Gym approach

YinMaestro · 2025-01-02T20:58:21+00:00

I personally start off with a hi and smile first. If we start more eye contact after that each visit then I'll approach or offer to spot/give encouragement. If she's lifting next to me like if I am doing deadlifts I'll be like "oh are we hitting ___ lbs today and act impressed by their lift.

nordik1 · 2025-01-02T23:25:33+00:00

Long game is the better play unless the girl is showing high interest off the bat. Even then it can be good to drag it out a little more

You also want to look like a guy who is competent in there. If you aren’t in the top 20% of physiques at your gym (which isn’t hard to do, most people at commercial gyms never change due to shitty diet and training) you’re going to get blown out

The guys saying don’t approach in gyms are just scared or haven’t done it successfully

xanielgreen4 · 2025-01-02T23:34:59+00:00

https://youtu.be/yTaa43xFvIw?si=YyvmsNQlD7jawBB5 watch at 9:14

Own_Cable9142 · 2025-01-03T06:26:52+00:00

Funny story. I was doing some deadlifts with not very much weight because I was out of shape. Then an attractive woman who played professional beach volleyball started doing deadlifts beside me with even more weight than me. In between sets I jokingly said "take it easy with the weights you're making me feel bad about myself" and from that point on literally anytime I would see her she would come up to me to say hi and give me a hug. It was kind of surprising because she was sort of intimidatingly attractive. I didn't date her or anything but I also wasn't trying to because she felt out of my league. If asking girls out at the gym proves to be too difficult maybe start off with some playful banter or self depricating remarks and see how she reacts.

pendragon2290 · 2025-01-02T22:25:09+00:00

Here's my best advice. Don't. Just don't. Women aren't there to get hit on and if you interrupt them while their in their zone you will absolutely destroy your chance. I say this because most women I know that go to the gym BITCH EVERY SINGLE TIME they have to stop their workout to turn down someone. And yes, it happens often.

If there is a woman there that is interested in you they will approach. They will make eye contact, smile, wave, something. Look for those signs and gauge. You're not gonna pull from the gym reliably.

Or if you'd rather listen to the knuckleheads, by all means, listen 🤷

epimpstyle · 2025-01-02T21:54:53+00:00

If you know it is not a good place, why do you insist on still doing it? It is not okay buddy, no matter what any PUA might say or how many YT videos you see approaching in the gym. It's taboo, it's harder in that place, it's sensitive, it's not worth it. Maybe at the end of the program when you go out or when you see the same woman on the street but not in the gym. Make it easier for yourself - work smarter, not harder.

BubbsTea · 2025-01-05T07:09:36+00:00

Don’t be too direct but fuck it man just go for it

Title	Gym approach
Author	TattedBullDozer
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Date	January 2, 2025 7:56 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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