Before you start reading this thread, I want you to know that this is my first post on Reddit, and that English is not my first language, cause I live in Stockholm, Sweden.

Background information: 18 year old virgin, living in Stockholm, Sweden. Even though I am a tall good looking guy, with a beautiful face, specially eyes (according to what relatives, friends, strangers, classmates who have been the best looking girls in the whole school, ordinary classmates and other people have been telling me), I'm still having hard times with the opposite gender. Shyness was a big issue for me during my childhood, and it seemed impossible for me to look a person in the eyes, I was a bit of a introvert. The situation is different today, I and have no problem with staring into the barista's (HB9) eyes until she puts her eyes away and starts smiling. I have no problem to look people in the eyes, for whatever it takes, and say what I want to say (questions, advices etc.) Simply, I have no problem holding conversations with people, guys or girls, strangers or not. BUT, This do NOT apply, when I'm about to APPROACH girls who I have intentions with. For example, I wouldn't approach the barista if I had another intention than buying coffee.

I am a virgin, who every Monday needs to listen to his classmates bragging about their affairs with girls. I have been with 1 girl, a relationship which ended 4 years ago, when I was 14. We didn't do anything more than kissing (not making out), hugging and holding hands. Since then, I haven't been in any kind of relationship, and the only physical contact I had with the opposite sex I just hugs.

I have being around on this subreddit for a while, so I have some knowledge about seduction.

So know, to the summary. I want to get out on the field and start "hunting girls". My goals are, firstly, to lose my virginity with a girl. My only expections is that she should be clean and neat, but she doesn't need to be a 10, she could be a 5. I only expect her to be hygienic. My second goal is to win over my fears, and be able to approach girls with which I gave intentions with, at the same way as I approach girls without having something in mind. I want to develope my skills, so that I can get the GIRLFRIEND that I want.

My question is simply; how do I reach my goals? Plz seddit, give me every tip and your thoughts on what I should do.

Thank you

Tl;dr: 18 year old virgin. Living in Stockholm ( the city with the most beautiful and open minded girls, ironically probably also the easiest city to get laid in). 1 girlfriend, 4 years ago, only kissing, not making out. Want help to get out and start hunting for the opposite sex.