What to do after coffee date?

norwegiandoggo · 2025-02-07T20:35:26+00:00

Wait 2 days, then ask her on a new date. This time; something a bit more intimate like cook for her at home with potential for hanky-panky

Blitted_Master · 2025-02-07T20:39:36+00:00

When it ended you should have asked her back to your place.

AsianAssHitlerHair · 2025-02-07T20:33:54+00:00

This depends on her interests. Does she like to drink? Wineries are fun and could be done cheap if you do a tasting. Any other activities she enjoys

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-02-07T21:11:16+00:00

I’d text the next day. Say you had fun we should do that again sometime. Then gauge her response. Ideally you want “yeah ut was great. When would you be free”

supercalifragi123432 · 2025-02-08T05:19:46+00:00

Fuck

roakmamba · 2025-02-08T05:50:21+00:00

If it was going good, you should have moved to another date after the coffee date or asked to grab some dinner. Hit her up in 2 days and schedule a date

Dom-Nyc · 2025-02-08T02:23:37+00:00

Dude that’s great you had a nice coffee dare. Usually im always very communicative. I let them know and keep the conversation flowing. Escalate the conversation to hopefully seeing her on the weekends and make plans.

Have a game plan for it and take it from there.

Dandys3107 · 2025-02-08T07:19:46+00:00

Don't get attached instantly or appear too needy, keep in touch, and ask her soon on a next date, where you can escalate your intimacy and connection much more.

stugat · 2025-02-08T13:40:32+00:00

What the f*** is this sub with these answers… Dude, don‘t stress over when and how you text her next time. Just text her and say you had a great time and hope she got home safe. Talk a bit and set another date this time with something different where you 2 have the chance of laughing and getting a bit closer. Feel the vibe when you touch her arm and get closer, she already likes you if you‘re on a second date. Give her a kiss and then just see where the time and life takes you 2. If you want a girl and want play mental games the whole times, sure d what else are saying. But if you want a normal girl and are a normal guy, just be yourself and you‘ll find the right girl for you

tfd543 · 2025-02-08T13:56:24+00:00

For next time, you should plan the next date already when you are with her in person at the first date. This it’s important because it’s harder to get a yes through texting and also the girl is in another emotional state after you part ways. You can still shoot ur shot but remember to ask her out already at the end of the 1st date.

throwaway-research1 · 2025-02-08T11:12:11+00:00

The only correct thing to do after any and all sorts of dates is: ask her back to yours

EetinAintCheetin · 2025-02-08T04:24:34+00:00

No. Let her worry about texting you. Stop living in a world where you have to be worried if the woman is pleased with your performance on the date. Start living in a world where you already know she wants you and where she is worried whether you like her enough to want to see her again.

Title	What to do after coffee date?
Author	Heartbroke1039
Upvotes	26
Comments	16
Date	February 7, 2025 8:28 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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