Is being weird bad?

BigSnips · 2018-01-02T03:39:47+00:00

Being weird is bad when you don't own it.

You sound like a younger dude, but when you get more into your young adult life authenticity starts to be really attractive.

You've got to buy what you're selling though.

antoniofelicemunro · 2018-01-02T03:31:15+00:00

It's all about confidence, man. If you're confident enough and not arrogant, you're good.

LimitedContributor · 2018-01-02T04:44:11+00:00

They got different types of weird. What's weird to someone isn't to someone else. Its generally bad though. Just know the limits.

SpinPlates · 2018-01-02T05:16:55+00:00

I was "weird" as fuck 5 years ago and then the culture changed.

Now everyone is wearing black heavy metal t shirts with Baphomets on them and skateboarding. It's like mainstream pop culture took my identity.

I'll be weird again when fashion shifts again.

dondraper36 · 2018-01-02T13:00:02+00:00

I like the term "congruence". I believe that you can be whatever you want as long as your behaviour is aligned with your mindset.

bubba2match · 2018-01-02T07:33:02+00:00

Being weird? No. Thinking that weird=bad? No. There are two levels to this: Being and labeling. You can't help being yourself. You can, however, help the label you put on yourself. You can also help the associations you make with that label. It sounds to me as though you're making the association of bad with weird. While mainstream society may think that this is true, there is a large portion of our society that associates weirdness with good qualities...like bravery and uniqueness. It's up to you to define your own words and the associations you make with them. It's also up to you to decide that you are good no matter what those labels and associations are.

brianbria · 2018-01-02T12:05:25+00:00

Yes. It's bad. You must get rid of it and kill it. It can't be part of your personality at all. You must be normal and conform. Conform damn you. Conform!!!!

GoldenDicket · 2018-01-02T04:30:13+00:00

I've been weird for a long time. I thought it was scary. I was worried that it was bad, but I kept being weird around people because like you it is just a part of my personality. People will call you weird like it is a bad thing. Forgive them and keep being weird because being weird is not bad. I kept being weird and I realized that everyone is weird and it's okay because life is weird. Our brains are weird. God is weird. Part of the definition of weird is supernatural. So you are supernatural. That is weird.... and I mean that in a good way.

Title	Is being weird bad?
Author	lzao1
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	January 2, 2018 2:58 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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