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[–]CompetitionFair7686 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
And her out, go on a date with her, hit on her, go for a kiss, have sex. Repeat the same thing for a couple of months and then ask her to be your girlfriend.
[–]Glittering-Board9067[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I got what you are saying. But, the question is what do I message her? (To start the convo, so that I can ask her out)
[–]CompetitionFair7686 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You can text her something that might get her to laugh, like a funny observation about her when you met her, or about some photo or story of her, or making a funny assumption about her based on what you have perceived about her. Only you know what you saw in her. The goal is to get her smiling/laughing with you
[–]srosete 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Glad to see people who advice a relaxed approach. 90% of this community always go for the "you are cute lets go on a date" thing right off the bat and forget to make here get interested in the frist place
[–]Creepy-Storage-1786 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dating is for girls you are already sleeping with
[–]whale_sports 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
"Was cool getting to know you, and I want to take you out next friday night..."
[–]Glittering-Board9067[S] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Bro I’ll come across as a creep and she won’t reply for sure
[–]WilhelmTrooper 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You regret the shots you don’t take. Just tell her you want to take her out on a date. She says no? Good, then you can move on to someone who will like you and want to go on a date with you instead of being stuck on this one person
[–]whale_sports 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then she didn't enjoy your company as much as you think she did.
[–]nopenotmedude 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
He came here with a pretty honest question and is just getting real shit replies.
I have flubbed the Ig game pretty hard so I’m following intently here. I would however say that scouring her profile, find a thing she posted that you know some shit about or are also interested, and then like the pic and send a dm about it “I thought I was the only person in the neighborhood that cared about west African bullfrogs! We should go to the bullfrog convention next week”
[–]Glittering-Board9067[S] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks bro, appreciate it. Also just to update, I texted her a simple, “Hi, what’s up?” and it worked. I’m texting her now.
[–]nopenotmedude 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Godspeed
[–]whale_sports 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The OP did "scour" her IG...they had "good conversations"...and she gave it to him
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