Hey. I was thinking about writing field reports to improve on my game and keep myself motivated and I thought why not share it in here so that I can motivate someone just as some of the guys in here have helped me.

So im 21M still got the V card, consider myself decent looking and with good social skills but Ive had some rough teenage years and never had any sort of sexual interaction with women. That snowballed into me really hating myself and believing I just cant attract any woman into my life, which is what im trying to change by cold approaching.

I failed like 3-4 times going out to cold aproach. But this week I got some free time and told myself I was gonna go out every single day of the week and try until I made it. So today was day one, I walked around a park for like 2h too scared to do anything. I saw a couple of cute girls walk past me and was too scared to say anything. Some minutes later I sat on a bench to rest when I saw those girls laying on the grass. I tried to chill, got my favourite work out music on my earphones, drank a sip of water and went for it. I thought, ive been stuck all my life with women with how I behave, so ive got nothing to lose if I try different.

I went and told her

- Excuse me, I saw you while I was waiting for a friend, thought you were cute and wanted to talk to you.

She stood up and smiled at me, and I kept it going with cool vibes and asked her name, I shook her hand and her friends too and taught her: im sorry ill just be flirting with your friend for a moment. She introduced herself and we had a casual conversation, heres where I kinda froze up, of course I wasnt my most social self cause my heart was pumping like crazy but It went ok. I asked for her number and she told me if I had IG. I told her I actually dont (truth) and I was kinda cold cuz I wasnt expecting that question. She told me it was a bit unusual to give me her number out of nowhere and I told her she didnt have to give it to me if she didnt want to, but she told me she did want to and typed it in. I said wed see each other then and left.

I know the development of the conversation and the close up werent as smooth as the approach itself, but my brain was going crazy by the realization of this shit actually working, of the girl being actually flattered by me going out to talk to her. So yeah go for it guys, it does work, its not some wowoo bs. Ill go out tomorrow and try to go for 3 approaches and get better at it.