Infield Report- Mall Pickup- Critiques appreciated!

aminl · 2016-12-10T02:16:44+00:00

Good start, how about just chatting with her a bit even though she does have a boyfriend? Maybe ask her about her dating experiences? Could teach you a lot and be fun

https://aminl.com/blog//i-have-a-boyfriend

failatsomething · 2016-12-14T21:51:46+00:00

Good job here again IndianWise. I like a few things you're doing: 1)You seem to have a good sense of humor and like to self-amuse (do more of this in set). 2) You intro strong and confident. 3) You don't bounce out of sets too early. You ended this set early, but you at least asked for digits before bouncing. Then you stuck around and tried to persist. I like that.

The main reason this interaction didn't work out is that you went for the number close too soon. You didn't solidify attraction. It seems like you ran out of words and instead of finding the words you asked for the number. So, like last time, talk more :)

I break out of my bitch-butterfly mode by going to a random girl and asking her if she liked small-penis guys. Obviously, she walks away. I then do a few jumping jacks and pushups in the middle of the mall, and my God mode hits me. My friend comes over to me, shopping bag in hand, and says I'm looking seriously confident. He then points out a cute girl walking right towards us, wishes me luck, and pushes me into her path right as the girl is right in front of me. I snap into action right away.

I like both the self-amusement and your friend. It's good to go out with a buddy that knows what you're up to and encourages you. Good stuff.

Me: You're really cute, I had to meet you. Girl (startled- I had been pushed into her path and opened immediately): Woah, I'm way too old for you.

Solid opener.

Me: Really? Why don't you guess my age? Girl: Um...18? Me (shaking my head): Mm, no (I'm pointing upwards right now). Girl: 21? Me: One more! Girl: 22? Me: There we go! Girl is laughing.

Nothing wrong with how this went. Laughter ioi.

Me: Wow, do I really look that young? I've just left college.

Didn't work against you in this interaction, but I'd try to move on from your age pretty quick in your interactions. Since you are younger, girls will pick up on that and test you. If you react when you are called on your age, you will lose the girl. If you maintain your cool, you're good.

Since you are younger and will get called out on this pretty frequent, have some stock responses ready to go. Eg "I'm 18 and live a crazy life. Plus I could tell you what the 80s like." You might be too young to get the Cam'ron reference (fuckin with you) but you get my point. Have fun with it whether you go with your real age or not. Don't get hung up on this. Just know you will be asked your age. Give your answer, then move on. Don't be phased by talk about age. Or anything else, but you're going to be tested for age a lot (my guess).

Girl: I'm so sorry. I'm just, like, really out of it today. I had a really bad day at work. Me: Yeah, I just bombed an interview. Girl: Oh, I'm so sorry.

I normally wouldn't match her negative vibe, but you changed it around immediately with the introduction. Just don't ask about her shit day (which you didn't do).

Me: Yeah, not so good. I'm Parker. Girl: I'm Amy! At this point, I do something someone taught me- I take the girl's hand as we shake hands and continue to hold it. She is not letting go.

Love doing this. Her not letting go.. ioi.

Me: Amy... (I repeat her name because my mind blanks for a second)

This is fine. Not ideal. But fine.

Amy: Salem (She says something like this- I think she was trying to say her last name? Regardless, I don't hear it clearly which explains the next bit) Me: What?

Come on dude. You made her laugh. You're holding her hand. She's BEGGING you to say something.

"Malls are crazy during the holidays blah blah I like a little crazy though and you seem like you'd be a little crazy blah blah." lol

Me: Look, it was great meeting you- unfortunately I have to split, so I was wondering if we could exchange contact.

You almost had her hooked. Should have kept the conversation going a little longer to solidify attraction before pushing for a date. You could have taken the conversation anywhere!

Amy: I have a boyfriend. Me: That's okay, I'm not the jealous type. Amy: No, no his name is Javier- I can show you pictures, he's real and everything, I promise.

blah blah lol maybe she likes Javier and wouldn't have done anything with you but you clearly were able to spark some attraction with this girl and probably could have made more happen by pushing the interaction and figuring out logistics (if all of Javier's coworkers work in the mall it won't happen).

Either way, you made a positive impression on her and ran some good game. You just stopped short.

Me: Alright then, I better be going. Amy: Hey, I just wanted to say that I really love your confidence- better luck on your next interview! Me: Here, let's hug this one out. We hug and wave goodbye.

She was disappointed it was only hug also ;)

I like the detail you put into these write-ups. It makes the breakdowns possible.

Keep sarging and keep writing about it. I'll keep do the same :)

DaygameCoach · 2016-12-10T03:27:40+00:00

Great that you are opening.

Stop having other people push you into approaching. Do it yourself.
Stop lying. You need to be confident in who you are and your identity.
She may have been shit testing you about age.
Read all the sidebar help.
Stop doing whatever that "bitch butterfly" thing is and stop opening women with the intention of offending them or talking about penises.
Work on your confidence, inner, game, and approaches. Ideally, you should be able to approach on your own without a friend pushing you, bitch butterfly, or jumping jacks.
Kill the self-limiting beliefs. If you think there are limited options, for you it does. Even slow malls generally have decent hired guns.

yerbamatelate · 2022-02-13T10:39:27+00:00

This is the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard. I know this thread was made is 2017. The year is 2022. She wasn’t interested then. She’s not interested now. No woman would be interested in that sloppy mess.

She literally was trying to shove this kid out of her to continue her day.

The boyfriend line is the solid closer girls use to tell you they are NOT interested. Not. Interested. There is no wiggle room. Women have seen men respect other men’s claim over them, more so than if they flat out rejected a man. Women will rather save their fucking time and energy. Because while you’re trying to get your dick sucked, they are trying to make sure you don’t suck another ounce of their time.

Ya’ll are delusional as fuck on this thread.

Title	Infield Report- Mall Pickup- Critiques appreciated!
Author	IndianWise
Upvotes	3
Comments	12
Date	December 10, 2016 1:24 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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