Confessional: I’m a giant pussy

No-Preference8767 · 2024-10-24T23:49:11+00:00

Hot take ,most guys are pussies and that's completely fine. Most men aren't cold approaching at high volume to meet partners. It's nowhere close to the highest ROI. if your meeting women by just existing while being hot that's fine. You can build towards other things if your concerned your look will fade to the point you can't coast ( Money , status in a community , fashion , gym etc.... )

I’ve been in multiple 2+ year long LTRs with wonderful girls.

Most important thing honestly. If your sastified with you long term partners then you don't need to change much as a person . ( If you met them after college I mean . High school and college girlfriends almost dont count because you're not dating adults with adult problems ) I don't see the point of doing cold approach if your getting decent results just by being in the top 10 %

What’s the game plan then?

Well if you're attractive you probably can get away with just being friendly and talkative to people when you're out doing shopping and stuff. You'll ACTUALLY get girls flirting with you from this. Us normies would end up as the funny guy who makes people's days but no numbers / dates 😭

If your insistent on doing cold approach for whatever reason you can start going to bars sober and work your way up to going to events then maybe the malls and then approaching wherever you see girls throughout your life.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-10-24T23:19:57+00:00

Keep the approaches off campus unless you work or study there, you need to maintain plausible deniability because words such as "creepy"and "cringe" are thrown around too much even if you are neither or. Use the surrounding area such as any shopping centers, this is how these 19 year old chicks are getting with "dilfs" all the time.

ThotBubble · 2024-10-25T00:55:07+00:00

I’m not reading this shit just stop throwing yourself a pity. Party go out tonight and try bro fail and try again no excuses no bs no more watching videos or reading posts on the internet go out and get laid dammint you guys are pissing me off there are “leagues” if you aren’t ready to play you will get burned but you get burned and come back stronger to try again fucking shit guys come on snap out of it

Teabaggingcricket · 2024-10-25T02:54:33+00:00

I admire your desire to put yourself out there. What sort of giant pussy has this level of self awareness? Don't overthink it, if you're a tatted bulldozer the ladies shant be able to keep away.

octopuswildernesscat · 2024-10-25T00:33:25+00:00

Good luck man

Flooavenger · 2024-10-25T00:45:50+00:00

Real. This post is a sign for me lmfao

burncushlikewood · 2024-10-25T01:32:07+00:00

Nice dude I wouldn't suggest approaching girls on campus if you don't go there, you're 28! Which isn't too old, in fact you're only 1 year older than me. So my advice on how to man up and approach? The old saying is the 3 second rule, but I think that's kinda gimmicky and dumb, the best thing is your mindset, instead of thinking hey I'm gonna approach this girl and I hope she'll give me the time of day and want me, just go into your approaches not expecting anything, just get used to causally starting conversations with women, you don't have to force anything. If you approach 10 women and sleep with 1 of them that's an insanely good success rate, at 10%, imagine how easy it is to approach 10 women. I think as men we put too much emphasis on being successful in every set, I'm glad you're taking action and actually approaching in person, instead of trying to get girls off tinder. So work on your game, and remember, non verbal communication makes up 70% of communication, so most of what you're communicating ain't coming out of your mouth, you'll be surprised how important body language is in the seduction process, it's simple to start conversations, ask them questions, comment on their answers, make some jokes. Women love attention and talking about their lives, their careers, their pets, their educational background, ancestry or ethnicity, their culture whatever. So keep a log, I think you're already ahead of most men because of your social skills you claim to have despite popular belief, the most attractive quality a man can have is being socially adept.

Competitive-Bill-612 · 2024-10-25T02:09:51+00:00

My guy fact of life is were all fcking pussies at the end of the day. It never goes away even after you got approaching down lock. But thats the fun part right, what we do with our fear is what counts.

My biggest regret was not starting this during uni so much ample opportunities. Only word of advice being not to go hard on volume as you may be labelled as “that guy” try more situational/warm approaches.

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-10-25T06:05:10+00:00

If you are handsome then don't cold approach just hover in an area and see who closes the gap.

I wouldn't go near a campus because you could get a rep. Of course you can go to bars near the campus.

Anyhow the best way it is to practice on the women you see in day to day life and observe how receptive are they to you.

This is easier here in Europe where we don't tip and also staff are not obligated to be nice to people.

The best thing I ever learned is how to to hypnotise myself to do things like gardening that I don't usually like.

The same for talking to women you can suggest yourself to feel very relaxed taking to women and thats the key.

ZenoGeno · 2024-10-25T10:51:16+00:00

If I were called handsome I'd never lift a finger ngl

carlos11111111112 · 2024-10-25T00:46:30+00:00

Find a wing who cold approaches. They help with anxiety. Ugly and average looking guys are forced to approach many women other wise there is 0 chance, so they are forced to develop self esteem and confidence. Which city your from?

DreamShort3109 · 2024-10-25T01:07:45+00:00

Even this guy can get girls, being something of a loser. Guess that makes me a total failure.
Maybe I’ll end it.

berzerker5000 · 2024-10-25T10:38:48+00:00

So try not being such a pussy. the end.

RadiantTry9442 · 2024-10-25T06:09:46+00:00

Approaches are hard for most dudes. Gain some traction on dating apps and if you’re truly handsome, you should do just fine

KoleSekor · 2024-10-24T23:28:31+00:00

What do you do for a living? If you have your bachelor's degree, you could take some classes for your master's degree. I loved telling women I had my master's degree because I'd say it in a way that hinted at a dominant/submissive dynamic 😉

As far as courage goes, it's one of my pillars of masculinity. Women understand they lack courage, so demonstrate you have enough courage for the both of you.

Title	Confessional: I’m a giant pussy
Author	TattedBullDozer
Upvotes	63
Comments	41
Date	October 24, 2024 11:08 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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