I've gone through the sidebars but this situation seems a bit out of the ordinary. Basically, I got ghosted by this girl several months ago. At the beginning of the month, I got fairly drunk and either I messaged her first or she messaged me first but she ended up profusely apologizing for ghosting me, saying she had been going through a rough time, etc, etc (BS I know) & wanted to make things up to me. Fast forward to the next night, we hang out and I don't try to make any moves because at this point, I'm over her and her games and it was good closure.

She had to go home for Easter (we're in Uni and even with the coronavirus shit, a lot of us are still in town) and I went home as well. Over the next week +, she ends up flirting extremely hard, making future plans, etc etc. I played it off cool and did my own thing which only seemed to draw her in more. I get back to town, as does she, and she goes on a molly/drinking binge and I dont hear for her for 36+ hours.. we were supposed to spend some of the weekend together but all I heard from her was excuses. The next week, I end up at her place at like 2 am... we're both exhausted from the day and we end up cuddling and nothing else. (Now I don't enjoy cuddling especially if I'm not in a LTR but something felt right in the moment). She'd wake up in the middle of the night, kiss me and fall back to sleep and basically treated me like her boyfriend. After this night, she basically went MIA. We'd text every now and then but I'd find myself getting left on read or open frequently (she's been like this the whole time since shes been back). Lately she's just been sending selfies through snapchat and I've been replying on my own time or when I feel like it.

I have other girls in the rotation but this girl sticks out a bit; I don't know if its the night we hung out recently or the fact that I've been dealing with her shit for a minute ( I wouldn't call it oneitis). At this point, should I just soft or hard next her? I feel like if she was going to come around, she already would have. Not to mention, I've given her two chances too many at this point.