much of an introvert. Practise makes you less retarded.

veritasredd · 2020-01-17T15:31:03+00:00

Abundance mentality. You don’t need to have present plates you just need to know to yourself that you can easily generate plates incase of a break up. I know I can.

Proto_Sigma · 2020-01-17T21:10:57+00:00

Go to places you like and do things you like. You'll meet people with a shared interest and that can be the opening for more interaction. I'm a teetotaler so whenever I do get dragged to a bar nothing happens because I'm uncomfortable and mildly disgusted. I'm way more personable when I'm having a good time at a rec sports competition, or playing music, or even doing stand up .Girls just want to have fun. Meet girls doing things you think are fun.

Also the best bonds you can make with other men are forged through shared activity. Get hobbies. Approaching people in line or throughout the day should be part of your homework- just approaching and saying something calmly and confidently is a massive edge.

Snowboard18 · 2020-01-17T21:53:03+00:00

Usually introverts can go full extrovert for short bursts then go back home and recharge. I’d try that for a while and eventually you may start to actually enjoy being around people and your personality will adapt.

yvnglucifer · 2020-01-18T01:16:59+00:00

Do shrooms or molly go to a club lol I’m sure you won’t feel very introverted

officialdownvotesqua · 2020-01-18T02:06:43+00:00

Be in good shape and attractive. Doesn't matter what you say or how you act at that point.

OfficerWade · 2020-01-18T04:44:11+00:00

It sounds like you’re reading too much theory. If interacting with a women is suppose to be the destination you won’t really act on her when that moment happens. Imagine if you were good with women, social interactions but imagine that someone else is out there doing exactly what you want to be doing and you’re the observer. If you get to analyzing the “if, ands or buts” just remind yourself that you’re not observing the confident, sexy guy anymore because you think you are that guy.

Trust me. If you ever seen a couple of 90’s drama or romantic movies where two opposites attract they don’t ever meet until the end of the movie and happily ever after... there is all that but it doesn’t come at once. Just work on observing the guy you want to be. Fake it till you make it works if you’re faking it....

And when I say there is “all that” I’m saying be gentle with yourself. There are no fairy tale endings in life.

ThinkUnderstanding5 · 2020-03-31T13:37:22+00:00

im an intorvert and master at conversations you just suck at social skills you mask your poor social skills by saying your an introvert so either be good at social skills or fuck off

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-01-17T15:08:52+00:00

If you hate socialising then you have a problem that needs to be addressed

Title	How does an introvert find abundance?
Author	Winterwolf98
Upvotes	24
Comments	51
Date	January 17, 2020 3:01 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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