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0.8 to 1g per lb, 1.6 to 2.2 g per kg.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/21 06:01 PM
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Hi, long time listener, first(ish) time caller. Sex like this IS boring. You say sex with her isn't boring, but I know this situation well and personally, I find it boring. I also find it unfulfilling, as if the gift of my sex is being disregarded. It's like fucking a robot - you can do anything you want, but that gets old. My girl and I are in a D/s relationship, and she identifies as a little. I realized have no interest in a master/slave dynamic because I want a partner. We are not equal, I t…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 07:38 PM
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Edit: she bought the panties - just wanted me to pick them out for her. The majority of comments here are in line with your silver back comment - learn to dominate yourself, be your own mental point of origin, etc. I think that getting out of her head and staying solidly in my own will be the most important aspect. Thanks for the help.
/r/askMRP05/05/20 05:43 PM
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My girlfriend asked me to take her shopping so that she could pick out and buy a bunch of panties that I liked. That way, she had a bunch of 'approved' panties that she could wear with me for instances when she wasn't able to go without. Now. That is something that was not on my radar in the beginning. Thus, I am still learning. Do I have work to do on myself? Sure. I made that abundantly clear, but the sexual nature of my relationship with this woman from day one has been D/s and I'm putting th…
/r/askMRP01/05/20 06:20 PM
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Meh, too late now. Fake it till I make it.
/r/askMRP01/05/20 06:05 PM
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Thanks, I appreciate it
/r/askMRP30/04/20 08:09 PM
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She brought it up in the beginning when I put my hand on her throat in bed - to the best of my knowledge she is a submissive.I like the way you frame it, I will try that. I posted it here because the bdsm sites are full of fucking wierdo's, and redpill dovetails nicely with a dom/sub relationship
/r/askMRP30/04/20 05:53 PM
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Fuck. That rings too true
/r/askMRP30/04/20 05:46 PM
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Your wife calls me Daddy
/r/askMRP30/04/20 05:44 PM
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Do you adjust your treatment of her when she is PMSing? Mine becomes more difficult to deal with and often doesnt even know why.
/r/askMRP30/04/20 05:41 PM
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Agreed, if her actions can throw me then I clearly have work to do on being my own mental point of origin. Can you detail the formal arrangement you have? Is it literally a signed document that details what rules you will be holding her to? I am gravitating towards that so that these passes and amendments she wants to make on the fly could be curtailed.
/r/askMRP30/04/20 05:12 PM
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Damn, I recently came to the conclusion that I am guilty of attraction validation after a couple of recent incidents and the strong emotional reaction of anger they stirred inside myself (and where there's anger, there's hurt...butt hurt). The reaction embarrassed the hell out of me, not once, but twice. Thanks for the post.
/r/askMRP06/04/20 08:48 PM
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'Practical Female Psychology' by Joseph W. South has some useful 'things to watch for' that specifically relate to women with low self esteem.
/r/askMRP07/02/20 08:18 PM
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You mentioned below literotica. Another website I found useful was the "Dominant Soul wordpress" website as a place to get ideas. It was mentioned below about 'brats'. I don't enjoy putting up with that behaviour, bit my work around is to figure out what she is hoping to get out of that behaviour (spanking? Hot wax? Tied up?) And reframe those as rewards for good behaviour vs punishments/funishments. That way you're encouraging behaviour you want vs bad behaviour, AND she gets what she wants.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/20 08:04 PM
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I like it, part one was good too. Since I've found massive value in the ideas I've read here and elsewhere in regards to ways to dominate your woman and figure out your own style, I'll add to Red's list some of the things I enjoy doing with my women. I always enforce with my longer term plates that a good girl is a gooey girl/drips for daddy/etc. They get turned on by being good girls -> when they're horny and dripping I call them good girls -> they drip more -> positive feedback loop. my pet na…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/20 02:18 AM
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You look at yourself in the mirror everyday, of course you don't think you look like you lift. Add in a little body dysmorphia and you probably think you're downright small. Tinder bitches don't mean shit. Go find a photo of yourself from pre-lifting times and that will put things in perspective. I'm 6'4" 230 and I assure you, I look like I lift. Also, big number fuel personal goals, but mass isn't built by your 1 RM. Don't beat yourself up so much. If your pushing 225 for reps you're probably b…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 08:16 PM
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Old person opener. Say it with a look of genuine curiosity/confusion on your face, because you're asking a question you want the answer to. Walk by, casually glance at her notes and go "excuse me, those look like great notes. I missed that thing the prof said after break, did you happen to write it down?" Bla bla bla old people openers are fire.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 11:47 PM
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As much as i would have liked to get her number, the post was (supposed to be) about me learning how to approach, and asking for advice. It was motivated by a lack of success. You're certainly right that I need more practice, and that means opening more women, not just hot ones.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 11:36 PM
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Thanks, I'm working on talking to more people through my day just to build that confidence.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 02:21 PM
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Damn. I like this. When I can pull this off comfortably I will know that I've made it.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 02:16 PM
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Yes. This would have been much better.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 03:13 AM
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Aha, true, but it's the number one thing I need to work on. I'm still working on opening girls, and it is definitely getting better (approach anxiety is getting less). I agree, accept it for what it was and move on. It's definitely better than not approaching and kicking yourself after.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 03:11 AM
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I prefer to child-like. Think about the times you've been happiest with your woman, and I'll bet it was when she was behaving child-like. When you're drunk in the kitchen at midnight on a work week dancing to who the fuck cares and she turns into this little ball of happiness and excitement that can't stop giggling...child-like. When you take her fishing and she's getting pouty that you're catching all the fish and she isn't getting any (because you're a boss), and then she finally gets one and …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/18 02:39 PM
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Point taken
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 09:14 PM
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Partly why you felt compelled to make this post is because you're still processing what went wrong. Very true. But to answer it, I walk the day the value my wife and family bring me become less than the cost of separating. She knows it, I know it, it is an understood dynamic. Exactly my point. I determined that, given everything I was experiencing with her and everything I was doing to work on myself, it was no longer worth it for me to stay. I didn't give the play-by-play because people give op…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 07:21 PM
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I didnt put it in the main post because it doesn't matter to me whether I get everyones nod of approval over the boundary or not. That's not the point.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 06:59 PM
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I guess it was more of a NEXT than a MAIN EVENT if you base it on my living arrangments: same living accomodations but not married, no kids, and not that long together (~2 yrs, 8 months long distance).
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 06:36 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/7xr2bp/shit_tests_and_main_events_they_are_not_container/ ???
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 06:18 PM
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I think the community dies do an excellent job of helping men unplug, and in particular showing them the difference between comfort tests, shit tests, etc. "If dem supa smrt intrnt guys say so, den it mst be so!! I wrote that as a poke at myself, because I was putting the opinions of unknown men above my own while I was learning. I can see though how it comes off as a stab at everyone doing good work on here. That was not my intent. your hypersensitivity. I sat her down 4 months before I left an…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 06:10 PM
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How is that off base for a main event?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 05:48 PM
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No better lube for anal than tears.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 05:01 PM
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My understanding of a main event perfectly lines up with other descriptions on here. I was mostly checked out, and she was blowing snot bubbles and begging for me to stay. I don't need anything (woman) better lined up. Chicks branch swing; I left because my lines were not being respected over a period of 8 months. I'm working on me more than ever. Reconnected with an old buddy who is busting his ass to be financially secure before he's 30 (not have to work) and it's awesome to bounce ideas with …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 04:58 PM
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The feelings of power over my own life I described weren't because of the sidebar books, it was because I am living authentically. I let her treat me horrid in the beginning because I treated myself horrid in the beginning. I was in the middle of immense anxiety and depression that was the result of a mental breakdown. It took me 1 year to overcome that, which I did while I was away at grad school, and I came back a changed man. When I came back (8 months away) I knew I had changed for the bette…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 04:43 PM
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Constantly. I didn't leave because I couldn't get sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 04:19 PM
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... 6'4, 220, 15% BF squat is at 365 for 5. My intent with posting was to show that it's more important to set your own standards (without going rambo) then to get too wrapped up in the community's general definition of shit tests (If it's about you, regardless of how shitty, ...suck it up!)
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 04:09 PM
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How is that distinction trite? I ask because it's something I've seen on this blog before, and it helped me see the difference between 1) her bitching AT you about her bad day at work, 2) her bitching TO you about her bad day at work.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 04:02 PM
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2 months ago. Sure, it's difficult to let go of oneitis.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 03:59 PM
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I don't understand the hating. If I decide I'm not going to put up with something, why does that invite such criticism , vs. Putting up with shitty behaviour because someone else said I need to. It can be difficult as a new guy when you are reading responses on here and some commenters say they flat out WILL NOT accept certain behaviour, and others go, "Faggot, why do you care so much". It's the principle: I don't let anyone else talk to me that way, why her?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 03:55 PM
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You posted this looking for us to give you excuses to blame her rather than yourself. No. Quit looking for excuses and blaming others And this is why I know I need to take a good look at me. Thanks.
/r/askMRP28/09/17 06:13 PM
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Well, I don't remember specifically sitting her down and sharing this with her, but are you saying it's bad for me to talk about my goals for the future with my GF? I have a path. This is where my life is going. Walk with me or walk away. Have I fucked up somehow?
/r/askMRP28/09/17 05:39 PM
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I'm not doing everything I can to be the best fucking man I can, while simultaneously blaming her for not being the woman I want?
/r/askMRP28/09/17 05:33 PM
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condescending tones when talking to me/answering questions, using 'hangry' as an excuse to be rude, putting me down in front of our friends, telling me what to do. The vast majority of it is talking to me with a shitty tone though
/r/askMRP28/09/17 05:31 PM
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From her: 2 days in a row where she is pleasant to be with all day. For me: My career to get off the ground (applying and getting feedback/interviews, just a matter of time), a steady income so that I can start saving money for a down payment on a house and I can start building my life financially after all of the years of scholastic investment, a project house and acreage to spend my time building into my dream, and for this nagging shoulder injury to go away so I can get back to pressing 135 o…
/r/askMRP28/09/17 05:26 PM
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Looks and style: Great. Sure, I need a hair cut (booked), and trimming off my beard was a bad idea (it's growing back, thank you jesus). My bulk went too good, and I am in the process of losing 10-15 to get back into fighting shape. Career: applying for jobs and getting responses. Just a matter of time. NGAF: Needs work. Sometimes she runs her mouth, and I often leave the house and do my thing in these cases, but often times its a bitchy/condescending tone when responding to a comment of mine th…
/r/askMRP28/09/17 05:20 PM
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Lift 3-4 days a week for the past few years, though that has gone down to 2 days the past month as I've taken on a labour job and bust my ass all day.
/r/askMRP28/09/17 05:09 PM
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This is your time to shine, and you're either not shining, or you keep asking her to ackgnowledge it. Up to you to figure out which one it is, but ya gotta ditch the justification of your life, and the lack of pride you're taking in it. I've re-read your post multiple times, and this one section keeps jumping out at me. I appreciate you posting that.
/r/askMRP23/08/17 09:23 PM
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Cute
/r/askMRP04/08/17 05:23 PM
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Would you agree with the other critiques though in general? Was there anything I did that was right?
/r/askMRP04/08/17 05:10 PM
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It was all of our stuff (tent/chairs/etc.) not my dirty clothes that were still out, but I see your point. It's a trip to the family cabin, something we've done so many times I didn't think we needed a list. I guess I need to make a list for everything we do. I made a list this time for food, which I though was sufficient, but I guess it wasn't.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 04:54 PM
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You're right. I do have an ego. I'm working on it. Do you wake up and think "Oldest teenager in the house"? If I did that every day, I imagine I would make my life easier. If I HAD have made a list, I suppose I would have alleviated much of my own pain. She would have understood what we needed to get done, and she would have had a list to follow (which makes her happy). Instead I slipped into thinking "She will do what is necessary to get us on the road, because it's what I would do". PS FIFY?
/r/askMRP04/08/17 04:48 PM
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No, I didn't give her any tasks. So it's my fault that she expects to not have anything to do, because I've taken care of things in the past and didn't explicitly tell her that I wasn't doing that this time?
/r/askMRP04/08/17 04:39 PM
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That's probably the first self-depricating comment I've posted on here, as it's something that I don't think a man should do. Thank you for calling me on it, I've removed it.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 04:37 PM
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soooo...if I ignore her attempts to make up today and go on the trip together, I'm just doubling down on a bad decision? And by "falling for that shit" you mean letting it get to me?
/r/askMRP04/08/17 04:26 PM
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Oh yeah. I know it was bad. Especially because I haven't jerked it in months (that's what she's for). I acted like a woman because instead of laughing at her, I insulted her about not really packing anything, aka resorted to emotional sparring? How was I illogical?
/r/askMRP04/08/17 04:19 PM
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Thanks, I revised my question.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 04:10 PM
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She waited till after you were married, and nicy attached to each other, before trying to chop down her oak. Nice. Women suprise me with their intelligence.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 08:56 PM
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I like it when you're a dick to me like that Noted. I'm going to have step up my game!
/r/askMRP03/08/17 08:54 PM
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Ahahaha now THAT would hit her a little close to her... belly...but I love the style and the idea: comedy roast. I can normally piss off people I dont like with such comments at their expense (I'm having a great time!) so I'll just remember to do the same with her when she's deserving of it. Thanks
/r/askMRP03/08/17 08:52 PM
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My family ribs CONSTANTLY, and it certainly keeps you on your toes. I am the guy that always has a quip, but it's always said with a wink and a smile. I guess when she's being mean I'll just have to turn my dripping sarcasm on her.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 08:48 PM
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Yes. I see. Don't get upset about it, or angry, because honestly you don't care what she says about you, but at the same time take steps to stop her behaviour and stick up for yourself.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 05:39 PM
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Yes, I like your method. Just keep escalating with my rebuttals, from harmless smack down of shit tests -> embarressing her -> private conversation. It was in my mind to pass the keys to her and say "the car is just over there if you want to keep being a poopy pants" said as if talking to a misbehaving child at an adult dinner, and I see now that making fun of her (as long as it doesn't come from a place of anger/bruised ego) would have been a good method to use.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 05:37 PM
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Doesn't storming out make you look butt hurt by her behavior though? I understand it worked for you, and I understand sticking up for yourself is numero uno importance, but is this really the best way? Or was her belittling at the point that you no longer want to/have the energy to verbally spar with her (My catch all for AA, AM, etc.)
/r/askMRP03/08/17 05:31 PM
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The first time this happened in a big way was when she brought one of her GFs over to my place while I was working on a project (for her to boot). Exact same thing. Was telling me how to do the work, that I had done everything wrong, etc. (talking completely out her ass). Next time around I wont get angry and I'll just make fun of her for talking over her head/call her out on her behavior. Being direct when I'm NOT butt hurt.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 05:27 PM
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No, I didnt let it show over dinner, but I definitely withdrew affection that night/next morning.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 05:21 PM
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Your wish is my command. I haven't vomited this hard since I was hungover after my buddy's stag, praying to the heavens I survive.
/r/askMRP26/07/17 03:02 PM
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You don't think she ACTUALLY believes they burrow into her mouth and tongue, do you? That's next level... I guess my girl is going to have to learn how to spit/swallow.
/r/askMRP25/07/17 03:55 PM
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I've read SGM, but not way of the superior man. I shouldn't have to fake anything; it's something I want. Own it, like you said.
/r/askMRP24/07/17 05:48 PM
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ahaha
/r/askMRP24/07/17 05:46 PM
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this is great!
/r/askMRP24/07/17 05:45 PM
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SMV is high enough that I doubt it's the limiting factor, but it's a valid point.
/r/askMRP22/07/17 09:10 PM
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This is where I'm heading. I'll need some OI of steel though.
/r/askMRP22/07/17 08:55 PM
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From previous conversations, apparently it's all of the above. She has compared the taste to hydrogen peroxide though. #flattered
/r/askMRP22/07/17 08:54 PM
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or stay happy and let her do what she wants while you do what you want This is it. This is where the happiness came from.
/r/askMRP17/07/17 03:38 PM
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Its been a few days since, and the burden still feels like it's been lifted.
/r/askMRP17/07/17 03:37 PM
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100%. askmeanything2, Cholomite, InChargeMan and GargantuaBlarg29 are the only comments near the top worth reading. Isn't this obvious? Fuck man. You have the backbone of a jellyfish.
/r/askMRP14/07/17 05:47 PM
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I dated a chick with BPD back in my BP days, and my god are you right about the sex! Some of the best sex I have ever had. Such a tight ass, and a willingness to please that I really should have harnessed more... ...too bad the negative side effects were too much to deal with. #NEXXXXXXT
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 08:21 PM
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Other 'linking' terms that work for me: gooey. She is my Gooey girl, and I refer to that way often both in and out of the bedroom, because she is always so wet for me. The other day she was talking about something she wanted to make for dinner and I said "That almost sounds as gooey as you"...You should have heard the fit she threw! "I am WAY more gooey than xyz! Don't you remember this morning! etc." The same goes for dessert. She is my dessert, and I frequently refer to her as such. Last night…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 08:13 PM
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if your wife is going to have a conniption about not being taken out the same day you found out a friend just offed himself, then she's a shit human. +1 I know we all strive to be made of stainless steel and perfect all the time, but damn, cut yourself a little slack.
/r/askMRP12/07/17 07:53 PM
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That is some next level shit right there. Next level retard power. +1
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/17 04:12 PM
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Of course I treat my girl like a princess: She gets to wrap her lips around my cock every day. Of course I'm sensitive: to the fact that my dick doesn't fit easily inside of her tight pussy; I warm her up. Of course I'm a good listener: when she begs for me to make her cum, I'm all ears. Of course I'm a romantic: I tease the fuck out of her before I let her cum. Of course I'm honest: "You are always so fucking gooey my dirty girl! Thinking about me again today?" Of course I take care of her: She…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/17 10:18 PM
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Ahahaha what the hell! This was the shit test I received last night! And heaven forbid when you try to handle something that she thinks is important, but not in the way she prefers, right? How do you respond to this shit test? My go to was to paint the picture as as "I do things differently than you. I don't have the same values on the frequency of cleanings as you do, in which case, step up! You live here too, and if you think the floors need to be swept daily, then give her shit. The brooms in…
/r/askMRP30/06/17 05:22 PM
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I doubt its real
/r/askMRP29/06/17 06:59 PM
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you're spare parts, aren't ya bud
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/17 05:00 PM
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We'd done smaller hikes before, I guess just not enough. I think I just expect her to be at my fitness level too frequently, and then am angry when she isn't willing to push herself to keep up with me. That's my fault, and it's unfair. I am taking her to the gym now (her request!) and she is doing my routine and really enjoying herself and the gym environment. She's never enjoyed running, but I'm hoping that dead lifting and squatting in the gym will help her on the trails like they have for me.…
/r/askMRP28/06/17 05:46 PM
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Well the linked article was an eye opener. I didn't realize that was so critically important to women. I hate being the slowest/least skilled guy in a group of my friends, but that usually fuels me to do push myself harder and harder and...hey, I'm no longer the slowest! It doesn't stop me from participating in said activity. Okay, so even when she's crying Don't try to fix the problem. "You're right, this will be the most intense hike you've ever done, it's going to be challenging but I know yo…
/r/askMRP28/06/17 05:32 PM
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adding to the addition: Every name you call her should be possessive also, and then every reference to her is suddenly dirty talk. MY girl. And then make it sexual. MY gooey girl. And then make it sexual AND try and get a rise out of her. MY leaky little faucet, have you drenched your panties already? You just put them on!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/17 08:07 PM
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She even said a few times she doesn't like that kind of talk. Said it turns her off. But now she pleads, "Fuck me" when approaching orgasm? AWALT. A-fucking-WALT. I was getting into the habit of teasing my girl when she was on the brink of orgasm, having her tell me what she wants, and to beg for it. I've been doing this for months (BP me two years ago tried this and she laughed...come a longgggg way) and as far as I can tell, she loves it. A week ago in the car she blurts out "I don't like it w…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/17 06:41 PM
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I took the opportunity to talk with her last night (it was one of those "lets get drunk on monday" nights) and I pulled her close and mentioned how I've overlooked things for her that were obvious to me on trips previously (I am getting better) and that from now on, every new trip/adventure we do, I am going to sit down with her and we are going to go over everything and make a big list. If I forget and we are planning a trip and I haven't gone over everything with you, then YOU NEED TO REMIND M…
/r/askMRP27/06/17 06:07 PM
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The meltdown over not having the 'right' clothing was a legitimate meltdown, and I really wasn't sure if this was normal. It's really hard to feel attraction when she behaves like that over something so small. EDIT: After dinner when we were alone, my mother mentioned how that must have been embarrassing to have her freak out on the hike and about the shirt...stellar. The freak outs on the hike I've seen with other women before; they are physically tired/stressed out/unsure they can make it and …
/r/askMRP27/06/17 05:59 PM
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I've realized in posting here, that often times it's the writing out of your own thoughts that helps the most. The comments from others might prompt you type out what your thinking, but you come up with the answer yourself. There have been two or three posts I was typing out, and in doing so, realized my mistake/what needs to change and didn't bother with the post.
/r/askMRP26/06/17 08:10 PM
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Get over it. You don't have a partner. You have someone you need to lead. Don't turn this into an excuse to be a victim. Turn it into an excuse to be a leader. You're right.
/r/askMRP26/06/17 08:08 PM
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Good points, and yes, it's that feeling of disgust that is hardest to deal with.
/r/askMRP26/06/17 08:07 PM
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trololol nice handle
/r/askMRP26/06/17 08:06 PM
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Point 2:After hugging her I tried to regain control of the situation verbally but she kept shooting down suggestions and acting pouty. "Alright, you don't have any wicking Tshirts with wide shoulders so the pack doesn't rub. That's fine. I'm going to wear a normal Tshirt. Do you have any normal Tshirts?" "No! None that I want to wear! They are too tight, and my belly will show when I'm wearing the pack!" "Okay, well you will have three hours tomorrow before we leave to hit up winners or sportche…
/r/askMRP26/06/17 06:51 PM
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as red_blue_and_hot pointed out, I think you missed the ball on this one: she was humble bragging about how awesome you are to her GF, and in you presence, so that you could hear her tell an inflated story about how awesome your date nights are, and by association, how awesome you are for planning them. Win-win.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/17 04:01 PM
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Good point
/r/askMRP16/06/17 03:39 PM
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Really how often can you let a kid or the oldest teenager in the house get you mad? One or two times a year at most? Now THAT is something to strive for!
/r/askMRP15/06/17 06:53 PM
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You are just upset with yourself. It always ends up being this. I think I just start dumping it on her. How do you get a handle on your anger? Or is it easier to never let it get to that point?
/r/askMRP15/06/17 06:26 PM
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A long fucking road [from prude] to hoe? I know what you are talking about. Being away for weeks at a time is hard on a relationship though (I know), it's like you become acquaintances over the time your away and then want it to go back to partners instantly as soon as you come back. It's a difficult thing to manage.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 06:24 PM
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Good point. It's getting faster, but sometimes I get in my own way. Thanks
/r/askMRP15/06/17 06:22 PM
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I responded to your comment with a main post. Thanks for clarifying my question.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 04:53 PM
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That seems like going Rambo, no? I bet it would feel very good...but maybe giving into the anger a little too much?
/r/askMRP15/06/17 03:52 PM
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How about: Happy man, happy clan Wifes a bitch? She needs the switch Happy Dick, happy chick If the wifes a bitchin' put her in the kitchen ...or just reword the original: Happy life, happy wife.
/r/askMRP12/06/17 03:34 PM
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Yeah, because MRP isn't geared towards your wife (it's geared towards improving the man) you realize that it applies to all relationships in your life, and it really opens your eyes.
/r/askMRP12/06/17 03:26 PM
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Amen.
/r/askMRP12/06/17 03:24 PM
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ahaha it's funny, because there's a few times (usually inebriated) where her walls come down and she is clawing at my crotch in the car because she can't wait till we get home for my D....but yes, usually she's much more reserved. ...so what your saying is I need to get HER to watch porn, so she knows what it is that I'm after aha
/r/askMRP10/06/17 05:27 PM
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Respect yourself. Don't put yourself down, in your head, with other people, and on here. I cringe whenever I see someone post for the first time and open with "for too long I've been a blue pill beta dick sucking faggot who happily bends over for my wife's strap-on bla bla bla". This statement serves no value, and only lowers your value in other peoples eyes. STOP IT. It feeds the victim mentality, and if you keep calling yourself a pussy, 1)everyone is going to think you're a pussy and 2)eventu…
/r/askMRP10/06/17 05:11 PM
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There is a book "The feeling good handbook" by Dr. David Burns which is quite similar to Jacktenofhearts post you cited. The book is mainly a self-guided CBT book for anxiety/depression, but his chapter at the end on communication is HUGELY helpful and I highly recommend it. Excerpt: Empathy. You put yourself in the other person's shoes and try to see the world through his or her eyes. -Thought empathy: You paraphrase the other persons words. -Feeling empathy: You acknowledge how they're probabl…
/r/askMRP08/06/17 10:54 PM
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I think you're too focused on sex as opposed to an optimal relationship You can't keep a running tally, as if you have to have sex or something is wrong. This is awesome advice, thank you for pointing it out. Once I read it I realized that frequency was definitely a big rubric for how I measured the quality of my relationship. We frequently laugh in the middle of sex too; I have her convinced she gets tighter and it feels better for me when she laughs, which causes her to laugh more, etc. Or I r…
/r/askMRP08/06/17 09:29 PM
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Getting a small and smooth vibrating butt plug This assumes whipping one out in bed, or telling her about it before hand would elicit a positive response, no? I'll stick to fingers and tongue for now, but the rest of your suggestions seem good. thanks!
/r/askMRP08/06/17 09:17 PM
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...have you actually tried this?
/r/askMRP08/06/17 09:12 PM
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Jokes aside though, great post
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 09:09 PM
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my bad, my response was sarcastic. I definitely DO NOT ask her if she is enjoying herself (unless I know she is...but then that's just dirty talk).
/r/askMRP08/06/17 08:22 PM
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"Ooooo, honey, you need to put in on properly if you really want my opinion" And the shoes? "Of course! I need to see the whole outift! Excellent, now spin. Yep, this dress is definitely a keeper, it really highlights that delicious ass of yours" grab her ass, kiss her neck, grab a titty and go back to packing. She comes at you with more outfits and you're trying to get shit done? Pick her up, flip her on the bed, pin her down and when she protests say "you think you're going to walk around all …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 08:13 PM
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But I do love my GF for whats on the inside... the inside of her lips (both sets)...I mean, the outside is great, fantastic to look at, but what I REALLY love about her is on the inside.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 08:04 PM
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spending your time analyzing orgasms to determine if they were real or not Ahahaha, if she wants to fake an orgasm she's only hurting herself. They enjoy the physical pleasure, but also the feeling of being submissive This
/r/askMRP08/06/17 07:38 PM
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I had forgotten this point: Women don't have to cum to have enjoyed the sex, especially when it comes to feeling satisfied in their ability to please their man. So true. Just make sure she feels nice and submissive. I'm still working on getting her warmed up to butt play... I usually elicit some form of "Ahhhhh you know I hate that" when I play with her winking eye. I'll have to try what you suggest and get her begging for release first.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 07:36 PM
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ahaha okay, I'll stop whispering "how about this?" in her ear every time I change positions and just worry about me
/r/askMRP08/06/17 07:32 PM
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She always gets a necklace after saying this...she's much prettier in pearls.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 07:31 PM
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Thanks, this is great. I'm going to pass on whatever a dick extender is, and go back to focusing on me during sex; it's better for everyone.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 07:30 PM
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Next time, while grabbing the back of her head (you do that when you kiss her right?) if she tries to pull away and gives some excuse about brushing her teeth say "shut up"and use your hand to pull her back in for the kiss. NOTE: I'd recommend not staring her in the eye when doing this, but staring at her mouth and speaking like your distracted, or this will likely backfire. I've used this effectively when coming up from going down on my girl and her giving me the "wipe your mouth" shpeel: thrus…
/r/askMRP02/06/17 03:12 PM
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I'll put it there next time.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/17 08:17 PM
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Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/17 08:17 PM
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"When her son requests that she change her behavior the mother-in-law sees him for what he is; he is a messenger from the wife, whom the mother-in-law outranks." Shudder Ugh. I hate reading about my previous behaviour through this sort of lense. It's how we grow I guess.
/r/askMRP30/05/17 12:32 AM
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Simple, elegant, common sense. This and [deleted] comment, that women shit test each other and come to their own understandings. I appreciate the comments.
/r/askMRP30/05/17 12:30 AM
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I appreciate your post script...I was highly skeptical of your post until I read that. Covert contracts, and the fact that one of the love languages is gifts...because I'm really not sure how many roses anal is aha
/r/askMRP15/05/17 09:43 PM
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Actions was mentioned by you and by scurvemuch...are we talking about upping the level of "caveman" in the moment? AKA take her even more aggresively, like what she did has you losing control? Or, as other have mentioned, are we talking along the lines of the smack on the ass followed up with "Great game sport" afterwards? Thanks
/r/askMRP15/05/17 09:28 PM
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She certainly should. If I'm giving up my C-card, I expect her to keep me interested.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 09:23 PM
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+1
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 07:55 PM
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so throwing out a "That thing you did with your tongue? I liked that" when it's warranted is good practice?
/r/askMRP15/05/17 05:18 PM
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Thanks guys, I really like the suggestions so far. I'm glad my gut (saying thank you in the bedroom is a bad idea) was leading me true.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 05:15 PM
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This. I really liked the idea of having her thank me for giving her good sex, and it progressed from making her ask me to let her cum. Often times after "please! Please can I cum!" and I let her have what she wanted, she would say "thank you". I really like "That's the girl I like to see" from RPAlternate42 and his other suggestion, a much more alpha way to approach the situation.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 05:12 PM
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This is great! Will definitely have to give it a try.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 05:07 PM
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Ahaha this is usually my go-to comment after sex. A simple "delicious". Glad to hear I'm on the right track.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 05:06 PM
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Ahaha such a good link
/r/askMRP12/05/17 06:04 PM
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I saw some comments on anger in the first few messages here (and someone may have already hit on this point exactly) but a HUGE realization for me about why anger feels good is that.. you feel RIGHT! The problem? You have allowed yourself to become the victim. Why? You must be hurt in order to feel anger. How? You opened yourself up by choosing to try and include your wife in your plans, and when she ignored your attempts, you were hurt. But, fuck being hurt, right? That's for bitches. Instead, …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 04:33 PM
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Ahaha I'm suprised this didnt come up sooner actually. I hurt my back and stayed away from squat/dead lift while I continued to bench. I should be pushing a lot more with my legs, it will come now that I'm eating right.
/r/askMRP08/05/17 08:47 PM
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I did grow as a person while I was gone; grad school was a tough go. I'm not ready to end the relationship though. 1 month for every year of BP? For me that's almost 2 months.
/r/askMRP08/05/17 07:23 PM
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Thanks, this is really good advice.
/r/askMRP08/05/17 07:18 PM
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Fuck. I even tried to reorganize the tupperware drawer. alright. I may have been a little autistic. It wasn't the decor I cared about, it was the space utilization. But I agree with your point. -Silent car rides is because we fought during our drive, not because we're BOTH autistic and can't maintain conversations
/r/askMRP08/05/17 07:14 PM
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You're right, I was actually the one who made the toilet seat the hill to die on, not her. I can't blame her for responding to my poor behavior. Right now you frame is very weak. I know. But, it helps to see it written out. My biggest goal is to be the guy who would be laughing about my post while it was happening, because most of it could be handled with a joke, a hug and kiss, or some food(hangry is real).
/r/askMRP08/05/17 07:09 PM
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