Guide To Making, Nurturing And Maintaining Female Friendships: Any good advice out there?

ForgotUserID · 2014-04-01T09:30:12+00:00

ITT nobody knows how to have a female friend. My best friends have always been women. Easy, treat her like a girlfriend but don't kiss her or fuck her. You don't have to say you're friend zoning her. You both have it clear you're trusting friends that bounce advice off of each other.

People will imply there's something more going on. When they say "Wow you guys seem like good friends". Don't shy away from it. Say "Not just that, we're GREAT friends!" it's not complicated. Has worked for over a decade for me. You don't need to game a best friend.

chiralcompound · 2014-04-01T20:11:01+00:00

I've always found that I click more with women than men. It's always been easy for me to make friends with girls...but I think that comes from having 3 younger sisters that I've always been really close to.

A lot of my really close female friends are people who I originally approached because I thought they were really attractive...and things just didn't go that way.

You'll hear a lot of guys bitch about being "friend zoned," but if you ask me, it's a blessing in disguise for an awesome girl to want to be your friend. If you can just contain your dissapointment that this one woman out of several BILLION on earth doesn't want to sleep with you, you may just find that all the qualities that made you want to sleep with/date this person also make them a pretty cool person to hang out with.

You want to meet/befriend women? Just talk to the girls you normally would talk to, but don't have the explicit expectation or plan set in your mind that things will escalate to physical intimacy.

I personally never turn down the opportunity to make a new friend...male or female. Even if it's someone I don't have much in common with, even if it's someone who's otherwise a social pariah, even if it's a girl that "friend zoned," me.

Ultimately the larger your social group is, the better and more opportunities you will have to meet women who will be attracted to you.

Possibly the best thing about having female friends is that it really helps build your confidence...when a lot of your close friends are ridiculously hot women, it makes you more comfortable in your own skin around other beautiful women.

Guys will also respect and want to be around you...they'll aspire to be around you and be friendly to you, and they certainly are less likely to be confrontational or rude to you, lest they risk ostracizing themselves to your hot friends.

shitsfuckedupalot · 2014-04-01T05:03:53+00:00

well i dated a girl that got buddy buddy with all my female friends, and they picked her over me.

Please_Send_CDC · 2014-04-01T04:40:22+00:00

Basically take any information on seduction and tone down the kino / physical escalation. I'd also advise less risky moves as you're aiming long term.

And remember that the same rules that apply for your male friends. E.G. Don't cock block, point out hot people, stuff like that. Don't be afraid to wing for them, they are some of the best wings you can get.

ironsuperman · 2014-04-01T05:15:28+00:00

Same as male relationships. Any good relationship requires give and take. What you have to offer to the other person and what s/he has to offer to you. A relationship fails when it becomes a one way street.

WhoTheHellKnows · 2014-04-01T04:35:12+00:00

All those things that get you friend-zoned? Do them.

Please_Send_CDC · 2014-04-01T04:22:21+00:00

Why are we upvoting for female friendships? The only way this could relate to seduction is using them as pivots/social proof.

grayman12 · 2014-04-01T04:29:38+00:00

Simple. Do what you would normally do but don't escalate.

Title	Guide To Making, Nurturing And Maintaining Female Friendships: Any good advice out there?
Author	lxd123
Upvotes	34
Comments	21
Date	April 1, 2014 2:05 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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