For all those people who give people advice on here to just go for it, to just do it, or don't over think things, you are absolutely right!

Speaking from a guy to dating girl perspective, Whatever the notion is; approach her, kiss her, hold her hand, whatever it is...JUST DO IT!

Recently went on a first and second date with a girl. I decided to not think too much and just have a good time. We walked around for a while and I wanted to hold her hand (on the second date). I am not smooth, i'm not slick and I dont try to be so instead of over thinking about it, I just reach down as we were walking and grabbed her hand loosely. She grabbed back. I even joked about how i was wanting to do it and I'm not the smoothest guys. She laughed at it and just held my hand tighter.

Holding hands back to the cars, we hugged, she said she had a great night and after I made sure she wasn't making a mad dash for her car and I just went in for the kiss and she kissed back.

I have always been the person who over thought things and most likely missed potential experiences because I was afraid that the person didn't feel the same way. But I followed my gut and we've got a third date this weekend.

tl;drWhen in doubt, JUST DO IT!