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TIL there is an actual conspiracy against men. This is depressing
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 06:38 PM
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I dont think itll work. Its about criticizing women as a class. I think it just gets under any woman's skin, and collectively they concluded that generalized criticism against women is mysogyny, saying "all women". Wherever they see generalized criticism they will try to censor. A better solution might be to work in qualifiers in our posts like "most" or "some" or even better: the group of childish women (which we know is pretty much ALL women), which is less harsh because any women reading can …
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 06:40 AM
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It was a canaanite baby, so it was ok
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 05:21 AM
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Idk ive been witnessing extreme polarization. People are shutting down their reasoning, they arent listening. We need extremely succinct analysis to convince anyone because they have short attention spans. But its too complex, you cant dismantle years of conditioning in that short of a span. I mean can a girl really be red pilled? Openly admit they manipulate through emotions and solipsism, especially since theyve used it their entire life. A girl told me rating women with a number scale is dehu…
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 05:12 AM
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Its destroying the country tho
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 04:50 AM
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Something that i always like to do is play the piano, and get lost in the possible melodic patterns and beats that can be created. I can do this for hours. Its actually really fun to plunk around and try to synchronize your fingers and see how far you can take it. Supposedly anatomists can recognize a musicians brain by noticing the bundle of synapses connecting the right and left hemispheres is thicker. I always imagine it makes me more intelligent somehow. Kinda hard though if you dont have a …
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 04:43 AM
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TRP is being kick off reddit. Word is they are backing up everything and finding a new internet home.
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 03:41 AM
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How big of a company does it need to be before this applies?
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 03:28 AM
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Its the camaraderie
/r/MGTOW28/09/18 07:47 AM
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Trance = pedastalizing women, as if women have special wisdom that men dont, and that men with a goal to get laid cant be trusted.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 07:40 AM
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Testosterone is responsible for accelerating/exaggerating percieved potential reward. Its interesting to realize that the difference between male and female sexuality shows us how lower testosterone leads to a ramping up delay with its receptors.
/r/askMRP28/09/18 12:10 AM
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Undoubtedly they think the core of it is toxic. Typically it demonstrates that men need to lead, because women dont. That men need to deflect problems that many women cause (shit test). And that men's biological goals (sex with many women) are in direct competition with women's biological goals (commitment for family and support). Almost surely alot of it is harsh to read as a woman, but its super positive for men that are in an insecure trance, and think that all women intuitively know how to t…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/18 11:31 PM
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These are dark days
/r/MGTOW27/09/18 10:50 PM
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Where is this "positive masculinity" forum?
/r/MGTOW27/09/18 10:49 PM
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Pretty sure there will be a site for red pill. They were talking about backing up all of the posts a week ago. There was also talk that reddit was also petitioned to ban everyone posting to red pill too, you know "toxic" people.
/r/MGTOW27/09/18 10:35 PM
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Ok, ill crawl back to safety and know my place in the world.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 12:30 AM
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Whats your reaction to a girl getting beat to death? I would like fairness. I would also like to have been born to a wealthy doctor with a huge estate. Sounds absurd doesnt it. Dont give advice and judgement about being passive when something's unfair, you sound like a chump. If you casually advocate something, it doesnt matter where or when, it just matters that you do, fyi
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 07:33 PM
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If its not fair, stand for what is.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 07:14 PM
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Do you advocate fairness, or the status quo?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 07:03 PM
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She's also responsible for fertilizing her egg. Women should have to bankroll their own families, so they fully grasp the decision they are making for the men.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 06:13 PM
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Youre also responsible for your own financial decisions. And she gets to make it for the man? Oh thats why no sex before marriage? Blah blah. Nothing changes, women still are given the power to make bad choices for a man. Your fixated on a man's willpower. What of the willpower of women to bankroll her lazy lifestyle while she steals your babies. Some women go around like sharks. They are careless, and have every reason to be. What if i stole eggs from a fling and had a surrogate baby with some …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 06:05 PM
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This is an exact situation that Men's rights activists are pushing to reform. Women that refuse prevention/abortion, even though men want them to. The idea is that if feminism is pushing for the right to choose when women have a family, so should men have this choice. All the power is being given to women. The MRA has suggested men should get the right to opt out, and he wouldnt have any responsibilities, but also no rights to see the kid. I would guess you have a case, but im no expert. Get evi…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 05:25 AM
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Was there any clues she was baby crazy before sex? Jesus, crazy is something we need to filter out Edit: Seriously, this is the perfect example of male abuse. If she has a baby and tries to get child support, you need to sue. Get proof she wants a baby without your consent.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 04:47 AM
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He created an exciting situation. And likely had the confidence to pull it off flawlessly. What are you looking for? Maybe his skin looked good that day.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 04:34 AM
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True, dont sweat the small stuff. And i know exactly what youre talking about with the expectations. An ex of mine told me she was low maintenance, but then had all kinds of expectations of what she apparently wanted me to do. In short, there is a reason why its called a bachelor's degree. Just a clarification, an exchange IS a contract.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 11:01 PM
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Yes, in a "being nice to people makes me happy" type of selfish. Normally people don't describe this as selfish, but altruistic. I think this is the crux of the discussion here. This is the manner ‘selfish‘ is being used: deriving your own values for yourself. There is something insidious about altruism being glorified, because it conveniently cuts out self reflection, about what YOU want. Once you realize this, that its ok to be selfish, you can start understanding fairness, and OP should make …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 10:19 PM
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Yes, people reciprocate, but not because they feel like they need to, but because they want to. You might think it's the same thing, but it's really not. The first is primarily a selfish preoccupation, while the other means they feel good reciprocating. What happens when youre expected to want to reciprocate? A whirlwind of passive aggressiveness and spite. All because "transactions" are ugly, and we pretend they arent happening. The most mature thing we can do is become conscious of the conditi…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 08:54 PM
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Viewing the world in a transactional manner is just the first step. The second step is to understand that people don't actually do this They do though. Unspoken conditions always exist. Otherwise, you are throwing effort into that black hole of meaninglessness. What level of nobility and return you expect is the real question. If you do something nice so that people reciprocate, you are not an adult. You do something nice because you think it's the right thing to do. But isnt reciprocating the n…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 03:38 AM
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You misunderstand his use of the word selfish. It doesnt mean greedy. It means applying your own values on the world. And this goes deep, philosophically. Next time you give a gift, or are charitable, ask yourself why you do it? Are you throwing your time into a black hole, or do you secretly have expectations. At the very least, would you care they not slander you, or are you such a saint you'd support death row criminals that would stab you in the back? Are you exchanging for gratitude? Or to …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 01:44 AM
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Comply, and say "you owe me a favor now"
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 05:33 AM
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Upvoted because this made laugh hard
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 04:58 AM
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What creates emotions in you? There is this sense that you cant entertain others without entertaining yourself first. You need to look in the mirror, and you need to do everything you can to see a pornstar stud there, if you cant why would she? Try to emulate sexy charming men. Its ok to reinvent yourself into an adult. You cant inspire others unless you are inspired. You cant get anyone to laugh unless you think its funny. No one thinks highly of you until you think highly of yourself. And the …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 04:40 AM
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Perhaps, but have you experienced that point where you realize you arent enjoying the music? I think if you dont cut it off while its good, you learn to hate it.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 11:53 PM
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Have you seen what women do when they get absolute freedom? Absolute freedom absolutely corrupts. So lets give them consequences to their free choices. MGTOW is an amazing wakeup call message for women. They should be free to choose the disaster of their own making if they want, as we advise them what they are doing wrong. In turn, our birth rates are almost non existent at this point We can definitely get creative on how to have more white babies if thats an issue. Surrogacy. Perhaps some weath…
/r/MGTOW12/05/18 07:47 PM
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We want there to be justice and equality but we're the only ones playing fair. Ever since being redpilled i've been atleast attempting to try to call out women's BS, as i never saw it as BS before, but kinda like wisdom and victim pity that i didnt fully understand idk. Ive been sticking up for men wherever i see it now. I think ive actually changed a few women. Like saying crying is manipulative, or framing them as crocodile tears, or changing the subject to how they are shaming rather than rea…
/r/MGTOW12/05/18 07:02 PM
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I would argue that denying women certain rights is not sexist. I see your point, but maybe it can be reframed so as not to exclude any woman for just being a woman. Its about what they are lacking, not what their gender is. But we can still be realist, and understand that the trend appears to be that women are indeed lacking many skills most men pickup naturally. Why don't you call me a species-ist for keeping my dog under control? True, but currently i think the best women have a capacity great…
/r/MGTOW12/05/18 02:46 AM
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Starting with the right to vote... women never wanted the responsibilities of men... only the perks. I hate so much how true this is. If you look back... most women didn’t want the right to vote. Why? Because they believed men would force them to carry a man’s responsibility for that right. Fuck, this is pretty solid. So 1st wave was shitty. Why dont we connect the right to vote with the responsibility to serve and defend? This pairing makes complete sense. Im gonna have to chew on this. Nonethe…
/r/MGTOW12/05/18 01:45 AM
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Ok im understanding where you are coming from now. I can agree that 1st wave feminism perhaps created the problems and malaise you are stating they did. I am NOT saying it created some golden age, but i will defend that "women's right to vote" is a good ideal for a democracy. Should blacks not be allowed to vote out of fear they will vote in social programs? How about taking away voting of the youth out of fear they will vote in free college? I get that you want to be a bit more practical removi…
/r/MGTOW12/05/18 01:33 AM
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All feminism is bad, because if it was really about equality it would just be called egalitarianism. Well, in the past it was called feminism because it literally was about sexism against women, because it was literally focused on women only. This new branding of feminism as seeking equality is BS, i agree... why not call it egalitarian. Feminism is finished, now its just a bunch of complaining from insecure irresponsible women who dont understand men fully. The rest of your comment basically bo…
/r/MGTOW12/05/18 01:09 AM
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I think the quote is ruined now
/r/MGTOW12/05/18 12:34 AM
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Literally the whole football team?
/r/MGTOW12/05/18 12:32 AM
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I disagree. You go too far. Only new feminism is bad, perhaps 2nd wave was kinda bad too with its censorship/objectifying-women paradigm. I really think the world is better with capable intelligent driven women. Women we can rely on to make good decisions. Women who are responsible. Happy women who are productive and have pride and fully grasp the "male world of work". Most importantly, women who are free are happy. Many women seem unmotivated, but i think its because they coddle themselves into…
/r/MGTOW12/05/18 12:26 AM
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You must be referring to the origins of feminism... but then you say international business? Are you refering to WW2? I feel there is missing points here, info i'm not privy to. You comment seems baseless and confused. EDIT: ok... go ahead downvote. Im just seeking clarification.
/r/MGTOW11/05/18 11:38 PM
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Lol... your ruining it
/r/MGTOW11/05/18 11:26 PM
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"Girl's just wanna have fun"
/r/MGTOW04/05/18 06:51 PM
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From the guys who have no disposable income because of child support/alimony Ok, my embarrassment is sinking in a little. These guys are drowning. Taken it to the extreme, if all posts were people doing this, I would stop visiting. Can you understand why? Was my reply that grating? Maybe i could cool it a little. But think of the OP, he's pretentious now.
/r/MGTOW03/05/18 08:14 PM
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Hes not saying "hey stop enjoying things I cant enjoy", more like "to some, it feels like rubbing in it." He doesn't have to be depressed to not enjoy being flexed on. But no one is intending to "rub it in", are they? He's literally just programming himself to see it this way. He needs to hear this and wake up to how he's treating himself. Sentiments have a way of being contagious too. So i just felt like challenging it Get into business. Into thinking. /r/wowthanksimcured He's complaining about…
/r/MGTOW03/05/18 07:40 PM
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I get the image they try to set, that going your own way is rewarding. Youre not getting it. If you are brimming with passion about life, doing things that make you feel important, taking a break to be enamored by things like this is just icing on the cake, it literally makes you feel beautiful for witnessing it, like you are exactly where you want to be... and it has nothing to do with women and that whole addiction, it has an emotional life of its own. You sound depressed which has everything …
/r/MGTOW03/05/18 10:20 AM
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Let me unpack this: she calls you a fuckboy, because she interested enough to care, but annoyed you "broke it off"
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 04:55 PM
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Its interesting, if we can say women are wired more for emotion/intuition rather than details/accuracy, then it means they are literally experiencing the world differently... well kind of. Perhaps they are wired to enjoy themselves more as a passive entity. Like their attention is literally curbed towards focusing on situations they are in, rather than focused on controlling the situation thru details.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 10:17 AM
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Teach women to be more rational?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 09:42 AM
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This is amusing, i feel like a puppetmaster... ok let me see what i can edit, only because your interlocutor is gone. Lol Alt undergoes emotional turmoil when a (romantic) relationship ends. He has long suffered the common toxic delusion that pop culture slings from every corner, that "love" is the purpose of life, or something equally effusive and ungrounded, which ironically men are much more compelled by despite it being "girly", which has always made a breakup he wasnt ready for pierce his s…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 09:18 AM
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Is that legalized prostitution?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 09:37 AM
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Because women want to control when the breakup happens
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 09:28 AM
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"You're the prize" advice is like the "you go girl" No, there is a difference. Thinking highly of yourself changes the way you behave. You start dropping your insecurities, and feeling comfortable to take risks. Free to start playing around, free to reinvent yourself. Even if you "don't get anywhere", you've still got an emotional frame that is far from FOMO, far from being negative. If you still care about that hottie that ignores you, you arent getting it. And you wont put out that positive st…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 08:50 AM
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In the post, "relationship" refers to romantic relationships, not friendships. I know, but these words blur together very well, where one is just stressing the absence of sex in the social experience. If i sound like im confusing the two... trust me, im not. Im purposely using "relationship" in a generalizing sense. Something you should come to grips with is that love does not exist, its just a collection of addictions to a person and their interaction with you. It will always be "good while it …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 07:59 AM
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"Frame" is how you construct emotional reality and is a psychology term. So that's the general direction it comes from outside of redpill. "Oneitis" is a frame where you inflate the importance of one woman on your happiness. It makes you desperate, insecure, and self conscious. It interferes with your ability to lead and take risks and be attractive. Its a redpill term, and there is just mountains of instances and discussions about it on this forum. Three ways for dealing with it ive seen propos…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 07:02 AM
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My disagreement is not even about whether a series of hookups can continue as a friendship. You know all of those friends back in grade school you dont keep in contact with. Following your logic, they were a big waste of time... you should not have even tried to befriend them, because you probably could have guessed they wouldve ended..... OR they actually arent a waste of time and you are framing it all wrong. Relations arent a world you must lure and dominate into permanence as part of your gr…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 05:31 AM
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I think the best time to spring this idea on a girl is when there is a desire to define whats going on. If she isnt hooked on you yet or acquainted even, its weird. Its like saying, "Hi i am Frank the Fuckboy, wanna get to know me for a limited time?" Also, i think women view it differently because of their passivity, which makes desperate women feel their desperation twice as much, and latch onto traditionalism for dear life... but obviously only when it suits them. Hence it seems easier if the…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 08:16 AM
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Sounds like you are flipping the responsibility back to men for both men's and women's development... you wouldnt do that, would you? Weird thing is, your prescription to not validate women (pedastalizing them) is already echoed here, but for different reasons. First it comes across as fake and insecure, and women quickly learn that men who act like this dont have a solid interesting life they can tour. They will be bored as the man is gutless to showcase himself out of fear of rejection... and …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 10:26 PM
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The Unfamiliar Method Very interesting... i like this a lot. the relationship that ends is a complete waste of time. No they arent, unless you frame it that way, and are pulled thru a cringefest known as a breakup. The potential is there to treat it like a special friendship. In the end, you are the only one you can depend on.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 07:32 PM
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-Or is it the cuddling and wasting precious time? Lol. This. Kinda sounds like youre going MGTOW. I resonate with MGTOW quite a bit. Defaulting to being comfortable as a bachelor at any time. You still maintain that interest in women, but the narrative they want to write and fit you into is just too encroaching. I keep thinking there is a new structure we could design around only taking the good shit we enjoy about women, and trying to dump the rest. We need to create the narrative ourselves, an…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 07:08 PM
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This has been my take. There are quite a few guys obsessed with being "alpha" and become pricks to everyone around them. Countless times ive tried to correct people, even on this forum. Redpill gets a bad rap because of these people. Be a stud, be cool, be reasonable. Dont be obsessed with being "boss" and trying to turn everyone into servants. Rules 1 and 2. Being alpha comes naturally if youve done the necessary thinking to lead particular situations. If you have the answers and ideas, everyon…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 05:25 PM
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Now i want to read your post. The fact that this is being confused at all is funny
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 04:31 PM
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This is a recipe for growing cohorts of 40 year old virgins that finally understand whats going on, feel that tremendous loss of their wasted youth, and just rage explode. Men need this stuff more than ever. And the more men that see things plainly and clearly, the less the confused women get to fuck things up. Life is way easier when everyone is on the same page as you. Things have got as bad as they are because of apathy along the lines of what you are displaying.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 04:26 PM
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Or just keeping doors open for others behind you like usual, and getting a feminist frown that thinks its an insult to her independence.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 03:51 PM
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CBC youtube did a short interview with the incel bus topic. "Expert" man in a beanie talks about how the "driving force of the manosphere is extreme misogyny". Surprised he didnt just throw in the rest of the internet as "driven by misogyny" with all his self loathing. Seriously, i know there are pockets of douchebags hovering around here, but there are also many brilliant amazing positive men, which is why i stick up for this place. The driving force behind the manosphere is actually just being…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 03:36 PM
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I think the change starts with becoming more self aware. Your behaviours, mannerisms, and personality are NOT really who you are, so dont claim them as "you". They are NOT traits, they are skills to develop. If they suck, you can get better. -- Being shy is NOT a trait, its a skill deficit. No one is entertained by silence. -- Being a horrible judge of quality is NOT a trait. Someone always needs to lead an event taking risks. -- Being bad at conversation is NOT a trait. Who wants to talk with s…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 02:26 AM
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MGTOW is about prioritizing your own life goals and experiences over grooming yourself for women's happiness. Typically marriage is out of the question. The idea is if women can fit into your dream, awesome, but they should NOT be your central goal and NOT your greatest source of happiness, because they are unreliable. MGTOW is about writing your own narrative, defining your own terms of interaction, living for yourself and being able to be happy with or without women. Above all, MGTOW is about …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 04:53 AM
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Sounds like she just needed a ride, and wanting an orbiter to do something for her. If she is really is into him, she was just shown that he is unattainable and has options. This might trouble her enough to obsess, in which case the opportunity will probably resurface. The other possibility is that she has other good options in boyfriends, in which case, she'll frame it along those lines as "his loss".
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 03:55 AM
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Never chase a bitch, it's either a trap she laid deliberately or it just spooks them out when she realizes you're after her, that you want her. The female response to chasing is always running, even if she liked you to begin with. And if there is any hint of you having any sexual desire, they will run screaming "predator", with zero forgiveness.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 03:36 AM
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Why post an insult? I dont think that helps. And I do believe he posted in the appropriate place. Maybe you are bored with TRP? This is too large of a chunk of someone's life to be slinging insults randomly because you arent entertained. I think you are turning your "not caring" into a brutal pathology.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 01:40 AM
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There is a gnagging worry of cheating haunting you. It haunts you because you care whether she is cheating. You want the security of exclusivity, but it really is just oneitis. You feel you are all alone and parasitized in that emotional reality. Start working on yourself, lifting, and attractiveness. Place yourself in situations where you garner female attention, where you know you could act on things if you wanted, perhaps covertly but innocently. Start bonding with other guys more. At this po…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 01:21 AM
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They're not your possessions. This means no relationship security. You cannot depend on women like things you own. You can depend on yourself, because you own yourself. This prescribes seeing women as auxillary to your life, like a dessert you can live without if need be. Most importantly, us men and our male sexuality dont get to be possessed, if we are to play by the same rules. This feels very MGTOW. Awesome post!
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 11:46 PM
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Keep in mind, not hiring women can only happen on the small scale. If the country's economy somehow restructured itself into primarily small businesses, women would be in trouble.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 10:21 PM
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That when women lead they might start thinking about how they can make men's lives better. It almost seems unfashionable to think about men.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 09:56 PM
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Such an attractive personality
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 04:20 PM
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But we arent talking we are writing
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 04:15 PM
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Same experience in niceguy sub where everyone circle jerks on awkward guys that are "creepy" or "misogynistic for focusing on a girls beauty". Some legitly are creepy, but most seemed not that bad. Found myself advocating sympathy for some these guys. Was banned for "having wrong ideology"... and then muted. I guess we need to start banning feminists for having wrong ideology?
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 02:04 PM
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Inevitably there are personal examples in generalizations, right? Regardless, this is all true. Undefended criticism is the making of a blue pill. Ignoring it can help, but analysis dismantles it and sculpts you into a leader. Most of the time, people are just parroting something they heard anyway. Cookie cutter wisdom that appeals to what is "normal" and low risk. Everyone attacks the leader but desperately needs one so they can be lazy, sit back, and enjoy an experience.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 01:33 PM
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Male mice that could reproduce were created from female mice by only modulating testosterone. If women evolved to have a trait its likely going to show up in men too in some form.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 08:23 AM
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I feel it would be. Music may go well with light busy work and day dreaming, but it seems extremely bad to learn any new concept or struggle to do the impossible. Personally, i consciously decide to stop any music if im NOT focused entirely on it and enjoying it. Otherwise, i get in the habit of tuning it out and hating it afterward anyway. Its extra noise in your brain.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 08:07 AM
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Ok, props for making me laugh
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 03:45 AM
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I actually agree with everything you stated, especially the blank slate. Testosterone cant possibly do as much as redpill states. But im still convinced of redpill. You must be feeling irritated at the talk about monk mode and never marrying? The possibility of cheating is not the only thing you need to worry about in marriage or LTRs, its the tip of the iceburg of AWALT. Most notably, an entitlement to men providing, manipulating you by acting weak, playing on your pride to get something, then …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 03:24 AM
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Wtf, logic is why im here... WHY WE ARE ALL HERE on redpill. Why would you take a shit in a place that fostered your personal growth in sexuality.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 02:57 AM
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So long as women still have the ability to vote this will only continue to get worse. This is the kind of fodder feminists use to demonize redpill. I completely understand what you are saying, but they wont. Let me help rephrase: as long as women dont empathize with the male position and know whats its like to be a provider for a grown adult, which none of them seem to, they will continue to vote in unfair laws.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 02:41 AM
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OP has a point though, AWALT is in all of them, and its repulsive. I'd call it princess mentality or provider entitlement. I just want it gone. How can this be fixed?
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 07:05 AM
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A side FUCKING CHARACTER. Doesn't that get you mad? Yes, Goddammit... This was a good post. Nobody goes through their life thinking about how best to benefit you. They might briefly think about you, but you are never the focus. Nobody gives a shit about you. At the deepest levels this is so true. Waking up to this allows you to see how everyone manipulates you, even your mom. But its important to keep in mind that the very fact we share so many values with others, makes it so we are usually NOT …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 08:57 PM
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I think i get your point. She feels what she feels. What she is saying is just an attempt to rationalize her attraction. So its not really a type because the same underlying reason for the attraction is there, the IDGAF attitude raising SMV.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 07:22 PM
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She kept insisting that all I did I did on purpose including ignoring her all evening and being late for another date, no one ever treated her like this. She assumed I'm a player which made me laugh hysterically. I think this is a type of woman we need to name. She sees the act of "not caring" as coming from a place of truely caring about her. Like she has decoded your rough masculine exterior, and she's elated at her own ability to recognize it, which draws her to you. Any ideas for a name?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 06:23 PM
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The point is everything is only grounded to reality of value where it is selfish... helping grandma across the street is not truely selfless, when you would like to see a world where grandmas are guided, and young-old personal connections are made. Once you see there is literally nothing outside of your selfishness and others, you can suddenly really think about the tradeoffs. I would like to help a grandma across, but not this time, its not fair to me, its in the wrong direction, and she actual…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 05:57 PM
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I see it like this, everything Subjective is what you are convinced of but can be an illusion given more information about reality. Objectivity is a God-like view where everything has been considered, where uninformed shitty opinions are dispelled and replaced with unambiguous truth, fairness, and justice. I think it may be possible to hike up close to objectivity, but its best to have a healthy dose of humility, because someone else may be closer. People who are lazy about informing their opini…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 04:33 PM
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Being "selfish" and being cooperative can be done at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 01:43 AM
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Eventually I learned morality is subjective (along with everything being subjective) Eh... i'm very much convinced that morality comes from the individual, but that does NOT mean that there is no objective morality that can be reasoned and ironed out, with all of its many tradeoffs. I dont know if thats what you mean
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 01:33 AM
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Maybe "devoid of personality" is too harsh. I guess im picturing a shy girl that hasnt picked up how to lead an interesting conversion yet.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 07:49 PM
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She doing more money than you (specially if she actually has to pay stuff) kills attraction in the long run. I want to believe that women can relearn to not feel entitled to a provider. Do you think this would be the root of the attraction kill?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 06:51 PM
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pushes us further toward the society that the left, betas, and feminists envision. Please expand this. What do they envision?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 06:40 PM
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everyone wants just to be comfortable To a degree, discomfort appears to fuel happiness by sensitizing you to enjoy comfort. I think too much comfort can be the source of boredom and depression, both mentally and physically.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 06:27 PM
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Value is only sourced from the individual. To be brainwashed to get values from somewhere other than yourself is the greatest sin you can commit, as you are divorced from what you truely care about, regardless of the rules, the shaming, and the criticism.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 06:13 PM
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You misunderstand. "Selfish" refers to the ultimate source of value, not a shitty asshole value system. In this sense, you are selfish while you are nice, caring, and helpful. The term is a little misleading, and has roots in philosophy. Its meant to stress making yourself happy before you should consider dedicating your life to making others happy, because if you fail both you and others are not happy which is a net loss. The evils of altruism. And the hallmark of a niceguy.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 06:05 PM
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Exactly. This is human nature 101. We are all selfish at the highest level. This usage of the word selfish i think has roots in the philosophy of Ayn Rand, which argued that altruism is immoral, as it forgets the individual in favor of some mythical collective. Its probably safe to say modern women wont be forgetting to be selfish in relationships, but men have to be reminded to take what they need.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 05:48 PM
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I passionately hate ageism. I mean if you arent done celebrating at 30, you will still enjoy bars, clubs, and "frat house parties". Its like 20 year olds treat 30 year olds like their parents, which makes me want to exclude them. The problem for me is i pretty much missed the dating scene throughout my 20s, so its actually pretty new to it. And i think "maturity" being referred to is really just the profile of what you have experienced too much of and thus are bored with. Despite this, i still i…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 09:52 AM
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Haha, is it really that important to give a fake name? I mean how often do normal women really seek to put you in jail
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 08:00 AM
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They think they deserve commitment by only offering a vagina, without the show and act to captivate men. So basically you've never had a decent conversation or even a connection to a woman. Fuck man, I guess if you treat it all as a game where both parties are trying to "do tricks to get sex" - then yeah, you're going to exist and have relationships on a really superficial and pathetic level. I like how you twisted this and tried to make it personal. I guess you would prefer only men doing trick…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 06:58 AM
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I think it is atleast for BPs. The pain associated with being cucked universally infuriates if there is some feeling of entitlement or investment, regardless if they were friendzoned or a husband. The intensity can be on par with the sharp immediate fear of parasites, directed towards irritation and betrayal. And violence is the popular way to alleviate this anger to replace with a sense of justice. BP sex is serious. RP sex is playful and already expects polyamory, starting with the wandering s…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 05:03 AM
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For starters you seem to believe women are a secondary object, and aren't capable of helping to create the society we live in. You better have a physically demanding job, or doing something extremely technical. You know, one that leads and creates answers as they wrestle with the nature of reality itself, rather that expecting delivered answers on a silver platter to run it through your filters. Women hold themselves back by not obsessing over being providers themselves. Keep in mind, the post a…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 03:30 AM
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This twisted idea of men needing to improve every damn thing instead of women realizing their own childish behavior is one of, if not the biggest reason as to why we're here right now. Fucking exactly. I dont know if you can make a more correct statement. Most women are oblivious to male nature, but everyone insists on men understanding female nature, either catering to or manipulating it, otherwise the attitude is that you are undeserving. Even throughout the RedPill sub, the sense is that its …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 12:32 AM
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Great advice. But i have a sense that you could have a facebook, instagram, etc, yet be very scarce, and pull off the same mystery if not more... because if you are hot, they have pictures of you to idolize and druel over. A few women were trying to get me to use facebook almost certainly for this very reason, and i finally caved in. So perhaps only rarely post for the most amazing shit, with best pictures and stories.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 11:23 PM
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Don't do likes, do playful negs instead. Must stress the playful in this. A good policy would be to stay away from negs unless there is an element of humor.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 11:04 PM
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There are 52 weeks in a year, just like 52 cards in a deck. Not 56. Good thing she wasnt too intelligent. Even if she was... will it matter given that you are interesting and confident?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 04:06 AM
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Whats up with the references to jews and alex jones? Kinda makes it seem fringey and neo nazi ish I have to say, there are some parts that sound very true and motivating in this, especially right now for me.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 03:12 AM
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I mean, is this really whining tho. Its geared toward improving game, not pandering to the image opponents want to project. I dont think you understand TRP.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 10:13 AM
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She dumped you like a fuckboy dumps women like her, except she was presenting it as if you fucked up multiple instances. Its so unexpected to see it from a cute/lovable/sincere girl. Hideous... you shouldve started casual, allow her to crush on you, then dump her ass and let her cry. Men are loyal, women are fickle. I would recommend estar vilar's "The Manipulated Man" in the sidebar. You sound like you need to see the flaws in women right now. It is a book written by a woman in the 70s that sho…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 11:51 AM
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Solid advice. So many times, i naturally open up about stress on my mind when people ask: "how are things going?" or even worse "hows work?". Control your own tone and divert the conversations that lead you to the "poor me" scenario
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 06:40 PM
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Ok... so ancient religion successfully absorbed ancient knowledge about AWALT, as it tries to do with everything good that freethinkers discover. The problem is that it pretends it wasn't discovered, but instead hard knowledge decreed by a supreme being, granted to you through the rampant plagiarism of the holy.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 05:47 PM
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The difference is, men who can achieve sex are attractive to women. It's not easy for men to do unless they are high value. The devil is in the details. Women love seeing an attractive man be sexual, or hear about them having sex, just like men love hearing about hot women being sexual and putting out for your friend and imagining it could have been you. The only difference is women can be slut shamed, and men are labelled as players. So really no difference here. Any woman can easily have sex w…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 12:24 AM
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As we've seen/read time and time again being a dollar whore does not make a woman feel good. TL;DR being a dollar whore to studs gets a woman to feel good. Slut-shaming is a thing. Deep down they all have the urge to ride the cock carousel when they see a hot stud. What usually stops them is that few woman feel they can lead, approach, entertain, and invite men they are interested in. Probably physical intimidation conflated with social intimidation, something many never work on. These women don…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 11:31 PM
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The problem is her expectations, but the solution isn't deadening her instincts for intimacy and commitment. Isnt this what TRP pushes as abundance mentality, which i am all for. It would be hypocritical to say its damage in women and self improvement in men. ... ok i think im wrapping my head around this, you only think its ok for men so that women natually fall in line as the weaker sex. I cant accept this, i want women to be strong and not dependent on me. I dont want to see deadweight in the…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 10:41 PM
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Except the analogy doesnt work because sex with someone hot is addicting. A rock in a shoe has no temporary or permanent value. No one had oneitis for a shoe with a rock in it.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 11:02 PM
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Why would anyone downvote your comment? This is a good observation
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 10:52 PM
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Are you wired for casual flings and hookups?... its a goddamn mindset. You ever hear of blue pill oneitis? Attachment issues? Reprogramming your mind? Everything that red pill stands for appears to apply to helping this girl achieve what she wants... many men want what she is aiming for. I am surprised at some of the logic whirling around on redpill slamming her as damaged while pushing men to be more sexually free. Wtf?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 10:47 PM
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Her reaction to hookup culture is due to oneitis and desperation, something BP men notoriously suffer. I'm surprised you arent seeing this and instead calling it "damage" as she tries to fix it.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 10:35 PM
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So you say i should focus on improving myself and forget about society. Fuck that. Both improve together, perhaps one at a much slower pace. Even on a personal level, these ideas may make a profound difference. This sub is about raising male smv, so i would have to say this is the right place to lay out these thoughts. Starting with judgement and translating them into demands you know you deserve, allows men to assert what they want and get it. Acceptance is for losers who want to ignore what th…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 10:06 PM
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Maybe that's what bores them? exactly... i find intellectual women, the shining beacons of independent value, more attractive than dumb blondes, as long as they arent perpetually criticizing me. When they are confident, intellectual, social, entertaining, and seductive completely independent from me they are high value keepers not deadweights although intimidating because i have to know im a worthy man which im working on. But i have noticed the trend OP is posting about. Its hilarious to blame …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 07:38 PM
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This post sounds so mysoginistic i laughed pretty hard. So perhaps a good strategy is to very briefly allude to intellectual pursuits, but always find ways to pull back to topics that are funny and possibly seductive... that way you show high status, but are actually fun to be around.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 06:48 PM
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I cant imagine how it would be any different in high school. Serious conversation is like a different dimension that sex cannot exist in. Switch it out for humour, flirting, stupidity, pop culture references, and really anything that creates that socializing party atmosphere that brings out the inner slut, and then lead with your seductive tendrils. However, be warned, high school perhaps has the highest rate of prudes and sexual insecurities that can backfire on you. Many women here havent even…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 06:36 PM
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Women like you that shame us to assume commitment makes high value men like me become pretty much MGTOW What I've come to realize through this forum is that a lot of guys on here make a lot of assumptions...when did I say sex was not fun? never. when did I say you need to have sex and commit? never. when did say you should feel shame for having sex? never. You didnt say these things, but many men assume them because women dont approach, woo, or seemingly initiate sex, they definitely dont propos…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 07:01 AM
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"pushing the boundries of his selfishness, keeping attention and affection at bay so you feel unvalidated and need him to validate your attractiveness so you can devalue him and move on." Unpack the last bit. Isn't he insuring that he is the only one to give me validation, by this logic? Yes, in a twisted way, if you are spotting his game you see what he cares about and he is actually validating your desirability, despite replaceability alluded to. "you knew what he wanted but you were dishonest…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 05:31 AM
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Agreed..there is a reason and I wouldn't blame him if he hadn't so blatantly used me. He could have been respectful and said "listen..I'm sorry about last night, I was drunk (he was), but I dont think we should get back together". I'd be pissed, but still appreciate him (and probably respect him more). He basically told me to walk to work so he could sleep, then told me he wouldn't mind getting a one night stand pregnant, and ..to add salt in the wound.. that he'd dated girls younger than me. He…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:46 AM
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Be blunt, warm, and perceptive, "i'm not attracted to you, but you are awesome to hang around, perhaps if you were more like guys A, B, and C, you could attract women like me, perhaps if you read the TheRedPill, but as for me my first impression of you is already used".
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 01:06 AM
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Do women not enjoy sex? And do men not have times where they are as fickle as women on commitment? What if roles were reversed, and you had sex with an ex with possible intention of restarting, but flaked out afterward because you were reminded of why you broke it off to begin with, perhaps that deadweight feeling. What would you feel? There is a reason why he flaked on commitment. If you think your worth sticking around on the merit of your vagina alone, consider whether a guy is worth sticking…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 12:51 AM
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"They friendzone you only if you let them" ----> "they use you for sex only if you let them" OMG you are right on. Fuck! Both are painful, and prey on wishful thinking, possible deception, and little communication. What really hit me hard was that women can guiltlessly use men for sex as if it would be a favor. Perhaps this is the way i should think about women? Doing them a favor by allowing them to touch my golden penis... oh wait society tells everyone a mans genitals are worthless and it dev…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 12:22 AM
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He may be frustrated... but how is red pill limiting? I get that the main theory is generalizing, and there is room for exceptions as you explore the details of why... but your personal strategies and perceptions should be based on whats common, right? Human nature is what it is. Bitches be bitches. The greatest thing that red pill has done for me is to wake up and start judging the fuck out of women to their core, which brought other positives like realizing that i should get to be as sexual as…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 09:53 PM
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I think its more of a reflection about marriage than about slut shaming. Everyone loves sluts, you just cant trust them to be exclusive if that is your thing.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 06:46 AM
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I laughed, but this doesnt deal with the social situation
/r/askTRP13/02/17 07:02 PM
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Women are good at hiding shit tho
/r/askTRP12/02/17 03:52 PM
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communicating this boundary covertly This is such a neat concept... its like talking straight to the reptillian brain
/r/askTRP08/02/17 07:02 PM
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Good point, scope out the ex, does she covertly value him? Seriously i would get her talking about her ex somehow so i could spot the way she feels about him. She'll slip up a framing somewhere because of the way she's used to thinking about him.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:42 PM
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His basic empathy sound broken. When he escalates through talking with others genuinely and publicly ask him why he's focusing on being critical of you. Make his criticism about him... associate HIS actions with HIS weakness in the minds of coworkers. That way everyone sees his criticisms as desperate attempts to dominate you.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:27 PM
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Before trp, i would have seen this guy as a piece of shit. Now, i see how women game the system and manipulate empathetic men by weaponizing sex by cornering their desires to control them, and so in this story she is the piece of shit. I doubt i can be this bold and harsh, but rather call her out on the manipulation and judge her for what she does, perhaps even counter by withholding things she wants for ransom. "You know your favorite thing X, we'll have to work towards that"
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:15 PM
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How do we change this? Defend our bros?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 08:02 AM
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No i cant accept this. Women have the capacity for self improvement. Not blaming women for their faults, while elevating men as superior, places all the responsibility on men! This would subtly mean that rights should NOT be granted to women as they are children. No! You value their vaginas too much. Women can improve, they are just not motivated to. They grow up thinking that looking weak and being weak and passive is a strength and it fucks them up and gives them an inferiority complex. We jus…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 07:50 AM
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who the fuck wastes their time doing this? TRP is a brainstorming session where we are surrounded with others that share an understanding in core ideas. Its the back and forth. Its a resource of like minds. How is this characteristic of an alpha male, or any aspirational figure? Who gives a shit? You worry about image too much. Dont make it a shitty lifestyle. Being alpha is about showing you are brilliant/confident at controlling something you know a lot about so that others defer to you and re…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 05:41 AM
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No, they should not go unchallenged. Men who know what's up should represent. Reasoning is not on the feminist's side. We cant let them feel they have the popular opinion just because no one speaks up. Let them be the one's who don't want to challenge with their second hand brain washed opinions.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 03:57 AM
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This is so perfect, religion is definitely blue pill. With both women and religion we are told to keep our respect in tact and never go to that mental space where we can realize the illusion. We are too scared what people will think of us, so we pretend women know more about relationships and let them define them, and we pretend religious authorities and authors know more about reality and let them define it. Red pill is about opening your eyes to what reality actually is, and the only way you g…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 12:31 AM
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I can get behind this description... and what i find interesting is that it generalizes to all other emotions. Lesson: think of yourself first, and let others empathize. Off the top of my head this applies to sexual escalation, creating a cool vibe, any form of hype or praise, motivation and getting energized, mental inspiration, perhaps narcissism... and obviously humour
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 11:46 PM
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As you all know, you entertain her too much, you risk being viewed as the "clown" and that's super beta. Being funny can be difficult, especially around people you have little shared experience with... but outsourcing humour to another guy seems risky, however, possibly ok if you haven't got a strategy for humor yet. Don't let this strategy be a crutch. Humour is a staple in socializing. So im thinking, A clown produces humour with a cringe element and without dignity, leaving a feeling of embar…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 10:10 AM
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Dont forget women are still attracted to handsome fit men even if they are BP. Many men can show dominance and confidence in other areas of life, despite not having developed many social confidences and intelligences. In these instances, im sure women get a glimmer of studliness. Probably harmless if you can definitely tell there is no attraction, otherwise you might be introducing your gf to your comparison and her next bf.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 08:13 AM
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I guess the red pill doesnt see value in being chill? Its important to have boundries and advertise them, and punish people that cross them... but "rage to teach the other guy fear" is not what we all need more of. Violence should not be an option for relationship troubles and people who use it should be stigmatized and uninvited to parties and events, because they create drama. We all know that word right?... ostricization is more powerful than any punch back. Lesson: dont invite people who sta…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 07:39 AM
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But confidence can be really attractive in women too. I'd say it raises smv for both genders. In particular, watch some of the victoria secret models make their appearances and act like they are showing off something they know is quality. Its certain that men can do this too by having a frame of mind that they are showcasing themselves and worth it. I think the more impressionable you are, the more this hype works.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 04:05 PM
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If there is any justice in the world, the girl will realize how her bf is toxic to her social world and dump him. Seriously, this guy is violent and has no place in civil society if he's talking about using a gun for anything but defense. Even if you had sex with her, he has no right to lay a finger on you or threaten you. What you shouldve done is immediately take distance, verbally blow up at him for being violent, and file a police report. You might look like a wuss, but you can tell others t…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 02:44 PM
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Guys, her point is dead on. Leading takes knowledge and experience which translates to confidence and being alpha, which is needed somewhere for a duo to work. If she knows quality events and inclined to be the tour guide, she's definitely leading. As long as she doesnt have an inferiority complex, as most women do, or a feeling that she needs to outsource any capability or inspiration to her man, she has no inclination to judge him and find another man, which would mean she's mainly interested …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 11:02 AM
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The reason why men have to lead and plan is not a good one... its not because of a God, its because women have the option to never self improve since society forgives them for being inferior, and they almost always take it... they wait to be approached in dating, they do not initiate sex, they seek help with anything too difficult, they really don't seem to be driven by pride in their capabilities but instead second hand pride of people they know. Its rare that women become total nerds and try t…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 08:47 AM
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Good point: social media doesn't change smv, its just a good lure... but you can still use social media with confidence and still come across as Alpha. Its just a really really convenient way to connect with acquaintances. Even you make it sound like its chocked full of women and beta males... time to hone in on the fresh meat
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 07:52 AM
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This is an interesting video 'anatomy of adultery'. The appeal of enabling a commited girl to cheat might have to do with her value through the man, but what about women who are independently valueable? I guess there might be some outside validation she is desirable. Lesson: dump her ass because of her flaws, if there is any sign of cheating, and watch her smv plummet. Exception: if she's really hot, no one cares you dumped her, they just want that bootay
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 05:54 AM
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Dude, infidelity is the worst kind of manipulation when you have that frame of strong trust... ive been here. But this shit is not worth killing over. Be fucking civil. The worst that you should do is let as many people know she is only good for a fuck not good enough for commitment, let her lies follow her. The only thing she robbed you of is your masculinity to be girl crazy, to think of other women and hit on them. She played you because maybe she thought the exclusive relationship was what y…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 04:32 AM
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She's the cheater, sometimes the enabler doesn't even know there is someone else. Its not worth it to hurt anyone. If you can't beat them join them. Women have the most to lose if every man turns into a fuckboy that wont ever commit
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 04:01 AM
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So in this sense, asia is perfect for a white guy? Trying to figure out why its better
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 03:43 AM
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I travel for work... and the idea of loneliness was something i addressed and obliterated, realizing that its linked to boredom and an addiction to human interaction. The normal lives everyone lives and tell themselves they need is a trap riddled with addictions they cannot walk away from. Perhaps comfort itself is the addiction, creating mental pain the moment your bubble is popped, or tolerance and hedonic adaptation sets in. Realizing that you can reframe your mind and your emotional reality …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 03:40 AM
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I was pretty much 100% anti-relationship. I would go out with a girl and she would ask "how many other girls are you talking to" and I would always say, "Thats not really a number that I can count." while looking her dead in the eye and end up banging her that night. Shit, im reading this as "women don't really care about your n count" only the feeling of self-inspiration, self-worth, self-respect, and good feels that emanates from you. Between the romanitic oneitis and chastity, my Blue pill st…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 03:06 AM
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I think he's just recognizing a good trait... but maybe that is the path to oneitis? Focus on her flaws so you know she's replaceable
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 02:36 AM
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I really think the LTR is where your skills as a Red Pill man are truly tested, with marriage being God Mode. Hahaha... nice. Its essential to play on easy to train yourself and pick up the patterns.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 02:29 AM
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What about the herpes? I remember reading you are almost guaranteed to get it if you are in the industry long enough
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 01:03 PM
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Are there picky prostitutes? I am oblivious.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 11:52 AM
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Ive never tried psychedelics... honestly pretty scared too... i've heard people have walked away with severe mental issues... lasting feelings of demonic aliens and shit... but i could see it as being profoundly positive too... and holy shit i get the faint inspiration that sex could be the highest high through this. So would you say in general it heightens the feeling of novelty and sensitivity in all your emotions? And also, in your opinion, is there a long route to the same positive mental sp…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 11:45 AM
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I really liked this post, but it pisses me off because its so true... it makes me feel like i missed out... shit i got to keep my emotions on the present. Im early 30s, and i've only had a few experiences with sex despite being fairly attractive. Fuck I could have done so much damage! And lived it up. I spent my 20s with guilt ridden timid sex, worried that someone might realize ive watched porn and enjoyed it... or even find out ive had sex. wtf right? I could have lived free and bold, and had …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 10:42 AM
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Definitely suspicious. Even billionaires cant keep chads off their wives.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 12:57 AM
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He left her... probably because she wanted him to pay attention to her more causing him stress. I came across this piece because i was interested in how Elon had stated in an interview that a wife takes 10 or 20 hours a week (i think i have that right?) and was wondering if typical women actually accept this.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 07:36 PM
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Paper trail the cordiality! This is a good idea anytime you have to potentially rub someone the wrong way
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 10:41 AM
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Confidentiality agreement tho
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 10:36 AM
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Is there something wrong with fuckboys?... these are just men who realize they want to break it off with a girl because the girl isnt attracting them anymore or providing anything. They might go into a relationship with allowing the possibility of continuance, but there may be a trend that no women seem to meet the mark. Oh thats right, women do this too... actually they do it much more routinely but somehow every guy excuses them from it. All women are fuckboys Its magically shrouded in mystery…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 10:41 AM
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Yeah i know. Seriously, my ideal life would be just taking pride in my work, having good close friends, and then knowing a girl that wants to ride me like a mechanical bull every once in a while. If she can prove to be as valuable of a buddy as my other friends then... maybe. Im still trying to think very deeply about all of this. I feel its highly unlikely that im going to find a girl that can fill this role though.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 09:06 AM
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Sacrifices are subconsciously Entitlements. Nice guys pull this, ive been a nice guy. I get the feeling that sacrifices should only be made knowing who its really for and what you are owed for making it.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 06:35 AM
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You disagree with being pleasant? Alphas shouldnt be assholes, just the the most valuable and entertaining people in the room and the cause of better easier times.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 01:27 AM
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Alpha males remove responsibility from the group, relieving others of pressure and worry. I like this statement between Alpha and Responsibility. This is Alpha in the most general sense. This makes it crystal clear why leaders are assumed to be Alpha, whether or not leading spills over into personal life.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 01:17 AM
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Women from every region in the world shows AWALT tendencies, many Arab women are promiscuous as f*** This is interested... so tendency for hypergamy is common everywhere?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 01:03 AM
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She cant be deported? 2 months married seems like a ridiculous loophole. If i were him, id make the case to authorities she used him for a citizenship. If she wasnt using him, she wouldnt care about losing that citizenship and moving back.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 12:59 AM
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The way its presented, it just screams "lie". But isnt it good to show her you arent stupid, and give conditionals? I mean, so what if you show you care about exclusivity, if thats something bothering you. If you show you are willing to walk away, doesnt that still retain the power. Me in that position, i wouldnt be able to control my curiosity for 'whether she could supply the uber reciept'. And the only way the test is valid is if you control the test.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 12:26 AM
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The first and second rules of TRP: dont talk about TRP. It can be too hard to swallow unless you actively seek to understand. Some might see it as mysogyny here, and try to burn the place down.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 09:43 AM
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This was interesting... many different aspects you balance, like speed of commitment giving, and amount of emotional availability. Always in the center. But i have to admit, all the talk about commitment giving and gifts and babies and responsibilities... fuck i'm done. Im feeling clausterphobic. I dont know, im actively repulsed by anyone expecting gifts and duties and stressing me out by judging. I cant handle these predetermined duties and having to 'man up', and having my inspiration sucked …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 09:21 AM
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Impotence, inhibited sex life... he was very beta. You have a good point, maybe TRP couldve helped him, rather than him being trashed. I cant remember how long she lived with him until she gave up. I can understand her mentality though... kindof. if you are not where you want to be, you cant expect the deadweights in your life to blossom into entertainment. Dont know how hard she tried to fix him, but i would guess she took a fairly passive role just like most women do.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 02:23 AM
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It is ideal to continue with a good thing... if women had to woo more they might not be so quick to leave a relationship when the next stud starts seducing her, because he wouldnt be, she'd have to seduce him! Too much work for us guys. and you don't have to have pictures of your girlfriend getting rammed in your head all the time. Lol, very good point. That can be a bothersome loop. But everyone should actively avoid practicing jealousy and torturing themselves and becoming more sensitive to it…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 02:11 AM
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Im pretty sure there were issues with the sex life
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 01:23 AM
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I know a girl that did this... it was a giant let down, and then they both were depressed together. She divorced him, had sex out of marriage, had a kid, and found another single man with kids that she loves... and she is now married to him. I think if everyone loosens up about sex and jealousy, life could be better. Testing the waters is essential for a lifelong commitment... having said that, women typically do the worst job of creating good situations as if they are entitled to be passive, an…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 12:43 AM
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I love this mentality. Always think of the end, but enjoy the middle. The constant is you and your pride through your entire life. I dont get sad because i finished an amazing dinner, so why get sad when its clear you need to break up. I need to learn how to break hearts for my own happiness.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 12:25 AM
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So, porn and ejaculation when you took a good motivated risk and succeeded?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 11:02 AM
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It is not reward though, he isn't blowing his load.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 10:58 AM
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What is the problem with that?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 08:00 AM
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Read ester vilar's the manipulated man in the side bar. She takes the stance that women grow up and are taught to be leeches and "mentally check out by the time they are 12 yo", while men are taught to be independent capable machines, much more beautiful than women ever attain, and men dont even realize it. Its a good read if you havent read. She obviously shares the view that women arent born passive any more than men. So there is one woman. And perhaps many other examples as lesbians... You co…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 03:05 AM
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Stop. Stop Hamstering. Stop. "They were trying to judge me instead of my confidence model" If its true im being judged, its true. You are clearly focused on me and my supposed dream relationship. No hard feelings. But it appears everyone is oblivious to addressing the model, rather than going ‘yeah this guy is a pansy beta'. There were a few that seem to get to the heart of it though. Stop. You're not a fucking victim, you're not a woman. There wasnt much emotion surrounding my statement. Im not…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 02:07 AM
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Let me put it simply for you: "If I have to put diplomacy ahead of effectiveness in any given situation, then I am being beta." This is an interesting viewpoint of beta. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 12:30 AM
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I think that's what he's trying to elaborate. Simply recognize and react, no nerves
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 04:28 AM
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It is a long list, but the concept is good. Especially the idea that you are not waiting for your nerve, but responding to a boring routine checklist. Something that i would add is ways to recover emotionally from criticism... excuses or something... still trying to figure this part out.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 04:26 AM
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Try to encourage pride in yourself and your works, inwardly. Outwardly, dont be a braggard, let others do that for you. Pride masks loneliness and disappointment. Narcicism is a dirty word, but is exactly what you need if you are feeling down. Look at your body like you belong in a porno. To this day, im still trying to counter all the criticism and low self esteem i internalized when i was in high school
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 04:12 AM
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Good point. You dont want to get sperm jacked
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 03:03 AM
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Hahahaha... Mgtows do lurk on here
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 02:53 AM
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Regardless of your opinions on leadership and masculinity your post reeks of you basically wanting to be taken out by women, treated to a fun evening by women and her taking charge, making the decisions and making the moves. I think ive just realized why everyone downvoted my post and all of my responses. They were trying to judge me rather than evaluate my confidence model. If you can not see how you're emasculating and effiminizing yourself then count your blessings that you found TRP because,…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 02:46 AM
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Im trying to model the why of this predisposed inclination to avoid leading. I dont buy into this evolutionary wiring. Women are human as much as men... in some cases it is a blurry line between whether someone is biologically a girl or a guy... we appear to have all the same emotions and senses of seeing good quality. The best proof that i have to myself is the thought experiment. Imagine if all men were mostly passive including you as you once were, and women you knew were shining beacons of e…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 02:16 AM
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That is too blanketing to say RP is bullshit if 'wiring theory' doesnt hold. It can still be useful as a rule of thumb to say AWALT, because society cant change overnight, and we might very well be stuck with the millenials. Knowing how attraction is structured and operates may offer some new techniques that the average redpiller would dismiss because of this mantra.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 01:17 AM
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I think i changed my sister a little recently. Showed her how passive she was about a lot in her life, and that she can challenge herself more socially. I think there is utility in knowing if its wired or learned because it can help in spotting predictions of personality from their environment. I feel that passivity is learned, and that it causes hypergamy and double standards, and that it might be curbed by encouraging alpha behavior in them being the life of the party, rather than supporting t…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 12:50 AM
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Hmmm... maybe i dont know enough about her and brad pitt. There could be a connection between alpha traits and desire for open relationships in women, but i doubt its any more that a man with alpha traits knowing his value and wanting to spread his seed in many women.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 12:24 AM
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Leading is not EXCLUSIVELY masculine. Both men and women should lead when it makes sense. You prob take pride in leading and impressing women because youve been brainwashed, just like women are brainwashed to see themselves as judges to be impressed or not. As long as this toxic dynamic which detatches women from leadership occurs, they wont be self sufficient, will waver emotionally to their judgements of their man, and dump them in favor of the more impressive man (hypergamy). I agree with you…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 12:04 AM
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I think hypergamy is complex and can still be explained through absence of learning self sufficiency, rather than just evolutionary wiring. There are only so many tweaks that evolution can pull off.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 11:01 PM
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As to criticism: The specific criticism is that men and women are wired differently. Women are wired to be led, and they respect men who lead them I am skeptical that its wiring, but rather i think its learned. On the surface, what you say can prob be used as a rule of thumb. I wonder if there is any natural evidence to support the wired vs learning claims. Maybe isolated women or lesbians?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 10:44 PM
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Ive been gleaning a lot of info off of here, its great. I think i recognize user gaylubeoil, that username does stick out. Perhaps i dont know enough about the community values to lecture. But I was excited about this seemingly predictive model, wrote it up, and decided to post it. Thought it would be helpful. I have not read any good criticism of my post... so im feeling its above most who have read it. No doubt you see zero value in the prediction that "women outsourcing confidence leads to he…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 10:22 PM
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As long as he can make sandwiches, he's in.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 09:55 PM
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Leading is not masculine! Shit, did i just attract a fuck ton of jar head comments? Do you not find anything attractive about a woman with confidence to lead in any area of her life? Maybe she can lead in sandwich making, thats hot. Think back to your beta days, wouldnt it have been nice for women to lead in interactions, society appears to train them to not. Not saying men should stunt their personal growth. I laid out a model of the female mind in terms of confidences, and how its the source o…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 09:53 PM
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I swear there is complete confusion on what constitutes alpha behavior. You should never dominate in an area you know nothing about. You will be a cunts or an asshole... not an alpha. I suppose someone that is used to controlling without constraints will butt heads with others that are the same, but again that is not alpha. Alpha is about leading when needed, not being controlling.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 09:24 PM
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Not even angelina jolie? Alpha is not being a cunt, its having confidence to do things which create a good time.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 09:17 PM
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Well, you must be used to valueing women on body and face alone, which is fine. But if no one is confident to do anything interesting, you have bland boring interaction.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 09:13 PM
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You dont think women are indoctrinated to be betas?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 09:08 PM
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Let me ask you, why is anyone confident to do anything socially? Ill tell you, either they are an blind idiot or they know what works from experience and simulation. Being alpha isnt being a dominant asshole who does things simply because they want to... you get into trouble that way. You literally become a dipshit asshole if you do this. Leaders cannot be blind. Its simply leading through experience or knowledge. I may have only been on here a few weeks... but ive doubled down on analyzing this…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 09:06 PM
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I dont think you fully grasp what he is getting at. Having a crush is exciting because in some way it is unpredictable. Betas love butterflies... and will choke up because of them. Alphas miss out on the butterflies, but can mentally function and be attractive. Its an interesting tradeoff
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 04:46 AM
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I really liked this post! This is the heart of confidence, predictability. And interestingly it does effect excitement, good and bad. The way foward is to make it boring so your mind focuses on other things during interaction.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 04:38 AM
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Interesting... superstition polarizes the way you act. I cant tell if you are new to TRP... there is a lot that is incredibly insightful here. It exposes female psychology, tons of examples of 'be this and dont be that', often cuts through the overly sympathizing bs to plainly view occurrences for what they are. In particular, ester vilar's book the manipulated man from the 70s (in the side bar), really effected me emotionally... essentially she is pointing out how detached her own gender is all…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 04:19 AM
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Frankly, I'm warning against the overly inflamed preoccupation with sex I agree E.g. "Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men." An identity doesn't have to be sexual by any stretch of the imagination. This sub is focused on how to attract women, a theme which has flipped my understanding on how to treat and interact with women in a social group. Understand people come here to reevaluate themselves and discuss this... dont detract from that. I n…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 11:49 PM
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I think i saw an example of this. My sister thinks one of my friends is hot, i told her she's unlikely to have an LTR with him because i know how he thinks, wouldnt be surprised if he is TRP. He has flings and such and is a playboy. She's very religious. But i looked closely at her reaction, she is still attracted to him. She might have even got off to the idea he was so sexual, probably trying to figure out how to do acrobatics around religious restrictions and maintain 'holiness' without shame…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 10:08 PM
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You just did the classic blue pill move of trying to help protect her from the mean old alpha and that just makes the other guy more attractive. Does this really happen? Creating forbidden fruit?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 06:03 PM
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That would be a step up from watching netflix all day. There is no pride and self worth in consuming.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 09:25 AM
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Who are the cock suckers that downvoted this. This is not bad advice, create more, consume less. I guess they all think that consuming and playing video games watching tv and not knowing fuck all about the world they live in is attractive and will raise their sexual market value. Herd mind.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 09:08 AM
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Value is extremely mental. You can be a greek god and own a million dollar company but still not feel worthy of a beautiful girl. Feelings are not absolute, they are relative. Im not saying you have to cut anyone down in interactions, just mentally cut them down so that you feel worthy. Choking up because you overvalue a girl is the worst, you want feel like they dont matter right? Whatever... i was just trying to add value to a vague post.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 08:52 AM
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This concept of tackling loneliness resonates with me alot. I had this all thru high school, but ive largely solved it with having immense pride in the things i do currently. I have a sense that it is entirely created from unintentional practice loop polarizing you to be desperate, codependent, and feeling like you are missing out instead of having pride that gives you a sense that you are exactly where you want to be. Although i wonder why we have it biologically, maybe its related to jealousy …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 01:36 AM
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I like the message. Be a creator. It has the effect of making you the conduit from which interesting things flow from. It attracts women to you, as well as you to yourself. Personally i dont think you should completely cut out consuming, i think it is neccessary to know sources of entertainment, so that you can lead as a "tour guide" and "show and tell". Ive watched the show and tell routine successfully done on me. Its pretty alpha to make statements about good quality things you appreciate. I …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 12:20 AM
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I love posts like this, dissecting the typical garbage that i absorbed in my youth. Its an assalt on a man's willingness to be break up with them if you arent feeling it. But of coarse they can totally break it off with you and have another guy rail them the next day. The truth is if you are a guy reading that bs, you might be thinking about avoiding 'appearing like this fuck boy', but it should read loosely as a successful guide to attracting women. I mean being non genuine and dishonest about …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 11:18 PM
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Yes! We have to define a separate identity of interests and pride separate from women. We need to cut out the superstitions of romanticism and see our experiences with them for what they are: good times and sexy times which happen to be addicting
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 07:59 PM
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Omg. This was hillarious. Some might disagree but i think being a source of humor or entertainment gives you power... but perhaps you fucked up by repeating it on command like a clown. If you had the right personality with the IDGAF, talking to the ladies and getting them to laugh, throwing parties, and having dimension beyond the fish spasm routine, you would be a real catch
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 07:11 PM
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Weird. Ive been doing the same. It started as creating letters that i never sent and then devolved into developing responses for real life interactions and opened the door to analyzing why im writing any given detail to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 06:51 PM
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Im coming to this realization too. As long as there are no red flags of stupidity, the girl meets my standards. Women appear to have these values too, and thus AF/BB
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 06:36 PM
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Frame is the separation from the herd mind. I love collecting piercing definitions like this. This is good.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 02:26 AM
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Point taken. I suppose MGTOW does have a strong connotation that conflicts with values i share here. And it is important to not dim motivation on this sub. Abstractly, i still think it is dead on to visit a MGTOW mindset to give yourself value. It helps you realize that women are just tag alongs, and that you are the real value in the interactions not them.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 04:17 PM
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There are a few weird things that drain my ability to get excited about life day to day... strangely, fatty foods seem to numb my feelings. Caffeine in tea can help make it easier to feel good, but also helps magnify irritations, i suggest dont drink every day. Fasting also helps and eating more vegtables, as well as periods of abstinence from arousal, or perhaps not blowing your load(bullet proof monk). Generally abstaining from overused pleasures can lower the bar for being entertained by thin…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 07:34 AM
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Wtf man?! Did you read the post? Its brainstorming and i thought id share with a community that appears to share my values. MGTOW is just a position you dont need women to be happy right? And cutting down their value in your mind this way seems pretty legit and is a fair step in combating one-itis. If you dont like the theory, then thats your fucking opinion that you need to counter. Sounds like you hate MGTOWs, and for the record ive never even looked at their sub, just using the acronym to be …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 05:11 AM
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There is still only so many guys. Even if she can get dick, she wont keep it and will turn into a cat lady.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 04:24 AM
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Sex is enjoyable. Buildup and maybes are enjoyable. Hanging out with an awesome chick that appreciates you is enjoyable. If you focus on those, over time your brain will not see it as a let down, and more like a series of fuck yeah moments. Believe me, your mind will adjust. Your expectations were just set too high as if it everything else pales in comparison. I swear no one should feel shame to get a prostitute if they feel stuck in there 20s so this doesnt interfere with personal enjoyments an…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 04:03 AM
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What you could do is put him in a shitty situation where you COULD fuck him over similar to what he did to you. Tell him you wont fuck him and call truce if you care about the relation with him. If i were you i'd cut him off, but if theres history or other reasons, give him one chance let him redeem himself. Cuz hes a fucking toxic piece of shit and you shouldnt trust him. Edit: btw thats good thinking in diffusing the drama
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 03:28 AM
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Feminism in a way is good, because women's freedom to perform work roles has opened the door for them to take responsibilities... not just be boring baby makers at home... this freedom allows competition to slowly challenge women to be better people for us men to enjoy...theyll be less dependent on support, be more logical, more creative, funnier... life can be better because of it. Obviously there might be biological limitations, and everyone should be honest about them despite categories we se…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 03:04 AM
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I hear ya. MGTOW can be taken too far. The impression that im trying to give is that MGTOW can be thought of as a starting point (as in you dont need a woman) that can compliment Abundance mentality to tackle the one-itis.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 01:13 AM
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They arent in it for themselves until they want something different than you. If you dont even know what you want then theyll write the story for you, which may not be in your best interest. Read material in side bar, its very enlightening. Id recommend 'the manipulated man' by ester vilar (pdf in the sidebar)... the viewpoint is shocking because the author is a woman calling out other women on the crap they get away with.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 09:21 AM
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So we internalize the wrong ideas about how to think about and treat women because of group think... sounds right. By the time we self actualize and feel entitled to study and really judge women's psychology, we've defaulted to passively accept what borders other people have told us, and hold them as sacredly unjudgable to avoid criticism, and distrust the pickup artists, and vilify their personalities... the very personalities that get women wetter than niagra falls.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 05:43 AM
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I think this guy changed his comment from a general "this is off topic" statement. Id never say women are inferior, only in a position to not apply themselves. Just so you know, TRP is generally not the place for a discussion like this... its for developing techniques and strategies for seducing women which does often include discussing the bigger picture... so itd be a stretch to say this fits nonetheless, i found this post really interesting which i felt compelled to participate in.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 01:19 AM
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Perhaps many women never really liked children all that much. They married betas and procreated because "it was a living". Now that women can do what they want, we can see what they truly are. They like to fuck alphas until they hit the wall. Make babies a choice and the burdens outweigh the perks. Ideally, i would guess everyone wants freedom from burdens... and children are a huge burden to raise. I say we corrale all the babies to community hubs and have them raised with a dedicated staff, pa…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 01:05 AM
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Ya the customs of a large family stays and is 'blessed' lol
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 12:13 AM
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I feel bad for the obvious Blue Pill guy. Men grow up thinking with the simplistic idea that women value commitment to them, they only do after you demonstrate value, commitment is not value in and of itself. It doesnt attract them, and if anything they quickly learn that a committed guy is annoying for them to deal with, and associate it with being turned off. What they do want because they are lazy, judgemental, and self-centered princesses is a guy to physically attract them, seduce them, ent…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 12:10 AM
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I know, wtf, right? I find it interesting but it definitely doesnt belong here. This is not personal smv strategy this is a debate on societal policies
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 11:16 PM
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If every man and women can say theyve had 2 kids, there is no growth. I'm fairly certain industrial nations dont meet this. The world expansion is from societies that value children as necessary to take care of them when they are older.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 11:13 PM
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State raised kids maybe? Or community raised? The drawback in most peoples minds of having kids is the burden of raising them. Personally i think i would feel great and get off on the idea of having lots of kids if it didnt feel like such a huge responsibility. If it was a whimsicle decision, people would not think twice and have lots of unprotected sex. But thats a mans perspective... but maybe women might like that idea too? Possibly not because they arent typically the providers.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 11:07 PM
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I dont think you understand red pill. You dont need to be a 9/10 to get any women and set the narrative. Its your ability to show high value and show yourself and others you can still walk away. Unless you are bitching about your low self worth, in which case, start doing things worthy of your attention. Many problems arise from women being allowed to be irrational and have double standards and both men and women let them get away with it. Just say no and walk away, and DONT treat them as myster…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 10:47 PM
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ya like... people who are seeking it will find it, and that acts to filter the people who would be offended from the frame everyone talks on here with. Blue pillers that arent ready to take on the frame we do, and realize the red pill is fair, will prob try to crash and burn the community before they can realize they are vilifying the wrong people
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 07:55 PM
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"The manipulated man" by ester vilar... required TRP reading, easy access from reddit side bar as pdf, read it last night. I can see why this is both the MGTOW bible and very useful for TRP. Tangent: Holy shit did that open my eyes to the point of view women come from! It feel like i just took THE RED PILL and realized I was living in a different world than i thought i was. Would have never believed the framing and content if it wasnt written by a woman. It enraged me and was dumbstruck that all…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 01:44 AM
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Saved. this is perfect thank you. The more common place this is to women the better.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 11:40 PM
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I am sharing this sentiment for the first time in my life. I am now as fickle as the women were in my 20s, as ive accepted how worthless the typical woman is by their own standards.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 07:56 PM
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"30s is a good time to slay pussy" FUCK YA! I feel like i missed out in my 20s. How weird is it though to go out clubbing and bar hopping in your 30s though?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 07:27 PM
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It does seem a little vague here at times, but i really think the principle is useful. It is to lead. Women want to join the fun, not be the fun. Its work to plan fun, think about things, take risk. If its already done for her and all she has to do is join in, your entertainment value skyrockets. It doesnt seem fair... and is just another burden for the men, and another way for women to unfairly judge men for things that they fail at themselves... No matter how traditional it sounds, the point s…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 06:41 PM
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HAHAHAHAHAHA ... I have the feeling the OP shares this point of view
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 05:32 PM
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you really gave a fair view. The article title makes her sound like feminist garbarge... but then you consider how being social and alone around people giving off bad vibes in the middle of a city is not the peak of enjoyment the game was intended for. I think if the city was more like a college town, where you are bumping into people you recognize and everywhere just seems like a chill hangout... then the suggestive article title would be detatched from reality, and this girl is likely anti-soc…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 05:14 PM
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The more i think about this post, the more i think its an unfair analysis. "Men have to restrain themselves from being manly"... really!? "While women fake what they are?" Im sure women censor their urges just as much as men do, otherwise they are disgusting pigs, just as much as women are worried about being sluts... she's pitting the unconfident women against the sense of a man she'd like to date, that has it all figured out. At first i felt sorry, but zoom out and see the larger picture of bo…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 06:28 AM
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Who uses feigned in normal conversation? I had to look this one up
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 03:56 AM
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Hey, some tatoos on women are fucking hot. Like the ones that peek out from under their clothes and make you want to see more. One time i saw a girl with a math formula on her back... perfect for learning during doggy style :D
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 03:44 AM
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lol... seriously you make the disgust very compelling and lasting with this. Justifying a sense of jealousy and purity... i don't think this is a helpful framing. If we take this disgust framing to the extreme, I could ruin the whole act of sex by saying women are just men with testicles acting like ovaries because all of the anatomy is still there, just in different proportions because of genetic anomalies including testosterone prevalence... dude you're really having gay sex, not sex with used…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 01:54 AM
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This is deep. White knights are free commitment. But how do you make it conditional?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 12:49 AM
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I agree, women should not be slut shamed... the reality is that women have sexual urges just as men do. There are many sources that keep people from being sex positive, which need to be disolved. I am guessing you took my comment as negative. It was not negative... as a man, it feels exciting to know women think about sex and dicks, they should be reminded of this, and should feel entitled to think its ok. Rarely do they admit to this, until it sounds like it fits societal norms. It is not criti…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 12:33 AM
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Great post! I think just like you, its all addictions. Abstaining from these make you more sensitive to them... like eating candy warps your taste buds to a degree that makes fresh fruit taste bland. I think however the key is cutting down, rather than completely out. Generally, 'lowering the bar' makes many more things entertaining, allowing you to be focused on others things you can have more control over and that give you pride, where obtaining women does not have to be the end goal, but rath…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 11:23 PM
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So many people fall back on what they percieve as "normal" interaction without thinking deeper about aiming for ideals that they can logically defend. One thing i personally struggled with was becoming a sexual man. Not crass or creepy. Just entitled to want it. Like it was something i was dishonest about to myself because i needed to appear like a guy that no women could criticize. Its interesting to realize that as a thinking man, you might sometimes understand women more than these same women…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 10:40 PM
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I think this IS a good talking point. "Taking the pill" is about opening your eyes, thinking for yourself, and not just accepting what others say overtly. You must feel entitled to judge others and yourself in your own mental space without censoring your own thoughts to yourself with everyone else's expectations and judgements and succumb to group think. I think you are right, opening your eyes is only the first step, and does NOT create lasting change itself. Changing yourself into your ideal i…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 09:30 PM
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no my ideal is not games... honesty is likely best. In this case he is misrepresenting a mood and the cause so she organically thinks commitment is not sexy to him... which I'm sure it isnt sexy. So in a round about way he is being honest, just not about what effects his sex drive. He could come out and say "Im not going to have sex with you if you are going to push me into commitments, im fine where i'm at", but that might not have the same emotional impact since it confronts her with a choice …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 05:18 PM
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The way i see it, hes being dishonest about being horny and letting her draw conclusions 'that pushes for commitment turns him off'. He could be up front and say 'im not going to have sex with you if you are going to push me into commitments, im fine where im at for the moment'. That is close to many women that take on traditional values and say 'i'm not going to have sex with you unless you commit' even when they are horny. They have a condition they are holding to while sex is on the table.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 04:16 PM
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at this point I cant tell if you are waaay deeper than me, or if you are a sociopath that doesn't care about the health and welfare of another human being. In a way, every bad thing that happens to others, it is always ultimately the fault of the perceiver... but practically there has to be a line drawn on the limits of what you can reasonably control to make the world better. Under this threshold, you have freedom to breath, and live a life. Socially we agree on what this threshold is and assig…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 06:10 AM
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Raising your worth (ie outside competition, seduction, hot body) so its silly for you to be refused sex... is good advice.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 02:35 AM
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Im trying to apply this maxim "sex is the minimum" to friends with benefits, non exclusive, or short term relationships. Should men make this a condition of hang outs?.... for LTR or marriage i admit this is golden wisdom
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 02:24 AM
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There are always boundries. Extreme example: murdering someone the girl hates to get laid. Ends dont justify the means, unless the means are acceptable consequences which are fair to everyone involved. Maybe im being too philosophically deep for this sub
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 02:01 AM
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Yeah, anger is not bad, it is a display to show your personal boundaries, that someone is hurting you and it is unacceptable. Physical abuse is not good from anyone though, and that is definitely not alpha (or womanly). On that note, stoicism is awesome... valuing wisdom knowledge and control of self. I would readily accept this as atleast part of alpha mentality.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 12:18 AM
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If you ever catch women in the mood but laying down conditions for sex its fair game that you do it. Catching on is irrelevent if you can explain your actions in a sane way. Dangerous for sure, bc as you said karmas a bitch. Perhaps dont use sex as reward punishment, but if you catch her giving conditions you need to catch on and call her out on it
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 10:50 PM
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Not always, intent is the center of ethics and responsibility
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 10:46 PM
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Is it self respect when a man gets rejected and has a sensitive ego?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 10:44 PM
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You sound like the naive guy that accepts the world view of the typical women, while never having defined whats ideal for yourself. Withholding sex with conditions is done by women all of the time... it is completely fair for men to do it. Open communication is good, but it isnt necessary if you want to avoid the convo... especially if it is grounds for them to manipulate you with what everyone senses as 'normal' rather than ideal
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 10:41 PM
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Its funny that many women would also tack on conditions for sex, for other reasons.... hmmmm makes you think a little? Right? Even though they would be in the mood otherwise. But when women are doing it they are justified by 'moral' reasons to mold a dream, but when men do it they are 'manipulating' to get their dream. I say good job on being a man-hater... oh wait your a man?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 10:28 PM
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Seriously, how whipped are you that you dont realize the large scale hypocrisy women pull off, and that men are too bashful to even reflect and recognize. They WANT sex. You also want sex. Women are told all men are dogs and want sex all of the time. But men assume its lucky to even get laid. Women take it for granted, and then tack on naive conditions to make their storyline like a romantic comedy. Its like seeing entitled princesses playing dolls with their lives. Every time a guy with holds s…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 10:10 PM
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Next time you are shamed by a women (or 'nice men') for wanting sex, or passively denied sex by your partner for something that happened, remember this post. If your girl is willing to do it to you, you have every right to do it to her.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 09:58 PM
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I swear anytime men (or women) come across prudish women, they should call them out for it. Ive had alot of women in my life that were willing to make men out to be dogs and vile just for expressing interest in sex. If unchallenged, this creates a culture that produces the 'nice guy' which feels ashamed of what they want and unwilling to control it, while women wallow in always feeling wanted by men sexually, they feel the need to tack on conditions to it. They then take sex for granted and its …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 09:47 PM
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Maybe kids as the next 'commitment' ?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 09:23 PM
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Interesting... so the idea is to move very slowly in commitment? Seeing commitment as a limited resource, and value in giving small chunks of it to maintain interest in winning you over. Its sounds like the most fair thing to yourself, rather than being ready for marriage a couple weeks after you date, or living together for that matter. The question is 'is there anything after marriage?' Or are you doomed once this happens?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 09:22 PM
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Soooo true... and we point to our perceptions of 'normal' for confidence in these scripts
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 09:02 PM
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I recently had used this framing too... because you know they want it... and how dare they use that to control you. If it is fair game by their rules, then it is fair to use it against them
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 08:19 PM
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I love this mentality, i seriously jumped on reddit to rant about how many women frame men as vile for being interested in sex and 'are nothing but dogs', but then turn around and worship the dick. Growing up and listening to these prudish women and censoring yourself to apparently please them is incredibly uninformative. Men should feel entitled to define their own world of whats normal and what they want in life, not take the romantic comedy that many women pose as the ideal. And then i stumbl…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 08:13 PM
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Also humiliation and stress push it waaay down
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 07:19 PM
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Dude... the relationship between sex drive and testosterone is more complex than more equals more... its more on how sensitive your cells are to in response to things like this. Its likely men feel the swings in testosterone more though, of which sleepy time is when your body is flooded with it... as well as orgasm
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 07:17 PM
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