The stonepimpletilists unofficial, not authoritative, non-endorsed guide to knowing good advice when you see it

Because, reasons...

Commencez-vous

I post my shit on MRP/AMRP. there trickles in a bunch of statements, some contradictory. Some sound good, some are just mean, some make no sense. What do?

First, best, and only advice you really need

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Have you read NMMNG? WISNIFG? MMSLP? Have you gone through the rational male? mindful action plan? Book of Pook? short of throwing you in the chair from clockwork orange, the mods can't do much else to put your solution right in front of you.

No?

Then you're throwing darts at a board, hoping you hit the bullseye. You need the frame of reference. just like that 1950s housewife who gets swindled at the mechanics because he knows that her flux capacitor is faulty, and needs a 300 dollar change. You don't know shit. You don't know enough to even know what you don't know yet.

This is dangerous. Not only are you just implementing by guesswork, you're also most likely using your own personal bias and expectations (which got you in your shit relationship to begin with) to gauge which advice to take. You'll most likely take the worst advice, fuck your life up just as much, if not more (or worse yet, change nothing and spin your wheels in the sand) then go cry on extrp, tbp, relationshits, or deadbedrooms about how useless this place is.

OK, I've read some of the sidebar.

Just ordered NMMNG on Amazon(yes, thats been a justification before from some here) But I can't wait, you must hear my unique story about how she's useless, and I'm just not loved or understood about how bad she treats me, or how great I am

Fair enough, can't stop you. Hopefully you had the good sense to do it in AMRP, because gloves are off here, you wouldn't be the first guy to shit on whinemoreplease (RIP) for being an asshole, delete your account, then go back to your quiet life of desperation.

Heres what you can do to lessen the chances of fucking blind-leading-blind, pitty party, femenine imperative bullshit advice:

• Does the user have applicable flair? It's not a guarantee, but it means that at least a few on here who know what they are doing have already vetted them for stupid bullshit.

• Look through their post history. Small annecdote. Having an internet fight, like a fucking idiot, with some guy giving me the truth about alpha, dealing with women. checked submitted. Found a post where he's asking how to aquire a real doll... I don't know if theres much more he can offer me, and I've wasted my time. A few common subreddits they submit to that let you know it's just an idiot, and you can safely disregard:

1. Circlejerk
2. Purple/blue pill anything
3. asktrp (seriously, that place is shit)
4. anything femenine, 2xx, tumblr etc
5. hearthstone, WOW (any gaming subreddit. I'm not talking a post or two, I'm talking majority posts here)

• Anything that reaks of bravado, macho bullshit etc. We've all been young, and remember the guys who were too busy posturing to actually get laid.

• Anyone who tells you something that makes sense. Seriously. When we all came here, we only knew how to be cucked into a BP relationship of desperation. If you aren't outside your comfort zone here (or if you luckily used to be a great man, but just let it slip) then you're doing it wrong.

• Anyone who posts that any part of your problem is because of her. I don't care if she's devil incarnate, if you go back far enough into the decision tree, there is a part that you can take responsability for. She's a shit woman? Either you haven't led, aren't a good quality man who can command respect, don't have or enforce boundries, vetted a crappy woman, or just had low standards... Everywhere in a relationship is a part where you fucked up, and it does you no favours to blame her for anything. In fact, it shields you from what you actually have to fix. Don't be a pussy and blame the wee little girl for your shitty life. It's not her job

• The extreme sides of the spectrum. Next isn't the first step, it's the last. Because once you remove your sparring partner, you're just kicking the can down the road, and you'll still be that shit tier man, who bought himself a few years time till the next girl is a cunt to you. Same as (I'm going to give it it's own category

• Shaming. Man up doesn't mean you put up with a sexless harpy because shes pregnant/depressed/fat/myopic. Find me an excuse good enough for me to put up with peoples bullshit, and I'll find you a sad little man who can't step up. She depressed? get her a shrink. If she doesn't go, just wants to wallow, that's on her. She doesn't want to get off her ass because she's pregnant? Guarantee if you got your shit together, making a pickle sandwich for herself every now and again isn't going to miscarry. Fat girl embarassed to go to the gym? Imagine how embarassing it is to be the single fat lady whose ex just banged a model? everyone has a tiny violin, and you aren't put on this earth to solve everyones problems, they need to step up, just like you do. all you can do is be the shining example that gets(scares) them into doing better themselves.

• these phrases/themes

1. As a woman
2. Because zombie jesus says
3. My moral code is above ... and so should yours

the first two should be obvious. Theres plenty of christian dudes here, they figured out how to run their fucking household, I doubt Matthew 24:4 reads

Behold, the man should be cucked, as he surrenders his manliness to his wife, because she is sad, and needs a footrub.

De conclure

Too many threads with top contributors, giving top shelf advice, laying the bottom of a pity party of useless advice. It does you no favours, so be careful out there

If I've missed any, please contribute.