Hey guys! Not gonna lie I’ve been absolutely sucking it lately, and I have no idea why. My strategy hasn’t changed, and my game has improved, or at least I’m cognitive of sticking points. It’s been about 3.5 months without pulling, or having a successful date, despite constant effort. Now that doesn’t sound too crazy, poor me right? but after a few hundred approaches to no avail, not to mention dates going absolutely fucking nowhere, which was rare before, I’m feeling the struggle, I’ve cried, but also becoming more motivated and determined as a result, grateful for the lows, it fires me up. I’m starting to find my failures hilarious at this point.

Anyways, since yesterday, I decided to make a full account of how many approaches it takes EXACTLY, until my next pull/f-close. Yesterday I did 16 approaches, and 8 daygame approaches today. From this

My rules from now on are as follows:

Follow up with every number, and re-engage at least once. 15 sets a night minimum, 5 day game sets per day (that I go out), 4 sessions a week (day and night combined). Every night game set I will attempt 3 times to hook.

Last night my goal was to try to enjoy myself, self amuse, dance, and do more social opens towards the beginning of the night, and it got me in a good space. I tried some ridiculous openers, Bohemian Rhapsody was playing, and after it finished I went up to a group of 4 and said “excuse me ladies, I’m just a poor boy nobody loves me, how’s your night going” got blown out, it was hard to follow it up XD, I don’t think they got the joke. Approached a very hot girl and we were getting on but she was just looking for attention and led me on and other guys too I saw.

Today on the beach I did 8 sets, got 3 numbers. Mostly fast boyfriend rejections.

Cant wait to game tonight!