You've reached a milestone - you got that number, or that kiss, or that bang, or that group sex. You're thinking "I've made it!"

And then you might think "well, that's the end of it. I guess I don't need to work on anything else."

Yeah. Don't do that.

What Seddit teaches isn't a weekend seminar, a two day vacation from mediocrity. We go deeper.

This is about transforming who you are, every day of your life, and making your mistakes and your successes YOURS, all the time.

So, when I see guys on here hit the jackpot and say "thanks, Seddit! I got ____ and ____ because of you," I'm both happy, and cautious.

I'm happy because someone saw tangible results, results he got from working on himself, and putting himself out there, and risking his pride to get results.

I'm cautious because when people hit success - especially beginners, but also veterans - they naturally start to get comfortable. And comfort, as we all know, is the biggest motivation-killer you can find.

So here's a reminder: this isn't something you do for 3 hours at a time on a weekend night when you're surrounded by people pushing you into it. This is how you should be every day of your life, with everyone.

I myself have fallen into this trap MAJORLY at least twice in my life. Saw some success, and I let it go to my head that I didn't need to work on anything anymore.

Some of you have been to my blog, Table Theory. I write it for my friends, yeah. But most importantly I write it for me: to remind me of all the things I shouldn't be forgetting, and to remind me that regardless of how successful I am, I have to keep putting in the hours if I want to stay that way.

tl;dr

I'm happy for you, bros, but never let your success turn you back into the person who needed Seddit in the first place.