LTR of 4 years.

Things got hard w/ covid.I lost frame more than I should.Started arguing back.

Spending more time than usual together made things worst - especially since everything in TX is closed near my city.

Found out completely accidentally that she was texting her ex bf.

I simply told her I would ask her one time.Her response was trying to play dumb to which I simply responded "nbd"

Decided to move out

Completely stuck.Everything in me says there is no going back at all,but I keep thinking about the kid and if this is really the right choice. WTF do I do

Update: it is my kid. it is my first and only LTR

Update 2: Appreciate ya who gave me the words I needed to get my head straight. Some times no matter how solid u think ur frame is, you throw a kid and a female who can fuck everything up in the mix - and it clouds your judgement.