Question for the men

Tannerite2 · 2022-01-07T19:24:39+00:00

Your minimum requirements knock out like 99.9% of guys. You will not be able to find many (if any) guys like that online who are interested in you and in a LTR. You mentioned you want someone in your parents socioeconomic class; well that's probably your best bet - finding someone through them or their friends or people you met at your private school.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-01-07T16:28:24+00:00

Which apps are you using to get internet dates? I recommend hinge if you aren't using it already, easier to get a feel for someone's vibe there before you meet them. The others can be more tuned for casual dating.

As for finding a boyfriend, you might be better off looking for him in person. Maybe start going to networking events if you're trying to find career driven intellectuals? If you like someone, take the initiative to ask them for their contact information to stay connected and maybe even grab a coffee sometime.

Note: In my experience, I have found the more built men are usually not intellectuals with 9-5 jobs but I could be totally wrong.

No, you're generally right. Don't know how built they need to be for you, but the meatheads do tend to fall under that category.

Own_Use_5022 · 2022-01-07T17:40:45+00:00

The only left question here is, what can you offer?

UpOrOnTheRocks · 2022-01-07T16:57:16+00:00

Private college degree?

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-07T21:42:27+00:00

Go where the men are.

NotReallyThrowaway22 · 2022-01-07T22:01:58+00:00

Hey, just giving my two cents here as a man that fits those requirements:

1) it's very important you look for someone you're compatible with personality-wise. Personally if i don't click with a girl that doesn't do it for me. It's all about chemistry really, something you can't really explain. Then there's the whole long term compatibility thing, but for me it's much easier to work out things from that pov (not for my ex though) 2) sadly, some people statistically won't be into you. If you are picky (which i get, cause i am) it may be hard for you to find someone. And that's ok. Like, for example I'd 99% not be into you because I'm into tall and lean girls (even the relatively flat chested ones with small boobs and butt). Lots of girls are not into me cause I don't have the prettiest face and I don't like the Chris Hemsworth build, but a have a more natural one (e.g.: charlie cox).

TL;DR: look for people with personality and looks you like, be patient

loofyd · 2022-01-08T09:17:36+00:00

Might not be much but some men (even good ones) might be intimidated by women at the gym or well built women

Try being approachable as that could help you

SpotGullible2150 · 2022-01-16T05:59:49+00:00

I don’t mind marrying a fbb lol

IceBerg3000 · 2022-01-08T07:39:55+00:00

First off, you shouldn’t be looking for anything, just let them come to you.

If they aren’t man enough fuck em.

Make sure the person can make you laugh.

& make sure they are done with the hoe faze, that’s really the hard one. Because these Sucka ass fools are the ones that get you.

Other then that just have fun, don’t be out here with intentions trying to see if he fits a check list.

MA_CA_NV_CA · 2022-01-08T06:15:09+00:00

For a high quality LTR / marriage partner if I were female I’d be going to a church / synagogue / mosque / temple every week. Ideally the same one your parents go to if you’re close enough.

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-01-08T12:46:39+00:00

I'm 6 2 33 year old senior engineer from Australia.... I'm not getting married. It is a bad deal.

But you're doing the right things. You might have to ask them out with women being equal and all now.

LordCarnifex · 2022-01-07T16:37:43+00:00

Tell me minimum height, minimum salary, and build you would accept. You can use a well-known celeb as an example of a guy who isn't super hot but cute enough to where you'd be interested if he met the minimum height and salary requirements. Also, what do you do for a living and do you want to continue to work after you meet this person and eventually get married? What age range are you looking for?

2022-01-08T20:25:00+00:00

People who want certain socio economics usually meet up at work, at uni or at friends parties.

Why didn't you meet anyone at college?

EdselQ · 2022-01-09T15:53:42+00:00

As for your requirements, i think it's a pretty steep one. Not saying it's impossible, but you should prioritize which one is more important, his brain or his body. I'd suggest you find guys that's suitable with you having conversation and be smart enough for you, because being with a person not in the same wavelength is pretty troublesome

Title	Question for the men
Author	UpOrOnTheRocks
Upvotes	2
Comments	44
Date	January 7, 2022 4:00 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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