Recently started seeing a cougar. She’s 42. Got a 24 yo son. I’m 30.

We hooked up at my apt but haven’t fcked yet.A lot of our convos were about serious topics. So maybe she got too comfortable.

I peppered in a few sexual teases and I sucked on her titties. But she still didn’t put out. So I dunno what I coulda done differently other than be more sexual.

How do I make my personality more sexual?

And in general for cougars....

Anything you wish you knew before going into it? Things to look out for?

Any general tips from Endorsed and Senior Contributors appreciated.