Men tend to put women on this super high pedestal and that hurts their chances for social interaction with them. A lot of guys are perfectly fine talking to a male stranger and cracking jokes, but as soon as a woman comes around they’re mute. Instead of being so concerned with whether or not she likes you, be more concerned with whether or not YOU like HER. That is the whole point of social interaction right? To find people you connect with? Stop overthinking your own personality and just get out there!