Hey there,

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I recently started dating at the age of 24 and went on my first date ever with a girl I met through Tinder. We had pretty good banter up until the date, so I felt relatively okay anxiety wise upon meeting up with her. We scheduled for a typical coffee date at 6pm last night. Upon greeting her, I was relieved to see she wasn't a middle-aged man ready to catfish me. In fact, she was just as cute as I'd hoped!

Anyways, I greeted her with a hug and so began our date. I tried to relieve some of the tedium that this interview like date can be(so I've heard) by playing people watching/ guessing what they do. Things were going well with some light kino, but I could tell that I needed to change things up lest the date loses steam. I suggested a walk, but as it was snowing cats and dogs, I pointed to the mostly empty mall as our venue of choice. I find it easier to converse while doing something as opposed to sitting opposite of each other. More banter and fun ensues as we tour around the place.

Again, after another 15-20 min (guessing on time) I suggest we go check out this cool arcade bar down the street. I actually did want to check it out and play some games. Luckily, she was down and the date-train continued along. I was genuinely having a good time as we both got more comfortable with each other. And going to the arcade was definitely a winner. It provided ample opportunity for flirting and general merriment to occur. We played a wide variety of games and I continued with my light touching here and there to show interest, but wasn't sure/ brave enough to try stronger levels of escalation. By the end of this part, we were getting ready to play another game. I chose X-men and she mentioned that she liked the x-men or something but hadn't seen Logan. I teased and flirted with her on this. The game was coming to a close and her character had perished to some mutant sent by Magnito. I quickly followed suit. We still had some coins, but I decided to go for broke. In connection with the game, we played and her mentioning that she hadn't seen the movie Logan before, I suggested we go back to my place and watch Logan with some food. She agreed to come with me!

We got comfortable on my mattress in front of the tv and watched a movie (Thought Netflix had it, but we ended up watching The Conjuring). There was a whole lot more touching her as we got closer. Tbh, I waited way too long to go for the kiss. In fact, it was probably almost halfway through the movie when it happened. A lot of eye contact, a few looks at her lips, and bam. I went for it. Man, did I find out how bad I am at kissing lol. Not so bad to kill the mood, but I'm about to do some research on technique. It was a peck. I leaned off a little bit and only went back in at the end of the movie. I basically said as I was maintaining eye contact during the credits, "I really want to kiss you right now." She smiled, I went in, and the rest is history. I lost my V card and had a good time while at it. I have a lot to work on as far as my skills in the sack are concerned, but it feels pretty good to have this done. And to top it off, I find the girl enjoyable to be around outside of sex. Though I say that, I feel confident knowing I'll be okay if nothing comes of this.

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Any tips for improvement in the sack? Kissing, eating a girl out, foreplay, etc. Any and all tips are welcome!

Also, I'd like to go on a second date with her, but I am unsure how to proceed. How would you guys do it?