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As of a week ago my nice cologne is precipitously dangling from an inaccessible ledge on a tall building in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. I had a container of salt in my backpack come open and while emptying it out the spilled contents of the window (I thought I had removed all the items from my backpack first) my cologne comes tumbling out of a hidden pocket and amazingly lands, without falling further, on a ledge about 10 feet below the window. So eventually, some strong winds are going to knock that …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 04:10 AM
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Don't be the kind of person that a woman would do that to.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 09:04 PM
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You continued a relationship with someone who stopped having sex with you?
/r/askTRP29/09/17 02:43 AM
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I feel like all the answers to your problems here are really basic and obvious. You need to get your shit together. Make a list of things to do this and begin on them immediately, firstly by removing this woman from your life minus any interaction necessitated by your fatherhood obligations.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 02:28 AM
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Heartiste was actually describing "uncaring asshole > caring asshole." There's a funny progression males can go through, Being good in order to get sex and status Realizing that doesn't work, so no longer caring about being good. Being strong and dominant in order to get sex and status Getting sex and status and becoming happy That happiness overflowing naturally into being good. Caring = scarcity mentality. Uncaring = outcome independence
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 01:36 AM
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Yes and be sure to be able to distinguish between the uncaring asshole and the caring asshole.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 12:57 AM
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show his wife his weaknesses Your vision of a world in which a man confiding his weaknesses in his female partner doesn't lead to less sex and less attraction is really idealistic and beautiful. It's also just that; a vision, not reality. Human nature does not align with our aesthetic preferences manifested in Disney romance stories. This kind of life to me seems extremely sad and stressful. Thank you for acknowledging that. See a top post on this sub entitled "Men are not happy." You're a woman…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 04:40 AM
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What is RPT? And what substances were you on when you wrote this?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 02:20 AM
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kind of like kids or dogs that you need to love protect and train. Yes. train girls to fall all over the alpha male Females do this naturally, on their own. TRP discusses how to "become alpha" or to benefit from the alpha-pleasing instincts of women. instead of looking at a partner and thinking "she has her strengths, and I have mine" is thinking " she's a manipulative bitch who I need to play a game on to get what I want"... The right attitude about women is a combination of these two sentiment…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 10:58 PM
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Women of quality and integrity exist inasmuch as they are made, inasmuch as the use of that capacity in them is required of them by people in their lives that are providing value conditional upon that behavior. The girl I am seeing treats me well. In that respect she is high quality to me. But is it true that "all ya need to dooo is just find a high quality girl with integrity and you're set?" No. In that sense, high quality girls don't just exist out there waiting to be roped into a relationshi…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 08:40 PM
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S = SMV / C is actually cogent and useful. Obviously it doesn't involve non-whole figures and doesn't perfectly describe non-linear proportions as they play out in reality; criticizing it on those grounds misses the point completely. I enjoy seeing basic principles like BB/AF elucidated in novel and interesting ways. Props OP.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 05:48 AM
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The primary message of TRP is that females instinctively prefer strength and dominance in men to their goodness.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 05:30 AM
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There is a lot of shitting on women that occurs here. Some of it is therapeutic, some of it is over-compensation for perceived gynocentrism, some of it is just weak losers trying to mask their insecurities in hatred. Regardless, I want to take that raw energy and convert it into wisdom: the wisdom that leads men to interact with women in ways maximally conducive to male happiness. Incidentally and conveniently, those ways tend to also create stability and happiness in women too.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 04:59 AM
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Let's talk about a spectrum in relationships. On one end, the female has all the power. On the other, the male has all the power. On both ends of this spectrum the relationship is toxic, unsustainable, and not happiness producing. Directly in the middle of the spectrum you have an egalitarian relationship, which is superior to both ends of the spectrum. Adjacent to the egalitarian relationship on this spectrum is one in which the man has a bit more power than the female, but she's still winning …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 12:01 AM
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Sounds like religious wackjobbery to me.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 05:35 PM
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Sounds like you were diagnosed with "masculinity" by a beta male or feminist therapist.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 11:08 PM
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Fair. Just to be clear, I don't game during these hours. I don't really game at parties and clubs and events (Accidentally, sure). Daygame and social circle game is where it's at. I'd rather meet a girl at the climbing gym than at a bar, absolutely.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 10:07 PM
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I get that. But if I deleted all the experiences I had--weekends and otherwise--that occurred between the hours of 10pm and 4am, over the last year, well, that makes me sad to think about.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 07:18 PM
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Is there anyone within the sound of my voice that has a girlfriend and a social life that goes to bed at 9pm?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 09:26 AM
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It's much more fun to smash egg shells than walk on them.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 05:20 PM
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Solid post. Frame is born from confidence, which is born from accomplishment and success, which is born from doing things every single day that are scary or uncomfortable or tiring. Small victories beget a thirst for bigger victories which creates a snowball effect and what you feel when you look at yourself in the mirror changes. You become slowly desensitized to the discomfort of doing things other people are too scared or comfortable to do. Simultaneously, I recommend the fake-it-til-you-make…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 09:16 PM
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The benefit is shame-avoidance mainly. I was at a party the other night and some girls were ragging on a guy there because he voted for Trump. Guy was getting super defensive. I immediately interjected and said "I voted for Trump too. Trump is the fucking man. Make America Great Again bitches. Anyone who voted for Hillary Clinton is mentally fucking retarded" etc. (Trump per se is irrelevant here of course and I didn't vote for him.) The whole shame power dynamic disappeared immediately. Shame t…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 08:56 PM
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Man tests his gun; woman tests her man.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 08:16 PM
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..because they can get away with it. As in with personal interactions with women, the very moment that the leverage is removed and the behavior disincentivized, female actions will adapt. My point is: blame beta males for this, not female nature (which they cannot control). The women-bashing narrative is slightly useful in dislodging gynocentrism from total normies but ultimately the solution has to lie in men passing the shit test that is third wave feminism.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 07:54 PM
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You can actually simulate the benefits of "lack of sex" by abstaining from orgasm during sex. I practice this. Some parts of your brain become aware that you've had sex, while other parts don't and you circumvent that energy/motivation/clarity post-sex crash. It's fantastic.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 06:48 PM
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No sources. "likely" might have been better than "highly plausible." I'm open to and interested in voluntary celibacy / brahmacharya as a valid lifestyle path but it's probably outside the scope of this subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 06:43 PM
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I'm puzzled why you think my post has anything to do with garnering a high partner count with low quality women.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 06:28 PM
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Manipulation in women is instinctive. Attraction to aloofness is instinctive. Attraction to the right (success-induced) vs wrong (apathy-induced) kind of aloofness is not instinctive. In that sense the instinct is particularly uninformed. Life-experience can correct for that.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 06:21 PM
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I'd be concerned that many of the subtle psychological effects of getting laid naturally would be diminished in the experience of paid sex, due to the lack of real ego-validation involved, for example. But I'm only speculating.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 05:26 PM
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Only after short conversation with the "fake disinterest b/c of apathy man" does the women realize he's not fuckable at all. Not sold on this at all, especially when considering the particularly uninformed instincts of girls 21 and under.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 07:56 AM
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I am free to see other girls. Though, when my girl is so generous and devoted, I don't even give a shit. That's what I mean. and she wouldn't I get where you're coming from but I doubt this.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 10:12 PM
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You didn't cause her to do what she did. Perhaps I didn't read your post perfectly closely but it doesn't seem to be like you treated her in a way that most girls haven't been treated at some point in a relationship. Don't blame yourself. I know girls who have promiscuous pasts, even as escorts, who have good lives now. Being sexually promiscuous is certainly a sexual turn off to most men and is generally probably psychologically unhealthy for women but it doesn't disqualify them from finding se…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 06:25 AM
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That wasn't a list of benefits. If you can get all the benefits of an LTR from a plate, that plate is an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 08:47 PM
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LTRs, with a lot of work and some luck, can be unbelievably rewarding. When an LTR is going great you can simultaneously hit nearly every conceivable neurotransmitter related to the opposite sex there is. It's a fantastic feeling and worth striving towards despite the massive risks involved. LTRs are good when: You never actually commit to not seeing other girls, but you are willing to answer her honestly if she asks. You don't see other girls because your girl satisfies you wholly. There are no…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 05:12 AM
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follow their man like a little puppy control me Blackdragon has a great way of delineating between different types of men: Beta, Alpha 1.0, and Alpha 2.0. Alpha 1.0 is controlling and insecure. Alpha 2.0 isn't controlling but focuses on his own behavior in order to maximize attraction and create freedom and abundance in his life. This latter form of alpha behavior is the type that I recommend. If you read my post closely I think you'll see that ultimately I am advocating a method of increasing s…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 07:29 PM
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I don't think you're interested enough in cultivating a lifestyle of regular sex with attractive young females to really participate in this subreddit. This isn't a discussion about morality or dignity. You also used the word "shouldn't" without respect to a clearly defined tangible goal. This is moralizing and is against the rules of this subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 06:30 PM
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"Remain sexless while posting" is a rule of this community. If you are over 23 then I would not date you anyway. If you are under 23 then we wouldn't get along anyway. I'm not sure what your point is here.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 06:22 PM
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The meaningful statements that I've derived from your comment here are that "just being yourself" results in more sex and that the alpha/beta distinction is, I assume, meaningless. As to your first point, it seems self-evident that calibrated and deliberate behavior strategies with respect to nearly any conceivable human endeavor will have greater results than operating on no plan, operating via instinct, whim, and present-moment intuition. You wouldn't say to someone trying to learn tennis "jus…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 12:27 AM
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Suppose only 20 percent of people who read the post have some overlapping social realities and therefore can use the post. In that case, 10,000 people read something of value.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 08:54 PM
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See under "Money" http://archive.is/tuGgg
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 08:03 PM
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I haven't gone more than 4 days without sex in 2 years.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 07:56 PM
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Thanissaro Bhikkhu said it. I trust him generally but I admit I can't just expect you to as well. Pail Canon is difficult. I wouldn't touch it until you've read the Dhammapada. A lot of people claim that the techniques are basically the same. That the distinction between them is immaterial. I can see that.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 07:06 PM
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I've received a lot of replies to this effect. All I can say is that y'all seem to be hanging out with some serious cunts and/or/therefore/because you haven't established the proper frame and relationship dynamic in which she knows she can't get away with that bullshit.. ever.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 03:33 PM
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not enough coffee possibly? Your accuracy here is creepy. I should have at least addressed the points made by OP that I did understand--I'll grant you that.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 02:55 PM
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Alpha males are men who are by their nature sexually successful. I'm not sure what special relationship Soros' influence, for example, has to do with sexual strategy or success. Also, a very large number of people control society, not a closed few--though I think that number needs to grow even greater.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 02:45 PM
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I don't not catch feelings. I have feelings for the girl I'm seeing. With those feelings come risk that I'm keenly aware of and reward that I treasure.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 10:37 AM
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Some misc thoughts that may be of value: It was difficult for me to really grasp your thesis here. You have some of the signs of a great writer while lacking a clear idea or an organized way of presenting it. In one breath you make a claim that is too obvious to really be interesting and in the next you make one that is too unfalsifiable to interesting. I think you suffer from a mild case of the head-in-the-clouds syndrome--a problem that many intelligent people have--where you seem wholly occup…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 08:14 AM
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not engaging at all with them bitches Are you suggesting that porn and masturbation are preferable to a sexually generous plate or girlfriend? Cambodia not far behind Moving there in 3 weeks albeit with a female. My preemptive experience on AsianDating suggests that I'll be treated like a celebrity there by women there, who I was surprised to find are often more prudish than you could even imagine in the USA ("no i dont talk about sex or anything until after marriage") black women I can't get pa…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 03:51 AM
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To your point (I think) I in a previous post outline that sex (and money) are of limited value without the proper psychological frame to incorporate them into: Money and sex are of practically no value without the presence of a psyche that will wisely integrate those things into a greater psychological whole. The tools that I have discovered and use to do this and to cultivate the highest quality mental states like positive energy and bliss are listed below. I am completely aware of how controve…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 07:26 PM
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The appeal of sexuality has nothing to do with the considerations you mentioned. It has to do with cultivating and maintaining healthy mental states. The premise here is that regular sex--ideally coupled with affection, trust, and friendship--is desirable and healthy for men. If you disagree and don't want an active sex life then the subreddit may be of little use to you.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 07:14 PM
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The terms are useful in describing two different types of men today, the sexually successful and the not. I have no opinion on whether alpha and beta are actual genetic properties or something.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 07:03 PM
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You may have misread my comment; I agree that they are old principles. In this realm old is good, amirite Aristotle? undereducated, underexperienced, naïve women That is my favorite demographic.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 07:45 AM
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They're neither new nor common--a minority of men employ these tools and those that don't experience and produce unnecessary suffering as a result. Unrelated: Do you have a theory as to why so many of your submitted reddit posts have been removed?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 07:36 AM
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Barring child-rearing in the picture, it seems like no amount of debt is preferable to renting or paying for things with cash. Happiness it would seem is a product more so of freedom from obligations than having shiny shit that rapidly depreciates not only in objective value but in the pleasure it affords you. I can't speak to the issue of cash-back benefits though.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 07:16 AM
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women tend to just repeat and repeat and prod over and over This is disrespect and is a result of either an unhealthy dynamic that you've allowed to exist between you and her or is just her nature in which case you should next her.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 05:51 PM
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Your value is comparative regardless of how you see things. Comparing yourself to others, both those better than you and those worse off, keeps you simultaneously inspired to become better but also grateful and prideful about the accomplishments and/or position in life you have already. Your value is defined by others, not yourself. Value, by definition, speaks to the objective level of benefit you provide others versus your competitors.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 07:25 AM
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I understand why you might react that way to the title--try not to take it at face value. The post itself essentially prescribes these behaviors: Don't be desperate or needy Believe you are great and expect to be treated that way Use distance to negotiate in your relationship rather than verbal or physical aggression
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 11:56 PM
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Very good post. A minor point I'd opine on is If she has the power to make you feel bad, that is a shit relationship you need to get out of. Kindanotreally. Unless you're really, really dark triad, fucking and spending time with a girl for months is going to create the opportunity for bad feelings--if she leaves, if she disrespects you, if she cheats on you. This is prima facie the biggest price you pay when you enter into a relationship of sorts with a woman (exclusive or otherwise). Whether it…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 05:41 PM
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I seriously miss my mosin nagant.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 02:40 AM
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Correct. Women will be either what an alpha trains them to be or what a beta lets them get away with.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 12:34 AM
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I'd take the removal as an indication of a new benchmark for your content (I see that you've submitted some quality material here already): if nearly everyone and their grandmother would not only agree with your sentiment but has already been exposed to it more or less through mainstream culture, it's probably not the sort of reading that helps TRP remain a place that provides uniquely useful and thought-provoking content to men.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 10:52 PM
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http://bfy.tw/Df5X
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 09:24 PM
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My guess would be because I've read similar content on sites like Buzzfeed.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 09:16 PM
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/u/vengefully_yours is short too (and older) but kills it. Might be a good point of reference.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 11:16 PM
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Cool. That's useful info. Some questions to ask are how well marriage trends and actual reproduction trends mirror each other in the EEA, whether present day western culture better reflects the sexual marketplace dynamics of the EEA or of that experienced after the advent of agriculture, and whether the lessons derived from the 1/16 ratio still roughly hold under a more equitable ratio of 1/3 or so.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 10:31 PM
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Regardless of what point you're trying to make and how edgy you wanted to be I would recommend you delete that comment; those things should not be said in any context ever.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 07:57 PM
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As a rule I'm never completely serious.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 07:32 PM
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pass shit tests by default Yes. Your 5 points are good and if implemented well will often put an end to shit-tests permanently with a given girl. Then you have the desired alpha-to-submissive-female relationship.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 07:27 PM
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What factors come into play with this claim? Personality, wealth, rape, and coercion are a few things that come to mind. There's probably a huge variety of factors at play depending on the society. It would seem that rape would disrupt the process of sexual selection but I'd imagine that the majority of the men committing rape back then were alphas in the sense that they had the necessary social standing to get away with it in the tribal setting. I'm only speculating though. Genghis Kahn Without…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 07:14 PM
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My post wont makes sense if you don't discern the difference between 1. evolutionary psychology and cultural commentary, and 2. reproducing and fucking.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 05:00 AM
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But if we forget all that the minute we're back in the real world then what did we accomplish? The reason why I meditate is to experience the effects that the meditation has on my life after the meditation. The obtained bliss and positive energy is immensely useful in solving problems and interacting with others, not to mention it's standalone enjoyable nature. But that doesn't require any effort. The seated meditation is where concentrated effort is exerted and after the meditation is where you…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 06:54 PM
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The concept of mindfulness existed prior to the advent of Buddhism 2500 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 05:43 PM
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Those are the standard descriptions, yes. They're definitely useful to experiment on and gather ideas from but I wouldn't just swallow them wholesale--not suggesting that you have. My understanding is that there's no record of the Buddha ever differentiating vipassana from samatha techniques. He did, however, state that mindfulness of the breath--arguably a hybrid of the two camps--can bring you all the way to awakening (FWIW).
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 05:35 PM
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I've played with them some. I don't notice a benefit and tentatively decided they're placebo but I sometimes use them as "meditation music" to drown out noise on the occasion that I can't get to a quiet place to sit.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 05:26 PM
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Reduced suffering. Suffering is usually the result of attachments, which are compulsive thought patterns. Meditation neurologically disrupts those thought patterns by letting the brain run without allowing it to perform those thought patterns. Doing that weakens those patterns and connections and allows your mental energy to flow into less suffering-inducing thoughts (the thoughts that most easily become patterns tend to produce the most suffering).
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 05:21 PM
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That's the training. That's the practice That's your training and your practice.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 05:15 PM
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Good post. A few thoughts I'd throw in: I gave up "practicing mindfulness throughout the day" a long time ago. If my seated meditation practice is strong I will be more mindful for the next 36 hours, but trying to practice a meditation technique simultaneous with work, recreation, and creativity has just never gone anywhere for me unless I really move the goal-posts and define mindfulness as "focusing on what you're doing." Having practiced seated meditation (almost exclusively anapanasati and s…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 04:46 AM
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I'm slowly working on a theory that that personality trait--entitled--only manifests itself in interactions with beta males around which she feels she can get away with or even gain advantage from being that way. Obviously the dichotomy isn't clean cut ("women are perfect around alphas and bitches around betas") but in my experience I have seen females who worship me treat other, beta men like shit. I have seen females who are cunts to me worship their more-alpha lovers.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 09:01 PM
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I love girls with daddy issues. I practically screen for them. My definition of daddy issues seems different from yours though: Girl didn't have a present or good dad so she's seeking that value from another man. This urban dictionary definition is good: A girl wanting to be submissive and adored by a older guy, who will put her above all others. The sex is kinky, and the dominance irresistible to the male. A girl wanting to be naughty but sweet, just for her daddy.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 07:37 PM
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so you can pretend you're on some virtuous quest. I was not observing this at all but now it's crystal clear. Wow.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 08:00 PM
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A community created to discuss a particular topic--woodworking for example--is obviously going to discuss woodworking at a volume disproportionate to the degree to which woodworking itself plays a role in the lives of the people on the forum. That is the point of his analogy.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 05:11 PM
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Well said. To be honest I think I need to reevaluate my approach in combating this anti-sexual sentiment here because it simply does not get through. The posts and comments communicating this sentiment are particularly infuriating because one gets the immediate sense that they're actually subconsciously intentionally toxic: While pretending to be empowering and nuanced their operative psychological purpose is to nurse and coddle insecurities about one's sexual marketplace inferiority. It reminds…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 05:08 PM
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how would someone find or know how to manage a great relationship or sleep with all those women By learning basic manipulation tactics that pull the strings of female nature to achieve desirable results. Self-improvement is not required to be sexually successful. How do you think drug addicts get laid so much? It's because it's easier for them to be aloof about women, because drugs.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 10:03 AM
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Getting in a great relationship or sleeping with lots of women does make everything better and it's not the primary or sole purpose of life--no one here believes that it is.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 09:46 AM
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No one believes life is about spinning plates or getting laid. No one.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 09:43 AM
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Literally no person ever believed that one's main focus in life should be women. I have never in 4 years seen someone state explicitly or implicitly on this sub that getting laid is even the primary let alone sole purpose of life. The only thing your post accomplishes is helps guys who are sexual failures feel artificially better about themselves by downplaying the importance of sex--rather than helping them improve their situation.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 09:29 AM
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the drive that those who coincidentally grew up less fortunate do. Yes. In fact I don't even know what that drive is or what it feels like. I simply do not have it. excellent material Fine dramas and documentaries, reputable and thought provoking cinematic works of art or, sometimes, television.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 09:21 AM
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He does not expose himself needlessly to danger, since there are few things for which he cares sufficiently; but he is willing, in great crises, to give even his life–knowing that under certain conditions, it is not worthwhile to live. He is of a disposition to do men service, though he is ashamed to have service done to him. To confer a kindness is a mark of superiority; to receive one is a mark of subordination….He does not Take part in public displays…. He is open in his dislikes and preferen…
/r/askTRP26/08/17 09:13 AM
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Unattractive people generally suck.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 12:42 AM
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I have a buddy who grew up without a lot of money and he's making more than any of us now for similar reasons I think. I'm not AT ALL naturally ambitious. I have to make goals and track my progress on them--I grew up a first child in a household with many hundreds of thousands of dollars of yearly income. Spoiled. But I also have very little desire for luxury lifestyle amenities because I've had them and seen how irrelevant they are to happiness. Lots of dynamics at play here I think. And no abs…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 11:08 PM
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I assume you're referring to consuming entertainment alone (even that I disagree with). Consuming entertainment is one of my favorite things to do with others, including females. Recreation, adventure, and food are equally worthy social activities. Depending on your choice of entertainment it can be life-enriching, as can video games. As long as you're putting in the necessary time each day to perform your life well and get shit done, entertainment is a worthy activity to engage in during downti…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 08:48 PM
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At some point you're probably going to want to start spelling focused correctly. The reason why your post, in this case, was upvoted so much was because there's a large amount of men on this sub who are not getting laid and who are frustrated about it but instead of acknowledging that fact and working to change it, they create narratives like "getting laid isn't that important!" or "don't focus on women, focus on yourself!" and othersuch faux-empowerment hamstering bullshit. Your post largely gi…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 07:50 PM
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This community is about sexual strategy. It's not about stargazing or sailing. In woodworking forums participants talk 100 percent about woodworking even though woodworking only one part of their lives. I'd like to ask you two questions right now and I'd appreciate your honesty on both of em. 1. How many times have you gotten laid in the last month. 2. How many times per week do you think you would like to be getting laid (if you're not already). I ask this because when I hear people here propou…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 05:47 PM
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You're doing the right things.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 05:40 PM
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An enormous number of women are presently successful in meritocratic systems. "They cannot compete in any context with men" is preposterous. I am directly associated with multiple industries in which women aggressively compete with and often beat men fair and square. You're on another planet.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 02:01 AM
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how come I get shut down sometimes Attractive women have a strong resistance filter against men because there are more men that want to spend time with them than they could possibly want. It's necessary for them to weed out losers. They also may just be totally booked, with no interest in really meeting new people. flakiness Flakiness is normal and natural and common.. The higher your SMV/alpha-traits, the less flaky girls will be. To reduce flakiness, pursue/date girls somewhat below your SMV l…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 11:25 PM
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Hopefully 4th wave feminism will like TRP for women: Women getting together and trying to rationally evaluate their situation, what they want, and how to most effectively achieve their desires. Egalitarianism is a bad word because it means too many things. Meritocracy is better.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 10:23 PM
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Self improvement: Lift Nofap Clothes Increase social confidence etc. Female nature: TheRedPill/comments/6g8a49/women_have_been_engineered_by_evolution_to_love_a/ TheRedPill/comments/3li647/chateau_heartiste_maxims_updated_from_17092014_to/
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 06:20 PM
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TheRedPill/comments/3li647/chateau_heartiste_maxims_updated_from_17092014_to/
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 06:15 PM
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If there would be a shortcut, anyone would be using it. It's called learning female nature and it's a hell of a shortcut. It's how I became massively sexually successful despite being a loser literally living in my grandmothers basement. Learning female nature is a more direct way of getting laid than is self-improvement. It's a myth that mere self-improvement will get you laid. Without knowledge of female nature, your self-improvement is useless towards getting laid. Many people use your sentim…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 07:07 AM
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Good points, largely agree. ONS just "happen" and aren't really the result of concerted effort per se (besides learning game of course), unless you're in the RSD pick-up camp and you fucking approach 50 girls and don't go home without someone--ugh. I guess I dislike uncertainty so I prefer cultivating plates and loose relationships. Agriculture vs. hunting, if you will.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 07:00 AM
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It's unclear to me what you're claiming. The effort and/or luck required to have sex with a new, attractive female on any given night of the week is much higher than it is to have sex with a plate or girlfriend. You seem to be suggesting otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 05:27 AM
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Don't "pick up women" for sex. Imagine that every time you had to drive a car you had to search around, find, and inspect one and haggle over the price of using it for a day. That's what one night stands largely are. What you want are either a plate, plates, or a sexually generous and low-drama girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 05:07 AM
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"You could have any girl, why'd you choose me" is the one you're looking for.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 07:36 AM
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Her question is incredibly insulting.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 05:27 AM
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it's not important Sex is as relevant to a man's happiness as him having friends and money.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 06:15 PM
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If she really was a 9 and he really is 5'9" and only attractive "because he takes care of himself" it was not her loss at all.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 06:11 PM
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Women will take responsibility when, if they don't, they're dismissed and booted from the life of an alpha male. A woman who values you, when caught or called-out on something, will fold, apologize, commit to doing better, and will genuinely try because she is anxious about losing you. You are her source of morality.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 05:40 AM
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I'm not single. I encourage you to read my post. It provides some of the most positive, pro-woman content that I've ever read before on TheRedPill. It teaches men that women are a high value to be worked for and earned by being attractive and treating them well.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 07:26 PM
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The shirt I am wearing was probably made by some female factory workers in a third world country. I'm not sure that that level of contribution qualifies for the sort of discussion my post was geared towards. The topic is what value a woman has for a man in his life and the value he should provide in order to access it, not the entire possible value a woman has to society as a whole.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 07:19 PM
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Your question puzzles me. Care to elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 12:41 AM
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Why are women natural solipsists? For the same reason young children / babies are naturally extremely selfish: They're physically weaker and less capable of procuring resources and protection on their own.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 12:39 AM
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selfish, value-taking, solipsistic, selfish male-exploiting nature of the female. This is how females operate towards betas because they can get away with it. Around alphas their entire modus operandi is different. She must seek to please or she will be dismissed. Women take from betas because they can and seek to please alphas because they have to.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 06:08 AM
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That's fascinating. It would seem to beg the question, though, about the desirability of that "tolerable" multi-year relationship in the first place--barring child-raising obligations perhaps.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 05:56 AM
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Really good commentary here. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 05:53 AM
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Osho Quotes
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 05:50 AM
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I don't think females are interesting in and of themselves as much they can make something else more interesting by being present. I like my shooting-range example. The girl is not interesting. What's interesting is teaching her how to shoot, watching her struggle, being amazed when her grouping is tight, or what have you.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 05:48 AM
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Good clarification on terminology, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 05:45 AM
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Fun story: I lost my Fleshlight in my parents unfinished basement storage area while I was using it to store some belongings there. It was many years ago and I suspect that at some point my parents went through my boxes of things and confiscated it.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 05:41 AM
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Read some of his top posts and comments. He's got an interesting neo-reactionary spin to everything, even if it's overly conspiratorial at times. I reject his seeming comprehensive traditionalism but it's not a perspective to be dismissed across the board; some aspects of our society would be better if we had retained some of our older social institutions. I dunno.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 03:16 PM
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No girl can replace a social circle. Ideally you've got a social circle that keeps you satisfied in the friendship department, and your girlfriend is more of a tag-along to things you already want to do than a princess to be wined and dined.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 03:11 PM
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alpha bucks Alpha bucks is interesting. I admit to having some massive provider instinct going on because I fucking love my girl in my house, eating my food, wearing a cute/sexy outfit that I got her, holding the teddy bear I got her. Maybe that's fucked up. I have spoil-tendencies but try to balance it with a sharp eye for the remotest bit of sense of entitlement from her. Also, good to withhold any "bucks" and go full alpha for a while just to teach her that you're under zero obligations.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 03:00 PM
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There you go. Not sure if this describes that situation but sometimes, by sheer chance, you meet a girl who has simply been drastically under-exposed to alpha males (except perhaps her father) and when she finally meets one and the attraction is reciprocal, it's like dynamite.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 02:54 PM
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You're tickling my conservative nationalist, alt-right sympathies. I'm trying to retire them so I can enjoy life rather than crying over my civilization slowly going to shit.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 02:43 PM
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inherent philosophy per say as voluntary celibacy is a demonstrated spiritual path, but the down regulation of testosterone and the suppression of motivation. I saw that you edited/expanded your comment with this and I found it interesting. I have never witnessed a MGTOW embrace celibacy as a sort of spiritual path. Instead I've seen "intellectually induced asexuality" utilized as an attempt to avoid suffering they see as an inevitable result of dating. All the MGTOWs I've seen discuss the topic…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 02:38 PM
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Blackdragon really has it down when it comes to abundance mentality and building genuine connections with women without beta backsliding.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 02:35 PM
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playing the lotto For me the big jackpot are the really socially conservative / religious girls who suddenly snap and go hard in the other direction and you're the first guy they pick because you've maintained that place in their mind labeled: "If I ever lose my morals I'll go directly to that guy." The incredible combination of naivety and sexual eagerness is pristine. Happens all too rarely though.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 02:31 PM
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It's not at all clear to me how anything you just said relates to or contradicts my post. It sort of seems like you've identified my analysis about how to create and maintain multilayered attraction from a woman as an endorsement of hedonism at the expense of traditional western values or something. I don't see how that is even connected. Your advocacy of "objective reality" and "realz" is vastly too ambiguous and wispy to be meaningful. I don't know what to do with your comment.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 02:14 PM
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The divorce rape epidemic isn't interesting to me or worthy of discussion because I feel like the majority of people here already fully understand that marriage is a bad idea. Also, marriages are already declining in the west anyway. "companionship" (whatever that means) That's why I provided several examples in my post of what I mean by companionship. I'm assuming you didn't read the post itself. this screwed up situation. This screwed up situation is probably the most advantageous to men gener…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 01:38 PM
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By far the biggest downside to investing disproportionately in one person. I think that the power a woman has over you when you are not actively seeing others is inversely proportional to how many women you have been with previously and how confident you are that you can replace her. This is why I continue to practice day-game and shoot the shit with girls on Tinder.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 01:10 PM
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I think the majority of my plates were too conservative to really feel comfortable with being just that. I'm attracted to good-girls so that makes sense. The ones that were totally comfortable being just a plate indefinitely seemed to have emotional or personality issues that became unenjoyable to be around. I had a girl leave my house plastered (after I strongly advised her to not) only to crash her car a block away before walking back to my house and fucking me again. But yes, spinning plates …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 12:49 PM
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Your post itself is a fantastic example of weak frame.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 09:10 AM
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I guess that I don't tend to dwell on questions of what to do after I've fucked up; rather, on not to fuck up in the first place. If I cheated (never have) I'd have to make a judgment call based on the many variables involved. Neither telling her nor hiding it seem like a no-brainer in that situation.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 09:03 AM
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I'd like to know what you're claiming exactly. Are you suggesting a woman cannot love a man? Suppose I'm addicted to heroin and I suck cock to pay for that habit but my girlfriend doesn't know anything about that and loves me. That is what I would call a girl loving me based on bad information. If she understands my strengths and weaknesses and isn't acting on false information, that's an example of a girl loving me based on good information. If a girl gives me endless sex, respects me, does fav…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 08:48 AM
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None of this applies to me because I don't believe in telling a woman that you're going to not sleep with other women. If I did tell a woman I wasn't going to sleep with another woman I would keep that promise because lying creates psychological boundaries and reduces felt closeness between individuals. If you cheat, there's probably something unsatisfactory about your current relationship and the relationship should probably experience the turbulence that admitting to infidelity would cause.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 08:10 AM
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I would advise you to never physically go to a place for the purpose of meeting girls. If you already enjoy clubbing/bars per se, that's different. Indirect day and social circle game is preferable IMO because it involves far less non-sense. If you're top 20 percent attractive, get great pics of yourself and use tinder/bumble/etc., and only bother with girls willing to come over (a minority--the minority you want).
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 08:04 AM
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I can respect that approach but I am honest with my LTR (non-exclusive) regardless of the consequences: I only want love from a woman who has a clear picture of me in her head. Keeping up pretenses of any kind is tiring and the thought of receiving adoration and love from a woman who is doing so from bad information is unsettling. If you feel like you have something to be gained by lying to a woman you are most likely acting from a place of scarcity instead of abundance. Needless to say this doe…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 07:41 AM
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Every time you lie you create psychological distance between yourself and that person--distance that erodes both the integrity and solidity of friendships and the closeness you feel with a female. Controversial pro-tip: That closeness is one of the primary benefits from properly applying sexual strategy, especially if you're a K-selected personality type and want a relationship that consists of more than booty-calls (fun when novel, boring once not).
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 01:18 AM
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I believe the operative emotion in posts like these is actually jealousy of a sort: Jealousy of the girl and how easy it is for her to find love and attention (completely false) and jealous of the men who have sex with her. If you're going to be jealous at least be honest about it and use it as fuel to incite change in your life. Don't hamster and rationalize your weaknesses by painting the world around you as evil. This is really basic Nietzschean philosophy: The weak invent a new worldview in …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:00 PM
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Not false but I would add: Good looks are more effective at garnering one night stands than they are at cultivating a sex-drenched, ongoing relationship. When you decide that you might want the latter, learning game and alpha traits will become very useful in preventing beta-backsliding and retaining the majority of the power in the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 06:57 PM
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Check my recent Field Report post.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 06:49 PM
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Your ideas about how attractive females live are fabrications from some sort of MGTOW extremist dogma--not observations based on years of experience--and don't reflect much of reality. I know some very hot girls and have lived with several; a minority of them are as vapid as you describe and the magnitude of attention you describe them receiving is an exaggeration somewhere on the order of 500 percent. I don't know what the point of your post was other than to shit on women in the attempt to mak…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 06:46 PM
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run for the hills Laugh, agree and amplify, override. Feminism is a shit test; passing it consists of trampling it with incredulity.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 07:03 AM
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without losing their edge I don't think there are a lot of men like this. Tyler of RSD definitely fits that category though. I have no opinion on it. I can only state what works for me. I, too, would not use artificial testosterone. become a pussy Exactly.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 03:02 AM
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I want to have sex more often than twice a week and I enjoy karezza sex--you experience an array of sex-induced phenomena such as the triggering of testosterone and oxytocin without the otherwise-inevitable post-orgasm crash which reduces one's energy and mental clarity.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 06:08 PM
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Abstaining from all sexual activity whatsoever is an entirely different path and not really one to be discussed on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 05:21 PM
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Apparently many people here found it useful and inspiring. I'd ask yourself if there's some work that you can do to derive value from my post.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 03:59 PM
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I went out of my way to try to inspire and help you and you took my gift and called it bullshit. Your 5 cents is bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 03:56 PM
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In adulthood, people don't hold your hand. You have Google to teach you how to make passive income. I'm not going to rehash what is all over the internet already. Use your keyboard.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 03:43 PM
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A useful post for someone completely new to eastern wisdom. Do not go to India for any sort of spiritual attainment or exploration purpose. Just begin a meditation habit and gradually grow it into a rigorous daily practice. Meditation is going to be more useful and valuable than internalizing any of the other fluff (good fluff, mind you) in your post. Meditation is the real key in this space, not any sort of platitudes.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 04:02 AM
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That making passive, residual, remote income often requires creativity and initiative that people who expect to be lead and guided usually lack.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 03:26 AM
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To be fair, this female friend eventually betrayed me in a pretty cold way and I've radio silenced her ever since. Still don't regret the friendship per se.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 10:49 PM
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I'm fucking around with you. Chill. Not interested in getting into the specifics of my career for a couple of different common-sense reasons. There are a million different paths to remote, passive, and/or 4hr-workweek type income. None of them are particularly easy to come by. All require a bit of networking, creativity, or research.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 10:41 PM
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Do not arrive. Instead, have sex until she's came multiple times and then stop and then move to cuddle/shower. It's not easy at first but you'll notice the amazing energy and mental clarity in the hours afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 09:33 PM
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I should have clarified that my stated earnings are the post-tax figures.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 09:16 PM
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Am I mistaken or did you ask me this sincere question after accusing me of making shit up and getting an allowance from daddy? :cry-laugh-emoji:
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 09:14 PM
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Thanks. Your pointers should be useful to him.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 09:08 PM
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For energy and mental clarity retention. The orgasm is pleasurable but the hours and days after are burdened with a decreased energy and vitality due to the loss of semen and other peripheral neurochemical effects. This is especially true if you're having ejaculatory sex every day or multiple times a day.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 09:04 PM
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I'm 31. I wanted to be a family man and a lawyer. I could not have possibly imagined my life would be like this at that age. I didn't know it was possible. If you're 24 and you're already learning how to cultivate energy and clarity through semen retention, you've got so fucking much to look forward to building and experiencing.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 08:54 PM
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Orbiting is when you want to fuck the girl. Friendship is when you don't but are instead fucking her friends and other females you meet through her. The strongest advances I've ever received from a female were actually this female friend. It was almost violent.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 08:51 PM
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A glance at your recent comment history shows you saying that NoFap doesn't work, cold showers are bad for you, and you "can't" meditate. If you're going to readily admit that you're a complete failure and don't have any hope in life, I'd consider not spreading misinformation about the tools that those people who have actually succeeded very often attribute as the most beneficial for them on their path to success.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 09:10 AM
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I'd be interested in your response to two questions. 1. Would you objectify women if it meant that you could have sex with them anytime you wanted. 2. Why are you annoyed with the male desire to have sex.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 09:04 AM
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Nothing innately wrong with your position and values as I understand them. However, I'd suggest (mainly to others, not you) that striving rigorously for money and power--and achieving those things--isn't as rewarding as pursuing balance, spirituality, wisdom, and ultimately a kind of non-attached gratitude towards life. I claim this based on a mental-state quality comparison between times in my life where I've had power over others or made a lot of money ($300/hour sales gig that lasted a summer…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 08:51 AM
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My social circle grew largely from connections made through female friendships. A good friendship or two with a sociable, attractive female can open amazing doors. Going to parties, too, can open amazing doors. Always, always say yes to party invites. It doesn't matter if you're being friend zoned in the beginning. The connections you can make through an attractive female who by her very nature is effortlessly making 10 times the connections that you are, can lead to LTRs, solid male friendships…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 08:44 AM
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The "show me how to do it" mentality you've demonstrated already disqualifies you from doing the sort of work that nets remote passive/residual income.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 08:29 AM
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The former. I'd wager we probably are about as exclusive in practice as the average exclusive relationship, except due more so to desire than obligation.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 12:57 AM
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Tinder and Bumble have worked well for me for ONS and plates. House-party game is tight. Despise bar and club game because/therefore I'm terrible at it. As far as genuine connection and LTR, social circle game is superior 95% of the time. I imagine that in the future I will find women strictly from party and social circle game.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 11:17 PM
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My lifestyle has never attracted women. A lifestyle is not worth keeping up in order to attract women. To attract women simply look good, have fun, never be needy or emotional, and wait for the girl to come along that matches your personality well. Tends to take about 6 months for me.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 11:04 PM
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What does involuntarily celibacy feel like? I've long forgotten.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 08:18 PM
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If your sister is hot, puts out generously, and can learn to not be a bitch to her husband/boyfriend, she has all that she needs to secure an above average man. A woman primarily has to offer two things to a man, a nice body and good companionship. Sex and respect is the foundation of a good relationship, not cooking, cleaning, a good income, or even necessarily childbearing.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 08:08 PM
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You start by reversing some of your values and attitudes: You are the prize. Not her. You act to please yourself, not her. She's there to please you; you're not there to please her. You approve or disapprove of her; you don't seek her approval. You do what you want and she can tag along; you don't do things for her. Etc.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 06:50 AM
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It most likely wasn't that you treated her to dinner that cock-blocked you. It was the beta characteristics that you have which also caused you to treat her to dinner which cock-blocked you. but still she sat down too far away from me on the bench The reason why she sat too far way from you on the bench is the same reason she didn't come back your place that night. Most likely, your eagerness is greater than the value she sees in you. Demonstrate more value (alpha traits) and less eagerness and …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 05:25 AM
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31, dating 20yo webcam model. The last ~5 girls I slept with were 18-21. I do not connect with their world--quite the opposite, I disconnect them from their world. I am innately good looking but also have good muscle tone, very low body fat. I have absolutely no status to speak of. I do not go out and when I party I have to do copious amounts of x,y,z for it to be interesting. Nothing in TRP really works unless you are above average. If you can squeeze yourself into the top 10 percent by looking…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 07:17 PM
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I would say next, but there's a learning opportunity here. Vastly reduce the amount of attention you give her. Do not initiate texts/conversation. Pretend to be/be too busy to interact with her. Act like she's got 3 heads if she asks you to explain. This is bargaining. The most likely scenario here is that you've done something or have begun to adopt behaviors that are beta, which has turned her off to you. The only way to correct that is to "alpha-upslide," and the easiest way to do that is by …
/r/askTRP28/07/17 04:30 PM
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This all reeks of taking yourself too seriously. It also succumbs to the false belief that you're going to have the slightest idea of what you want 5 years from now. Thank God I am not living my life based on a mission statement. Where I find myself now I could have never predicted or planned but it's exactly where I should be.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 06:11 AM
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There are people that like to talk about themselves and there are people that don't. I'm the latter and will never understand the former. But it works because I would rather talk to someone about their life than talk about myself. Don't cast your pearls before swine, etc. Incidentally I am dating someone who is even more quiet than me and while I'm with her I talk about myself plenty--perhaps because she's intelligent so her feedback is useful and she's my cheerleader. Ultimately the question is…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 07:32 AM
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The life-is-easy approach is a supplement--not a refutation--of the keep-fighting approach. Too much keep-fighting is bad. Too much life-is-easy approach is bad. Yin/yang. You get it.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 06:09 AM
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I'd just point you to eastern wisdom generally, perhaps specifically Zen. I like this though. . "See that the whole existence is celebrating. These trees are not serious, these birds are not serious. The rivers and the oceans are wild, and everywhere there is fun, everywhere there is joy and delight. Watch existence, listen to the existence and become part of it.” ― Osho
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 02:00 AM
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A "good" who had a slutty phase (in my experience these are often very short--well under a year) would be more loyal than an inherent slut, assuming that's a thing, but perhaps not more loyal than a "good" who didn't have a slutty phase (although I'm now seeing that even that is controversial due to the unscratched itch phenomenon at play). It's arguable that's some breaking is good, i.e, I would not want to deflower virgins indefinitely--it's often a rollercoaster ride that barely compensates f…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 06:03 PM
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There's also the repression dynamic (Catholic school girl stereotype, etc.).
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 04:45 PM
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It's a good practice to observe situations that you're in (relationship, business obligations, etc.) as objectively as possible and ask yourself whether if you weren't in them you would voluntarily choose them as they are now. If not, imagine a superior or ideal alternative as abstractly as you can--and make the full stop and turn necessary to go in that direction instead. I think that's what empowerment is.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 03:46 PM
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It's sort of a uniquely western idea that life is this big massive mountain to be surmounted and if you can muster superhuman strength you'll be able to conquer it. This mentality is massively profitable because it fuels industries that thrive on people feeling either desperate to be something they're not or desperate to escape and distract themselves from the fear that they wont ever achieve "success in life." It's also a staple narrative of our education system which wants to paint the biggest…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 03:42 PM
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Nice list. It's difficult but important to internalize that most people just want a little bit of validation. If someone says something interesting that you've never heard before, tell them. "That's pretty interesting; I never thought of that." I try to make people that I like feel smart when they are being smart--it encourages them to continue to have thoughtful conversations with me and that is really the basis of most of my current friendships.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 03:36 PM
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Pet theory (5 mins old): Some perceived "sluts" are inherently good girls while some "good girls" are inherently slutty. I'm not saying this could be the case in 1 out of 100 because that would be too statistically insignificant to be interesting. I'm suggesting that some girls (up to 50 percent?) who are inherently sweet and loyal end up having a slutty year or two because of environment situations, friends, depression, etc., and do not actually have the psychological attributes that we usually…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 03:29 PM
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"Relationships, the Red Pill, and you" TheRedPill/comments/15q8vw/a_very_insightful_analysis_of_the_nature_of/c83z3qx/?st=j5iaul42&sh=c3af4d38
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 03:21 PM
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Try /r/MGTOW or /r/incels
/r/askTRP23/07/17 07:55 PM
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Hot women have lots of sex. Just is what it is. Just be careful and try to avoid commitment. Do NOT introduce them to your friends at all costs. This reads like the saddest, most exaggerated caricature of insecurity and scarcity-mindset I've ever seen in my life.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 07:40 PM
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No one here disagrees with that. The west is left-authoritarian, or authoritarian via democracy which panders to the lowest common denominator. Behind the scenes, of course, it's right-authoritarian in that no matter what public policy you have people with power and privilege (and innate intelligence/courage) will rise to the top. It's a paradoxical system, a system in denial of itself, mainly designed by people in power to retain power at the expense of useful idiots who buy the poison pill of …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 04:15 PM
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Social engineering of this kind requires a degree of draconian invasiveness that itself would be more destructive and dangerous than any of the problems you're looking to solve. The solution is basically libertarianism where you just sort of let people flourish in whatever way they want without providing additional incentives beyond the natural results of their actions. If the voting public is incapable of grasping this concept in practice (because they're not white land-owning malesAHEM) and ar…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 02:34 PM
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Good roommates are generally going to be straight males with interesting professions, ideally entrepreneurs.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 09:10 PM
2

Virgin pussy-pedestal. AWALT-includes virgins. Your comment is hilariously well-written though.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 02:00 PM
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I'd say you've overstated the truth by about a factor of 5. The correlation between the sexual partners a woman has had and her fitness for a girlfriend role is not direct and linear. It's sometimes vague. It's far easier and more effective to assess a woman's value by observing how she treats you and how she responds to your treatment than by trying to discover her n-count and making a sort of qualitative evaluation of her from that number.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 11:54 PM
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Two mutually-exclusive ways: 1. Tell yourself that these women are trash and should not be bonded with. 2. Respect them and think well of them but practice non-attachment and generosity, Osho style ("if you love a flower, don't pick it"). I started with 1 and have advanced to 2.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 09:35 PM
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Downvoted but I'll bite. I used to think that it was my religious upbringing only that made me dislike sluts. I then learnt that sexual promiscuity in women is traditionally bad for healthy gene replication to the degree that some psychoevolutionary traits in men and women had developed that find it repulsive (similar to the way that having sex with one's family is repulsive). Now, I believe sexual promiscuity in women is not immoral or even necessarily anti-social but merely aesthetically unatt…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 09:32 PM
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There's nothing wrong with being an introvert. The end goal is to just have your sexual needs met at the lowest cost possible. I believe this takes the form of a non-exclusive LTR with someone you enjoy and can treat well.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 07:11 PM
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Boy-affections vs man-affections is a concept elucidated in the side-bar materials.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 04:58 PM
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The sort of approval you want to seek is from other men and it comes from keeping your word, being generous--while expecting reciprocity, and otherwise being a valuable friend. Seeking the approval of women is a manifestation of "boy affections," which is the sort of love a boy has for his mother--"look mommy, no hands!" The evolution of a male from giving boy affections to man affections mirrors that of psychologically achieving adulthood, manhood.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 04:46 PM
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Laying compliments on a woman and touching her will not create attraction in her. The former will reduce attraction and the latter will be allowed if attraction already exists.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 07:16 AM
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This is a great example of a newbie with the right mindset: an eagerness to learn, recognizing honestly his weaknesses and optimistic about overcoming them.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 04:50 AM
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"damn girl you're looking fine.......(grab her hand whisper shit into her ear ) " I don't hit on black girls.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 04:43 AM
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I think complimenting a girl before you've slept with her is going to have a net zero effect on your game/chances if you're comfortably several points higher than her SMV-wise. And yes, if you compliment a girl and it increases your chances of sleeping with her then the disparity between your SMV must be so great that you shouldn't be interested in her in the first place. Not that I haven't scraped the bottom of the barrel before, myself.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 11:11 PM
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Don't "end" relationships. Just slowly reduce contact until and unless her behavior improves. Almost any bad relationship would be redeemed if her sexual willingness factor rises to 10 and your effort required to maintain it drops to 0. Right? You can often create that situation by simply drifting away and losing interest. If she gets the impression you're getting pussy elsewhere, her sexual willingness factor will rise even more precipitously.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 11:08 PM
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I've met many girls who are so confident in their looks that they are immediately turned off by anyone complimenting them. Their reaction is, I already know that I'm fucking hot. I am insulted that you would think that would flatter me. And because you are impressed with my looks, I know that you are a low-value man because you are not accustomed to interacting with women as hot as me. Get the fuck out of my face. An actually high-value man will not notice the beauty of a girl because, in princi…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 10:55 PM
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because of abundance i think i'm still single I agree, but not in the way that you mean.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 10:46 PM
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Just because you had success using that line doesn't mean it's the line that worked. I've had a lot of success with beta game because of my good looks. It wasn't the beta game that helped me. It was my good looks that worked despite my beta game. I'd argue that compliments, even when they work, reduce your chances with attractive females. In other words, you could have generated more attraction without the compliment.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 10:40 PM
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Complimenting a girls looks does not really win you any points. More often than not, ignoring her beauty does. Heartiste wrote a great blog post about ignoring beauty. Beta: OMG you're so pretty! I like you! Alpha: Hi. Can you move over please I would like to sit down. Express interest by teasing her, making her laugh, and then withdrawing. This direct action stuff works on single moms and plain women but not attractive young women. Attractive young women have intense filters. They observe overt…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 08:42 PM
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Mistake 1 was him becoming exclusive with her and then obsessing over her actions--giving her the power to crush him emotionally.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 04:25 PM
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You're taking what she says seriously. You've lost the plot. You've fell off the horse. She upset you. It's cute and sad and pathetic and normal and boring and beta.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 03:47 PM
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You fucked up when you did anything but laugh when she started down this path.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 09:26 PM
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Agreed. But read the post before commenting.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 07:34 PM
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confused, cock hungry, fatherless sluts that they seek out It's not my fault if these girls are the most fun. could hope to know (or sleep with) a real, stable woman. That's the secret. There are no real, stable women. Every woman is crazy. Women themselves admit this and experience bears it out. Women are fucking nuts--find one with features you enjoy and train her to please you. That's really all there is to it.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 12:24 AM
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Calling people idiots emboldens them in their views.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 09:52 PM
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My advice for when you move to a big city is to move into a house full of guys rather than your own apartment. The constant exposure to some degree of social activity at home will force you to develop social skills--not to mention the vastly greater access to other people, parties, girls, that will ideally arise from having roommates. Basically my entire life now--girlfriend, job, friends--came into being through connections I made with roommates when I moved out of my studio apartment and into …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 09:37 PM
2

Hence Jefferson writing into the American constitution voting restrictions which tried to ensure that those most likely to be Masters (intelligence/empathy, testosterone, social status) could influence governance.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 04:47 AM
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One of the most fun moments in a beta-alpha transition is when you're still fundamentally beta but you're mimmicking alpha behaviors and watching them work, and you're laughing because you know you're being perceived as something you're not (yet) and you're getting more pussy than you deserve.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 04:36 AM
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normalization of failure The ideological mechanism here is operative on a much larger scale in our culture generally. The degree to which failure is subsidized in western society--while success is taxed--is atrocious. I'm not optimistic about it.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 03:39 AM
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Sounds like NoFap coupled with not pursuing women might be a good strategy to transmute your energy temporarily to focus on this test--I assume it's an important one. Muhammad Ali would abstain from sex for 10 days or so prior to a fight, for example. Don't forget meditation and rigorous exercise to regulate that anxious primal fuck-bitch-kill-men energy that nofap can give. Still, you should be low-key approaching and flirting at-opportunity pretty much forever and always. Those skills are hard…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 03:13 AM
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Only if they're used unwisely (80-90 percent of the time--low/avg IQ humans acting compulsively rather than deliberately). Some forms of happiness are bought and paid for prior to their consumption. Others require payment after you enjoy them. As long as you're getting a good return on your investment and you're aware of the risks and how to mitigate them, it doesn't matter when the investment occurs.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 09:40 PM
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What do you mean by "left overs" You won't get younger, hotter women who respond viscerally to alpha traits. You'll get women who have made all their mistakes and want to have a stable relationship with someone who they'll ration out sex to like some kind of social security check. Sex isn't everything. Sex and the gym won't fix deep rooted confidence issues. They won't go very far in helping you build a life that's fulfilling and happy. I'm ball-parking, but in an ideal self-actualized man sex a…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 09:22 PM
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To be clear: I like drugs, too. Inasmuch as positive mental states (happiness, pleasure, etc.) are something that you want to experience instead of their opposites (misery, loneliness, regret), the things which give rise to them are desirable.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 09:07 PM
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just people, too just being able to connect with another person This approach to women will not yield much success in an often highly competitive sexual marketplace. You're going to get left-overs with that approach. I'm just telling you how it is. See, this is what I object to. Do you want to have sex multiple times a week or not? but I enjoy a lot of other things, too. This is really hilarious. I continue to see guys talk like this, like they'll do anything to talk about sex because--I assume-…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 08:52 PM
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Surely you know that casual sex and confidence have completely different correlations in men than they do in women? A woman that is shitty in nearly every respect can get laid easily, while the opposite is true of men. Sex does not emerge naturally from general self-improvement. That is because improving yourself does not teach you female nature--which is initially very non-intuitive and difficult to grasp. a sex-once-a-month kind of person If you have no desire to have sex more than once a mont…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 08:41 PM
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Women will add nothing of value to your life. A good 25 percent of my happiness comes women, mainly in the form of sex and companionship.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 08:35 PM
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How old are the women you go out with? For pair-bonding, the younger the better for pair-bonding in my experience--not that there aren't any downsides to dating a 19 year old.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 08:29 PM
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They're so intertwined that for practical purposes they're the same thing--you can't talk about one without talking about the other.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 08:25 PM
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Why can't this same aggressiveness and vigor be applied to other areas? Why is that an either/or? Proper application of TRP reduces time/energy spent on women. It makes the process of getting laid as efficient as taking a shit. Can you imagine if taking a shit involved as much time and energy as it takes for a beta to get laid? going to the gym all the time I lift (heavy, very short breaks) for 15 min EOD and that is enough to benefit me significantly. and wanting to have as much sex as possible…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 08:17 PM
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You can't see this as easily as I can because you're OP but your post has been removed, probably due to automoderator from excessive reports. I'd PM mods to get it re-instated.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 07:57 PM
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Welcome to TRP. You've just asked me to hide certain truths because they're politically incorrect or appear distasteful to people who don't acknowledge the right of men to distribute information conducive to their well-being. If you think trying to appease or cower to ideological forces outside of TRP will somehow benefit TRP, you have not learned that our detractors hate free, intelligent, self-interested men and will do everything in their power to psychologically castrate them. You're also st…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 03:16 PM
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In the thread you're referring to: Guys not getting laid endorsing the idea that getting laid isn't that important, weak males treating their suffering by convincing themselves that their weakness doesn't exist or isn't important. Proletariat / class resentment / collectivism / hamstering / mental gymnastics. This is what slave morality is. It's the morality of weak losers who redefine reality to fit their station in life: Power is bad, meekness and humility is good. It's emotionally comforting …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 02:57 PM
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its still unbelievably hard to get a woman even if you do have an amazing body. It's unbelievably hard if you're beta. As in, haven't learned female nature and adopted alpha personality traits. As an alpha it's virtually effortless. You just kind of stumble around and find yourself fucking attractive females. Learn female nature and adopt alpha characteristics. Your pessimism is merely a reflection of your beta nature.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 02:54 PM
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Two sex-induced orgasms per week. No masturbation or edging. Lift hard EOD. Run 30 min EOD. Meditate 30 mins daily. Yin yoga stretches 10 mins daily. Cold showers only. 10 hours sleep nightly. Healthy clean diet when alone, cheat meals allowed when socializing. No drugs other than tea or coffee except on Fri and Sat.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 10:03 PM
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You can't make sure she's low N count so just don't try. If she's entertaining and treats you well, that's what matters. It's also far easier to judge that than her personal history. Also, you need to be an alpha to have a great LTR. Also, a great LTR is so much better than spinning plates or one night stands.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 05:33 PM
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First paragraph good, 2nd paragraph overthink.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 04:50 AM
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I think your points are valid. However, I'd say that I'm actually more concerned with seeing that the girl I'm approaching is cool in the first place. In other words, I'm not afraid of rejection as much as I am testing waters to see if this person is even receptive in the first place. (Of course I'm afraid of rejection--who am I kidding.) I know different regions of the world may vary, but making light conversation right off the bat in my region is going to be more effective than opening with so…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 07:34 PM
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That's how they caught Ross Ulbricht of The Silk Road online drug marketplace.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 06:58 PM
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What I mean is that she could very easily be a cunt. "Hi, you're really cute and I wanted to say hi." "Fuck off asshole." The interaction begins with you being generous and somewhat appeasing. It's beta shit.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 12:05 PM
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Maybe I just think it's cheesy to tell a girl she's cute who might not deserve the compliment in the first place, and then tell her that I wanted to say hi to her--which I've already done. I've never opened that way before after maybe the age of 18, and I do very well. It'd be fair to say, maybe obvious, that different approaches work differently for different guys. I just feel like compliments are the more beta route to take, immediate banter and shitshooting being preferable.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 10:50 AM
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Just opening is bold and even rare--no matter how you open. Boldness isn't worth a whole lot unless they know that you're cool, though. Bold can be horrifying and awkward. I think that females, as they thrive on mystery and uncertainty, respond better to vague cues rather than direct ones. For example, "We're having a thing at my place tonight if you'd like to swing by with some friends for some free beer or what not" versus "I think you're cute. I would like to get to know you, etc."
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 10:45 AM
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“I saw you and I thought you were (cute, sexy, etc) and I had to come say hello.” In what setting? I just got home from a house party where the girls were late teens early 20s and to use the line above would have been cringeworthy unless done in some kind of weird anti-PUA jest. Any girl I might have said that to would have thought, immediately, "Oh my God we have a loser on our hands." Maybe I'm misapplying your advice here. In public/daygame, I think it's unwise, again, to start with a complim…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 10:05 AM
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nice, sweet girls are sort of boring and dependent. The girls who have spent time on the cock carousel are more fun You lost me here. The more experienced girls always seem more boring to me. Nothing phases them, while the younger girls often have more vibrancy and sensitivity to life. I'm 31 and have been traveling with my 21 year old LTR, big cities she's never been to. Way more fun to travel and spend time with someone with fresher eyes, no?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 06:07 AM
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That's an extreme rule that can be useful at times but I don't follow it anymore. It's useful if you're genuinely not alpha yet and need a hard fast rule to prevent yourself from fucking things up. If you're comfortably alpha, though, texting can be fun and can keep you on her mind.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 09:54 PM
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The dog analogy is good because when a dog is well-trained he's an incredibly asset, while an untrained and undomesticated dog is dangerous and wholly undesirable. Dogs don't steal food or bite because they know they're going to get slapped on the nose and sent to it's kennel. Well-trained women treat you well because they know if they start treating you poorly you're going to say "I want you to get the fuck out of my life." Provide value great enough that women will modify their behavior to ear…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 11:22 PM
2

Use Google and reddit search you lazy fuck.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 06:25 PM
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You're utilizing the belief then action model which is pretty flawed. Remember that action changes attitude better than attitude changes action. I recommend aggressively changing your body and neurochemistry thru nofap, lifting, cardio, meditation, diet, etc., and letting the new energy guide you in your female interactions, and not solely trying to change your attitudes first.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 05:53 AM
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Being alpha means getting sex is easy, you have lots of options, and women don't cause you any stress because you're in control of the situation. I'm alpha in the conventional use of the word in the manosphere but I would never say "I don't need women at all." I need women just like they need men. The sexes compliment each other and to pretend that you can be totally self-actualized without any women in your life is some sort of MGTOW myth.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 05:09 PM
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Well, victimhood can you get a lot. Look at affirmative action policies used by college admissions, for example.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 02:16 AM
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That's what everyone thinks anytime they disagree with someone on reddit.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 02:07 AM
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Nietzsche stated that morality is a people's way of advancing their survival and prosperity. His values are conditions which give rise to desirable consequences. It's no different than talking about the "value" of lifting, of having strong frame, or financial independence as conditions for well-being in men. You're conflating morality with values. Lifting is a value, but not a moral imperative. Nietzsche wanted to destroy morality as we knew it so that we could replace it with self-serving value…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 02:01 AM
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If you're admitting that you don't care about this topic, you probably should have just not responded at all.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 01:45 AM
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I can't discern what material point you're trying to make. Nietzsche talks about redefining values and morality in a way that is maximally beneficial for the subject practicing them--the Overman. That he doesn't use the term "maximum satisfaction" or that I'm inserting my own interpretation here can't be a meaningful objection: This isn't an academic discussion about Nietzsche's philosophy. I'm mixing his ideas with my own. You've also mistaken an uncharitable and dismissive attitude to be some …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 01:39 AM
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victimhood doesn't get you shit. What America are you living in? One of the most prevalent additions to American culture since WW2 has been the "virtue of the oppressed."
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 01:03 AM
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Twilight of the Idols per it's conciseness.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 12:53 AM
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You're applying "amoral" and "values" incorrectly. If I say "guys should lift if they want to increase testosterone and confidence and muscle mass, etc." an incorrect response would be to state "TRP is amoral, there are no normative statements in TRP." This is how you're employing these terms. Values here are conditions which lead to maximum satisfaction. It's not a normative discussion to identify values which lead to happiness or success any more than it is normative or "moral" to discuss what…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 12:53 AM
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Rand was basically a libertarian and believed that men should be provided a level playing field on which to succeed or fail. Nietzsche was what we'd call today a "fascist" or someone who believed that sheer will to power and brute intelligence should by all means necessarily gleefully trample over all the rules of the game. This is controversial, of course, as no one really knows exactly what Nietzsche was attempting to communicate.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 12:50 AM
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That was interesting and true but doesn't say a whole lot about Nietzsche's concept of the overman, his utter distain for weakness as exploited by Christainity, and his advocacy for a new man guided by radical self-interest. I share your disgust for contemporary introductions and commentary on Nietzsche but don't see how that's relevant.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 12:47 AM
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OP's points are strategic, not moral.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 12:33 AM
1

That seems like a tautology to me.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 12:00 AM
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It's not stupid. It retains energy which you can use in much more valuable ways. The benefits are myriad.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 06:33 PM
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Don't waste your semen on one night stands or girls you've just met. Practice karezza (sex without orgasm). Cum in a girl you want to bond with.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 06:42 AM
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FYI Maslow's hierarchy is just made-up. It's interesting but it's purely philosophical.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 03:08 AM
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Having access to sex is like having access to food and water. When you have it, you don't think about it; and you spend your time thinking about other things, working on your projects, etc. When you don't have it, you think about it a lot, leaving you with less time to pursue hobbies, self-actualization, or whatnot. Think of sex as a bodily function. Think of relationships as primarily a vehicle for that bodily function to occur regularly. It's a part of a healthy lifestyle, but it's not a highe…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 01:12 AM
2

Lots of adults buy and drink orange juice.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 05:25 AM
2

The sugars in orange juice aren't added but are still bad for you.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 05:21 AM
1

I'm not sure that I can handle the shame.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 05:09 PM
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So? Did you think that they would? Are you disappointed you don't get sex just for being you? HAHAH
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 05:07 PM
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If you mean women are instinctively craving your semen subconsciously even though they're on birth control, yeah, nothing in life could be more obvious from a psychoevolutionary perspective. Deliberately, though? I've never seen that in my personal life before.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 07:37 AM
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His post is basically true for betas and false for alphas. I've never experienced transactional, beta sex. I had had sex with dozens of women before I ever had sex with someone I was in a relationship with. Perhaps OP has only had transactional beta sex.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 06:45 AM
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The world is awesome and keeps getting better and better every year. I'm embarrassed at your bitching and moaning. Adopt a more positive outlook or you're not going to get anywhere in life.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 12:07 AM
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They're not doing it to secure your resources, dude. They're doing it because they're attracted to you, because you're an alpha. Plenty of women fuck me just to fuck me. They know I will not provide shit to them other than occasional alpha attention. I'm not sure what kind of experiences you're drawing from here.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 12:00 AM
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I wouldn't suggest there's a direct n-count to wisdom correlation, but certainly there's a minimum amount of experience with women required before wisdom can be present at all.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:29 AM
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On the NoFap subreddit, there are badges which reflect each users' current NoFap streak. While I think it'd be insane to institute some sort of badge on TRP that reflects how often the user is getting laid, it would be nice--as someone drowning in pussy--to not hop on on TRP and start reading sexual strategy theory written by someone who, for all I know, has never once had sex with an objectively hot girl.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 05:00 AM
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Having accomplishments and self-improving clearly help one develop a stronger frame, but it can't be overlooked that having a strong frame is itself a skill that for most people has to be deliberately worked at even if you're already the man in 100 other ways. We know this because there are people with incredible frame that are effectively losers. These people are never losers who are self-conscious about themselves. They're losers who don't give a flying fuck. Now, you don't want to be a loser …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 01:25 AM
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Racial demographics are much more difficult to reverse than the ideological trends of college campuses.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 12:39 AM
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Refreshing attitude, I agree. That said, build the fucking wall.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 11:27 PM
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Your points here resemble the motivation vs discipline discussion. Discipline wins. Another important point to make here is the slowness of actual change and growth. Are you 100lbs overweight? Do not get a gym membership; go for a 10 minute walk. Build one tiny positive habit, incurring only slight pain, feel the slight benefit, acknowledge your small success and gradually make it bigger. There's a massive industry based on the Mind Fallacy. I've been invited to several expensive "seminars" that…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 11:19 PM
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I can't help it when I'm on adderall. No, the reason why I asked him that was because I too have made the observation "It seems like these guys are just discussing how they intend to get their dick wet, rather than from experience." So it made me curious why someone would make that observation about me when I myself know that it isn't the case.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 06:04 AM
1

Yes, because it's a worthy venture for a female to make a strong and capable man like her. But it's a total dead-end for a female to try to make a weak guy who already likes her, strong.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 02:20 AM
2

And if she doesn't give a shit, you're getting transactional, infrequent sex at best.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 02:18 AM
1

Correct. At least nothing conclusive. But it's not like there are 100 scientists actively trying to determine the effects or benefits of NoFap. Just because science hasn't addressed something doesn't mean that thing is false.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 02:16 AM
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Completely agree that fapping and porn relate to dopamine and orgasm relates to testosterone. It IS just bro-science though. But bro science can still be true.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 02:15 AM
1

I mean, health is a problematic word to use in this instance because it's most often used to describe merely a lack of diseases or physiological problems, which isn't inherently arousing to women. The reason why I identified "ability to kill things" as important is because it includes health but also strength, courage, intelligence, etc. Those things go beyond "health" in the conventional modern sense.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 02:14 AM
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One of the reasons my LTR likes me is because I'm constantly improving myself. Buddhist monks are one of the most aggressively self-improvement-seeking people in the world and they're celibate. I don't really see the connection.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 11:40 PM
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I don't want a family but I like my LTR because of the ease of sex. I basically don't know what it's like to not have unlimited sex anymore.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 11:03 PM
1

In some environments "can overcome environmental pressures and grow" is determined by testosterone. In others, intelligence will play a greater role. Whether a region has winters or not will largely decide that.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 07:29 PM
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Bingo. Women love feeling protected by a strong and capable man. Creating this emotion in women generates a strong bond in her that you can only destroy later if you break frame or otherwise stop being strong and capable in her eyes. If you want a girl to stick around, respect you, and fuck you endlessly, create this bond.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 06:30 PM
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Your incredulity with respect to the relevance of evolution in human mating habits demonstrates a depth of stupidity that is actually fascinating to observe.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 06:23 PM
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They are attracted to wealth because it will make them rich! Lol pretty fucking simple Many women are attracted to wealth when they know that they're not actually going to get any of it. Reasons for this may include Social status of being associated with money, success Attraction to the the character and intelligence of someone who's successful Subconscious attraction to resources despite consciously knowing she wont get any of it
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 06:00 PM
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he can be manipulated so that all of the benefits of his strength and labor accrue to a woman and not to him What's amazing is that most women will do this without even knowing it. They're simply programmed to. Which is important to note, because "society" and "culture" gets a lot of shit on this subreddit, when in reality I think the dynamics are ultimately psychoevolutionary.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 05:57 PM
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Everything you will ever think or do stems from evolutionary instinct.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 05:54 PM
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This post has been removed/deleted--I assume by the mods. As an endorsed contributor, do you have any idea why that might be?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 03:47 AM
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I'm sincerely curious why you think that, in the case of this post for example, OP (me) is a beta male only describing what I hope to do. What gives you that impression?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 02:51 AM
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In a democracy, the dumber and weaker the populace is, the greater need they will have for government. Stupidity and weakness is good for the growth of the government. Or, if you prefer, Global elites have a vested interest in promoting a culture in the west which in all ways weakens it's citizens. Progressivism generally is literally an intentional ideological poison created by elites that stand to gain from making women less feminine and men less masculine--destroying the family. They profit n…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 02:27 AM
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Really fascinating question actually. Consciously, sure. Women who want to settle down consciously seek a provider. Obvious enough. Subconsciously--the domain of sexual arousal--I think women are designed to mate with the conqueror, not the settler. Remember that sexual attraction isn't based on "is this guy going to provide for us?" but a deeply subconscious "what sperm will create the strongest (including smartest) offspring?" This may have to do with the fact(?) that much of our sexual attrac…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 02:13 AM
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I'm failing to understand the point you're trying to make. It's not new, fascinating information that men are stronger than women and that women want strong men. What's interesting / useful is to recognize that a woman's need for a man who is both strong (physically, mentally, emotionally) and cares about her practically defines the entire subject of sexual strategy. Maybe that's already obvious to you, though.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 02:04 AM
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Loving a woman from a position of strength--of abundance--has the experience of actual generosity and doesn't involve stressing about what she's thinking. Loving a woman from a position of weakness--of need--is worse than involuntary celibacy. It's stress-inducing, makes men paranoid about losing their women to the affections of other men, etc. I think there's a good classic post here that talks about man affections vs boy affections. The former is the way a father loves his daughter, the latter…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 02:00 AM
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Good point. Being a fuckboy is fun for a time but it's not an efficient sexual strategy in my opinion. Simple literal penis in vagina action--and the "chase"--is only exciting for a short time. Anywhere from a year to 5. What you want is a female that meets your needs and wants steadily, like a well oiled machine, for months or years on end.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 01:52 AM
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Man wants a relatively innocent girl to descend into depraved debauchery for him. He wants a picky girl to choose him, and become his obedient little slut.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 01:47 AM
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I think there's a huge lack of concrete scientific knowledge regarding what happens to your neurochemistry when semen is retained and you're not edging to high speed internet pornography. I admit to adopting uncertain terms to describe neurochemical phenomena resulting from NoFap. However, I do believe that NoFap increases both testosterone and dopamine sensitivity. It admittedly is merely a hunch in the absence of concrete data. I could have been safer and merely said "the neurochemical effects…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 01:45 AM
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A man who is capable of killing things and will do so specifically for a woman is physically strong but mentally weak I'm not following. Are you suggesting that ancient cave men providing for their families and populating the world with humans were white knights? Actual modern white knight behavior can't possibly be justified by my post, which merely points out that women are attracted to strength and love because that combination has been useful to them for probably longer than homo sapiens the…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 01:42 AM
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Women are attracted to wealth probably for two different reasons. They consciously understand that they can benefit from being around it / using it. The unconscious attraction to both the strength required in the man to obtain that wealth and the strength which that wealth provides that man.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 01:38 AM
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When I say "women love" I mean "women love in the way that women love" not "women love in the way that men love." Women love by providing value for value and are constantly seeking to provide less and take more--their instincts are brilliant. Men love by merely providing value--and need to learn to provide strictly value for value. Our instincts seem gynocentric and are probably obsolete.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 01:34 AM
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You guys might be talking past each other. "Small" might mean a population of 10k to him and 1m to you.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 12:01 AM
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Messy, but some wisdom here. My approach is to Initially treat everyone in my life, including females, with a high degree of decency and respect. I give everyone the benefit of the doubt and first extend a sincere hand. Those people that recognize, appreciate, and can reciprocate that level of respect, I try to keep them in my life. Those people that do not reciprocate my respect and good-will I simply do not choose to interact with again. In this case, the only people in my life are people who …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 06:15 AM
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(I'm OP) I've slept with about 80 women. I'm currently in an LTR, albeit a non-exclusive one. Had a ONS phase that ended a year ago that lasted about two years. Sex isn't my holy mission. It's maybe 25 percent of my life. My holy mission is my book, which will be about how to cultivate high quality mental states like spiritual bliss and peace through combining physiological practices like semen retention, meditation, and intense exercise. Just thought this small correction might be useful.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 04:44 AM
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The rag doll approach has always worked great for me too.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 06:43 PM
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Are you willingly missing the point or are you actually trying and failing to get it.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 06:35 PM
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What a sad post in so many ways. Do you want to be able to have sex any day you want, either from plates you're spinning or a generous girlfriend? Answer to yourself this question honestly. If so, do these things: NoFap Lift Stylish clothes Tinder Approach DGAF It's easy. Sex will not bring you peace (LOL). Meditation and love/service will bring you those things. Sex is just something fun that the world has to offer, and I recommend enjoying it.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 10:12 PM
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Weak humans like other weak humans. Strong humans like other strong humans.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 09:27 PM
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TRP 2014: How to be an absolute badass and win at life and women. TRP 2017: How to pretend to not be the complete incel loser that you are.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 09:01 PM
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Why are you telling me any of this?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 07:42 PM
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You have urinary tract infection? That's extremely rare in men.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 07:38 PM
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You said I should say "wanking" instead of "one night standing." I do not masturbate. I don't know why you would suggest that I change the title (which is not possible anyway).
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 07:27 PM
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I don't even know what that means. That title would not represent reality / what is actually happening.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 07:24 PM
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Somebody is sexually repressed.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 07:23 PM
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I agree. The sentiment that I'm criticizing is this: "Don't focus on women. They're overrated. Focus on yourself. Work on general self-improvement. Then, sexual success will naturally follow." Complete and utter bullshit. Instead I'm saying: Focus on women. Understand them, how they tick. Then, adapt and profit.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 02:18 AM
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I have no idea why you are conflating sexual freedom with having one night stands. I don't like one night stands, at all (anymore). They are for ego-validation only and in my experience lead to great sex maybe 20 percent of the time. I realize that I said that in my OP title. My apologies for the confusion, I meant it rhetorically. If you're stating that you don't like women or sex that much, I have no idea why we're having this conversation. I'm making claims about how to have more sex and you'…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 02:09 AM
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I can go to a fucking cat subreddit and say I dislike cats. Are you implying that you don't like women or sex? I'm confused. if getting laid is near the top of your priorities in life, that's great. Getting laid is like eating. It's a necessary part of life. When you can eat anytime you want, you don't think about it. It's a luxury that you take for granted and it makes life a lot easier. When you can't eat any time you want, and you have to search for food, it makes life much harder. The same i…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 01:58 AM
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Do you go to woodworking subreddit and tell them that they're slaves to woodworking? Having money, your bachelors degree, and a hobby that makes you feel good will not get you laid. Adopting alpha-male characteristics and understanding female nature will get you laid.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 01:50 AM
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I have no idea why you think "having sex" means "pumping dirty vaginas." You seem to have a repressed and negative view of sex. TRP is literally about "sexual strategy." Look at the sidebar. It's not about general self-improvement. Sex means penis in vagina. It doesn't mean taking night classes to get your bachelors degree. It's about getting laid, whether it's a one night stand or your fucking wife.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 01:46 AM
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The sexual strategy required to get laid once is not categorically different to to the sexual strategy required to have a plate or a girlfriend that puts out generously. In the latter case, alpha-male characteristics need to be supplemented with some level of emotional stability and ability to show/feel affection when appropriate. MGTOW is not a sexual strategy any more than atheism is a religion.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 01:43 AM
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Do you go to the woodworking subreddit and accuse them of revolving their lives around woodworking? Just because I'm talking about sexual strategy--the subject of this community--doesn't mean my life revolves around it. Baffling.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 01:41 AM
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I guess there's a fine line between bragging and responding to an accusation that I work at McDonalds. Indeed, general self-improvement is good. It's not a sexual strategy, though. It's too disconnected from sexual success to be considered such. I claim this due to a large amount of anecdotal evidence of successful people being terrible with women, and losers being great with them. One has alpha traits and understands female nature, the other doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 01:35 AM
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TRP is literally "discussion of sexual strategy." If you want to discuss spiritual, emotional, psychological, economic health or wisdom, there are many places to do that. Try personalfinance, financialindependence, meditation, nofap, zen, buddhism, mgtow, etc. Whatever floats your boat. Sexual strategy means sex. A man has a penis and to have sex he puts it inside of the vagina, which is the hole in a woman's crotch. If you want to do a lot of that, learn female nature and adopt alpha-male chara…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 12:57 AM
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(Biz owner ~$75k/yr at ~15 hrs/wk. I'm sorry that you buy coffee at McDonalds) TRP is literally "discussion of sexual strategy." Not general life-improvement. Consult the sidebar. Discuss your vague non-sexual personal ambitions elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 12:52 AM
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Oh look, another 2017-era redpiller made uncomfortable by discussion about how to actually put your penis in vaginas more often.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 12:09 AM
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Women don't notice actual awesomeness. They notice the peripheral and secondary symptoms of awesomeness, which is primarily confidence. You don't need to be "awesome" to be confident, though. It helps but isn't necessary. Self-acceptance and self-praise, or simple narcissism, is a shortcut to confidence. By all means, self-improve. But that isn't related to sexual attraction, which is simply a physiological phenomenon occurring in women in response to perceived strength/ability.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 11:29 PM
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If you need any more evidence that this subreddit is filled with the most bottom of the barrel beta male normies imaginable, OP's highly upvoted advice is to "actually do stuff with your time." HOW INSPIRATIONAL YOU MEAN, LIKE, DO THINGS? THANK YOU OP!
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 11:22 PM
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You're right. This empowerment bullshit is an excuse for men to not approach. I love self-improvement and making progress in your life / having a mission, but that's not what's going to get you fucking laid. Women are not that insightful and enlightened. They respond to fucking physiological and psychological cues like muscle structure and narcissism/confidence and do not give a fucking shit if you're taking night classes to finish your bachelors degree or you're working on your dorky "mission."
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 09:44 PM
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Bullshit 2017-era redpill hamstering. Success does not naturally bring women. Understanding female nature and sexual strategy and cultivating legitimate alpha personality traits bring women. Having your life and your shit together does not bring women. I know far too many people with 6 figure net worths that are betas and don't get laid 1/10 as often as my deadbeat ass. I cannot emphasize enough how reckless and bullshit it is to say "Work on yourself and the sex will come." BULLSHIT!
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 09:41 PM
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Sam Harris, Jordan Peterson, Neil deGrasse Tyson, and other intellectuals. Versus, say, UFC people and LA comedians.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 06:35 PM
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You're a woman? Learn to love and accept yourself fully and unconditionally. Get in touch with your spirituality and cultivate an attitude of divinity towards yourself. Learn to maintain a sweet and feminine, borderline submissive disposition to men who qualify for your attention. Those that appreciate it and reward it are keepers, those who try to take advantage of it, break all contact with. Stay in shape. Not a single pound overweight. Get fake boobs if you don't have nice ones. = Be in the t…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 03:51 AM
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I own a small business (owner-operator). Going to bed before midnight leads to better rest and more effective sleep than falling asleep at like 2 or 3am, but I can't imagine a lifestyle in which someone's by choice going to bed at literally 8pm so that they can arise at 4am.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 02:47 AM
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Bragging is unattractive in social settings but it's probably the most inspiring thing to read on this sub IMO. Listen to some audio courses on becoming a better conversationalist and watch stand-up comedians. For conversation, become a student of Joe Rogan. He's the god of shit-shooting and proper give-and-take in discussions ranging from toilet humor to neuroscience and spirituality. His perfect balance of holding frame and humility is something to learn from.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 01:18 AM
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Serious question. Why 3:40am? I sleep 8-10 hours a day and often don't wake up til noon. Is there a disadvantage there?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 11:41 PM
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This is a long-standing myth created by male hamstering on this subreddit, mainly guys who are busy working on their "mission" instead of banging chicks (which is fine, but get the fuck off this subreddit). I had sex with about 75 girls in 2015. At this time I was broke, no car, no mission, no purpose, no nothing. Being the master of your own house does not make you attractive to women. It might be a side-effect in some cases, but that's a very roundabout way to get girls.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 08:07 PM
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What does this have to do with female nature and sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 07:44 PM
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Can you provide your description of what a withdrawal phase might look like? A couple days in a cabin meditating? I did a 10-day silent meditation retreat 3 years ago and may have experienced what you're describing.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 09:56 AM
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She didn't fuck up. She's a female and for all intents and purposes lacks moral agency. You fucked up when you became exclusive with her and moved in with her. Promising exclusivity and living with a female is not advisable to an alpha male. Learn and profit.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 07:57 PM
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people are self-serving and can hurt others so callously. The problem is not that people are hurtful, the problem is that you were weak and vulnerable. It's okay, you'll learn and grow, but don't blame the external world for your pain.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 09:16 AM
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If I were you I would go buddhist / celibate and focus on meditation and spiritual attainment, not masturbatory, emotionally empty prostitute sex.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 07:57 AM
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Efficiency. Don't be a dolt.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 04:59 AM
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80+ notch count here. I prefer my LTR to tinder dates, day-game, etc. Now, my LTR is not exclusive, so I can bang other girls if I want to but my desire to do that has been very low. Whether that''s really an LTR or not, use your own lexicon and apologies if there's confusion there. Committing to a woman sexually is, I agree, generally beta behavior. But seeing the same girl for months or years on end, and doing other non-sex activities with her, and not seeing any other girls, is not necessaril…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 04:42 AM
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You just communicated nothing. Do you know how to downgrade an LTR to a plate? That's what we're discussing here.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 04:32 AM
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You're putting females on a pedestal in that comment. The "NEXT" one liable to cheat too. The solution is to not commit.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 04:08 AM
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Don't throw her away so quickly. Salvage whatever value the relationship has. If she treats you respectfully and there's plenty of sex, I wouldn't give up on her this quickly. Edit: Downgrade her to a plate. I assumed that was obvious, but I guess not.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 03:41 AM
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Women aren't "good." They fit the mold/frame that you provide them. A younger woman (18-22) is more likely to enter your frame and be good to you. If your frame isn't great, it's not going to work. If she's older and has her own frame, it's not going to work. Women often have backup plans. They don't concern you. There's nothing you can do to stop it except by being alpha. Looking at her phone is not you being alpha. It's you being beta, which immediately reduces her attraction to you and pushes…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 03:31 AM
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I feel like I'll never find a decent fucking woman. If you did, you wouldn't deserve her because you're a fucking beta who hasn't learned female nature and sexual strategy. You also think "good" is an adverb. Girls are always playing with their backup options. Accept it, adapt, and profit.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 03:23 AM
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ZFG isn't just important; it's a categorical difference in the female mind. If you throw a tantrum and "kick her out" out of anger or otherwise hurt feelings, you've simply lost. She wont come crawling back worshipping your cock. If you gently say "You need to go" and help her with her things, patiently ignoring her demands and apologies, only to begin doing some other activity alone before she exits the house, you've become a god in her eyes all other things being equal.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 07:24 PM
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remind her That this is done without losing frame is critically important. My method: Wait at least 30 minutes after the incident and then address it briefly, i.e., "I need to ask you to not do that kind of thing again." If your relationship is good, she will apologize and promise not to. If she resists, you've probably let her get away with too much in the past or haven't yourself treated her well enough to expect respect from her, in which case you need a full relationship reset.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 03:56 PM
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I actually wasn't pissed at all but I realize I am in the minority. Just adapt to your new understanding of reality and profit.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 07:32 PM
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Your whiny attitude is probably the source of all your "problems." Are you literally complaining that life isn't fair? I don't get it. Grow the fuck up, man the fuck up, take control over your life and stop pouting. God, this is disgusting to look at.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 08:58 AM
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If you are good looking and have an real IDGAF attitude, you can get laid pretty easily no matter how much you don't have your shit together. I have gotten laid with $1.54 in my bank account. I've gotten laid living in my gramma's basement. I've gotten laid without a car. Women respond to biological cues of psychological and physical survival fitness. Yes, get your shit together (fucking duh). Yes, do it for yourself (fucking duh). But you're going to be able to get laid you apply basic, time-te…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 01:17 AM
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There's that, but women are also biologically wired to try to make alphas into betas, to test their fitness and fortitude. That's what shit tests are. Women want to make you into a pussy, but they're more attracted to you when they fail. They don't realize they're doing this. It's not inherently logical but makes perfect sense biologically.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 09:49 AM
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Not true AT ALL.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 04:25 PM
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The easiest and best sex in my life, companionship for things like hiking, art, entertainment, etc. She reads to me, cooks for me (we trade), compliments me, she's a teddy bear--I enjoy cuddling--etc. I don't understand the question.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 06:32 PM
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Tinder: maybe 50 one night stands. Day game: 3 flaky, short term fuck buddies. Girls I've met through female friends: Two fantastic 9-month relationships. Use female friends to meet girls. It's hands down the best way to meet chicks in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 06:54 AM
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Sounds like you're burning bridges by being an asshole unnecessarily and hurting people's feelings, which, if its not leading to you getting laid, is bad sexual strategy. It's better to avoid hurting people's feelings than to be blunt. There are exceptions but they're generally not the rule. Do you want unnecessary personal conflict or do you want good vibes? I understand this is a grey zone but if you want good relationships, you're not going to be "brutally honest" with everyone about everythi…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 05:50 AM
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she was comfortable with me holding her holding her hands etc on previous dates. This is so bluepill it's absolutely cringeworthy.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 07:35 PM
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This is more self-improvement than female nature and sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 09:26 PM
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LTR, without strong frame, is dog shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 05:45 AM
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the more beautiful she is, the more she falls for you in direct relation of how little you fall for her. Bingo. It's so important, when gaming 8s and up, to ignore her beauty and appear only slightly interested.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 07:59 PM
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Agreed. Roosh placed the number at around 20, before you can start to have a solid perspective on what women are, their disposability, and therefore how to have a good LTR.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 04:03 PM
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Yeah.. Daygame and existing social connections is the place to find an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 04:02 PM
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in no way would it be a sunk cost or even 'time lost' Excellent attitude to hold. Every day of the relationship is its own value and should be worth it in and of itself. When you rent a car, it's not sunk value or time lost when you return the vehicle. You extracted the value out of it that you needed and you can appreciate it both during and after it's gone.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 04:00 PM
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Gym every other day instead of hamstering "I can do bodyweight fitness at home" and "I'm already attractive enough." Approaching in person instead of using solely Tinder and Bumble. Holy shiite, I can pull way hotter girls IRL.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 03:57 PM
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5 triggers for sexual attraction: You are physically attractive. You don't care about her. You don't care about her. You don't care about her. You don't care about her.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 03:55 PM
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I don't know what decent means. In Trump's America, every able young man should be getting laid at least twice a week.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 09:18 PM
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I have no idea what that means.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 09:14 PM
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How often are you getting laid?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 09:11 PM
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A useful comment provides new information or a new concept or framework with which to interact with existing information. Saying "x is shit" isn't interesting. Also he is in no way my hero. I've never even been able to bring myself to listen to his talks. I just find a small portion of his quotes interesting.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 09:09 PM
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Work, gym, girlfriend, meditate, video games. If you're a loser and you play video games, stop playing video games. Otherwise, video games are great.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 07:56 AM
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Schopenhauer is also some killer proto red pill His essay On Women is worth reading once a year. Other than that I'm not sure what RP material I've seen from him.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 09:22 PM
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Nietzsche aligns closer to TRP than Rand IMO.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 08:26 PM
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Really excellent post here. This is the gold nugget: Insecurity. Insecurity in you is your biggest chink in your armor, your biggest obstacle in retaining her. Insecurity in her is your biggest tool in keeping her around. And women can be some of the most insecure creatures around. Supreme confidence, displaying your success in life, and demonstrating abundance are just some of the ways you neutralize insecurity in you as well as foster insecurity in her.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 08:20 PM
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Yeah, but that's called a flatline and is temporary.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 08:06 PM
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No masturbation, no pornography, and 1-3 hours a day with devices and screens turned off. These are my dopamine-moderating/sensitizing behaviors. Can you think of any others?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 06:59 PM
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Always remember: We are all going to make it some day. A small percentage of men here are going to have passive residual income and disposable wealth, great guy friends, a fawning and loyal LTR with eager plates on the side. This is a competition. We're not in this together. At 17-18, the thing you need to focus most on is keeping your body healthy and strong, good clothes, avoiding sexual exclusivity, and for the love of fucking god, do not impregnate someone.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 10:41 PM
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If you have oneinitis or you're extremely satisfied in your LTR (like I am), it's even MORE important to continue to approach and flirt with other girls. By doing this you cultivate an abundance mentality and a sense of freedom that immediately improves your relationship with your LTR. Approaching and engaging other women, to remind yourself that you can leave your LTR at any time, makes you a better LTR.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 10:38 PM
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Go hard alpha for a bit. Don't initiate conversation. When she does, take forever to respond and when you do say something silly and light-hearted. Then, take 12 hours to reply to her response. The only way to compensate for a beta backslide is to alpha upslide.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 10:33 PM
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Most young women are overly cautious with men because they are mindful of his sexual intent. With young (18-21), highly attractive females, don't initiate anything sexual until the 2nd date/hangout. Act exactly like you JUST got laid hours before (ideally, you did) and aren't particularly in need of a bang. The abundance mentality this communicates to her will reward you greater in generating genuine attraction from her than getting in her pants immediately.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 10:28 PM
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They have to see you as being better than their other options This. Whether you know it or not, you're in constant competition with dudes you've never met. Guys she works with, guys hitting her up from her past, even her exes. Beta backslide and they will appear more attractive. Stay alpha and they will remain "backup options" and she'll keep craving you.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 07:40 PM
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A cult requires a leader who is worshipped or seen as infallible. Nofap is a little extreme, but because not masturbating can be insanely difficult, you're bound to get some extremism in order to cultivate motivation and discipline.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 07:02 AM
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NoFap really does rewire the way the brain works. It reorganizes the psychological reward system to crave success and accomplishment. It also clears blockages in one's energy, from frustration and confusion and brain fog to free-flowing power and confidence. After a couple weeks, that difference starts to really change your life. You start attracting guy friendships, you start attracting more attractive females, you start actually working on some long-term goals that you've left on the back-burn…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 05:05 AM
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Sigh Seriously, you want me to take a single data point of some loser getting laid by low SMV women while living in his grandmothers basement as a baseline of what as men we should be striving for? For the love of God get your shit together man and think before you speak. I don't know how you can conflate me saying that I got laid while a loser to mean that all men should strive to be losers. Go ahead and try to prove to me that men with worse jobs, smaller bank accounts, less social standing, a…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 08:14 PM
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I did burn out of one night stands. I like my girlfriend though.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 08:09 PM
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Learn the difference between turd-flinging and making a coherent point.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:23 PM
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Exposing crimes is fine but it's not more important than reducing suffering / cultivating happiness and well-being. I'm struggling to see how journalism is more important than self-actualization and a happy lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:21 PM
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The idea that having sexual freedom somehow doesn't actually contribute to a happy lifestyle is absurd to me and doesn't belong on this subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:19 PM
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Orgasm releases prolactin which negatively affects testosterone. Orgasm feels great but the energy conserved and cultivated through semen retention (karezza) is even better. At the very least, don't waste your semen on masturbation. Save it for sex, but ideally don't cum at all.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:17 PM
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NoFap really does rewire the way the brain works. It reorganizes the psychological reward system to crave success and accomplishment. It also clears blockages in one's energy, from frustration and confusion and brain fog to free-flowing power and confidence. After a couple weeks, that difference starts to really change your life. You start attracting guy friendships, you start attracting more attractive females, you start actually working on some long-term goals that you've left on the back-burn…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:13 PM
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Learn the difference between turd-flinging and making a coherent argument.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:06 PM
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I don't understand. If someone says "1+1=2" and I can evaluate that statement on its own merits, the character of the person who made the statement isn't relevant.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:02 PM
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I merely like those quotes. I hand picked them from others that I wasn't as fond of. I have no belief in Osho himself.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:00 PM
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I don't see how his actions have any relationship to what he taught considering that none of the quotes above require that anyone trust in his character to understand or evaluate them.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:31 AM
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How is that a useful comment?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:30 AM
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TRP: For entertainment sort hot, for wisdom sort top / all time.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:12 AM
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I'm sorry that putting the toilet seat down is making your life hard.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:10 AM
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You're likely much older than me. I missed out on my 20s, but hey I've got my 30s, etc. Efficient sexual strategy is achieved by going against everything You're too radical on this point.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:08 AM
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The parts about non-possessiveness, personal freedom, and not depending on the opposite sex for happiness, are particularly relevant to sexual strategy. Why would his comments about love make you angry?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 11:56 PM
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Toilets and therefore nice bathrooms generally look better with the seat down, and its courteous to leave them down for women. This is assuming that the women you share company with deserve courtesy. If not, why are you sharing company with them? Holding the door for people (not in a way that slows you down) is nice, and it feels good to be nice. Basic manners and courteousness is not going to prevent you from getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 11:53 PM
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The Red Pill isn't designed to give happiness, but to show you that you were deceived. My largest disagreement with you is here. I see RP as a map of sexual strategy so that I don't have to be sexually frustrated ever. Thereby I experience more happiness. I was raised in a cult and had to leave, painfully. That brainwashing was more intense than any vague western cultural gynocentrism. Maybe that's why I never had an anger phase with respect to the red pill: It was nothing compared to what my re…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 11:36 PM
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The only red flag is when she's not fucking you anymore.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 09:54 PM
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Take her clothes off. Put your penis in her mouth. If she stops you, she's not into you. In which case, leave.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 09:08 PM
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Don't spend more than a couple bucks (ice cream, coffee) on a girl you're not already sleeping with. Other than that, being generous and hitting some of those provider-instinct neurotransmitters feels good, in moderation.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 08:57 PM
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LOVE actionable posts like these. guide- her hand towards my dick This works the vast majority of the time. If not, finger her over her clothes while you kiss her. Then guide her again. If this doesn't work, and you're already hard, just take your pants and underwear off and keep making out with her. Sweatpants are great for this because you can throw them off in 2.5 seconds. The audacity will be funny to her and seeing your hard cock will turn her on. Any resistance she puts up, immediately ret…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 07:57 PM
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Oh yes. The classic "I broke up with Adam last night..." texts. The most beautiful thing I like to ponder on while getting head from these girls is how little investment I made to get the sex versus the investment that their boyfriends had to make. Very few women are compulsive sluts week in, week out. Those that are, by the way, are awesome, should be praised and adored by RP, not disingenuously sneered at out of jealousy or pedestalizing. All women are wired to be slutty or sexually generous f…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 06:54 PM
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getting laid is a side effect of crushing life NO IT IS NOT. The most sexual partners I ever had was when I was living in my gramma's basement. Yes, my grandmothers fucking basement. That was my one-night-stand phase. Now, LTR. Many people "crush life" but have terrible sex lives because they don't understand female nature and sexual strategy. You can effectively be a loser but if you employ a handful of traditional RP sexual strategies, you can bang one or two new girls a week.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 06:33 PM
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My favorite thing said to me by a plate was "I don't even like you, why am I doing this?" while removing her thong in my bed.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 06:24 PM
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Talk to people.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 01:36 AM
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What?
/r/askTRP01/03/17 10:32 PM
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Tons of well-adjusted people are on anti-depressants. My fucking dad was on anti-depressants while making 250k/yr and raising a family. All kinds of people are on drugs like that.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 08:56 AM
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My vast experience says otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 07:58 AM
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Yeah, that was way better than my post. OP that.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 07:23 AM
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How often are you getting laid?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 03:52 AM
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Careful not to glorify the past. What roots do you mean?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 02:33 AM
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This is why there needs to be a womens movement actually designed to empower women.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 04:25 AM
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Your attractiveness is going to be hands down the most important factor in your life generally. If you are overweight, basically no other consideration is worth addressing until you're fit. This is true of men but perhaps a little less so. The doors that will be open to you if you're attractive are great. It will make the difference for you for the rest of your life. Do not underestimate it. If you want to get married, you'll want to cultivate personality attributes that men find desirable in a …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 03:09 AM
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If he learns how to procure a large amount of sex with minimal hassle via improving his appearance and game, he wont go back to MGTOW>
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 08:10 AM
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$5 flower or a $500 whatever. The dollar amount is irrelevant. So buying her an ice cream has the same effect as buying her a car? This simply doesn't make sense. I ENJOY thoughtful gestures. I love that it makes her happy. She doesn't become entitled. She appreciates it, and spends just as much money on me as I do on her. You're stuck in this radicalized reactionary worldview, so needlessly opposite to gynocentrism, that you've lost the entire concept of a generous, thoughtful, interesting rela…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 10:44 PM
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I know the high level concepts. I read the sidebar once a year. You still haven't addressed why a gift is necessarily a relationship killer.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 06:37 PM
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Perhaps I should have been more clear. I am talking about doing a thoughtful gesture in the context of a long term relationship, not a plate. There are various ways of getting laid. A LTR, plates, one night stands, pay-4-play.. LTR is my favorite because of the low effort needed. That said, some relationship maintenance can go a long, long way and avoid comfort-tests in the future.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 10:10 PM
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Nothing you just said is relevant to the situation. If a girl provides you with unlimited sex because of attraction and desire, rewarding that with a thoughtful gesture, occasionally, helps keep her around longer. In the context of a relationship, thoughtfulness goes a LONG way. It's not beta to get a girl a flower once a year. Grow up.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:57 PM
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How is unlimited sex equate to no abundance? How does making a girl love you even more, and therefore provide an even more reliable source of unlimited sex, equate to no abundance? You're projecting that this dynamic involves a cunty girl who only puts out if she feels spoiled. No. If you have a generous girl who gives you unlimited sex for months or years, it's not a poor investment to go through the Vday motions.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:54 PM
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Why does sex earn an additional reward/thoughtful thing? Because unlimited sex with an attractive, young female who adores you is a high-value commodity, and thoughtful gestures go a long way to satisfy some of her emotional needs--keeping her around longer--many of which are admittedly socially taught. Sex should happen from pure desire and attraction, not because it was "earned". That's what I stated. Want to do something thoughtful, then just do it. Why validate it? Validate it?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 06:49 AM
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I like to think I'm RP but I don't see what's wrong with buying your girlfriend something if she deserves it. If she has an entitlement attitude, why would you be dating her anyway? There's an ocean of women out there who would be thrilled to get something for Vday, but wouldn't hold it against you if you didn't. Why this excessive pre-occupation with the bottom 20 percent of females who would be shitty if they didn't get $186 worth of goodies?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 02:05 AM
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We have been conditioned by the current miserable society to care too much. Please stop with the adolescent "society tells you to x,y,z" pseudo-intellectual bullshit. Just because an advertising agency tries to get you to buy something doesn't mean there's a monolithic cultural leviathan telling you to do so. If you are not a successful high value person, a woman will not give a shit if you care about them. Success is not necessary to attract women. You need a jawline, half-reasonable clothing, …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 01:58 AM
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Do thoughtful things because, not so that, she gives you relentless sex.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 09:22 PM
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You're not fucked dude. Life is full of missteps and unexpected turns. Worst case scenario is that you have to support a kid right? Can you see the upside to that? Fatherhood is something that my friends say brings them immense joy and I can see it. Look at the bright side man.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 12:00 AM
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Nexting a girl because she flirts with another guy -- another pedestal. AWALT is about having low-expectations and managing the risk appropriately. A slutty past shouldn't matter unless you're looking for a wife.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 07:03 PM
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I don't know what used as an excuse means. And adderall will not give you the same or similar effects of drinking.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:12 PM
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Social lubricant, once a week. 10-30mg
/r/askTRP09/02/17 07:35 PM
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Use adderall.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 07:21 PM
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There are emotional benefits to having a woman who wants to spend time with you, for free, because she loves you.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 01:48 AM
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These are so important. You've compiled an incredible cheat-sheet here for sexual strategy and a healthy (yes, healthy) approach to male-female relationships.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 07:45 PM
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There's nothing red pill or alpha about having arbitrarily high expectations of women. That's actually blue pill behavior. Do not take what a woman says seriously, nor what she says to other people. Watch her actions, not her words. If you have an LTR with great sex and good chemistry, throwing it away because of a three word text she sends is irrational. Is it a red flag? Sure. Does it warrant an immediate next? No.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 08:08 AM
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If you next a girl over this, you're a dramatic baby. If the sex is abundant and she treats you with respect, keep her. AWALT. You won't find a girl who doesn't slip up like this on occasion. Big fucking deal if she misses her ex. What matters is how she treats you.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:11 AM
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You'll never have hot plates, no, unless you become a billionaire. Are you capable of a relationship with a good, even reasonably attractive person? Of course.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 09:38 PM
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If you're going to go off anecdotal experience I will to: The vast majority of women I know prefer men older than them verrsus younger. I know very, very few women who would be keen on dating someone 10 years younger than them. Meanwhile nearly every guy I know would be down to date a girl 10 years younger than him any day of the week (assuming legality).
/r/askTRP16/01/17 08:19 PM
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Who do you think is more attractive to an average female, on average: a guy 7 years younger than her or 7 years older?
/r/askTRP16/01/17 07:43 PM
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If you actually want to see this movie, that's a different story. At the movie? If you guys have good chemistry, you can definitely touch her during the movie. Hell, you can probably get away with fingering her depending on the situation. If chemistry is weak and not that developed, just watch the goddamn movie and then gradually escalate after.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 06:17 AM
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Cancel and do ice cream. First dates shouldn't cost more than a couple bucks at most. Sitting in a movie is a terrible environment for a first date. It just sucks, your whole plan sucks, so throw it away and do something simpler and cheaper and easier and better.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:35 AM
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Do not take her to a movie, take her to get ice cream or coffee.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:17 AM
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just lost on what i should do inside, just watch the movie? HAHAHA. No, you're gonna wanna do some carpentry while you're in there. That, or some soccer. Definitely soccer.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 04:58 AM
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Because youth is attractive in females, not males.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 08:20 PM
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Have you read all the materials on TheRedPill sidebar? Not an accusation, just a question. Providing is actually a net negative on your alpha-ness. You need to compensate for it by having other, stronger alpha attributes. Do you know what dread game is?
/r/askTRP15/01/17 07:34 PM
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How exactly are you going to stop them from fucking? Lock her in a room? If you confront her about him, she will probably resent you and her desire to fuck another guy will be even stronger. I emphasized this point to you earlier and you don't show any signs of understanding it.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 07:33 PM
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She either craves novelty, or you're a beta and she resents that, or both. Your looks isn't terribly important, it's whether you're fundamentally beta or alpha. You don't sound alpha to me, so digest TRP and become one.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 07:30 PM
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Her actions suggest she's less attracted to him than OP would like her to be. If OP wants to change that, dread game and self-improvement. Confrontation will not stop her from cheating. I agree she has cheated. OP can 1. divorce, 2. change his philosophy on monogamy, or 3. confront with the intent to change her behavior. I say start with 2 first. 3 wont work, and 1 is the last resort.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 07:29 PM
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I realize all that. I'm telling you that dread game and improving yourself is going to have a better result than trying to stop her from flirting by confronting her. Treat the illness not the symptom.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 07:25 PM
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Sex, fun, and respect. I'm not married and never will be, though. My expertise is open LTRs. Her knowing that you know doesn't prevent it from leading anywhere. It doesn't stop that void or that nagging desire for adventure that she has that is leading her to flirt with guys. It probably wont even stop her from liking that guy. It might actually make her like YOU less and him MORE. If you want her to not cheat, be the fucking man. Implement some dread game on her, get in better shape, etc. You c…
/r/askTRP15/01/17 07:12 PM
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If the sex is flowing, she treats you with respect (other than this), then honestly it may not be worth throwing your marriage away for this. Personally, I would not confront her. I don't see how it creates attraction or in any way helps your marriage. People fuck up. All relationships are fucked up. If the sex stops flowing and she treats you poorly, leave her. If she sex keeps flowing and she treats you well, be happy. That's how I operate in my relationships. I don't worry what she's doing be…
/r/askTRP15/01/17 07:05 PM
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How is this not stickied with 800 upvotes?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 03:29 AM
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She wants to fuck you She's OPEN to fucking you.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 10:47 PM
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You wont be smooth at 19. It comes with experiences and confidence and just years of life. Ultimately it comes from giving no fucks. When you're 19, you're biologically wired to give maximum fucks because you're at a critical stage of competition and mate-finding. I'm 31, and it's a lot easier to shrug off anything and everything, which leads to me being more smooth because I don't feel like I have much on the line.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 06:26 PM
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Why would you ghost or lie? Just let her know what's up. Don't long-distance-relationship her, but keep her on a loose leash so that when you come back you can see her again.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 09:39 PM
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I couldn't understand your content, so I expressed my opinion that your content is unclear. I studied philosophy in college so I don't think that your content was above my head, although that's possible.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 02:40 AM
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It's unclear because I read the article and basically have no idea what he's talking about. I cannot create the synopsis myself when I don't understand the content.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 02:07 AM
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2 upvotes in 2 hours is effectively a dead post on this subreddit. I've written posts on this sub that bombed (in fact, heavily downvoted). Just saying your thesis isn't very clear. In the case of my bombed posts, the thesis was heavily disagreed with--that adderall is a superior social lubricant for a male than alcohol. Tighten up your thoughts and make them more accessible and I suspect that more people will benefit from your post. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 01:59 AM
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That isn't a very clear or useful thesis. I think that's why you're not getting many upvotes.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 01:29 AM
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Delete and repost with a succinct thesis in your title IMO.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 11:42 PM
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